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In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 4:46pm On Nov 14, 2015

I had an affair, got caught, and now am given a second chance.
We are both very young (20). Without going into too much detail of the infidelity, I cheated on her 6 months ago. The affair lasted three weeks. Two weeks after D day, she returned. Her anger did not last long. It took me a long long time to realise how much she really loves me.
No one is responsible for my infidelity apart from myself. I was extremely unhappy about my relationship. I had long-lasting depression from my previous breakup, work, and family for 3 years. In hindsight, I should've handled it in a totally different way rather than sneaking off to another girl just to feel desirable.
I was remorseful for 6 months. I felt ashamed. Felt [] and believed I deserve no one. After the D day, she was heart broken and really needed support so she told two of her best friends and her parents. I believed there is no way I could still face her friends and parents and get along with them even if this relationship did work out in the end. "pls help me

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 4:52pm On Nov 14, 2015

Yea.

Buy a rope nd do the needful.

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Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 4:55pm On Nov 14, 2015

Once the trust is gone,it's game over boo..she will keep her mind what uv done..but if u still wanna work out ur relationship with her ,u need a lot of hard work to regain her trust..so better watch her out, what wud be her reactions in every words u say...

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 4:59pm On Nov 14, 2015

KashyBaby:
Once the trust is gone,it's game over boo..she will keep her mind what uv done..but if u still wanna work out ur relationship with her ,u need a lot of hard work to regain her trust..so better watch her out, what wud be her reactions in every words u say...

the matter is that she still loves me and she is willing to give me a hundred chance but my dick wont just stay with one skirt, 4 example iv been tempted to pm u severally, even just this morning i wanted to pm aminat508 on seeing her new dp.

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:00pm On Nov 14, 2015

Durenttt:
Yea. Buy a rope nd do the needful.

hmmm u want me to die and leave all this nairaland babes 4 u abi? ur plans has failed

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:02pm On Nov 14, 2015

Targaryen:
the matter is that she still loves me and she is willing to give me a hundred chance but my dick wont just stay with one skirt, 4 example iv been tempted to pm u severally, even just this morning i wanted to pm aminat508 on seeing her new dp.

Oohh I forgot to mentioned that Once a cheater is ALWAYS a cheater...anyway,I Bet ur not ready to settle down yet...then let her go.she deserves better one who gone treat her like a princess and not like a dumping ground.

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:03pm On Nov 14, 2015*

hmm

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:05pm On Nov 14, 2015

Targaryen:
hmmm u want me to die and leave all this nairaland babes 4 u abi? ur plans has failed

for the 99th time. I dont like NL babes, i dnt even like babes angry

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:05pm On Nov 14, 2015

KashyBaby:
Oohh I forgot to mentioned that Once a cheater is ALWAYS a cheater...anyway,I Bet ur not ready to settle down yet...then let her go.she deserves better one who gone treat her like a princess and not like a dumping ground.

thats i should pm u right? anyways i need some kind of deliverance pastor, bcaus iv suffered her enough to let her go just like that, im afraid GOD will use it against me on judgement day.

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by NinaNigeria(f): 5:06pm On Nov 14, 2015

Targaryen:
the matter is that she still loves me and she is willing to give me a hundred chance but my dick wont just stay with one skirt, 4 example iv been tempted to pm u severally, even just this morning i wanted to pm aminat508 on seeing her new dp.

in dat case den leave her alone. She does nt deserve dis

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:07pm On Nov 14, 2015

Durenttt:
for the 99th time. I dont like NL babes, i dnt even like babes

i hope a police man sees this

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:08pm On Nov 14, 2015

Targaryen:
i hope a police man sees this

Gerrahia mehn, shiiit angry

*poos nd urinates on his thread, walks away*

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:10pm On Nov 14, 2015

NinaNigeria:
in dat case den leave her alone. She does nt deserve dis

its true though but my heart wont let her go.

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by TaioSpencer: 5:11pm On Nov 14, 2015

You need Jesus bruv.

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:15pm On Nov 14, 2015

TaioSpencer:
You need Jesus bruv.

Even Mohammed too. Help me tell d idioot OP, Bismilliah grin

Am out of here

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by cyprus000: 5:19pm On Nov 14, 2015

Targaryen:
the matter is that she still loves me and she is willing to give me a hundred chance but my dick wont just stay with one skirt, 4 example iv been tempted to pm u severally, even just this morning i wanted to pm aminat50.8 on seeing her new dp.

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Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:25pm On Nov 14, 2015

cyprus000:
[size=13pt] Your case is biblical [/size].

how?

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by Nobody: 5:31pm On Nov 14, 2015

Lol just break up with her please and let us all rest

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by obiorathesubtle: 5:31pm On Nov 14, 2015

Re: In Desperate Need For Wisdoms Of People Who Moved On From Infidelity. by loomer: 5:32pm On Nov 14, 2015

Depressed for 3years or na me no read well.

You be 20, mean say ur first relationship u were at most 17 and working.

E don tay wey thi world don spoil.