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Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 10:28pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Are you sure about your stats? because In the US for example it didnt change anything. politicians, Athletes celebrities despite these knowledge still cheat on the same level with Nigerians 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: The only consequence appropriate for infidelity is the termination of the relationship by the aggrieved party. Any other measure is just sour grapes and an entitlement mentality speaking. Your husband fvcks around, leave him. Remove your greedy eyes from his assets if you didnt help him make it directly. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 10:31pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: i dunno the OP from adam. however, her story touched me. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 10:34pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Well said BTW while we are wasting time I have found some useful resources Divorce online is fast and easy You see in 20mins time, max 30mins to allow for computer boot up and slow internet. the divorce is complete and OP is free to live her peaceful life and be free from those species called men for life 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 10:34pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar: Like I said, it won't reduce infidelity to 0% but would reduce it and yes it did reduce the number of cheating men. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Ewuro4: 10:36pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Hehehe oh boy |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 10:39pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: How did you know they cheated at the same level as Nigerians? |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 10:41pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: how many accounts were found on the ashley madison website? how come the owners of these accounts didn't care about the consequences? you are having a laugh..... |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by freecocoa(f): 10:41pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Na wa o, a son under one and he's sleeping this much around? Surely OP you did know this nigga is a dog. 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:41pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4:Happy new month grandma. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 10:42pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: So we agree that it is appropriate for a cheating partner to be divorced. I am trying to see where the the entitlement issue came into this discussion. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:43pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: I hope her friends can call her attention to it to help her speed up her freedom from the shackles of a Nigerian marriage. coogar:
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Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 10:43pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Because I lived in both societies. The only difference is that they dont marry the other women legally like in the case of Nigeria that allows Polygamy 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 10:44pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: I have lived in both societies and don't agree with you on that. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:45pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: I'm seeing people advocate her not leaving empty-handed. She should leave with not more than she came with. 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:46pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl:In your opinion, who cheats more? |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by dinachi(m): 10:47pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
queenfav:I am just pissed with people who think that marriage is just for fun.And no female relative of mine dare broach so topics with me! You claim you saw incriminating chat on his phone, you have not even discussed it with him the next thing is to come to nairaland and threaten divorce. She prefers strangers on nairaland to the man she once loved. Honestly, the Op is extremely silly! 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:47pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar: Only Nigerian were on Ashley Madison. Where's Pickabeau1, our AM correspondent to "shade" more light on this dynamic? |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 10:48pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar: There are some people that would never care about the consequences. The consequences for armed robbery in Nigeria is death yet we still have armed robbers. Would we as a nation now decide not to punish armed robbers because it has not stopped people from becoming armed robbers? |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:49pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4:Don't tell me you didn't suspect a thing. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 10:50pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: you are female and how many men would sit you down to discuss their escapades with you? Would you expect John to sit you down and say "Hey babygirlfl, I'm seeing another woman" just like no woman would confide in me a guy that she's cheating Statistically over 50% of marriages end in divorce. In most of these divorce cases the partners have already started seeing other women while the marriage was on. Another 25% are still in marriages and are actively having affairs. Check Ashley madison for example The only difference is they dont marry them legally unlike Nigerian where in some places polygamy is practiced |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 10:52pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Using your example, Armed robbery. Nigeria would lynch them instantly when caught, America wont even kill them rather they put them in jail where they are given awesome meal and might even be eligible for parole So i ask despite the consequence stiffer in nigeria than in US, which country is robbery more prevalent? 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:52pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: So, what punishment do you propose for cheaters na? We want to sleep abeg. Tell us what you want let's call Ben Bruce in the morning na. 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by freecocoa(f): 10:52pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
coogar:Please answer me this one thing if you will, does this woman not have a right to feel the way she's feeling? 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Ewuro4: 10:53pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Nothing, Ayam innocent FriedPlantain: Thank you booboo... Dodo help me up jare.. I heard a crack |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 10:54pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl: apples & oranges, mate! robbery is a crime, infidelity isn't...... thanks to feminists like yourself that advocated a woman has the rights to do whatever she feels with her body......those rights also include shägging another woman's husband. besides, your point is way off the mark. we were not arguing about punishment. all we said was that the consequences do not deter people from engaging in infidelity especially in the west. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:55pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4:Hehehe. Plausible deniability, eh? |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Adaeze003(f): 10:55pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Yeah I know... I lost my cool for a bit was just irritated by the mockery... My point is, you don't have to be a woman to relate or identify with feminine problems. Just treat them as other "human" problems. Got that part? If yes, proceed to the next. Equality in marriage or no equality, no body should be ridiculed for wanting out of a disrespectful union. Do you understand me now?? |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by freecocoa(f): 10:57pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
dinachi:Do you even consider the fact that the OP is distraught? You talk like she's supposed to be cool finding out such. 4 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 10:58pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: she does.... however, she made the mistake of putting the cart before the horse. the first step is to discuss the matter with her partner & see what he has to say to defend the accusation. 24 hours after discovering her hubby is seeing other chics, she ran to NL for advice after making up her mind to seek divorce without even letting her other half know what's up. is that how it's done in our village, madam cocoa? 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:59pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Adaeze003: Aww, I feel like a toddler again. *coo* Thanks for the "painstaking" explanation. But I still dont understand, but I'll attempt an answer. She should use her brain and handle this matter like the adult she thinks she is. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by babygirlfl: 11:00pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: So should we then let them go free? |
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