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| Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by misspicy(op): 6:51pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
i just came across this thread and i feel so heartbroken www.nairaland.com/2721971/prettyhausagirl-fake/9 Nigerian youths for how long will you keep living in self denial and low self esteem why will you want to be someone else when God created ypu unique and excellent with no one else like you.... is it depression?why not tell yourself you can be unique and excellent what do you think you don't have? is it money? beauty? cars? etc why can't you be patient and let your time come? life is an express road people with different types of car,some are fast,slow,dirty,faulty,rickety,brandnew etc but we are all going to a destination....some people will die on that road,some will get incalpacitated,some will get roughened up,but at the end some will get to their destination,maybe faster than the rest even this worldly things we are all after we all know they will be out of vogue someday. we all remember the reign of blackberry,gosh the first blackberry i saw was javelin and oh boy was it marvelous in my sight,please who will boldly hold javelin for hand today?it was my classmate that brought it to school and the guy was like superstar to us all then....now blackberry has become something that almost everyone can buy two with a month's salary without stress...the quest for this same blackberry killed alot of girls and guys then.... please please i employ you all if you were born into a humble family accept your fate and try to make things better for yourself don't clamour to be like the rich,if you are created not too good looking accept the way you are and people will respect you,if you are handicapped or disabled be grateful you have life alot of people are six feet under..... prettyhausagirl and her likes accept your destiny and be happy may God give you the grace change the things you can and accept the things you cannot please stop spending money to make it look like you have money *sorry i got emotional just there,it was a situation that calls for pity and tears*naijaboiy please pass me the hanky 1 Like |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by BIGkoboko: 6:52pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
 Nice one buh this would have been cool if you had a dairy.. or better still post on an already existing thread. |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by vizkiz: 6:54pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
since the time Nneka123, VictoriaB and some other female monikers were busted, I made up my mind not to take female monikers on nairaland serious again. Who knows even if the op herself is fake  |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by Nobody: 6:58pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
its a lot more difficult than people think to accept yourself for who you are... |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by misspicy(op): 6:59pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
BIGkoboko:i wanted to post on that thread but the thread is far gone before i saw it...i just had to pour out my feelings,it got so mixed up and i had to let out and cry |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by Nobody: 7:01pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Yea....and dis lack of self esteem stuff is so so common among the ladies..... Accept urself for who yu truly are.... For pple to love yu,u av to love urself first. |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by BIGkoboko: 7:02pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
misspicy:oh sorry Dont cry again you hear? |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by misspicy(op): 7:02pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
vizkiz:yeah you are right,it makes one become suspicious,heck i have been accused too but thank God i got to make some friends offline,so accusations don't bother me,yes i know some people will say its a faceless forum yes it is why den do u need to create an imaginery character for yourself,be yoursef because its a faceless forum,no one knows you,heck i could be dangote's daughter and you wouldnt know even if i tell you you might not believe... |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by misspicy(op): 7:04pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
YourMain:yes it is,inshort if one is not courageous it will destroy one...that is why one needs to rise above it all and make onesef proud by being that unique being you are.... |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by vizkiz: 7:05pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
misspicy:please answer this question carefully and "clearlinly" Are you dangote 's daughter ?  1 Like |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by Tallesty1(m): 7:05pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
vizkiz:VictoriaB? |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by damilareoye: 7:05pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Nothing here on NL is to be taking serious, except for you to come here and have fun. transgender many here and yes, appreciate yourself for who you are. let people love you for who you truly are and not what you are not. |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by Tallesty1(m): 7:08pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Harbosede02:You are right. It is impossible for people to love you when you don't love yourself. This often causes problems in our relationships too. Your partner cannot love you for who you are when you became someone else to be with them. 1 Like |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by vizkiz: 7:08pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1:I probably got the spelling wrong. But yeah... I think  |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by IamLEGEND1: 7:09pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
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| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by bronzegoddess(f): 7:10pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
I don't think it has so much to do with low self esteem |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by Tallesty1(m): 7:13pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
vizkiz:She's male? |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by misspicy(op): 7:13pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
vizkiz:NO |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by misspicy(op): 7:14pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
bronzegoddess:so what do you think it has to do with? |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by vizkiz: 7:14pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by misspicy(op): 7:15pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
BIGkoboko:okay |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by bronzegoddess(f): 7:17pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
misspicy:Every one has their own escape route when they are depressed or under pressure..... Maybe that's their's |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by Tallesty1(m): 7:17pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
vizkiz:Abeg enlighten me oga@Naijaboiy. Even Nneka123.........? Nawa oo |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by vizkiz: 7:19pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1:lol, be like say e Don tey whey you come here last |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by falconey(m): 7:21pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
this should be interesting |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by Tallesty1(m): 7:21pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
vizkiz:Yea... Allotta things are keeping me busy offline. |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by vizkiz: 7:24pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1:just remember the name vizkiz in thy Kingdom when you finally hammer |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by asvpChuu(m): 7:25pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
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| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by Tallesty1(m): 7:29pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
vizkiz:He will hammer mightily too |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by ClassCaptain(m): 7:43pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Watch out for " How I Scammed a Scammer ".A story that deals with fake online personalities and consequences that are attached at d long run |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by misspicy(op): 7:51pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
ClassCaptain:your personal story? |
| Re: Be Yourself Or Be A Shadow Of Who You Want To Be by ClassCaptain(m): 7:55pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
misspicy:No.Fiction but highly relatable .am a Writer. |
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