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I'll say none, they should focus on God instead and these things will be added

No money, No marriage!!!

elantraceey:
I'll say none, they should focus on God instead and these things will be added

This the problem most religious minded people face, they keep on focusing on an imaginary being without working and expecting extraordinary miracles to happen.

No success without sweat. Work, labour, focus on developing yourself and all other things will be added unto you.

BlackrulesDworld:
This the problem most religious minded people face, they keep on focusing on an imaginary being without working and expecting extraordinary miracle to happen.

No success without sweet. Work, labour, focus on developing yourself and all other things will be added unto you.

The problem with you unreligious minded people is that you guys focus so much on yourself and 'hard' work that you forget the whole essense of life and the joy and peace life brings , its simplicity and all, you forget that you are not any better than those who'll die everyday and sooner or later you're going to die too and all you've worked 'hard' for will be enjoyed by someone else you might not even know.

Trust me I'm not against working hard because I work hard myself and I strive to achieve my dreams not for just myself but for those God wants to bless through me but I won't place it above God.

elantraceey:
The problem with you unreligious minded people is that you guys focus so much on yourself and 'hard' work that you forget the whole essense of life and the joy and peace life brings , its simplicity and all, you forget that you are not any better than those who'll die everyday and sooner or later you're going to die too and all you've worked 'hard' for will be enjoyed by someone else you might not even know.

Trust me I'm not against working hard because I work hard myself and I strive to achieve my dreams not for just myself but for those God wants to bless through me but I won't place it above God.

did you actually understood what he meant there?

How do you propose to lead, control and take care of your home/family without being financially buoyant? I'm unto paper chase.

coolzeal:
How do you propose to lead, control and take care of your home/family without being financially buoyant? I'm unto paper chase.

hmmm! Forget that, because trust me, from where I am standing, experience has thought me, that a man don't have to be rich, not even with 1 kobo, to control and take care of his family, when your woman is able to set you up...life makes more sense when it has 2heads involved...I have seen where the woman is the breadwinner and she allows the man take charge completely, the guy sef, no finish secondary school, but he is in control....

frakdon:
hmmm! Forget that, because trust me, from where I am standing, experience has thought me, that a man don't have to be rich, not even with 1 kobo, to control and take care of his family, when your woman is able to set you up...life makes more sense when it has 2heads involved...I have seen where the woman is the breadwinner and she allows the man take charge completely, the guy sef, no finish secondary school, but he is in control....

Lucky him and how many women can attest to that? Where i come from, the man does the hustlin to cater for his family and it's only a bonus if the woman is richer. Am not saying he should be super rich.

coolzeal:
Lucky him and how many women can attest to that? Where i come from, the man does the hustlin to cater for his family and it's only a bonus if the woman is richer. Am not saying he should be super rich.

yeah, the problem is that, some modern ladies, are so naïve and lacks patience to life issues, and believe you me, he is truly lucky, because the guy had nothing, not even a rented room of his........well, God will help us all, that I believe...

frakdon:
yeah, the problem is that, some modern ladies, are so naïve and lacks patience to life issues, and believe you me, he is truly lucky, because the guy had nothing, not even a rented room of his........well, God will help us all, that I believe...

Perhaps, his own destiny but my destiny is to compete and become successful on my own without a woman or whatsoever.

marriage of course

Money first; marriage wil follow. U can't start up a family with an empty pocket. Pity d kids u shall have; money wil give dem a good start to life

Pls make money first and plan on it before marriage pls

coolzeal:
Perhaps, his own destiny but my destiny is to compete and become successful on my own without a woman or whatsoever.

I hear you, but are you aware that, the making of bro Joe was meeting mama peace, so you don't know Who might be the good Samaritan,you need to make it in life, man or woman...just pray that God show you the way to your destiny...

defendedvictim:
Money first; marriage wil follow. U can't start up a family with an empty pocket. Pity d kids u shall have; money wil give dem a good start to life

if you think that marriage is all about making kids, then you got it wrong, trust me......

frakdon:
I hear you, but are you aware that, the making of bro Joe was meeting mama peace, so you don't know Who might be the good Samaritan,you need to make it in life, man or woman...just pray that God show you the way to your destiny...

Forgive my ignorance, but I don't think I've ever met a woman that want to make a man become successful in Nigeria except she is standing by him during the struggle.

coolzeal:
Forgive my ignorance, but I don't think I've ever met a woman that want to make a man become successful in Nigeria except she is standing by him during the struggle.

there are some of them out there, I have seen 2 or 3 of them....

frakdon:
if you think that marriage is all about making kids, then you got it wrong, trust me......

not really sir. Buh kids r essential parts of it