@OFF CAMPUS, WEN I DE SKULL, ONE GIRL AND GUY LIVING 2GEDA SINCE 200L I ENTERED DT HOSTEL. THE GUY DE BEAT AND MALTREAT THE GIRL. STILL SHE STAY WITH HIM. NOW DE NEVER EVEN MARY

coolluk:
Its a free world u know

It's a free world. But that freedom has limits. And it also has repercussions. Cohabitation and relationships are not one and the same thing. Nobody asks you not to cohabit. But never blame whatever results on anyone but yourself. It was your decision, anyway.
All over the world, cohabitation among students who live off campus is not unusual, both same sex and opposite sex. But these same societies usually have safety net policies, such that you're never left on your own to face the consequence. A lot of Nigerian students abroad cohabit. Some use it as a way to find a partner while on a student visa to have a relationship with that might improve their chances of a marriage or civil partnership that will earn them Permanent residence after school. Even though it is nobody's business how people run their lives as long as they are aware of what they are doing, reasons for cohabitation vary. The bottom line is KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING AND WHY YOU'RE DOING IT.

Youngzedd:




Are you a man-woman


You better withdraw that statement, a woman feeding a man.


Tufiakwa!

Hmmmm bro I can see it's been long u graduated from university ... U've forgotten how we dey hustle for food no be say we no get money to buy food but we have other needs we need to take care of dat we can't ask our parents to help us with

Not withstanding nigga it's best u pocket ur ego coz a lady might be d one paying ur salary one day

Mikocake:
so you don't even make your own money and you have the guts to talk down male students..the working class You're dating was once a student huh?? what happens if he loses his job?? you move to the next available mags huh?? so you think you're better and wiser than those girls that date students?? I don't think so you're just selfish and self centered..and if I may ask what if the so called working class men choose to date their fellow working class, do think you've a chance?? selfish!!

BRO! Why are you so pained? Everyone is entitled there own opinion. If I follow your own na. And I get pregnant u will be d one to tell me don't abort it God will see you through. No brother I like my opinion if I get pregnant now I know is marriage and I will not be a disgrace to my family or kill my innocent child. Who the child might be my only. So I need to secure my future and Dat of my unborn

omoarole:



It's a free world. But that freedom has limits. And it also has repercussions. Cohabitation and relationships are not one and the same thing. Nobody asks you not to cohabit. But never blame whatever results on anyone but yourself. It was your decision, anyway.
All over the world, cohabitation among students who live off campus is not unusual, both same sex and opposite sex. But these same societies usually have safety net policies, such that you're never left on your own to face the consequence. A lot of Nigerian students abroad cohabit. Some use it as a way to find a partner while on a student visa to have a relationship with that might improve their chances of a marriage or civil partnership that will earn them Permanent residence after school. Even though it is nobody's business how people run their lives as long as they are aware of what they are doing, reasons for cohabitation vary. The bottom line is KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING AND WHY YOU'RE DOING IT.

Freedom has no limits, in as much they are not kids, they can the Bleep they want and live with the consequences if there are any. I didn't cohabit in school and i have no problem if some kid decides to do it. Doesn't affect my life and i highly doubt if it affects yours

beatsbyj2g:


Hmmmm bro I can see it's been long u graduated from university ... U've forgotten how we dey hustle for food no be say we no get money to buy food but we have other needs we need to take care of dat we can't ask our parents to help us with

Not withstanding nigga it's best u pocket ur ego coz a lady might be d one paying ur salary one day

Paying my salary is different from feeding me.


I work to earn salary.



Right from time, I am a hustler. I pay my bills not her.

toprealman:
OLUKU! SO IT IS MORE PREVALENT IN THE EASTERN UNI'S ABI? BASED ON WHICH STATISTICS? KEEP SPREADING HATE. LIKE THEM OR NOT, IGBO ARE BLESSED!!!

Yinmu! In case you don't know, am igbo too

ClassCaptain:
Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion or view.

I go see girl way carry front.carry back,wash clothes.Cook food,Clean house still drop kpetus.I no go con allow cohabitation ??

Some of these girls dem go give dem money for house rent dem go use am buy Mary Kane ,buttpads and leggings.. Is it a bad something if boys assist them and provide shelter for them ,??

yeye dey smell

Rokiatu DAT is currently cohabiting with me, we are not dating but I provide shelter for her for d time ...Shld I now send her out despite doing all d above things she does for me

omo u no well.......u dey manage in...hehehehehe

Schools atimes contribute immensely to this. Imagine where school cannot provide accommodation to students especially from part2 to part3. When d other could not secure a place to stay such will be tempted to cohabit with whoever allows him/her. If it were sth I had delight in I would be cohabiting nw because I tested a female friend on that issue of which she obliged bt I later did as if such discussion never existed.

STFUareyouGod:
Sugarbee

What?

jewelbaby55:
BRO! Why are you so pained? Everyone is entitled there own opinion. If I follow your own na. And I get pregnant u will be d one to tell me don't abort it God will see you through. No brother I like my opinion if I get pregnant now I know is marriage and I will not be a disgrace to my family or kill my innocent child. Who the child might be my only. So I need to secure my future and Dat of my unborn

hehehe...and for your little mind it's every working class dude is ready to settle down Abi??

That is the best and final environment most times to find a lasting relationshp. So what do you expect?

Orikinla:


Born to cohabit for life.
Why should anyone separate us?

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Lol

jewelbaby55:
Dats why I don't date students.... If I dating you I know u are capable of taking care of yourself and u don't live under your parents. And you must be able to take responsibility in case because I swear in my life that I will never commit abortion. Thanks to God for helping me so far. Ladies date men Dat have marriage plans and are hardworking and loving not students Dat will drain you. Be wise

Are you seriously thanking God for fornicating "successfully" Chai! What will I not see in this life time?

Ps. I aint judging you(before you come at me) but there are some things we should leave God out of.

ritux:
To hell with the OP.

Every Uni student should be mature to know what they want.

Anyways, my gf and I lived together back then in the Uni. Though she had her own room in the campus hostel. Whenever we have some misunderstanding, she goes back to her room until we resolve it.


Today, we are happily married with a bouncing baby boy whose one year birthday is coming up in a few days.

To each his own.

@ OP if e no work for you, e no mean say he no go work for others.

Thank God for you, but that it worked for u doesn't mean it's ok.

I remember the lady I was dating in my part 2, she usually spent like 3 days, 2 days and over night. But at the end of part two, when were planning for part 3, Then she came up with this idea of Cohabitation for part 3 and she's really serious about it, and that shht scared the hell out of me. Though I love the food, the company keeping, being there whenever I'm broke and the other stuffs, but I can't imagine living with a girl for a full 4 months and another 4 months , and the fact that I will not be allowed to see other girls is even worse. I decided to call it quit.

I don't really like the idea of Cohabitation(Personal Decision, not saying it's wrong or right) but 30% undergraduates engaged in this.

Zuriela:

Thank God for you, but that it worked for u doesn't mean it's ok.

That it did not work for others doesn't make it wrong as well.

Some people might just be helping the other party to accommodate them. Getting accommodation could be difficult in some schools.

ritux:


That it did not work for others doesn't make it wrong as well.

Some people might just be helping the other party to accommodate them. Getting accommodation could be difficult in some schools.

U and I know that most times its not about difficulty in getting accommodation.

Mikocake:
hehehe...and for your little mind it's every working class dude is ready to settle down Abi??

I know. But not everyone is like you. At least not everyone hate der child. Dats why you need to be careful with relationships. I know what I want

SUGARBEE:
The rate at which Many Nigerian University Undergraduates and students engage in unwholesome relationships is becoming really alarming.

You now find students who were sent to school by their parents to study and become something in life now engage in acts such as cohabitation and in relationships which cause them more harm than good.

Unfortunately, most schools are to blame for this. Universities in the eastern part of the country have made this cohabitation thing look like it's nothing. Why would a female student cohabit with a man "In School" with most times, she getting pregnant at the end and the man dumping her.

It may look rosy and sweet love at first in the relationship but then stepping it up to cohabiting with your partner is totally unpardonable and unacceptable! The fact still remains that you and your partner are both students and for the lady, the dire consequences would be present if you do get pregnant as you may tend to stop your education.

Nigerians need to wake up to this monster called 'Cohabitation" slowly eating away our society.

Am naturally ahead.

Those are the days of real love...when a lady sees nothing wrong in staying in one funny lookiing room,sleep in same funny looking bed with the guy,get scrwd front n back n this single room apartment,cook with 500naira and enjoy the meal so well but suddenly after graduation,the same lady can not see herself starting life with a man in one room and i begin to wonder...

The truth is that these schools should be blamed for not pproviding enough hostels but then the ladies should also use their heads and not offer themselves as intimacy gadgets to boys who dont even know what they want at that point in time..

Zuriela:

U and I know that most times its not about difficulty in getting accommodation.

Yea, I agree with you 100%.

Just that most of our undergraduates are not mature to deal with things like this and it ends up affecting their studies or unwanted pregnancies resulting to abortions which in some cases, leads to death.

kennygee:
Small children who still rely on Pocket Money.

I have a distant cousin who lives with her Bf in School.

She pays the rent, the guy runs the house.

She washes his clothes, irons them and he does not eat with less than two pieces of meat.

He gives her money for Soup and her upkeep, he does menial computer jobs ang phone sales asides his studies.

Her parents are not aware.

How can these be curbed?

Parents shouldn't just abandon their kids in School, give them surprise visits.

Know where they live. If you notice anything shady, Insist on them staying in the hostel or living with a relative.

God bless you...thats just it

well, evribody should stick to wat works for dem or wateva dey feel would work for dem...I did it and I have no regrets whatsoever about it

SUGARBEE:
What?

Where you been?

obimind:

My blame still goes to the school authorities.. If u look at our private universities, I'll notice that cohabitation is at its lowest ebb.

Do private uni students stay off camp?

It's a personnal choice anyway but it isn't something worth doing

SUGARBEE:
Yinmu! In case you don't know, am igbo too

FACTS AND FIGURES PLEASE. OKPO!!!

temitayomie:
Lol...Why do I have this feelings that this practice has come to stay ask those that attended university in the 80s and 90s if they were not cohabiting.


No be today madam

Let us be true to ourselves...while some cases are not justified..some seem to be.

I dated a lady way back in school andd we we lived together for 3yrs simply because she could not afford off campus hostel n the school had no hostel.

Funny enough we were able to maintain a no sex policy but the truth is that this is one act that must bee discouraged cos its resultant effect is usually terrible.

SUGARBEE:
The rate at which Many Nigerian University Undergraduates and students engage in unwholesome relationships is becoming really alarming.

You now find students who were sent to school by their parents to study and become something in life now engage in acts such as cohabitation and in relationships which cause them more harm than good.

Unfortunately, most schools are to blame for this. Universities in the eastern part of the country have made this cohabitation thing look like it's nothing. Why would a female student cohabit with a man "In School" with most times, she getting pregnant at the end and the man dumping her.

It may look rosy and sweet love at first in the relationship but then stepping it up to cohabiting with your partner is totally unpardonable and unacceptable! The fact still remains that you and your partner are both students and for the lady, the dire consequences would be present if you do get pregnant as you may tend to stop your education.

Nigerians need to wake up to this monster called 'Cohabitation" slowly eating away our society.

Am naturally ahead.

Are you looking for a place to stay ?

Dataengineer:
STUDIES HAVE PROVEN THAT THIS IS THE NUMBER TWO POCKET DRAINER ON CAMPUS, ALABI (NAIRABET) IS NUMBER ONE.

the guy is a scammer.....nairalander please beware, He stole my 1500.