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I called my girl on phone who is in school and I heard my friends voice from the background and I asked her if that's my friend she said no and I let things be.

However I was discussing with my friend nd one thing led to another and he told me the day I asked my girl if it was Hs voice I was hearing from d background and she said no. That he was actually d one but he was d one that signal to her not to tell me.

I was now talking with my gal and she said something and I told her it was a lie and she said she has never lied to me. I smiled and said how about d day u told me it wasn't my friends voice I was hearing from the background. I was shocked as she claimed it wasn't my friend voice I had and she suggested I even go ahead and ask my friend. I was more dump founded by her swearing heaven nd earth. I told her look my friend never lies to me if I should call him nd he said he is d one that would be d end of our relationship. That was wen she said if I feel it my friend then let leave it dat way nd let sleeping dog lye.

Now here are my confusion

Am hoping to settle down with dis girl
Now am worried because I now begin to feel she is not someone I can trust.

If she could deny that knowing fully well that I have no problem with my friend visiting her.

What is d tendency that I have not been feeding on her Lies?
Sincerely am thinking of quitting not because I don't love her but because I don't trust her.

Am I making the wrong decision?

Brb

Well, u can give her more trials, u can't just give up on her. If she still let you down after a few test, den u can quit

Nope you are not. If you go into a marriage with doubt, lack of trust, always second guessing whatever your spouse tell you.

Doubt that will be a happy marriage

Hmmmm
Lemme consult IFA

In my opinion:u r definitely nt makin d wrong decion if u call it quit..d earlier d beta..she lied nd swore on it sef.she did nt knw ur friend already told u d truth...she's nt planning on going down d aile wit u,so dnt waste ur time on a relationship we knw both wont work(no trust,no marriage)..

op open ya eyes o...dat girl is a lying with God's name too...which mean say if u marry her,u don enter one chance

Lemme goan load...

If she got big boóbs, Fat áss & Fresh face . Give her a 2nd chance ;-)

You gotta love these chics they never admit to anything
even if you catch them red handed
The closest she will come to admitting guilt Is to say let sleeping dogs lie
If a nigga is caught red handed he goes like 'Oh baby Im sorry it was the devil, forgive me, etc'
A woman? No fùcking way
She will tell you it wasnt her
even under torture she will hever admit to anything
Nigga ure lucky you caught her lying ass. Make no mistakes if you are guilty of anything
she wont let sleeping dogs lie

NO!

For her to lie and even swear on a lie, then she might be giving your friend the koko......#

#Just saying sha

Well she might not be cheating on you (like someone above me suggested). Some people just naturally have a problem with telling the truth...so they lie about basically everything. Now let's face it, what's in it for her that she had to lie about that? Absolutely nothing!!! So you can break up with her or not...its your call.

But to me its your friend you should be more worried about. I mean he admitted to telling the girl not to tell you and then he goes right back and tells you...doesn't that tell you something

ideyhere:
Well she might not be cheating on you (like someone above me suggested). Some people just naturally have a problem with telling the truth...so they lie about basically everything. Now let's face it, what's in it for her that she had to lie about that? Absolutely nothing!!! So you can break up with her or not...its your call.

But to me its your friend you should be more worried about. I mean he admitted to telling the girl not to tell you and then he goes right back and tells you...doesn't that tell you something

One thing led to another and he had to tell me!! More so I think I can trust him enough.

lawrenzooo:
One thing led to another and he had to tell me!! More so I think I can trust him enough.

You think? Or you know? You see that's where the problem is. Both of them lied so if someone has to go on probation, it must be two of them. Besides its only your friend that can do you in. But like I said earlier, its your call...peace

ideyhere:
You think? Or you know? You see that's where the problem is. Both of them lied so if someone has to go on probation, it must be two of them. Besides its only your friend that can do you in. But like I said earlier, its your call...peace

I TRUST AND AM NOT TRUSTING HIM BLINDLY! HE HAS PROVEN TIME ND TIME AGAIN TO BE A BROTHER.

I wish I could go into detail of d conversation that led to him telling me what he told me but it's going to be a very long one.