₦airaland Forum

godofwar666:
seriously! Must u comment on every post

Michellla:
girls are never satisfied

lilspiceyy:
Dats not a right thing to say!

Immaculatebabe:
Hello fellow NLs. I'm a lady in her late 20s, married to a very wonderful man who adores me a lot but the problem is his demand for sex these days are increasing.

He wants it everyday & if refuse, he gets mad & starts ignoring me & the kids. I'm lossing my mind because this action of his is making me feel bad. No sex, No talking to each other. Please what do i do?

HARDDON:
Plz wot iz?

james1:
Better give it to him like crazy before he finds comfort in some other ladies arms then you will begin to blame different things.hold your husband close before you lose him.
If your hubby don't like sex with you you it was that would be worried stiff.
Don't be selfish now that you have children cos am sure that when you just got married you didn't care how many times.

Laveda:
Before marriage. . ' I want a sexually active man who can satisfy me in bed'

After marriage . . 'Please help my husband is a dog'. Lmao. . . .


Try and talk to him about it dear. . .

glimpse33:
Why did you get married to him?
Your Pvssy was made for Sexx Purpose/Reproduction, so coming here to seek for help is not going to help matters.
Just Open your Legs for him any time, any day, any where till death do you part.

lekan29ice:
some women are just the problem to themselves... imagine what this woman is saying if he stops sleep at home or having sex elsewhere then u will know .... open ur legs and let ur wonderful hubby enjoys his life while he's young....

MightySparrow:
EVERY TIME, give him sex or look for a second wife for him.

knowledge4:
Sex is good in marriage. it is an instrument of communication and a tool that can be used to assess the health of a marriage.
A couple who do not have regular sex cannot communicate well and resentment & quarrels will build up between them. A husband or wife who is denied sex is likely to commit adultery through extra marital affairs though some men are not denied at home but still flirt with other women.A husband who is denied of sex will likely gang up with others against his wife.

Men like sex much more than the women and want it more often. Men need it to relieve tension and they are easily turned on as they are moved by sight.A woman prefers more of affection, love and closeness and less of sex.For a woman sex is a secondary need while for a man it is a primary need. The sexual wiring of a man is different from that of a woman.

Men are naturally highly inflammable and are likely to have strong urges to have sex. The primary sexual objective of a man is to spill his liquid into any woman around him.The average man coming into marriage wants sex as often as possible while the wife wants much less.Therefore sexual friction is common in many marriages because there is no point of convergence between the couples.The woman wants a loving relationship and not to be a sexual object for marathon sex.Sexual equilibrium is rare in many marriages and that is why sex is a major cause of distress and discontent in many marriages.

There is a general but erroneous religious and cultural impression that the wife exists to sexually satisfy her husband.This error of opinion is the reason why many wives have been abused by their husbands.The concept that a wife must perform her marital duty whether or not it is convenient and whether or not she enjoys it is a grave misinterpretation of the marital duty. Sexual abuses are rampant in many marriages across the world. The husband also has a marital duty to satisfy his wife and not having sex selfishly to his own satisfaction at her own expense.Sexual satisfaction must be mutual.Where a wife complains of too much sex,something is clearly gone wrong in that marriage and the man takes the blame.

There are four types of wives in marriage and each type has a different attitude to sex.
Sex is part of the marital contract and a woman who is not interested in sex should not come into marriage but remain as a spinster in her father's house.

A wife's submission to have sex with her husband is not negotiable but a husband who demands for sex and has sex everyday has a problem that can destroy his life and marriage. First,a husband who has sex all the time to his wife's dissatisfaction does not really love his wife and is playing lip service love. Where real love exists, a husband will not be demanding for sex all the time at his wife's expense and displeasure.Secondly, he is likely to be an abuser in the marriage because when rejected, many men react in ways and manners that amount to marital sexual abuses against their wives.Thirdly, a husband who has sex everyday lacks self control and will soon ruin his destiny.Some men who have sex all the time need deliverance as their minds may have been possessed by the sex demon who flashes sexual images in his mind and replays it like a video.As a result,the victim is sexually aroused every moment and wants sex. Fourth,a husband who has sex every time is likely to be ignorant of the divergent needs between a man and a woman and if aware, is not paying attention to them to achieve sexual and marital harmony.

In conclusion, my personal opinion is that a husband who has sex all the time is an abnormal personality,likely to become an abuser in his marriage. Sex twice a week is OK for an average husband who cherishes marital peace.If a wife can make her self available for sex at least once in a week,that husband should be grateful to her and to God. Marital sexual abuses is the subject of the signature below that proffers effective solutions to this problem to ensure marital and sexual harmony.

Sex is a blessing if it is rightly handled and also a destroyer if it is wrongly applied.Sex is a biological need like food and water but excessive sex is an unhealthy sexual intimacy that will have adverse effects on the stability of the marital union.

Husbands, love your wives and handle them gently. They are weaker sex. Do not allow sex to destroy your marriage.There is no trophy awarded for sexual prowess in bed. Deploy your energies into more productive endeavours that will benefit the family and the society.

afrika4real:
giving him sex every time time he need it is your marital responsibility. You have no excuse or else you can get him an helper. find him and help that will be helping you to give your husband what he want each time you can provide. You will not be the 1st woman to do this if you do so... Sarah did the same thing i the bible while she provided Hagah for Abraham but she regretted at last.

knowledge4:
I disagree.Sarah did not provide Hagar for Abraham because she could not cope with sexual demands. That is not the true picture

Arizonaguy:
i concur with you,the true picture was for his hubby to sire a child with her maid thereby causing her own conception or maybe sarah had lost all hope since she was old and her husband was a very blessed man who will need an inheritor(seed) to continue d family legacy

jcflex:
is he a sex machine.


introduce sleeping tablet in his dinner every night

firebaby:
Lmao......a won eleyii bad gan o....when its not food

Immaculatebabe:
Hello fellow NLs. I'm a lady in her late 20s, married to a very wonderful man who adores me a lot but the problem is his demand for sex these days are increasing.

He wants it everyday & if refuse, he gets mad & starts ignoring me & the kids. I'm lossing my mind because this action of his is making me feel bad. No sex, No talking to each other. Please what do i do?

glimpse33:
Why did you get married to him?
Your Pvssy was made for Sexx Purpose/Reproduction, so coming here to seek for help is not going to help matters.
Just Open your Legs for him any time, any day, any where till death do you part.

misspicy:
In Dbanj's voice....give it to him now to him now,give to him now....

Op u don enter one chance o...buh sex everyday? What of during your period?

INTROVERT:
can't advise, not married.... but will read comments