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My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by dre11(op): 7:44am On Nov 05, 2015

Dear Bunmi,
I know I get on well with my boyfriend’s family. We’ve been an item for a few years now, but at a recent party, his dad tried to kiss me after giving me a playful smack on the bum. We’d all had too much to drink but I told my boyfriend about it right away. In the morning, I didn’t make an issue of it as it looked as if both father and son had forgotten about the incident.

Thinking it was a one-off, I put it all behind me but sometime later, he made another pass at me. This time, we were both sober and I was indignant. He apologized and promised it would never happen again. I was stunned by his behaviour to say the least. I know I should have mentioned it to my boyfriend but I was too shocked to think straight. How should I handle this?

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by naijaboiy: 7:53am On Nov 05, 2015

[color=#1980BC]Errrmmm....you have to keep telling your boyfriend o.

Also tell him that you may have to stop coming to his house if the sexual harassment continues.

What type of Dad does that anyway? [/color]

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by ijustdey: 8:00am On Nov 05, 2015

your man's dad want to have a share of what his son have.......

#player's code

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 8:00am On Nov 05, 2015

That man is a he-goat

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Mutuwa(m): 8:02am On Nov 05, 2015*

then you will die in silence.
please learn to open up especially in contentious matters.

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by naijaboiy: 8:04am On Nov 05, 2015

Oyind17:
That man is an a he-goat

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by falconey(m): 8:05am On Nov 05, 2015

BABA still inform

These old men refuse to retire.

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 8:06am On Nov 05, 2015

naijaboiy:

na im make u keep face like that

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by dammytosh: 8:06am On Nov 05, 2015*

Picture of the bum & your 'Man's Dad's' hand on it or we don bilif it.

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by naijaboiy: 8:09am On Nov 05, 2015

Oyind17:
na im make u keep face like that

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 8:12am On Nov 05, 2015

naijaboiy:

Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Islie: 8:18am On Nov 05, 2015

the girl/lady seems to like the attention she is getting from her bf dad....

because she can't tell me she doesn't know what to do huh

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 8:20am On Nov 05, 2015*

And You didn't smack His?? undecided

like seriously? lipsrsealed

******Would've done mine Almost Immediately... cry

*****No one smacks my Precious/Amazing Bum and goes Scott-free... " grin

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Islie: 8:20am On Nov 05, 2015

Oyind17:
That man is a he-goat

and who told you that it wasn't the lady that made passes at the old man and he just reciprocating her gesture......

only for her to start complaining undecided

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 8:23am On Nov 05, 2015*

Islie:
and who told you that it wasn't the lady that made passes at the old man and he just reciprocating her gesture......
only for her to start complaining

whatever! the man is a he goat that can't control himself.

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by naijaboiy: 8:25am On Nov 05, 2015

Oyind17:

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 8:34am On Nov 05, 2015

naijaboiy:

I dey vex for u sha

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by BlackrulesDworld(m): 8:37am On Nov 05, 2015

Super story.

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Islie: 8:55am On Nov 05, 2015

Oyind17:
whatever the man is a he goat that can't control himself.

the man is a goat....... I try to agree the lady is a she-goat also.....this I stand

lalasticlala do you feel this moniker was right about this man

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Laveda(f): 9:01am On Nov 05, 2015

Estharfabian:
And You didn't smack His?? like seriously?

******Would've done mine Almost Immediately...

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 9:03am On Nov 05, 2015

Laveda:

" No one smacks my Butt and Goes scot-free.... undecided

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 9:15am On Nov 05, 2015*

I Would have slapped the shiit out of him.
Its sexual harassment

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 9:15am On Nov 05, 2015

Islie:
the man is a goat....... I try to agree the lady is a she-goat also.....this I stand
lalasticlala do you feel this moniker was right about this man

The lady is a good and respectful Lady for not insulting him

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by naijaboiy: 9:16am On Nov 05, 2015

Oyind17:
I dey vex for u sha

[color=#1980BC]Wetin I do na? [/color]

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 9:27am On Nov 05, 2015

None of them are serious. The Dad for being a heinous pervert (although that's pretty much a given with most Nigerian men), the boyfriend for not doing anything about it the first time and the girl for sweeping it under the rug 'thinking it was a one-off' lol

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Islie: 9:39am On Nov 05, 2015

Oyind17:
The lady is a good and respectful Lady for not insulting him

such things like this....... she supposed to have insulted him, disgrace him or slapped him if possible

the man lost his respect the moment he start making passes at his sons intending wife.

that's why I still stand on my former premise

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by Nobody: 9:53am On Nov 05, 2015*

Estharfabian:
And You didn't smack His?? like seriously?

******Would've done mine Almost Immediately...

then it would turn to dirty play undecided

na so rough play dey take start

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by wristbangle: 9:57am On Nov 05, 2015

It's better you keep off from going to your boyfriend parents house else one day his dad will eventually rape and put the blame on u.

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Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by damton(m): 9:58am On Nov 05, 2015

Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by MadCow1: 9:58am On Nov 05, 2015

nice

Re: My Man’s Dad Smacked My Bum by 69MissedCalls(m): 9:58am On Nov 05, 2015

lol. police won't take u seriously until u have been raped

Michellla:
'd get in his face and threaten him with calling the police for sexual assault if he dosen't keep his grimmy filthy hands off you!!

slap his bum back? then u are flirting na!..

Estharfabian:
And You didn't smack His?? like seriously?
******Would've done mine Almost Immediately...
*****No one smacks my Bum and go Scott-free...""

Op, if he slap you again give am blow for eye undecided

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