babygirlfl:


Read the post again. Realistically, it's almost impossible to have 0% infidelity even the countries where people are stoned for infidelity still have those who will still cheat. However, a situation where men cheat so much that some think it's their right and with no consequences will have a higher percentage compared to where it is not acceptable and with consequences.

babygirlfl:


Read the post again. Realistically, it's almost impossible to have 0% infidelity even the countries where people are stoned for infidelity still have those who will still cheat. However, a situation where men cheat so much that some think it's their right and with no consequences will have a higher percentage compared to where it is not acceptable and with consequences.

Timbuktou:


Guy, I'm beginning to suspect you in this matter. Something tells me OP is your sister or you just hate her husband naturally.

Timbuktou:
I dey tell you. Any family member that begs this woman does not love the guy. Probably a neglected uncle

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coogar:


it won't.....
stop kidding yourself! even in countries where men stand to lose close to 70% of their net worth, infidelity still persists.



it was seen as very normal.
if it was hilary that cheated on bill clinton, they would have separated.

Timbuktou:


Hehehe. Ada, you go tey for dat one o. Who no sabi say I be misogynist?

raumdeuter:


Are you sure about your stats? because In the US for example it didnt change anything. politicians, Athletes celebrities despite these knowledge still cheat on the same level with Nigerians

babygirlfl:


Like I said, it won't reduce infidelity to 0% but would reduce it and yes it did reduce the number of cheating men.

Ewuro4:


Hehehe oh boy

Happy new month grandma.

Timbuktou:


The only consequence appropriate for infidelity is the termination of the relationship by the aggrieved party. Any other measure is just sour grapes and an entitlement mentality speaking. Your husband fvcks around, leave him. Remove your greedy eyes from his assets if you didnt help him make it directly.

raumdeuter:


Well said

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You see in 20mins time, max 30mins to allow for computer boot up and slow internet. the divorce is complete and OP is free to live her peaceful life and be free from those species called men for life

coogar:


i dunno the OP from adam.
however, her story touched me.

babygirlfl:


How did you know they cheated at the same level as Nigerians?

raumdeuter:


Because I lived in both societies

babygirlfl:


So we agree that it is appropriate for a cheating partner to be divorced. I am trying to see where the the entitlement issue came into this discussion.

babygirlfl:


How did you know they cheated at the same level as Nigerians?

queenfav:
haba,this is way too mean!She is going through a rough time here,try to be more humane.There's absolutely no need for the name calling.Would you say this to your female relative going through a similar situation?The anonymity of nairaland shouldn't turn you into a verbally abusive person.

coogar:


how many accounts were found on the ashley madison website? how come the owners of these accounts didn't care about the consequences?

you are having a laugh.....

coogar:


how many accounts were found on the ashley madison website? how come the owners of these accounts didn't care about the consequences?

you are having a laugh.....

Ewuro4:

Hehehe oh boy

babygirlfl:
I have lived in both societies and don't agree with you on that.

babygirlfl:


There are some people that would never care about the consequences. The consequences for armed robbery in Nigeria is death yet we still have armed robbers. Would we as a nation now decide not to punish armed robbers because it has not stopped people from becoming armed robbers?

babygirlfl:


There are some people that would never care about the consequences. The consequences for armed robbery in Nigeria is death yet we still have armed robbers. Would we as a nation now decide not to punish armed robbers because it has not stopped people from becoming armed robbers?

coogar:


you are correct!
she has the swag of a cold-blooded killer.



the truth shall set you free.

Timbuktou:


Don't tell me you didn't suspect a thing.

FriedPlantain:
Happy new month grandma.

babygirlfl:


There are some people that would never care about the consequences. The consequences for armed robbery in Nigeria is death yet we still have armed robbers. Would we as a nation now decide not to punish armed robbers because it has not stopped people from becoming armed robbers?

Ewuro4:

Nothing, Ayam innocent

Timbuktou:


Your post is all over the place. What, exactly, is your point?

dinachi:

I am just pissed with people who think that marriage is just for fun.And no female relative of mine dare broach so topics with me! You claim you saw incriminating chat on his phone, you have not even discussed it with him the next thing is to come to nairaland and threaten divorce. She prefers strangers on nairaland to the man she once loved. Honestly, the Op is extremely silly!

freecocoa:
Please answer me this one thing if you will, does this woman not have a right to feel the way she's feeling?

Adaeze003:


Yeah I know... I lost my cool for a bit was just irritated by the mockery...

My point is, you don't have to be a woman to relate or identify with feminine problems. Just treat them as other "human" problems. Got that part? If yes, proceed to the next.

Equality in marriage or no equality, no body should be ridiculed for wanting out of a disrespectful union. Do you understand me now??

raumdeuter:


Using your example, Armed robbery. Nigeria would lynch them instantly when caught, America wont even kill them rather they put them in jail where they are given awesome meal and might even be eligible for parole

So i ask despite the consequence stiffer in nigeria than in US, which country is robbery more prevalent?