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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by mimicious(f): 4:04pm On Oct 24, 2015

Adaeze003:

So I guess it's ok to cheat so long as there's protection abi?? Like that's your own version of "respect"?

Don't get me wrong. It's my opinion, if u dont reason with it u can just ignore.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 4:27pm On Oct 24, 2015

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by ipledge10(m): 5:06pm On Oct 24, 2015

Michellla:
Dear OP, it's ridiculous to know that a man you have been with for 3 years is a chronic philanderer with Zero modicum of regard for your feelings and worth as a prime woman. Is he Using those Condoms on you or on those harlots out there with no scintilla of woman virtue?
Call him to order and lay bare your grief at his Philandering Lifestyles, Your wedding is just months away and this doesn't bode well for you. cheers.
exactly

Ray360:
Dear OP, it's ridiculous to know that a man you have been with for 3 years is a chronic philanderer with Zero modicum of regard for your feelings and worth as a prime woman. Is he Using those Condoms on you or on those harlots out there with no scintilla of woman virtue?
Call him to order and lay bare your grief at his Philandering Lifestyles, Your wedding is just months away and this doesn't bode well for you. cheers.

wow...you guys think d same way

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 6:06pm On Oct 24, 2015

OP, Your fiance is cheating on you Which in my own Opinion is nothing new!!!

Pull yourself together and move on with your life.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by stevewale(m): 6:33pm On Oct 24, 2015

Pineapp:
1a. He cares about you and is playing safe not to infect you with whatever infection he might be dinning with.

1b. He no wan give the girl belle.

2a. He's cheating and its glaring to you.

2b. If you cant stand it,walk away now that he's just a fiance.

3.... He might have gotten the job of a major distributor for condoms

I simply suggest you go with the above advice ... especially the bolded sentence

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by macho44(m): 6:46pm On Oct 24, 2015

standingtall:
hi guys
I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. in the beginning everything was cool until recently. about a month ago I found condoms an empty pack of condoms in his bag,I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.
I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.
fast forward to today,I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag
I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now. please my sisters I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out

He must be a "Used Condom Pack Collector".

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by dazzlingd(m): 8:06pm On Oct 24, 2015

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

Gold medal for you grin

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Ray360: 8:53pm On Oct 24, 2015

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

smh! wicked!!!!!

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Bethh: 10:01pm On Oct 24, 2015

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

Wow!!
Ure definitely rolling with a hell lot of wrong guyz

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by ayoola648(m): 10:05pm On Oct 24, 2015

You standing tall n u cnt see d writing on d wall? undecided

standingtall:
hi guys
I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. in the beginning everything was cool until recently. about a month ago I found condoms an empty pack of condoms in his bag,I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.
I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.
fast forward to today,I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag
I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now. please my sisters I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by missyadorable(f): 10:06pm On Oct 24, 2015

rexkexmilan:
OP, Your fiance is cheating on you Which in my own Opinion is nothing new!!!

Pull yourself together and move on with your life.

He is not cheating on her.They are not married.Nobody owes anybody faithfulness in a fornicating relationship until married..Although I share your opinion it is nothing new.I wonder if she was expecting him to sleep with only her...who she be?

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by missyadorable(f): 10:12pm On Oct 24, 2015

standingtall:
I feel peace by just letting this out.this is a red.I don't know how to walk away from all the wedding preparations but I will walk away.I deserve to be happy.now I know why some women never want to get married. its too much work

Stop lying na! haba! we all know u won't walk away except u are not a Nigerian lady.Marriage is d greatest n most important achievement for a woman here and All men are polygamous in nature.if you keep walking away cos a man decided to be a man,you will end up being insulted everytime like genevieve nnaji,linda ikeji,rita Dominic n other matured single ladies

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Pidggin(f): 10:17pm On Oct 24, 2015

My dear, be brave and leave him. A lot of women have been brainwashed, so you may not get sensible comments from them, imagine you will have to constantly deal with the fear of STDs if you marry him, also he can leave you at anytime he wishes as he is not faithful to you. I think you deserve much better than what he is offering, cheers.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by ernie2007(m): 10:18pm On Oct 24, 2015

Thank your lucky star he plays safe. Some men will have sex unprotected and take a personal clipper to the babrber's

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Lildisawanen(m): 10:18pm On Oct 24, 2015

Cool story fam !

Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 10:19pm On Oct 24, 2015

start keeping condoms too na. Simples! So much for being faithful ke?Enjoy!

A dude liking the colour of a condom? Is he colour blind? You say three different kind of condoms? kikikiiikiikikikukiikuukukuu! !!! That nigger is Rolling! !! God knows if i find my nigger with a condom he doesn't use on me, he will find a KY GELLY I never used on him.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by innervoice(m): 10:23pm On Oct 24, 2015

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

bold

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by dustydee: 10:23pm On Oct 24, 2015

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

What an excuse... shocked

some people can lie o.
OP, I think you should revaluation your wedding plans.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by ERONX(m): 10:23pm On Oct 24, 2015

Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by klassykute(m): 10:24pm On Oct 24, 2015

Pineapp:
1a. He cares about you and is playing safe not to infect you with whatever infection he might be dinning with.

1b. He no wan give the girl belle.

2a. He's cheating and its glaring to you.

2b. If you cant stand it,walk away now that he's just a fiance.

3.... He might have gotten the job of a major distributor for condoms

lol.. i like ur number 3.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 10:25pm On Oct 24, 2015

missyadorable:

He is not cheating on her.They are not married.Nobody owes anybody faithfulness in a fornicating relationship until married..Although I share your opinion it is nothing new.I wonder if she was expecting him to sleep with only her...who she be?

Who are you? It is fine if you have a low self esteem and cannot do without a man. Blame it on your mother because no child born of a hardworking, strong minded and proud woman will make such statement.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by harry509: 10:25pm On Oct 24, 2015

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

nigeria girls ehh! Una own dey una body ooh. Wetn u 5nd go him bag? U get luck say nu b drum of condom u see. kiss

well mayb he has gotten a new job as a condom distributor's.

Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 10:28pm On Oct 24, 2015

missyadorable:

Stop lying na! haba! we all know u won't walk away except u are not a Nigerian lady.Marriage is d greatest n most important achievement for a woman here and All men are polygamous in nature.if you keep walking away cos a man decided to be a man,you will end up being insulted everytime like genevieve nnaji,linda ikeji,rita Dominic n other matured single ladies

At least they can afford to stand tall and call out any man unlike women like you who end up being a slave to a man. A means to an end cheesy

.

Women are also the same. Ask your mum if she never felt like having sex with another man after your father. What about women that also cheat?

You definitely need a brain transplant asap

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Abugab(m): 10:30pm On Oct 24, 2015

First, stop sniffing around as you are bound to smell poo.
Second, he is probably playing safe or planning to as this accusation needs to be proved.
Thirdly, on a cool romantic day, try to extract some info from him with politeness, you know how you women do it.
No one is a saint and thus we can always forgive and move on and I ask you do this and move on.
If the whole thing has reached crescendo you can as well just quit for national peace.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by calabardick(m): 10:30pm On Oct 24, 2015

and what do you think he is using it for? for decorations or to cook noodles? you better run now that is still early

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 10:30pm On Oct 24, 2015

missyadorable:

Stop lying na! haba! we all know u won't walk away except u are not a Nigerian lady.Marriage is d greatest n most important achievement for a woman here and All men are polygamous in nature.if you keep walking away cos a man decided to be a man,you will end up being insulted everytime like genevieve nnaji,linda ikeji,rita Dominic n other matured single ladies

Aren't you ‘man' enough to represent your masculinity?

Coward!

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by cao(f): 10:30pm On Oct 24, 2015

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

I'm so sorry, but I laughed really loudly at the bolded bit. Epistle, ke? I've written at least 4 posts longer than this today. Maybe, this is a sign...since that was one of the weakest excuses I've heard.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by itzemar(m): 10:30pm On Oct 24, 2015

In my opinion, it's possible that your fiance does not like you again and he's tryna do away with you by making you think he's cheating on you........

My advice: have a heart to heart discussion with him and know where you stand. it's better now than to start hearing stories that touch the heart...

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by LockDown69(m): 10:30pm On Oct 24, 2015

vision2050:
Man must protect himself, swear you don't have another person wey dey nack your kpekus. His is protecting himself from witches out there, after all you guys have not legally married. You self, you don't know maybe he will marry u. continue open hole, hole of hole.

Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by menix(m): 10:30pm On Oct 24, 2015

standingtall:
I do know he will marry me because our wedding is this December and please learn to talk to people with respect especially when you don't know the whole story.

My friend shut up, sorry I had to use that on you.

U know he will marry you nd u came here for advice..

Some galz b just reasoning wiv their as5..

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