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wrongnumber:
Me i don talk say na internally displaced camp i wan go get wife.

At least the ladies there will make sense die.

Younger.fresher,sexier and more domesticated and best part be say dem no go demand for too much money..

Toks2008:
Do you .

Toks2008:
Countleess number of naija babes are being dumped every minute because some rich dudes do not value them because they know its about their money.

look at our stars aand you will see the trend where the guys marry their old time girlfriends after scwrng the shit outta the money mongers who think these guys are fools nd foolishly and shamelessly becoming a side dish or baby mama of a rich dude when one vision driven potential multi millionaire is begging theem to b the only woman in their lives.

this is why th likes of dbang,mikel and many more chose to get a non Nigrian lady.

I really feel for many of our ladies.

niggi4life:
In one of Pastor Adeboye's Sermon, he said what it takes a Man to get married in those days was, a room for himself, a Bed and a Stove.
Now also check our parents back then, they weren't in luxury before they married.
Though am married and i can authoritatively tell you that when i married my wife i was earning 50k, oh yes! 50k per month.
Considering my type of guy who drinks, parties and all that, i had to change, adjust and adapt to a newer lifestyle. I keep telling some people, money will surely come, except of course you aren't doing anything at all. And that's being Lazy. If a lady sees potentials in a man and he isn't rich but she loves him and he loves her too, what is stopping them both from tying the knots?

For those saying they rather marry made men over love, bla bla bla, My Elder sister did the same some 15 years ago, her marriage only survived for 5years and for the past 10years she's been divorced, alone with 2kids...

Toks2008:
Jesu oba iye

Please where did you get those from?

I ma sure it was an impersonator that must have written all the funny stuffs up there lol!

Please bail yourself out by quoting any phrase or sentence that supports your accusations or remain silent or i will fish you out and arrest you for false accusations lol!

ll these ladies that just come online to make mockery of themselves. I dey house for you all. If you are not intelligent enough to decipher my write up just ask for clarifications or better still start ignoring them ok.

akike:
You're not intelligent.
Fo.ol trying hard to sound intelligent on a faceless forum

TheSonOfMark:
Aren't you tired of 'running'?

TheSonOfMark:

Estharfabian:
This thread Clearly promotes Female "DEPENDENCE"


And this same Guys would still be the One Calling Girls "GOLD DIGGERS".....I think that's highly Hypocritical! Let's cogitate...

Rather Than Advising Girls to Look for more financially stAble Guys(the big fish)...Why not Rather Promote Hardwork?? Strength? Goals?being independent?

Besides, where is The Love I thought marriage should be about what you feel about Your spouse and Not what You could actually Gain from it..??...If that's the Case, isn't it the same thing with Being A Hoe?? a Wretched Gold-digger? A Cheap slut? a thirsty lady? sorry, Buh I don't see any difference...

Conclusion:- Girls should start Moving Up!! we shouldn't depend on Guys for anything (financial wise)..we've got two legs! we got the brain!..And as bonus....We've got the looks.. . I've seen Homes whereby The man and the woman Are both financially stable..like it's not a parasitical marriage..the lady contributes! and the man too....!
*************** (God bless my momma )!!!!******

misspicy:
[b]Mr Op,i like the way you construct your writeup and your advice,very insigtful,buh i want to point out somethin... Until the issue of men infidelity is curtailed,most ladies will keep going after the financially ok guys...yes do not quote me wrong....
we know it is very difficult for a couple to start a family without reasonable financial backing,now checkout this scenerio....
Bro A,is still a hustling guy,he meets sis B also a struggling lady,they agree to be with each other,get married when ever they become financially okay,now Bro A gets to hit a jackpot 5 years later,then he met Sis C,due to d fact that he hit some jacpot,he decides to quickly indulge himself with sis C,in d process,he gets carried away by the euphoria of the moment,he forgets abt sis B,all of a sudden,he realise he doesnt love her anymore,or she is not as good for him as sis C.Bro A eventually dumps sis B,marries sis C...Mr Op,if sis B happens to be your sister,will you advice her to start life from scratch with another man?....

I think this is the fear of many spinsters today,only a few can take the risk,the rest resort to trying their luck with the financially ok man,in the end,if it backfires both way,they are at the recieving end....

Conclusion,every unmarried lady out there,should consider the pros and cons before settling to start from scratch or pursue financially ok men...thank you[/b]

ideyhere:
All this talk about girls remaining single because they like money don tire me for this NL ooh. Unless naija guys change their opinion of ladies as things you keep in your house to bear you children while they go gallivanting with other ladies, I don't advice any lady to settle. Since a lot of Nigerian guys have bad characters when it comes to their treatment of ladies, if I must choose a devil, I rather choose one with good physicals and financial prospects. Njo eshi njo omume naa em worse pass. And if I must cry, I rather cry inside a limo....chikina

Raymondenyi:
.... FANTASTIC. please re u single? Can u come back from Jupiter let's tie the knot here on earth? Will appreciate...

cruzyteejay:
i recommend you to watch the movie titled "SUGAR" and you will clearly see what happens to your type

ideyhere:
Well sorry but there's nothing like my type...I didn't come in duplicate

cruzyteejay:
uuuuhm,when i say type i mean those that reason like you and not your personality,ofcourse you know that you are not the only one that would opt to shed tears in a limousine or marry a devil so far the money is there,that's what i mean by type

ideyhere:
Still there's nothing like my type. Because unlike those ones you're talking about, I said if I MUST shed tears... But then I KNOW I won't shed tears in marriage

Estharfabian:
"" LoL.....Yas!!!
Tie the knot? that soon?

I think it's a bit too soon...Besides, Living things from Jupiter don't Associate with Humans from earth... it's A Taboo...

Raymondenyi:
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No ; Probs, will go to Jupiter with you then.
.... I really like ur Psych... ur the kind of lady I really sort to know; or better still keep as friends..... Most times when I engage females in discussions on what the future holds, I get nauseated!!! 9 of 10, will only tell u how to get married and "settle down" no personal plans, no dreams of prospects, academic or otherwise; n I'll be like what happened to ur education? !!! It's very rare seeing a lady with an independent mind, like urs... and believe me when I say, it is a huge turn on for responsible Guyz...

U facebook? Wouldn't mind connecting...