Pineapp:
1a. He cares about you and is playing safe not to infect you with whatever infection he might be dinning with.

1b. He no wan give the girl belle.



2a. He's cheating and its glaring to you.

2b. If you cant stand it,walk away now that he's just a fiance.



3.... He might have gotten the job of a major distributor for condoms

Frankdamaxx:


Really? Cause you got me believing..

Anyss:


Heheh. Am not answering nada. Jus believe wot u want. I'll flow with it. Trust mua

Frankdamaxx:

I think am flowing with you. Believing and trusting.

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

Johnnoah1st:
I dont knw why u nigerians are so dumb, go abroad and see couples doing fetish or 3some with other people voluntarly, but in nigeria every minor tin is an issue.

CoCoLav:



OP please leave him, not just because he is cheating but because he chose to insult your intelligence by telling you that stupid lie. He saw the pack and liked it indeed.

Urine:


Lmao! Why am I just seeing this? Classic CoCoLav!

CoCoLav:


Because you forgot to stalk me this week
What's making it classic?

Urine:


If I don't stalk you, who will?
You and I know why it's a classic, you're better than the CIA and FBI.

Richy4:


HMMMM!!!!!! I just guessed you are not into office work. If you are, where do you put your laptop/ tablets,car-keys etc? there are so many men executive bags sold all over the world.

Even men that does construction jobs, got bags that they can put change of cloths. I am sorry to ask this but where in the world do you come from?

silversonuc:

reallest babe eva, best comment so far, op listen to ya fellow lady tok, her understanding of life matters is so far gone, @kneels dwn@ missyadorable will u marry me?

reallest:



ehn what happen to reallest?

silversonuc:


haha wonderful coincidence, so dia is an original reallest, oya nao, since d oda no wan marry me, weee u marry me?

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.
Its ladies wit yr kind of mindset dat gives men d impetus to use and talk down on women. Don't infect others wit yr inferiority complex cos even in d law court or church marriage , its recited dat " he will cleave to one and only one woman" why take oath wen u can't kip it? Nt all men cheat, there are still men dat are well brought up n takes their wives as their missing bone n one wit demselves. Do unto other wat u wish dem to do to u am sure any man dat founds condom in a woman's bag will bring down heaven . if u see yrself as a gem no one will use u as toilet bt kip yrself as anything goes den u will be mud.
My dear op don't accept infidelity except he is ready to accept it if u engage in it too. Don't give yrself high bp cos of anoda man

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!