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Should I Ask Him Out? by JustOzito(op):
Hello everyone, pls I need advice. A course mate of mine have been disturbing me about a guy she has a crush on. She claims that she has caught dis guy staring at her on several occasions but weneva their eyes meet, he'll turn away. He smiles and always hold her hand wherever he sees her. We ar in our final year but she still thinks dis guy loves her. Currently she's not in a relationship because she feels it may b cheating on her crush. She ceases every opportunity to talk about dis guy. Pls note dat he's in d same school and faculty with her.
Am tired but I don't know if I should tell her to ask the guy out .
Lalasticala
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by olumide81(m): 3:27pm On Nov 13, 2015
Do waht makes you happy....you ve got just one life my dear, use it judiciously
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Wisekid0001(m): 3:28pm On Nov 13, 2015
There is no big Deal in asking a guy out. Mhen, this is 21st Century
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Nov 13, 2015
"Rummies"?
When Nairaland turn to Your hostel Room Biko?
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Nobody: 3:30pm On Nov 13, 2015
Everything dem go carry am come NL..

Even call Lala sef undecided
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by ideyhere(f): 3:31pm On Nov 13, 2015
She shouldn't bother. There's most probably no future in whatever it is they can have...and since she's already in her finals, its best to leave it at crush, graduate and move on with life
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Laveda(f): 3:32pm On Nov 13, 2015
Asking him out? I don't buy that idea....just. Give him that grren light, make it a bit obvious you like him....whenever he holds your hands....smile like you just won lottery grin ......do what ever you know can get that guy...don't allow another lady take him grin

Don't dull tongue
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Jibwillz: 3:37pm On Nov 13, 2015
Its always on behalf of a friend... Jeez!
#WhenWillNaijaGirlsStopLying??
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by JustOzito(op): 3:38pm On Nov 13, 2015
rexkexmilan:
"Rummies"? When Nairaland turn to Your hostel Room Biko?
Guy am sorry abt dat.
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by misspicy(f): 3:42pm On Nov 13, 2015
rexkexmilan:
"Rummies"? When Nairaland turn to Your hostel Room Biko?
she think sau na 2go grin
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by IamLEGEND1: 3:43pm On Nov 13, 2015
nónsense
old women like you be acting like 15yr olds.....don't face ur front and do something to help urself,be there crushing on some random nígga with a small penìs.
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by JustOzito(op): 3:44pm On Nov 13, 2015
Laveda:
Asking him out? I don't buy that idea....just. Give him that grren light, make it a bit obvious you like him....whenever he holds your hands....smile like you just won lottery grin ......do what ever you know can get that guy...don't allow another lady take him grin

Don't dull tongue
I'll tell her. But I also think d guy is shy... Cos we hav done som investigation and found out dat in school he doesn't have a girlfriend
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Nov 13, 2015
JustOzito:
Guy am sorry abt dat.
You don't have to be cheesy.
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by JustOzito(op): 3:48pm On Nov 13, 2015
Jibwillz:
Its always on behalf of a friend... Jeez!
#WhenWillNaijaGirlsStopLying??
If I say its me, will u give ur advice
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by JustOzito(op): 3:50pm On Nov 13, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
nónsense
old women like you be acting like 15yr olds.....don't face ur front and do something to help urself,be there crushing on some random nígga with a small penìs.
Lol. Tnks anyway but love is a feeling u cannot ignore especially wen it seems u hav a chance wit d 1 u love. Moreover she's not a kid
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by pbs4real(m): 3:50pm On Nov 13, 2015
OP are u sure it's ur friend? grin jez tell us it's U tongue
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by fuckshit:
Asking him out? I don't buy that idea....just. Give him that grren light, make it a bit obvious you like him....whenever he holds your hands....smile like you just won lottery grin ......do what ever you know can get that guy...don't allow another lady take him grin

Don't dull tongue
fυςking nice one; OP, here's a fυςking good answer for you;

BUT.. it's not a fυςking big deal if you fυςking ask him out;

OR just fυςking tell him; you like him and would like to fυςk him; grin grin
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Laveda(f): 4:00pm On Nov 13, 2015
JustOzito:
I'll tell her. But I also think d guy is shy... Cos we hav done som investigation and found out dat in school he doesn't have a girlfriend
Shy? Hope your friend isn't shy too, cause if she is I'm not sure anything is gonna come out of it....
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by IamLEGEND1: 4:08pm On Nov 13, 2015
JustOzito:
Lol. Tnks anyway but love is a feeling u cannot ignore especially wen it seems u hav a chance wit d 1 u love. Moreover she's not a kid
and apparently just like a lot of NLders, you are suffering from dissociative personality disorder.coz itz always the OP's friend when we all know damn well you're the one in the story.

Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by lgboks(m): 4:15pm On Nov 13, 2015
hmmmm
This is interesting....
Well from experience would say it's better to try and fail then move on rather than move on and look back wondering what if cool
Well depending on the guy and his level of understanding would say your friend should take action(ask him out,give him green light etc)
What a man can do a woman can do better (abi no be so girls dey talk am)
Ppl tend to hold ppl dey have crushes on in such high light that they get dissapointed when such ppl don't meet such standards like they are gods...so taking action is the best way out.

But wait o

Am not in final year
But know a lot of final year students grin
Am I the lucky guy cool
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Nov 13, 2015
I know say dem go still call lala make e come push d trash to fp
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Nov 13, 2015
She shouldn't ask him out abeg
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Jibwillz: 4:23pm On Nov 13, 2015
JustOzito:
If I say its me, will u give ur advice
U mean like majority of us don't know there are loopholes in ur story?? Trust me, it doesn't matter..
Girls are synonymous with lying that we all know...

U're both finalist, its worth d try.. Now would be a good time 2know if it'll stand d test of time. Ease up and give him d greens, since the feeling is mutual the chase shouldn't be 1sided...

And While you are at it, try to get heart-repairing kits too...
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Maamin(m): 4:33pm On Nov 13, 2015
Yeye dey smell for here... grin

Crushing final year students, watever jaré!
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Nov 13, 2015
Lol. Y'all talking about greenlight.......
See my dear OP, not every guy responds to greenlight oh. If you're really into him, just take him to a private place and tell him you'll like to try the food in one restaurant around campus you've never been to with him. If he's interested he won't turn you down, no matter how shy he is, but if he's not..........S4DGs
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by LaurelP(m):
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Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by seunayeni(m): 5:01pm On Nov 13, 2015
very funny, ur friend should do the needful....if it would make her happy,
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Emodeee: 5:02pm On Nov 13, 2015
I don't know why u can not CUM out straight@op.
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Adaeze003(f): 5:16pm On Nov 13, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
nónsense
old women like you be acting like 15yr olds.....don't face ur front and do something to help urself,be there crushing on some random nígga with a small penìs.
Lmao!!! How you take know say e small?

Chai! NL!
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Nov 13, 2015
lagmostkuit:
Everything dem go carry am come NL..

Even call Lala sef undecided
grin grin grin grin grin

OP don't you think your (friend is) too "old" for silly crushes like that
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Nov 13, 2015
When wll nairalanders stop using ' my friend' when they knw its bout them.. huh..# T
Re: Should I Ask Him Out? by czarr(m): 5:21pm On Nov 13, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
nónsense
old women like you be acting like 15yr olds.....don't face ur front and do something to help urself,be there crushing on some random nígga with a small penìs.
lol,
How U take know say him get small penis nagrin
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