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Over the years.. I always thought love was real. Growing up my elders would say love is blind and when I left my teen age.. I realize love is fake.

Today, I shall explain to you why love is fake. Here are 5 reasons why it's fake:

1) Rules:- True Love has no rules. I took a survey and questioned a handful of men and I asked a simple question "What would you want in the woman you wish to marry?" And they gave multiple reasons. Some said she must be able to cook.. big breasts. ..white. ..etc

I also asked ladies and some where like he must have a car. .. a beard. .etc

When love is real there are no rules. You won't even make choices all you'll care about is being with that person whether or not she can cook or not or black or white.

2) Money:- True Love is free! You are not supposed to pay! New generation of love is defined and fueled by money.

3) Faithfulness:- True love is faithful till death. There is no divorce or infidelity in true love.

4) True Love is not blind:- Lust is blind. Not love! Love is not stupid as it 's today. A woman would remain in in a marriage that the husband beats her in the name of love. Nope.. she is enjoying something else in that marriage it's no longer love.

5) Patience:- True love is patient and not in in a haste. Now you see ladies getting married because their mates are married. It's not love. It's just a sheep following the flock. If a lady is yet to find her love till she is 40 so be it. That is true love not marrying at 20 to some man who she might divorce at 30.

The new generation of love especially in Africa lacks the true qualities. And so it's fake! So if anyone says I love you. .nah. ..that's fake

Part 2 - Why Love is Fake in the new generation ..

Source: Jared Strahovski.

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True Love on its own is not Fake, but the People that are involve. Love is a definate decision, not a feeling as people think.

well, it is hard to love with so much technology.

so, people should adapt accordingly. Love is not necessarily always a foundation for marriage.

#5 is bad advice. why would you ask ladies to wait till they're 40 before marrying?

tpiah11:
#5 is bad advice. why would you ask ladies to wait till they're 40 before marrying?

its not an advice. He's telling the fact.

There is still true love shar.
1.Like a guy that went to rob just to save money for his girl's birthday.

2. Committing suicide just because his/her lover abandoned them and moved on.
You might call it stvpidity, but its an art and act of love.

stupidity:
its not an advice. He's telling the fact.

what kind of fact is that?


it's bad advice.

tpiah11:
what kind of fact is that?


it's bad advice.

oga, it is not an advice o!!!
Make I break am down into pidgin for better understanding.

the OP talk say if you truly believe in love, asin true love, you nor go mind reach 90 years old sef, u go still wait for person wey u go truly love(the right partner). That is #5: PATIENCE.

tpiah11:
what kind of fact is that?


it's bad advice.

It's not an advice. I did not tell ladies to wait till 40 before getting married.

Try to read and comprehend

stupidity:
oga, it is not an advice o!!!
Make I break am down into pidgin for better understanding.

the OP talk say if you truly believe in love, asin true love, you nor go mind reach 90 years old sef, u go still wait for person wey u go truly love(the right partner). That is #5: PATIENCE.

where in the bible did you see that?

ie indefinite waiting while the world turns.