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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 10:31pm On Oct 24, 2015
Abugab:
First, stop sniffing around as you are bound to smell poo.
Second, he is probably playing safe or planning to as this accusation needs to be proved.
Thirdly, on a cool romantic day, try to extract some info from him with politeness, you know how you women do it.
No one is a saint and thus we can always forgive and move on and I ask you do this and move on.
If the whole thing has reached crescendo you can as well just quit for national peace.

Don't forget to give your sister the same advicecheesy

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Seculent: 10:31pm On Oct 24, 2015
standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.
Your sister. Na only women dey this forum?

You only want a bias advice from your sisters only.
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by IYANGBALI: 10:32pm On Oct 24, 2015
Again? shocked haba dem take toto swear for am?abeg run o before he spoil your life

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Abugab(m): 10:32pm On Oct 24, 2015
akike:


Don't forget to give your sister the same advicecheesy

Hope you don't have problems?
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by 1surdman: 10:32pm On Oct 24, 2015
Start satisfying him more than that ashawo. U go Thank me later grin
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nwadiala: 10:34pm On Oct 24, 2015
Why are you shouting? Unused one for that matte. Is it that he doesn't use condom on you before or what?
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Franzinni: 10:34pm On Oct 24, 2015
He is a cheating man ... A careful and considerate one tho... I'll give him that. My advise tho I am a guy, is to carry different color condoms in your purse too and ask him to bring you phone or something, then the season film will start!

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 10:34pm On Oct 24, 2015
Omo dis world is wicked can u imagine? Guys be like; "u lucky he's using CD,he respects u", "it aint cheating cos u guys aint married" like seriously? Anoda anoying dude be like. " u sure no guy's also sexing u?" Christ. Is dis howw naija guys tink? And wwen dey catch or suspect a gal with a guy u here tins like "hoe" "ladies r all hooes" "ladies been cheating since 13ad". God help women from these demons called men. I swear if anyman tryme eeeh na dry fasting for im head ooh. Lolz

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 10:34pm On Oct 24, 2015
Abugab:


Hope you don't have problems?

What have I done?

You must be prepared to tackle personal issues with the way you tackle anonymous issues. Unless you are a big hypocriteundecided

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by missyadorable(f): 10:35pm On Oct 24, 2015
akike:


At least they can afford to stand tall and call out any man unlike women like you who end up being a slave to a man. A means to an endcheesy.

Women are also the same. Ask your mum if she never felt like having sex with another man after your father. What about women that also cheat?

You need a brain transplant asap
The fact that your mother continued having sex with other men and hence producing a bas.tard like you doesn't mean you should embarrass yourself! you are such a re.tard

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Abugab(m): 10:35pm On Oct 24, 2015
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akike:


What have I done?

You must be prepared to tackle personal issues with the way you tackle anonymous issues. Unless you are a big hypocriteundecided

I can see you are derelictious
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Laredojohn(m): 10:35pm On Oct 24, 2015
Firstly d guy hasn't tied the knot yet so try sort out issues like this appropriately, if you feel you can't cope, the decision is yours
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by smilegal84yaho(f): 10:36pm On Oct 24, 2015
my dear friend,now you have known he his not a faithful fiancé's you better advice your self o
cos any man that is not a faithful boyfriend cannot be a faithful husband.
The worst thing that can happen to a woman is not trusting her man,any marriage that is not based on trust is considered void.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by CoCoLav(f): 10:36pm On Oct 24, 2015
standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.


OP please leave him, not just because he is cheating but because he chose to insult your intelligence by telling you that stupid lie. He saw the pack and liked it indeed.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Clinton207: 10:36pm On Oct 24, 2015
A Broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Tobium1(m): 10:37pm On Oct 24, 2015
De niqqa be tryna save himsef from karishikas out dere, gurl be cool.
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by sauceEEP(m): 10:37pm On Oct 24, 2015
Oliviaarims:

Uwc...just hope yhu remain strong. U should know what's best 4 yhu...In whatever u decide to do,it shouldn't be bcoz ov fear of criticism or to please anybody,but because it would ultimately be in ur best interest. Look out 4 ur longterm happiness.
Common "you" is just a 3 letter word, why using "yhu"?

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by deathmen12: 10:37pm On Oct 24, 2015
standingtall:
I do know he will marry me because our wedding is this December and please learn to talk to people with respect especially when you don't know the whole story.
OP, maybe d guy jst want to play his last game since both of u wil get married soon, dnt mind all dis pple dat is teln to break up wit him, cal him, have a hrt to hrt talk with him, dnt quarrel wit him, cos 3yrs nor be joke o
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by whizpa(m): 10:38pm On Oct 24, 2015
Well.. I can't say i know it all.. But any guy who has condoms is definitely using them.. but i could be wrong and your 'future husband' might just be one of those peeps who keep colourful condoms as souvenir.. yeah.. people do that.. they do!! Or he might be an Undercover agent who carries protection around incase stray bullets come flying in.. But we will never know cos u didn't ask him.

For my advice.. Ask him. When he clarifies things and you start having the urge to slowly poison him. That's when you'll need an advice. But for your sake, I hope it's just a new found hobby.

And, lest i forget.. Don't u guys use condoms?? Abi na unto flesh levels una dey?

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 10:38pm On Oct 24, 2015
missyadorable:

The fact that my mother continued having sex with other men and hence producing abastard (me) a doesn't mean I should embarrass myself! I am such a re.tard

cheesy

Coward!

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by maryhaam(f): 10:38pm On Oct 24, 2015
Hmmmm,ask the married ones,guys that will cheat will cheat,if he's using condom shake him he's protecting ur interest from preggy n infection.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 10:38pm On Oct 24, 2015
Abugab:
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I can see you are derelictious

grin

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by uzolexis(f): 10:38pm On Oct 24, 2015
missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

This is the dumbest thing I have hrd in a while.
Really, she should stick with him even though he cheats on her It's unfortunate u have been meeting the wrong kind of guys your whole life that's why you have come to this silly conclusion.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by missyadorable(f): 10:38pm On Oct 24, 2015
akike:


Aren't you ‘man' enough to represent your masculinity?

Coward!
Hahahahahaha! you are so pained that despite a woman,have said the bitter truth y'all don't like to hear

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Commandoabdul(m): 10:38pm On Oct 24, 2015
na wetin thief eye dey c na eim u c,
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by stonecoldcafe: 10:39pm On Oct 24, 2015
standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

These thins happen so you can make an informed decision befor marriage. If you cannot cope with a cheating husband, now is the time to walk.

Don't marry then come and open a thread to cry tomorrow. You won't claim ignorance then. Kindly take your time and go through this thread (below) to see what married life can be when a woman decides to ignore the warning signs. Happy reading

www.nairaland.com/2686032/marriage-crashing-think-hate-him...help

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by osazeeblue01: 10:39pm On Oct 24, 2015
Try and talk things over with him. Do want to act like ur president(BUHARI) that was lookin for saints as his ministers? At the end FASHOLA AND AMAECHI where among the saints.
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by tashan: 10:39pm On Oct 24, 2015
1) Ask him what he is doing with condoms
2) Don't assume he is cheating.
3) Do you live with him? His friends might be using his place to get down with chicks. Have you considered this? Point is you need to hear his side of the story
4) Are you having sex with him?
5) Cheating is a terrible thing to do, but it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Love and sex are poles apart for most men.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by CONTROLi(m): 10:40pm On Oct 24, 2015
WHAT'S YOUR DEFINITION OF ''All men do that''?? YOU GO SCHOOL AT ALL OR YOU LACK COMMON SENSE?? OR THAT'S WHAT YOUR BROTHERS DOES?? DON'T DRAG ALL MEN INTO THIS.. SOME OF US MEN ARE HIGHLY PRINCIPLED WITH HIGH MORAL VALUES.. BE CAREFUL!!

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by uzolexis(f): 10:41pm On Oct 24, 2015
akike:


At least they can afford to stand tall and call out any man unlike women like you who end up being a slave to a man. A means to an endcheesy.

Women are also the same. Ask your mum if she never felt like having sex with another man after your father. What about women that also cheat?

You need a brain transplant asap
my dear, she has serious self esteem issues.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Atlantian: 10:41pm On Oct 24, 2015
Just fucck someone else.
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by anigbajumo(m): 10:42pm On Oct 24, 2015
missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

U nailed it

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