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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by naijathings(m): 12:09am On Oct 26, 2015
femiero:
People might call you childish and all but you have to get out of that friendship. Stop relating with her. The friend zone is for homosexuals and it's a very bad zone. If she wants to be enjoying girlfriend privileges she has to be yours or you cut her off.

Did you notice that all females that have commented want you to continue being her friend? It's a trap. Don't fall for it.

hahaahahaha *The friend zone is for homosexuals and it's a very bad zone.*
hey.. who posted this? do u live in Lag? are you up to 18? if yes then I owe u one Black label and pepper soup this week in surulere.
come with ur babe sha. This week oh.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by islandmoon: 12:15am On Oct 26, 2015
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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by upsyLi(m): 12:16am On Oct 26, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?
Dear OP, I've been in a situation quite similar to yours but in my case, she even did send me her supposed BF mobile digits so we can be friends (the guy ain't even in Naija ooo.... (**Long story***).
Well, I'd simply advice you to move on Cus that's what I did (even as it was the most difficult decision I had to make). We still friends till present though but I moved on, reduced the rate of our chit chats blag blah blah that she's even the one that complained about it when she noticed.
Move on bro! and you'd see you can actually survive without her!

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Paulpaulpaul(m): 12:18am On Oct 26, 2015
You no de watch film? Kill the guy and have the girl

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Ddy(m): 12:23am On Oct 26, 2015
School children tinz. Pls read ur book n make cash not ladies tins

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by daveP(m): 12:25am On Oct 26, 2015
Op if you are contemplating following what Passenger sang in his Let Her Go, you are on an everest quest.

Simply Let her go

or use the style used in legend of korra, it works well on ladies(find another to make her green with envy)

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by GENIAL37: 12:27am On Oct 26, 2015
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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by deltateam: 12:27am On Oct 26, 2015
stupidity:

OP follow this guy advice abeg. He nailed it.

Guy translate that Arabic shaparly.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by lovely17(m): 12:32am On Oct 26, 2015
Awwwww Nigga has been friend zoned

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by islandmoon: 12:35am On Oct 26, 2015
funlord:
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do you know if he just dressed like a woman looking for?

DSS, Security Please take note, ON A SERIOUS NOTE!!

i dont want to see a headline tomorrow saying " the bomber announced his plan on Nairaland" Mod should remove this unless someone can interprete it..

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Nobody: 12:39am On Oct 26, 2015
you are in the friendzone... just move on.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by chigbogbo: 12:45am On Oct 26, 2015
My brother, Waka go front small u go see another bus stop. Park well for there, then try another fine girl

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by sirjakez(m): 12:53am On Oct 26, 2015
Its easy bro... Free the babe and move on

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Allwility: 12:56am On Oct 26, 2015
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.

-Maya Angelou

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by lovely17(m): 12:57am On Oct 26, 2015
Awwwww Nigga has been friend zoned pele

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by AmeboArena1(m): 1:00am On Oct 26, 2015
You can just move on, you might just find somebody better.

Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Rapsodee(m): 1:06am On Oct 26, 2015
Just leave her as fast as possible and don't go any further with wanting to date her because if you do I pity your emotions oo,she will say NO NO NO! and it wud be like magic for eye with you wondering if she wasn't d girl u knew before and you will down and disappointed

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by marioxklusiv(m): 1:07am On Oct 26, 2015
he seek 4 ur advice nt insult
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by marioxklusiv(m): 1:19am On Oct 26, 2015
just 4get abt her and continue wit ur life mayb she ws nt mearnt 4 u
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by macminista(m): 1:37am On Oct 26, 2015
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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by pansophist(m): 1:45am On Oct 26, 2015
Loving someone is not a mandate to possession. Even though I understand the emotional pain associated with unrequited love, your best bet is to walk away.

Pestering her will only degrade your worth, not masculine and makes you appear needy thus, keeps her far away from you.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by banio: 2:16am On Oct 26, 2015
Maybe you are an assignment boy friend or something close to that. No vex 4 the truth o
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by BlackOnassis(m): 2:28am On Oct 26, 2015
Forget her. That's what you do. Finish.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by AreaFada2: 2:31am On Oct 26, 2015
asdfjklhaha:
She sees u as a friend but her man as a lover don u get it? D best u can do is to respect her opinion and remain friends wit her.

Good idea. I hope things work out for her. But I think her relationship with OP is more complex than just platonic.

She enjoys flirting with him, giving him hope. If OP had not waited for too long, it could have been a different story.

If OP wasn't looking for love, this relationship could result in ocassional sex, devoid of love on her part. Just a possibility.

As it is now, OP is a kind of mug/woman wrapper to her. She is now too sure of his love, maybe even a hint of desperation. She now holds the ace card.

In the love stakes, ladies don't find that attractive in a man.

OP, get a girlfriend and move on.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by kariyo: 2:36am On Oct 26, 2015
You leave her and go, end of story

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by uncjay(m): 2:56am On Oct 26, 2015
@OP at first sight on the topic I was vry eager to read through and learn only to discover u were kind of seeking for help yet I learnt a lot....


Seriously, I found myself in the same circumstance as you and I don't know what to do, but your thread actually help, with the level of opinions am able to gather from the posters....I now know that she is not worth it....infact I'm fulfilled now.

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by ojay72(m): 3:29am On Oct 26, 2015
If she loves someone else, I simply do the needful, let her keep him. Meanwhile, y'all need to check my signature and thank me later.
Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by KA24DETT(m): 3:43am On Oct 26, 2015
Get money .. When you get money, you get better pus*y, better cars. Few months later, you will look back and say " what am I thinking"

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Icon4s(m): 4:11am On Oct 26, 2015
funlord:
angry


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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by Twill92: 4:19am On Oct 26, 2015
chai! human being.... The guy is talking about i and my boo but you guys are here praying i break up with her cause the op love her? WTH!... no wonder there are lotta heartbreaks cos of people like you praying the relationship wont work....


op...if na true love... remain in the friend zone while i keep hmmmmhmmm her... u get?!!!... or take my nicest opinion, Run for your life... copy that?

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by femiero: 4:21am On Oct 26, 2015
naijathings:


hahaahahaha *The friend zone is for homosexuals and it's a very bad zone.*
hey.. who posted this? do u live in Lag? are you up to 18? if yes then I owe u one Black label and pepper soup this week in surulere.
come with ur babe sha. This week oh.
pm me make we arrange am. grin grin grin

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Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by crackhouse(m): 4:21am On Oct 26, 2015
Now let's do it this way. Assuming we turn the table round and u are her boyfriend and her boyfriend is now you, how will u feel? Advice urself my dear.

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