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Jibwillz:
Straff d b!atch and toss her out... Oh! And, don't forget to tell her she's not ur type too...

choi

dukeolumde:
Same thing but a different scenario happened to me but I did the point highlighted above...my advice is for u to simply
sean john d babe and move forward. She is obviously not worth any sacrifice if u ask me. Don't even try arranging
her before dumping her, women are very crafty and dangerous. U might fall for her bottom power or her kitchen skills.
Therefore RUN 4 UR DEAR LIFE...

Baaaaaaaaad guy

firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.

you sound like the girl and you sound like a gold digger I met last weekend.

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cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

Bros, Ya Question tire me!!

You no like ya life ABI?!

firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.

Lie Lie advice as fat as ur profile pic!!

My guy, run for your dear life. She is out to milk you dry. Do not even think of dipping your joy stick into her otherwise you will be indebted for life. Fleeeeeeeeeeeeee

mimicious:
My brother don't slack.

I fell in love with your profile picture. Are you from Asaba or Anioma

My guy, run, flee from her. She is only there to milk you dry. Runnnnnnnnnnnnnn, Fleeeeeeeeeeee.

Look before u leap, if u said dat u should date her nw she is here becos of ur money remember wat she told u 3yrs back. Am giving u advice as a gud frnd .

aariwa:
I fell in love with your profile picture. Are you from Asaba or Anioma

I am from aniocha, ogwashiukwu

uruoneluv:
Look before u leap, if u said dat u should date her nw she is here becos of ur money remember wat she told u 3yrs back. Am giving u advice as a gud frnd .

issues like this are very difficult. What is the guarantee that the new lady that will take him now will take him if he went for her when he was broke? He absolutely has no way of knowing!

For me, what i advice the op to do is to allow her come closer to him, don't push her away and say "you that didn't take me then, what do you want now?" i think you should allow her to come close and see how she relates with you. She may have had a true and genuine change of heart. If you just tell her to go, then it is possible that you are still hurt and you are refusing to agree that women, just like us, can have standards and that sometimes, we don't meet those standards. And that her standards, though may be above us, are not necessarily bad.

Again i say, let her come closer but don't bring up issues relating to relationships and sex, Not even for once! At the same time, allow other ladies to come around you too but do not officially date anyone of them and do not have sex with anyone of them. Do not be afraid that one will see you with the other. Afterall, you guys are not dating and you are not sleeping with anyone of them. The one who is more and truely loyal to you will manifest somehow.

Hope my advice helps.

firstEVA:
All of you saying fuk her fuk her, I smh for you, not all guys are dogs

Yup.

And our spotless belle is a blames little lamb.

craziebone:
For me, what i advice the op to do is to allow her come closer to him, don't push her away and say "you that didn't take me then, what do you want now?" i think you should allow her to come close and see how she relates with you. She may have had a true and genuine change of heart. If you just tell her to go, then it is possible that you are still hurt and you are refusing to agree that women, just like us, can have standards and that sometimes, we don't meet those standards. And that her standards, though may be above us, are not necessarily bad.

Women whose 'standards' are mostly financial are usually called a certain special name.

This name is not unrelated to gold, and mining.

Naso falz badt guy sing am "queen of D coast don dey find a nigga; Lord save me from karashika". Free d biatch. No even bang am. She fit use puna power catch u.

BuddhaPalm:
Women whose 'standards' are mostly financial are usually called a certain special name.

This name is not unrelated to gold, and mining.

you are the one who call them that. The truth is, just as it is not your fault that you are attracted to a beautiful face, it is also not her fault she is attracted to the guy with a better car!

Truth is, a man needs to work before he is eligible for relationship. That's our cross as men! Women only need to be women and be physically mature to be eligible for a relationship. We are not! We need to be better than our peers. The better we are compared to them, the more likely we would land most women. I think evolution has taught us more about this.

mimicious:
I am from aniocha, ogwashiukwu

OK I. Just guessed and got it correctly. I am from Onitsha ado n'nidu in amambra.history said we migrated from your part of delta.we also share similar cultures and names of villages

firstEVA:
All of you saying fuk her fuk her, I smh for you, not all guys are dogs

don't mind them

craziebone:
you are the one who call them that. The truth is, just as it is not your fault that you are attracted to a beautiful face, it is also not her fault she is attracted to the guy with a better car!

Truth is, a man needs to work before he is eligible for relationship. That's our cross as men! Women only need to be women and be physically mature to be eligible for a relationship. We are not! We need to be better than our peers. The better we are compared to them, the more likely we would land most women. I think evolution has taught us more about this.

Like really??

No.

We also evolved to make wise mate choices. An aversion to cuckoldry being at the top of the list.

A woman needs more than physical maturity to enter into a relationship with any self-respecting man.

How about her attitude, morals, level of vanity, intellect, sluttiness, etc?

She can discriminate based on whatever criteria she likes. But guys are allowed to choose based on their own criteria as well.

A woman who is attracted to you solely because of money is a very poor mate choice.

Suitable for only pump & dump, if she's still attractive.

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

pls Cash city I didn't get the message u sent me on nairaland ....Send mail to rukevweobaseki@gmail.com
waiting for ur mail.

aariwa:
OK I. Just guessed and got it correctly. I am from Onitsha ado n'nidu in amambra.history said we migrated from your part of delta.we also share similar cultures and names of villages

Hmmm, that is interesting. Please tell me more

firstEVA:

a dey tell ya

Toks2008:
In situations like this i would wish i was not a believer in Christ cos such a lady deserves to be used like a slut as in use and dump her ass.

Foolish ladies everywhere who were sent to the same school we were also sent to,live in the same country we live,seek for the same employment in the same companies that we do and even have more chance of gaining employment than we do yet will want us to be financially made in our 20s and 30s before we can approach them for romance... help me ask them why their parents spent so much on them to get a qualitative education just to come out to have no sense of self reliance but only to start hoping for a man who has the finance to come into her life.

I think a new course should be introduced into the curriculum of our higher institutions...and should be called Richmanology where ladies are trained on how to hunt for guys who are financially ok.

Hopeless ladies everywhere...Each parents should hence forth start asking their daughters before they spend a dime on her education "Do you plan to come out and fight hard to be financially independent against all odds"or will you still come out to start hoping to find a rich man after we spend our money to send you to obtain the same degree this same men have?"

And Toks2008 has spoken!

Raalsalghul:
And Toks2008 has spoken!

LOL!

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

put aboniki on a condom take Bleep am kmt stupid usless bitches

BuddhaPalm:
Like really??

No.

We also evolved to make wise mate choices. An aversion to cuckoldry being at the top of the list.

A woman needs more than physical maturity to enter into a relationship with any self-respecting man.

How about her attitude, morals, level of vanity, intellect, sluttiness, etc?

She can discriminate based on whatever criteria she likes. But guys are allowed to choose based on their own criteria as well.

A woman who is attracted to you solely because of money is a very poor mate choice.

Suitable for only pump & dump, if she's still attractive.

you have a point here.

Hello...pls I really need ur help...pls give me ur phone number or my number is 07069302921...it very urgent pls

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

You sure know what to do.

craziebone:
you have a point here.

You're a big man.

those advising hum to have sex with her, c'mon where are your godly (Christian) lights.
Please get transformed by God's Word, d bible
OP: pray about it and take d decision God is ok with. success is attractive. she may have become a far better person though. pray about it and rake d necessary step

justiz5:
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No Sir, am not related to him. Am not from his state, neither am I from his tribe. I have never met him in person, only read about him. At best, have seen him on the TV. I love his kind of person though.
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okay!
Anyway kudos 2 u!

Hunnydropps:
In a cool, confident and nonchalant manner tell her all the characteristics of your dream woman. Graciously kiss her hand and then gently hold her hand in yours saying, "I'm sorry dear but you don't fit my vision but I wish you well and know you'll find your dream man that you described to me years ago. Take good care. Goodbye."
Then you hop in your ride and ne
ver look back.

Shyte from a fellow hoe.