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Take it as a compliment lol he not looking elsewhere, in saying that make him do the chores n look after the kids, bath n feed them, than let's see if he still wants sex after that lol.

Immaculatebabe:
Hello fellow NLs. I'm a lady in her late 20s, married to a very wonderful man who adores me a lot but the problem is his demand for sex these days are increasing.

He wants it everyday & if refuse, he gets mad & starts ignoring me & the kids. I'm lossing my mind because this action of his is making me feel bad. No sex, No talking to each other. Please what do i do?

EVERY TIME, give him sex or look for a second wife for him.

Oliviaarims:
Well,everyday could seem one hell of a demand,buh I don't fink u've got much of a choice as it is. He's ur husband and at least,he's not asking 4 it ten times in a day..see how best yhu can satisfy him as long as it doesn't become detrimental to ur health. He's just going thru a libido phase ryd now. Don't push him to those scavengers outside. With time,things 'll get bk to normal nd it wouldn't have to be an everyday activity anymore.

#Philosopher Quëën#

The way you take sabi everything about sex soo fear me oh

ooooh u mean u didn't discover this during dating and courtship ?

giving him sex every time time he need it is your marital responsibility. You have no excuse or else you can get him an helper. find him and help that will be helping you to give your husband what he want each time you can provide. You will not be the 1st woman to do this if you do so... Sarah did the same thing i the bible while she provided Hagah for Abraham but she regretted at last.

Is your husband do all the needful to satisfy the young man.

Sex is good in marriage. it is an instrument of communication and a tool that can be used to assess the health of a marriage.
A couple who do not have regular sex cannot communicate well and resentment & quarrels will build up between them. A husband or wife who is denied sex is likely to commit adultery through extra marital affairs though some men are not denied at home but still flirt with other women.A husband who is denied of sex will likely gang up with others against his wife.

Men like sex much more than the women and want it more often. Men need it to relieve tension and they are easily turned on as they are moved by sight.A woman prefers more of affection, love and closeness and less of sex.For a woman sex is a secondary need while for a man it is a primary need. The sexual wiring of a man is different from that of a woman.

Men are naturally highly inflammable and are likely to have strong urges to have sex. The primary sexual objective of a man is to spill his liquid into any woman around him.The average man coming into marriage wants sex as often as possible while the wife wants much less.Therefore sexual friction is common in many marriages because there is no point of convergence between the couples.The woman wants a loving relationship and not to be a sexual object for marathon sex.Sexual equilibrium is rare in many marriages and that is why sex is a major cause of distress and discontent in many marriages.

There is a general but erroneous religious and cultural impression that the wife exists to sexually satisfy her husband.This error of opinion is the reason why many wives have been abused by their husbands.The concept that a wife must perform her marital duty whether or not it is convenient and whether or not she enjoys it is a grave misinterpretation of the marital duty. Sexual abuses are rampant in many marriages across the world. The husband also has a marital duty to satisfy his wife and not having sex selfishly to his own satisfaction at her own expense.Sexual satisfaction must be mutual.Where a wife complains of too much sex,something is clearly gone wrong in that marriage and the man takes the blame.

There are four types of wives in marriage and each type has a different attitude to sex.
Sex is part of the marital contract and a woman who is not interested in sex should not come into marriage but remain as a spinster in her father's house.

A wife's submission to have sex with her husband is not negotiable but a husband who demands for sex and has sex everyday has a problem that can destroy his life and marriage. First,a husband who has sex all the time to his wife's dissatisfaction does not really love his wife and is playing lip service love. Where real love exists, a husband will not be demanding for sex all the time at his wife's expense and displeasure.Secondly, he is likely to be an abuser in the marriage because when rejected, many men react in ways and manners that amount to marital sexual abuses against their wives.Thirdly, a husband who has sex everyday lacks self control and will soon ruin his destiny.Some men who have sex all the time need deliverance as their minds may have been possessed by the sex demon who flashes sexual images in his mind and replays it like a video.As a result,the victim is sexually aroused every moment and wants sex. Fourth,a husband who has sex every time is likely to be ignorant of the divergent needs between a man and a woman and if aware, is not paying attention to them to achieve sexual and marital harmony.

In conclusion, my personal opinion is that a husband who has sex all the time is an abnormal personality,likely to become an abuser in his marriage. Sex twice a week is OK for an average husband who cherishes marital peace.If a wife can make her self available for sex at least once in a week,that husband should be grateful to her and to God. Marital sexual abuses is the subject of the signature below that proffers effective solutions to this problem to ensure marital and sexual harmony.

Sex is a blessing if it is rightly handled and also a destroyer if it is wrongly applied.Sex is a biological need like food and water but excessive sex is an unhealthy sexual intimacy that will have adverse effects on the stability of the marital union.

Husbands, love your wives and handle them gently. They are weaker sex. Do not allow sex to destroy your marriage.There is no trophy awarded for sexual prowess in bed. Deploy your energies into more productive endeavours that will benefit the family and the society.

lilspiceyy:
I gave an advice based on her story. No chop me abeg.

I don't eat people

Immaculatebabe:
Hello fellow NLs. I'm a lady in her late 20s, married to a very wonderful man who adores me a lot but the problem is his demand for sex these days are increasing.

He wants it everyday & if refuse, he gets mad & starts ignoring me & the kids. I'm lossing my mind because this action of his is making me feel bad. No sex, No talking to each other. Please what do i do?

You might have to give him sex before he asks.......... to gain his ears. You gotta be wise because this isn't a sex starved boyfriend but a husband.

Dress sexy within the house and sexually intimidate him by pulling his nipples or grabbing his butt secretly to build excitement.

Before he opens his mouth to ask, jump him and take control. He'll be more receptive to your idea of slowing down to make each sex session more memorable and less monotonous.

Good luck.

Immaculatebabe:
Hello fellow NLs. I'm a lady in her late 20s, married to a very wonderful man who adores me a lot but the problem is his demand for sex these days are increasing.

He wants it everyday & if refuse, he gets mad & starts ignoring me & the kids. I'm lossing my mind because this action of his is making me feel bad. No sex, No talking to each other. Please what do i do?

Give it to him severally, as much as possible in a day. He will soon be tired. Also increase his carbohydrate intake, like eba, fufu, reduce his vegetable drastically. Let his always eat in the night. By the end of the year, his libido will drop.

ojnnaco:
ooooh u mean u didn't discover this during dating and courtship ?

How would she discover where there was no premarital sex? If there was, maybe she discovered but ignored it thinking that she would cope with it but now cannot cope

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your punpun is sweet, that's y he wants more

Immaculatebabe:
Hello fellow NLs. I'm a lady in her late 20s, married to a very wonderful man who adores me a lot but the problem is his demand for sex these days are increasing.

He wants it everyday & if refuse, he gets mad & starts ignoring me & the kids. I'm lossing my mind because this action of his is making me feel bad. No sex, No talking to each other. Please what do i do?

doctor, increase the ladies' libido instead

dollarlander:
Give it to him severally, as much as possible in a day. He will soon be tired. Also increase his carbohydrate intake, like eba, fufu, reduce his vegetable drastically. Let his always eat in the night. By the end of the year, his libido will drop.

afrika4real:
giving him sex every time time he need it is your marital responsibility. You have no excuse or else you can get him an helper. find him and help that will be helping you to give your husband what he want each time you can provide. You will not be the 1st woman to do this if you do so... Sarah did the same thing i the bible while she provided Hagah for Abraham but she regretted at last.

I disagree.Sarah did not provide Hagar for Abraham because she could not cope with sexual demands. That is not the true picture

I bet he's already going out

KashyBaby:
U r lucky tat u got all his attention,don't wait til he will go out and look for someone who can do it with him...
U better talk to him if u feel bored coz he is d only one enjoying it juz to satisfy his urge..

4 better 4 worse my dear,ur other colleague in marriage are looking 4 dis ur opportunity. Am hapi 4 u

Laveda:
Before marriage. . ' I want a sexually active man who can satisfy me in bed'

After marriage . . 'Please help my husband is a dog'. Lmao. . . .


Try and talk to him about it dear. . .

may God bless you

jcflex:
is he a sex machine.


introduce sleeping tablet in his dinner every night

very funny...amazing solution

afolayangs:
I bet he's already going out

Lol.... my door is open, he is very welcome... jk

lf u aproach a lady and told her u want to marry her; she will ask u hw saxual active is you in bed. after marriage all u hear is my husband is sex addict, he demand sex everyday,he dont satisfy my saxual org,he turn me into sex maraton.this life is full of complain complain pls let us leave complain and d what is right.

knowledge4:
I disagree.Sarah did not provide Hagar for Abraham because she could not cope with sexual demands. That is not the true picture

i concur with you,the true picture was for his hubby to sire a child with her maid thereby causing her own conception or maybe sarah had lost all hope since she was old and her husband was a very blessed man who will need an inheritor(seed) to continue d family legacy

godofwar666:
seriously! Must u comment on every post

afterall she called herself introvert...introvert are mostly reserved

glimpse33:
Why did you get married to him?
Your Pvssy was made for Sexx Purpose/Reproduction, so coming here to seek for help is not going to help matters.
Just Open your Legs for him any time, any day, any where till death do you part.

. lol . He baught the pvssy the dat he paid her bride prize . He has the @copyright 2 ur pvssy

Immaculatebabe:
Hello fellow NLs. I'm a lady in her late 20s, married to a very wonderful man who adores me a lot but the problem is his demand for sex these days are increasing.

He wants it everyday & if refuse, he gets mad & starts ignoring me & the kids. I'm lossing my mind because this action of his is making me feel bad. No sex, No talking to each other. Please what do i do?

...U must submit the Congooh to him, 24/7, for firing...Do not complain...Period, or else, another fine woman with a more matured and staminized Kongooh will overthrow your government.

knowledge4:
Sex is good in marriage. it is an instrument of communication and a tool that can be used to assess the health of a marriage.
A couple who do not have regular sex cannot communicate well and resentment & quarrels will build up between them. A husband or wife who is denied sex is likely to commit adultery through extra marital affairs though some men are not denied at home but still flirt with other women.A husband who is denied of sex will likely gang up with others against his wife.

Men like sex much more than the women and want it more often. Men need it to relieve tension and they are easily turned on as they are moved by sight.A woman prefers more of affection, love and closeness and less of sex.For a woman sex is a secondary need while for a man it is a primary need. The sexual wiring of a man is different from that of a woman.

Men are naturally highly inflammable and are likely to have strong urges to have sex. The primary sexual objective of a man is to spill his liquid into any woman around him.The average man coming into marriage wants sex as often as possible while the wife wants much less.Therefore sexual friction is common in many marriages because there is no point of convergence between the couples.The woman wants a loving relationship and not to be a sexual object for marathon sex.Sexual equilibrium is rare in many marriages and that is why sex is a major cause of distress and discontent in many marriages.

There is a general but erroneous religious and cultural impression that the wife exists to sexually satisfy her husband.This error of opinion is the reason why many wives have been abused by their husbands.The concept that a wife must perform her marital duty whether or not it is convenient and whether or not she enjoys it is a grave misinterpretation of the marital duty. Sexual abuses are rampant in many marriages across the world. The husband also has a marital duty to satisfy his wife and not having sex selfishly to his own satisfaction at her own expense.Sexual satisfaction must be mutual.Where a wife complains of too much sex,something is clearly gone wrong in that marriage and the man takes the blame.

There are four types of wives in marriage and each type has a different attitude to sex.

A wife's submission to have sex with her husband is not negotiable but a husband who demands for sex and has sex everyday has a problem that can destroy his life and marriage. First,a husband who has sex all the time to his wife's dissatisfaction does not really love his wife and is playing lip service love. Where real love exists, a husband will not be demanding for sex all the time at his wife's expense and displeasure.Secondly, he is likely to be an abuser in the marriage because when rejected, many men react in ways and manners that amount to marital sexual abuses against their wives.Thirdly, a husband who has sex everyday lacks self control and will soon ruin his destiny.Some men who have sex all the time need deliverance as their minds may have been possessed by the sex demon who flashes sexual images in his mind and replays it like a video.As a result,the victim is sexually aroused every moment and wants sex. Fourth,a husband who has sex every time is likely to be ignorant of the divergent needs between a man and a woman and if aware, is not paying attention to them to achieve sexual and marital harmony.

In conclusion, my personal opinion is that a husband who has sex all the time is an abnormal personality,likely to become an abuser in his marriage. Sex twice a week is OK for an average husband who cherishes marital peace.If a wife can make her self available for sex at least once in a week,that husband should be grateful to her and to God. Marital sexual abuses is the subject of one of the signatures below.

Sex is a blessing if it is rightly handled and also a destroyer if it is wrongly applied.Sex is a biological need like food and water but excessive sex is an unhealthy sexual intimacy that will have adverse effects on the stability of the marital union.

Husbands, love your wives and handle them gently. They are weaker sex. Do not allow sex to destroy your marriage.There is no trophy awarded for sexual prowess in bed. Deploy your energies into more productive endeavours that will benefit the family and the society.

...Mr Lecturer, U are 100% correct.

...Thanks for the time and free lectures.

dialfa:
Me sef, go quietly say "thank you" and then go and have some "drinks with my friends"

den after 2 weeks u go come NL come complain say ur hubby no day give u prick again.

He is your husband, talk to him when he is happy to hear your complains, but mind you don't turn
him down always. try to improve on your sexual life so that it will be fun
not anger.

knowledge4:
Sex is good in marriage. it is an instrument of communication and a tool that can be used to assess the health of a marriage...
A couple who do not have regular sex cannot communicate well and resentment & quarrels will build up between them. A husband or wife who is denied sex is likely to commit adultery through extra marital affairs though some men are not denied at home but still flirt with other women.A husband who is denied of sex will likely gang up with others against his wife.

Men like sex much more than the women and want it more often. Men need it to relieve tension and they are easily turned on as they are moved by sight.A woman prefers more of affection, love and closeness and less of sex.For a woman sex is a secondary need while for a man it is a primary need. The sexual wiring of a man is different from that of a woman.

Men are naturally highly inflammable and are likely to have strong urges to have sex. The primary sexual objective of a man is to spill his liquid into any woman around him.The average man coming into marriage wants sex as often as possible while the wife wants much less.Therefore sexual friction is common in many marriages because there is no point of convergence between the couples.The woman wants a loving relationship and not to be a sexual object for marathon sex.Sexual equilibrium is rare in many marriages and that is why sex is a major cause of distress and discontent in many marriages.

There is a general but erroneous religious and cultural impression that the wife exists to sexually satisfy her husband.This error of opinion is the reason why many wives have been abused by their husbands.The concept that a wife must perform her marital duty whether or not it is convenient and whether or not she enjoys it is a grave misinterpretation of the marital duty. Sexual abuses are rampant in many marriages across the world. The husband also has a marital duty to satisfy his wife and not having sex selfishly to his own satisfaction at her own expense.Sexual satisfaction must be mutual.Where a wife complains of too much sex,something is clearly gone wrong in that marriage and the man takes the blame.

There are four types of wives in marriage and each type has a different attitude to sex.
Sex is part of the marital contract and a woman who is not interested in sex should not come into marriage but remain as a spinster in her father's house.

A wife's submission to have sex with her husband is not negotiable but a husband who demands for sex and has sex everyday has a problem that can destroy his life and marriage. First,a husband who has sex all the time to his wife's dissatisfaction does not really love his wife and is playing lip service love. Where real love exists, a husband will not be demanding for sex all the time at his wife's expense and displeasure.Secondly, he is likely to be an abuser in the marriage because when rejected, many men react in ways and manners that amount to marital sexual abuses against their wives.Thirdly, a husband who has sex everyday lacks self control and will soon ruin his destiny.Some men who have sex all the time need deliverance as their minds may have been possessed by the sex demon who flashes sexual images in his mind and replays it like a video.As a result,the victim is sexually aroused every moment and wants sex. Fourth,a husband who has sex every time is likely to be ignorant of the divergent needs between a man and a woman and if aware, is not paying attention to them to achieve sexual and marital harmony.

In conclusion, my personal opinion is that a husband who has sex all the time is an abnormal personality,likely to become an abuser in his marriage. Sex twice a week is OK for an average husband who cherishes marital peace.If a wife can make her self available for sex at least once in a week,that husband should be grateful to her and to God. Marital sexual abuses is the subject of one of the signatures below and addresses this problem to ensure marital and sexual harmony.

Sex is a blessing if it is rightly handled and also a destroyer if it is wrongly applied.Sex is a biological need like food and water but excessive sex is an unhealthy sexual intimacy that will have adverse effects on the stability of the marital union.

Husbands, love your wives and handle them gently. They are weaker sex. Do not allow sex to destroy your marriage.There is no trophy awarded for sexual prowess in bed. Deploy your energies into more productive endeavours that will benefit the family and the society.

Sex twice a week is OK for an average husband who cherishes marital peace.If a wife can make her self available for sex at least once in a week,that husband should be grateful to her and to God. Bro! Are u crious? Na wetin make dem buy monkey[size=8pt][/size]

jcflex:
is he a sex machine.


introduce sleeping tablet in his dinner every night

laff wan kill me abeg

oake:
Sex twice a week is OK for an average husband who cherishes marital peace.If a wife can make her self available for sex at least once in a week,that husband should be grateful to her and to God.

Bro! Are u crious? Na wetin make dem buy monkey[size=8pt][/size]

Many men and husbands in marriage have a wrong perception of the woman, wrong perception of marriage and a wrong perception of sex and that is where the problem lies. A man should ask himself the following questions:

What is my perception of the woman? Many men view the woman as an object for sex and they treat her as that, no more no less!
What is my perception of marriage? Many men view marriage as a platform for fulfilling sexual passions only and do not care a hoot about love and affection which the woman desires and what it takes to fulfill their wives own emotional needs
What is my perception of sex? Many men see sex as jumping on a woman and spilling their liquid into her pussy.The act goes far beyond spilling into a pussy. A lot is involved in sex hours or days ahead of the actual act.
What is my perception of love in marriage? Many interpret love as a one way thing that benefits the lover but not the beloved

Wrong perception of the woman, marriage, sex and love are the reasons why a wife cries out to the world complaining of too much sex which is normally conducted in secrecy.