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Re: Are you a Side Chic? by Johnnoah1st: 2:58pm On Nov 09, 2015

@RAAYAH, hahahahahahaha, she don do side chics sotey he knw the in and out of it, dat wats u get when a senseless girl meet a sharp guy.

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Nov 09, 2015

Johnnoah1st:
guy, when are u going to get sense? they take woman swear 4 u?, ur brain need be rewired oo, so many disconneted plugs in it, maybe u should just visit the nearest panel beaters.

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by osazeeblue01: 3:05pm On Nov 09, 2015

If u want to catch ur bf don't allow him to be calling u pets names let him be calling u by ur name thats if u want to knw ur stand.

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by onstelly(f): 3:10pm On Nov 09, 2015

STFUareyouGod:
can I derail with you?

Hmmm lemme think about that kiss

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by Johnnoah1st: 3:20pm On Nov 09, 2015

STFUareyouGod:
ok

DATS MY GUD BOY, he always listen to my advice.

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Nov 09, 2015

onstelly:
Hmmm lemme think about that

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by Nobody: 3:22pm On Nov 09, 2015

Johnnoah1st:
DATS MY GUD BOY, he always listen to my advice.

I don't give attn to trolls. #BATM

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by Johnnoah1st: 3:27pm On Nov 09, 2015

LAVEDA

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by mokane28: 3:28pm On Nov 09, 2015

Okadigbo

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by MrCork: 4:02pm On Nov 09, 2015

onstelly:
What's with you and light skin

...ok..so whos the preeety 70% lightskin female in yor picture profile who looklike ice cream?.....she loooklike one of ma jamaican lovelys hear in pekam!!(true story)

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by onstelly(f): 6:13pm On Nov 09, 2015

MrCork:
...ok..so whos the preeety 70% lightskin female in yor picture profile who looklike ice cream?.....she loooklike one of ma jamaican lovelys hear in pekam!!(true story)

Person no go fit vex for u I swear

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by onstelly(f): 6:15pm On Nov 09, 2015

STFUareyouGod:

Lol

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by MrCork: 6:21pm On Nov 09, 2015

onstelly:
Person no go fit vex for u I swear

..sweery u kinda fine.. 4real..when are we gooono mate?

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Nov 09, 2015

onstelly:
Lol

how have I not seen you before tho?

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by PrettyClare7(f): 7:43pm On Nov 09, 2015

ifISLAPYOU:
this aint my new account ooo.... No new person on Nl comes up wif moniker lyk dis...... If u dnt mind i did drop my watsapp number lets discuss....

where is the number

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by ifISLAPYOU(f): 7:59pm On Nov 09, 2015

PrettyClare7:
where is the number

hv u seen it

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by PrettyClare7(f): 8:10pm On Nov 09, 2015

ifISLAPYOU:
hv u seen it

add me on whatsap with the number on my signature

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Nov 09, 2015

raayah:
Are you a side chick? Not sure ?? I'll give you hints.

1.You know that he is having sex or romantic relations with other women.

2.He doesn’t spend the main holidays, such as Christmas with you.

3.He doesn’t invite you over to meet his parents, because he knows that your relationship will be temporary at best.

4.You don’t spend a lot of time hanging out with his close friends (for the same reasons).

5.He visits you at odd hours, and mainly for sex.

6.He only calls you by pet names, such as “bunny,” “baby,” etc. because he doesn’t want to call you by some other woman’s name by accident.

7.You find yourself putting more energy into the relationship than he does.

If the above mentioned points remind you of your relationship, then YES, YOU ARE A SIDE CHICK!.

BUT I'M HAPPY, I LIKE OUR ARRANGEMENT!

[size=18pt]NO![/size]

Sex with someone you are attracted to is like a drug, and the more hits you take, the more you want. And once that drug disappears from your life, you find yourself feeling bitter, empty, you raise up your emotional walls, and you have a harder time emotionally connecting for fear that your next boo will leave you stranded like the previous ones. You dig a hole for yourself.

If you get pregnant, your fuckbuddy is not going to be there for you.

He won't commit to you whether you believe it or not. if a guy made you his Bleep buddy in the first place, chances are he did that BECAUSE he doesn’t see a long-term relationship working out with you , and BECAUSE he doesn’t intend for the current relationship to really go anywhere aside from the casual sex.

HOW DO I GET OUT OF THIS MESS?

1. Be honest with yourself. What are you flaws? Why are you getting guys that are not committing. Look deep within and make changes.

2. What do YOU bring to the table? Will you bring value to your relationship once your looks fade? Once you’re no longer sexy?

3. Be physically AND mentally faithful.

4.Maintain your appearance. Even though looks aren’t everything – looks certainly are something.

5. Have standards. Take your time to look for a man who appreciate you. Don't jump on every dickk.

What a lovely article! I would have employed you as dating expert if I had the means to.

All of these above is obviously true. But sometimes, you have to view a chick properly before introducing her to your family, otherwise she would ruin you.

Some women cannot really figure out the kind of man they want to settle down with and so, they lose focus. Indeed, women are confused.

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Re: Are you a Side Chic? by onstelly(f): 7:37am On Nov 10, 2015

STFUareyouGod:
how have I not seen you before tho?

hmmm me too I haven't seen u too

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by babatundeizbad(m): 7:53am On Nov 11, 2015

This is a beautiful piece. Even though am a guy, I totally can relate to this, especially the casual sex part.
Most girls are ignorant of the fact that the men or guys are very sexual beings and most of the time when we get attracted to the opposite sex it is usually "sexual attraction" and that's the reason why we do and say anything and everything necessary for you to open your legs.
So your job as a girl in this "men's world" is to be wary of us, be careful who you date and always evaluate your relationship.
And lastly, don't be too quick to open your legs for any guy, no matter how attracted you are to him, if you can do this well you'll filter at least 50% of the bad guys.

PS: :There are really no bad guys out there, only guys who are discovering and exploring there own sexuality. Your job is to meet the right guy the right way. And also BE THE RIGHT WOMAN

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by Nobody: 8:21am On Nov 11, 2015

#soberReflection

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by frankcris(m): 1:54pm On Nov 12, 2015

raayah:
Are you a side chick? Not sure ?? I'll give you hints.

1.You know that he is having sex or romantic relations with other women.

2.He doesn’t spend the main holidays, such as Christmas with you.

3.He doesn’t invite you over to meet his parents, because he knows that your relationship will be temporary at best.

4.You don’t spend a lot of time hanging out with his close friends (for the same reasons).

5.He visits you at odd hours, and mainly for sex.

6.He only calls you by pet names, such as “bunny,” “baby,” etc. because he doesn’t want to call you by some other woman’s name by accident.

7.You find yourself putting more energy into the relationship than he does.

If the above mentioned points remind you of your relationship, then YES, YOU ARE A SIDE CHICK!.

BUT I'M HAPPY, I LIKE OUR ARRANGEMENT!

[size=18pt]NO![/size]

Sex with someone you are attracted to is like a drug, and the more hits you take, the more you want. And once that drug disappears from your life, you find yourself feeling bitter, empty, you raise up your emotional walls, and you have a harder time emotionally connecting for fear that your next boo will leave you stranded like the previous ones. You dig a hole for yourself.

If you get pregnant, your fuckbuddy is not going to be there for you.

He won't commit to you whether you believe it or not. if a guy made you his Bleep buddy in the first place, chances are he did that BECAUSE he doesn’t see a long-term relationship working out with you , and BECAUSE he doesn’t intend for the current relationship to really go anywhere aside from the casual sex.

HOW DO I GET OUT OF THIS MESS?

1. Be honest with yourself. What are you flaws? Why are you getting guys that are not committing. Look deep within and make changes.

2. What do YOU bring to the table? Will you bring value to your relationship once your looks fade? Once you’re no longer sexy?

3. Be physically AND mentally faithful.

4.Maintain your appearance. Even though looks aren’t everything – looks certainly are something.

5. Have standards. Take your time to look for a man who appreciate you. Don't jump on every dickk.

sorry, is ur name uchee?

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by Nobody: 11:05am On Nov 19, 2015

emperorchedda:
Some girls intentionally wanna be side chicks

As for me, I don't have a problem being a side nigga so far I'm getting the pvssy

Hmmm... This post will be used against you in the future

Re: Are you a Side Chic? by MrCork: 7:08pm On Feb 17, 2016

onstelly:
Yes I was Mr Cork side chick!

[size=16pt].....huh?...WHEN??... WHICH YEAR?[/size] undecided

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