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Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 9:25pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Adaeze003: before nko? a cheating wife carries more weight than a cheating hubby. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Adaeze003(f): 9:27pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: I don't care about all that really. Anyone can be the boss but there's nothing wrong in leaving a marriage whether there is a 50-50 split or not. Money is not something stacked up for the male folk alone, women can fend for themselves so throwing punches at her is really petty for a "man". We're all human we should make our decisions based on that, bride price or no bride price, give advise in a humane way and not be up and about mocking people who seek it just because you're some "man". 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Adaeze003(f): 9:32pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar: That's society for me I guess but doesn't mean women don't get hurt from finding out the man they lay with is busy sticking it in every hole. It's basically the same thing. But then, who cares right? True story or false story, getting a divorce by man or woman is not a bad thing if you feel you're treated poorly. That's my point. 10 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Joy1706(f): 9:35pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou:That's a lie. Child support is granted in Nigeria 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 9:39pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Adaeze003: of course, women get hurt when they find out their partners are flirting with other girls, never mind shtupping them. my point is the consequences of such liaisons are graver for women than men especially in marriage.
it depends! every case should be assessed based on its merits. in most cases, divorce could be deemed selfish especially when there are kids involved. why should the kids suffer just because the so called adults can't sort themselves out? 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 9:43pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Adaeze003: Your post is all over the place. What, exactly, is your point? 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 9:46pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: her point is - we should all encourage her to file for the divorce cos she has been maltreated. adaeze is on fire! |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 9:48pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Adaeze003: True. Women knowing that they will get divorced if caught cheating will make a woman less likely to want to cheat. Until Nigerian women make the same stand, men will keep cheating on them as they wish. 7 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 9:53pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Has this knowledge stopped or even reduced cheating in the other countries not named Nigeria? On this forum it seems Nigeria is the worst place ever on earth 6 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 9:54pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar: I was the first person to encourage that so give me my credits I think a divorce tonight would be the best option. There should be a website that can even process the divorce for a small convenience fee. Or you can call 3-1-1 and do the divorce over the phone's IVR voice prompt. For divorce press 1, Child support press 2, Other options press 3 She said its a miracle she didnt harm him throughout the night. how do you know spending another night together wont make her do the unthinkable? Divorce tonight abeg before it turns to something else nevanevaland: 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 9:55pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar: Hehehe. Ada, you go tey for dat one o. Who no sabi say I be misogynist? 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 9:58pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: I wonder what you'll think of your present self when you stay in the west for 6months. smh 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 9:59pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: tonight tonight? i was about to suggest they call on family elders to deliberate on the matter before going to court. it seems i am too archaic for the 21st century marital union.
bwahahahaha fast track divorce process. Timbuktou: 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by nasha1(f): 10:01pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Some women on this forum are forever bitter.U will never find them in any constructive discussions,only when it is about divorce,separation nd men haters.those are men eaters i call them. 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 10:01pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: When people know the consequences of their action, they think twice before engaging in it. 4 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 10:02pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Gabriel go get your visa to the west you so want to go yet pretend to hate. 4 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:03pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar:Family ke? Would you want your family to attempt placating a woman this cold? Abet, the guy is safer away from her. Otapiapia dey kill o, no be play. I'm sorry, I had to let it off my chest. 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:04pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Ramota, I don't hate the west, I only love Nigeria more. 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:06pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Like the long line of Nigerians desperate to die by the hands of Asian governments through drug trafficking? 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 10:08pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Has the grave consequence of divorce in those countries not named Nigeria stopped cheating in those countries? Did it even stop the President of the US Mr Bill Clinton from it? But I am sure if Clinton was a Nigerian all hell would have been let loose on how Nigeria is cursed 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 10:08pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: you are correct! she has the swag of a cold-blooded killer.
the truth shall set you free. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 10:10pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
nasha1: That is why I told them to go do it. From now on, I would be the greatest advocate of divorce. If your husband snores divorce him if he sneezes on the dining table divorce him At least it would bring peace and quiet to this forum and we would stop hearing how terrible Nigerian men and Nigerian laws are. Who are just victimizing the angels called naija women 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 10:12pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: I don't think it will stop cheating. What I do know is that it will reduce the number of men who cheat on their wife. When he cheated, it was not seen as normal. Is that the case in our country? |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 10:13pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar: Why should family deliberate on it? So we can have another opportunity to bash Nigerian elders as the worst on the planet again. Divorce is very easy 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 10:14pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: wetin be consequence when there's a correct fellatïo waiting in line? raumdeuter: Timbuktou: ok fellas.... what about the church elders if you say family members are not credible enough? Indeed, I feel liberated already MINT!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:15pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar:I dey tell you. Any family member that begs this woman does not love the guy. Probably a neglected uncle the truth shall set you free.Indeed, I feel liberated already |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:18pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Ok, so you don't really want to stop men cheating, you only want the general public to see it as not normal? Ever heard of Italy, or you think US and UK are the only two countries outside Nigeria? 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by bukatyne(f): 10:19pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Interesting thread. OP, do What you feel is best for you. Bellong, TV01, etc. your opinion is needed on this thread. I have my reasons. 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 10:24pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Read the post again. Realistically, it's almost impossible to have 0% infidelity even the countries where people are stoned for infidelity still have those who will still cheat. However, a situation where men cheat so much that some think it's their right and with no consequences will have a higher percentage compared to where it is not acceptable and with consequences. 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 10:25pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: What did he lose after the claims? Nothing I can give you several top men politicians in the US who have been caught cheating despite knowing the grave consequence and NOTHING ZILCH happened This example would interest you Scott DesJailais a congressman from tenessee Slept with several of his coworkers, slept with his patients, wrote false prescription for mistresses to get drugs What has happened to him? Nothing He is still in Congress till now I can give you 20names off the top of my head of top politicians in the US not Nigeria, the people that have the most to lose yet have lost nothing never mind celebrities like Kobe, Schwazerrneger etc 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 10:26pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: it won't..... stop kidding yourself! even in countries where men stand to lose close to 70% of their net worth, infidelity still persists.
it was seen as very normal. if it was hilary that cheated on bill clinton, they would have separated. 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:27pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar: Guy, I'm beginning to suspect you in this matter. Something tells me OP is your sister or you just hate her husband naturally. |
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