greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

dude! You are on weed mode

You are still in school and you want to marry her
Is it your yansh you will use to plan the wedding and also feed her

You are not in love but mistaking lust or what did they called that name self! Infatuation or whatever

I hate it when guys with beautiful potentials don't use their brains.

Let me tell you a secret! In this world there are many svpids girls who are willing to have you as their man or husband and you are wasting your time thinking of just one STVPID girl who is choping your brain power, using a simple psychological method to control you when the other guy is not given her what she want

Don't learn it the hard way.

Friendzone Things

She don' tell you say she get bf.Wetin you still want from her again?Some guys won't learn.

FRIEND-ZONED
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buh u've gat to move on...it may just be infatuation over d gal nd nt really love...

THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF FISHES IN THE OCEAN

Electing An illiterate Dictator- A Major Drawback for Nigeria’s Democracy The problem with dictatorship is that it usually lacks the capacity and patience to understand the meaning of the rule of law and due process. Both doctrines are often slow and therefore require patience. Dictators don’t have patience, they want it here, now and by any means necessary. In 1984, Mohammadu Buhari overthrew the democratically elected government of President Shehu Shagari. It is true that every coup plotter is guilty of breaching the Nigerian constitution and shooting his way into power. But arguably, unlike Ibrahim Babangida that overthrew a military junta, Buhari’s offense was more egregious because he overthrew a democratically elected government – an expression of the collective will of Nigerians. In his false feeling of importance, Buhari has always believed in his messianic mission. He thinks that he knows it all, and that, unlike any other Nigerian, he knows what is best for Nigeria. His twisted sense of superiority and inordinate craving for power found expression in his 1984 coup and his subsequent, repeated run for the presidency. Before he finally won in 2015, he had been defeated in three earlier presidential elections. On his third defeat, he broke down and wept in public, an action that would have ended his political career if he were an American politician. Politicians hardly weep in America. To me, that unrestrained public effusion of tears signified his utter desperation for power. His frequent threats to Nigerians were also indicative of his excessive hunger for power. After he lost the 2011 presidential election, he made his threats; vowing to make Nigeria ungovernable. And true to his word, he attempted to make Nigeria ungovernable. Through his Boko Haram connection, he unleashed terror on Nigeria. Some say that if Buhari had no relationship with Boko Haram, why did the terrorist group nominate him as one of its negotiators? And before the 2015 election, he threatened to spill blood and cause mayhem if he loses the election. Unfortunately, in 2015, Nigerians buckled under Buhari’s threats and shenanigans, and elected a dictator-president. It is obvious that successive military regimes contributed immensely to our societal woes: the erosion of our moral standards and the perversion of our values. By overthrowing the Shagari government, Buhari truncated a nascent democracy, retarded our democratic evolution and contributed to the problems military rule visited on Nigeria. Ironically, the same problems the military dictators created for Nigerians are the very ones Buhari is promising to fix. Leadership is not, and can never be by force. Buhari, Nigerians say, remains uninformed. Before the elections Nigerians raised a lot of doubts that he even has a West African School Certificate (WASC). But even without this basic academic qualification, he didn’t seem to have the urge to improve himself over the years. So, that when elected president, he would be better prepared to serve the country. Sadly, dictatorship means force and that’s all you need to get things done. His fixation was on grabbing the presidency at all cost. He sounds as though he does not have the finesse to relate smoothly with the other branches of government. He has never displayed any intellectual capacity in governance in the past thoughtless of delivering a lecture, as presidents sometimes do, to the academia, professional associations, etc. In his ignorance and obscurantism, he is blind to the heterogeneity of this country. No wonder, he once advocated making Sharia the supreme law of Nigeria. During his first coming to power in 1984, he pretty much ruled by proxy via Idiagbon. This time around there is ample evidence that he is going to govern through El Rufai and co. Is it then not a bit surprising that Nigerians voted for a dictator in 2015? In my viewpoint this implicates a major drawback for Nigeria. Politically and otherwise. Were Nigerians browbeaten by his threat to unleash violence and wreck havoc if he is not elected? Having, with our votes, dignified a man that shoved aside a democratically elected government and seized power, what message are we sending to young, coup-thirsty military officers? Are we not telling them that it is alright to plot and execute coups? Evidently, we are a country of cowards. Have we, out of fear that Nigeria might break up if Buhari does not win, rewarded him for his coup and extra judicial killings? Oh, the Americans supported him? Yes, Obama did. Secretly, he sent his former Chief of Staff, and renowned political strategist, David Axelrod, to Nigeria to work for the All Progressive Congress (APC). Obama’s support for Buhari was motivated simply by American economic interests. Africa is the new frontier and Nigeria is a major player in this emerging frontier. The former president, Goodluck Jonathan, was in bed with the Chinese. The Chinese economy is expanding and will soon overtake the American economy as the world’s largest economy. The government of Goodluck Jonathan was awarding billion dollar contracts to Chinese companies. This piqued the Americans. So, they embarked on what they do best: regime change. They approached their cousins, our former colonial masters, the British, to find out how to deal with Nigeria. Piece of cake! The Brits told them: the road to Nigeria must pass through the North; we did so when we colonized them. So, Obama went through the North. Buhari, thrice trounced in his quest to be president, was available, ready and willing. So, Obama’s secret agent in Nigeria, David Axelrod, from his vast repertoire of political intrigues, came up with the CHANGE slogan for APC and projected Buhari the dictator as a reformer. For their strategic interests, the Obama administration tried something similar in Israel but failed. It supported an opposition candidate against the incumbent Prime Minister, Benjamin Netanyahu. But with Israel being a more sophisticated democracy, and the Israelis, gutsy, they were not swayed by the Obama administration’s political stratagem. The Americans are always prone to installing dictators that will later turn against them, and instead of serving American self-seeking interests, subvert them. There is evidence of these American installed Frankenstein monsters in Libya, Iraq, Syria, Egypt, etc. With time, Buhari may prove another Frankenstein monster. Igbinoghene Nice from università gli Bergamo Italy

Bribe her boy friend! I wanted to say kill her boy friend

Are you trying to snatch her from her bf. She has told you point blank that she loves her bf. Pls get a gripe of yourself.

Ramos16:


Bro I am having same issues here, I asked her out two weeks ago, now we are like strangers to each other, we used to talk a lot on phone and laugh, she used to call me like 4 -5 times per day and we talk at length.. But after asking her out we no longer talk, everything just changed, she claims that my timing was wrong.... I am in a mess.... thinking about her every moment, every time my phone rings now, my heart skips a beat, hoping that she is the one calling..... I wish I can help you bro, but we share similar issue here

you and OP goan marry eachother.....you better work hard to improve yourlife

kill the bf.....shikena

greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

firstly try to get her fone nd search thru if u can find a vital information abt her so called boyfriend.afterall they must b communicatin by social network,evendo check her contact,possibility der might b name save wit pet name nd also check her message inbox,draft,sent nd outbox..with dat u no ur faith...secondly to me she is formin akimbo by'style perhap jst wana test ur sincerity...cus me self has gone thru dis mission b4..later sha..bros i yanch her well

Love Machine:
She don' tell you say she get bf.Wetin you still want from her again?Some guys won't learn.

I'm telling you! Some guys just want to learn it the hard way

Don't try to false love on other people

greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

Guy babes plenty na.leave her alone.your own wud surely come

Ramos16:


Bro I am having same issues here, I asked her out two weeks ago, now we are like strangers to each other, we used to talk a lot on phone and laugh, she used to call me like 4 -5 times per day and we talk at length.. But after asking her out we no longer talk, everything just changed, she claims that my timing was wrong.... I am in a mess.... thinking about her every moment, every time my phone rings now, my heart skips a beat, hoping that she is the one calling..... I wish I can help you bro, but we share similar issue here

shynrichies:






you and OP goan marry eachother.....you better work hard to improve yourlife

why do you have to be weird about this? :/

U shld let go of her since she told you the blatant truth because she doesn't see you as a potential boyfriend but a friend. Face the reality and get over it, there are thousand and one beautiful ladies out there.

You might think she is the one, but we only see today, no one knows tomorrow, she might not be the right one for you in the long run. If you are meant to be, I always believe whatever will be will be, and vice versa. Get over it bro.

greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

You can snatch her from her boyfriend if you know how to play the game.

What are you waiting for?

stupidity:
OP follow this guy advice abeg. He nailed it.

stewpidity

halfrica:
First word in the book life is
TO HONOUR GOD
AND MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY

yes u love her but give her the space to be
Sure she would ponder on what u av told her


She is goin to weigh both sides please b calm nd b happy dnt sell ur happiness to others indirectly

He grossed her out.

Op, how do guys like u do it? I mean, asking a gurl out ?
What do u say she hasnt heard b4? N why didnt u seek advise first about how to get her?

kokoA:
OP is the zonal Chairman of Friendzone.

chai,wickedness of the highest grade

emperorchedda:
Dude get a hold of yourself and leave that girl with your dignity intact.

Stop being friends, stop the unnecessary calls and make it as platonic as ever. Get yourself another girl better than she is and watch her green in envy

For your mind na you be love whisperer

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just watched a nollywood romp last night. some of these wayward jezebels be doing the most with dere crazy brains and using and being used.

People might call you childish and all but you have to get out of that friendship. Stop relating with her. The friend zone is for homosexuals and it's a very bad zone. If she wants to be enjoying girlfriend privileges she has to be yours or you cut her off.

Did you notice that all females that have commented want you to continue being her friend? It's a trap. Don't fall for it.

falconey:
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Gbammm! one agege bread for you!

IamLEGEND1:
U no get balls ni?

don't you have any pride of ur own?

SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!!

WHOM SHE LOVES!!!!

what do you want us to for you,give you tips on how to ruin her relationship or what?

just stand in front of ur mirror and say this to urself..... " I AM A MAN".

Now better face ur front and stop hounding that girl with ur incessant proposals like a crazed animal

I think he should stand in front of the mirror and saying “I AM A MAN"..... and he should grab his balls while saying this to be sure he has enough balls to be a man a move on to the next one.

student love sha...
stop watching Telemundo boy, grab ur balls boy, move on to the next one boy.

nil

I think that is still better... The girl I love just told me 40 minute ago that she is 4 month pregnant for someone else...

greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

You shouldn't have brought that "I love you" into that equation. It spoils everything. You could have gone ahead and treated her as if both of you are dating.
I've noticed that when you tell her you love her or want to go out with her, she'll begin acting funny. She wants to enjoy the emotion she gets. When you propose to her, it spoils the suspence. As for now, don't bring up any such issue.

greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

Too much of philippines movie hv distorted your brain.Kid face your books and leave women alone.

greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

Simple, Accept to be her Assistant Boyfriend.

Op there are different type of otatapia in the market. Do you need recommendations with that?

Last Bullet: My observation is that every girl has a boyfriend or atleast that's what they say. Its possible a guy can have 5 girlfriends with all 5 girlfriends telling you they have a boyfriend. To who? The same dude! Its a crazy world, I tell you.

Op sticking to her means you will have to enjoy your friendzone status and love it otherwise move on. Stringing you along while claiming her boyfriend is the best thing that ever happened to her is not so cool. Abi is she reffering to you?

Don't allow her to use female psychology on you. Move on to another girl while you still have your dignity and sanity intact.