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Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by JERRYNIL(op): 5:53pm On Oct 29, 2015
Am a guy of 28 years of age and am seriously in love with a girl of 24years. We met earlier this year and we started dating, since then everything has been going fine in our relationship and we are very compactable but we discovered few months ago that we are both AS. I so much love her that I av not cheated on her since we started dating and am so much used to her and she is equally used to me. We were planning of getting married next year until this issue of Genotype came up and am thinking of still taking the risk of getting married to her cos of the strong love I av for her . Pls ur reasonable contributions is needed here cos I av been thinking abt it and each day my love increase for her. Thank u!
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by Nobody: 5:54pm On Oct 29, 2015
undecided cry kiss
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by undercurrent(m): 5:54pm On Oct 29, 2015
Another tales by Lantern light.
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by 2dice(m): 5:58pm On Oct 29, 2015
Follow your Heart
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by Cutehector(m): 5:58pm On Oct 29, 2015
For d love of ur unborn children, neva make such mistakes...
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by slimmyjimmy(m): 6:05pm On Oct 29, 2015
If you love your unborn kids don't my broda. But if u get d money cheesy em.
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 29, 2015
So, what's my biznis with this? Asin, what can I do for U?
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by JERRYNIL(op): 6:09pm On Oct 29, 2015
[quote author=Cutehector post=39492015]For d love of ur unborn children, neva make such mistakes... [/quote

Tanx for ur contribution but is not possible for to jxt give birth to a kid and stop?
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by JERRYNIL(op): 6:10pm On Oct 29, 2015
wat is ur advice
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by naijaboiy: 6:12pm On Oct 29, 2015
[color=#1980BC]i'm sure your doctor has advised you well enough.
Just know that going ahead to get married is a big risk.

Would you rather get married cos of love and then suffer your unborn children and also spend lots of money for the health problems your child will encounter?

Think about this man. Sometimes Love does not always conquer all.[/color]
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by JERRYNIL(op): 6:12pm On Oct 29, 2015
Wat is ur advice and wat is ur reason behind i, tank u
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by Cutehector(m): 6:14pm On Oct 29, 2015
[quote author=JERRYNIL post=39492290][/quote]its ur call bro.... Makin babies isn't smth u just plan like dat, it just happens as long as u r havn unprotected sex wit ur wife... And u wouldn't wana use a condom to hav sex wit ur wife, its totally bad...
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by Slimzjoe(m): 6:16pm On Oct 29, 2015
Sometimes Love doesn't Solve all Problems....Common sense does
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Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by Johnnoah1st: 6:17pm On Oct 29, 2015
JERRYNIL:
Am a guy of 28 years of age and am seriously in love with a girl of 24years. We met earlier this year and we started dating, since then everything has been going fine in our relationship and we are very compactable but we discovered few months ago that we are both AS. I so much love her that I av not cheated on her since we started dating and am so much used to her and she is equally used to me. We were planning of getting married next year until this issue of Genotype came up and am thinking of still taking the risk of getting married to her cos of the strong love I av for her . Pls ur reasonable contributions is needed here cos I av been thinking abt it and each day my love increase for her. Thank u!
receive common sense...
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by irepnaija4eva(m): 6:57pm On Oct 29, 2015
chai.....

Well am sure most breathen here will tell you to pray about it. Which am wholehearthly am in surpport of.
Let me be straight wit u

Are u willing to bear the lost of any of your future kids "God for bid" o.if any was born with ss?

Are u sure you won't,in your pains regret loving and marryin each other?

Are u sure u guys won't blame yourselves or anyone else even when you see your child in pains?

if you have both thought and talked about the possible risk involved and still wish to be with each other forever,then my brother throttle down


Pray o.

Afterall GOD IS LOVE.
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by chigoizie7(m): 7:33pm On Oct 29, 2015
All u both need to do is make so much money, mega money before marriage, I heard university of ibadan and two american universities just found a cure for sickle cell. With time,they will develop the cure well. So give yourselves 2yrs b4 marriage and give birth on the 3rd or 4th year,by then,the whole cure thing would ve been very very successful and confirmed. It will be expensive though,so u will need enough cash, use the 4yrs to make the cash.
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by joyjoomla(m): 8:51am On Nov 05, 2015
[quote author=JERRYNIL post=39492290][/quote]My brother, please don't try it. There is no probability that one can't be a SS.

Ppl do misinterpret what science said, that the chance of having SS is 1/4 (1 of 4 children). It doesn't mean just one of four children will be SS. What it means; for every conception, the chance of the baby been SS is 1/4.
Sincerely my brother, their r ppl who have more than four children n all of them are SS. And there are some who didn't give birth to SS at all.

Bro, the risk does not worth it, even if it's one SS out of ten.
Even if you have the money to take care of it, please consider the pain you are calling the child to come and suffer on earth. Save you and your wife the stress, and save the child the pain
Re: Am In Love With Her But We Are Scared Of Getting Married! by Nobody: 9:18am On Nov 05, 2015
pls dont try it, u might think u ar so in love now, by the time ur kids start having crisis, that so called love will be no where to be found.
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