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| Should I Quit The Relationship? by Queenbae(f): 10:08pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Let me give you the full gist so you know where am coming from. Here is my story! I am an orphan and lost my only sponsor which is my mom during my 400 level first semester but still struggle to finish my degree with help from the almight God because he said in his word that he is father of the fatherless and he showed his face when i needed him most. Fast forward after my degree i decided to come to lagos and live with my sister in search of greener pasture and after a while i got a Job to take care of my daily needs. Four month into the job someone was transfered from the head office to head one of the departments in our branch. Two weeks later he got talking to me and after constant meeting we became close. After sometime he later told me that he had two kids but not with their mom and i was shock because he doesn't look like someone with even one child. I told him i want a breakup but he begged and said he will be heart broken if i leave so i continued the relationship. The relationship was an open one, a female colleague of his wanted an affair with him and my manager and accountant were interested in me. He got to know about it then i told him not to bother because i am not interested in them. He told me that himself is not interested in the female colleague. We continued but tongues started wailing considering the environment and we were issued Query which led to my been sacked and my salary was ceased. My guy was tranfered back to the head office but he refuse to go back because he wanted to be with me and so with the help of my sis we got a job that came with an accommodation for him which the salary is low and not forth coming. I couldn't work again because i want to go to camp and the time limit is too short. I need so many things but he can't afford to provide my needs and i have exhausted my income on him when he was going through hardship. I need someone that can take good care of my needs and am not getting any younger and he can't afford to marry now since he is still struggling but he is planning to go to abuja for greener pasture. Should i quit the relationship considering the fact that he already two kids and things are not moving fine with him and i can't continue leaving with my sister. Am sorry for the long story but i need advise on what to do next! 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Omotayor123(f): 10:11pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
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| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by AfroKnight: 10:12pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
He is not a married man. So there is no wife anywhere to contend with. However, you think you need a man who will be both lover and provider. I think you already know what you want. It's just a pity that he was unprofessional at work, pursuing a relationship with you to the point of earning you a sack and leaving his job for a less lucrative one. You have made a decision already. Carry it out. |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by tunnyl(m): 10:14pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Stay with him, things will soon get better. When the going is tough that is how you know those who truly loves you. You chose to stay with him even after you knew he had two children. The problem you found yourself in occurred as a result of your relationship. so why quit now. Just stay till the drama ends. Peace 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Uh...  No One wants to Date A baby dada.. |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Lol @ he didn't look like he even had one kid. How does a man with kids look? Bloated tummy? Moobs? |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by firstking01(m): 10:32pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Mehnnn, since am still new here, maka kukuma pitch ma tent here dey observe first. |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by AfroKnight: 10:45pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Estharfabian:So you are here? After abandoning this young man for months. |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by AfroKnight: 10:45pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: Lol. |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
AfroKnight:I think you just said My part...  ...U abandoned me...  |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by StPete: 10:47pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Sorry to say but I think u guys are not compatible cos ur meeting him led to ur sack and him later loosing his financial stand. So yea, break up and look for ur kind |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by sunnydayasaba(m): 10:50pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Ur not serious, even a lady who's 40yrs old is still hoping and looking for a single man and ur here asking if u should leave a man that already has kids. Even if things becomes gud for him, His kids first before u, His baby mama first before u. Move on fast and start dating prospective young men abeg. |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Queenbae:u are a thief and a gold digger..... dat is ma opinion. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by AfroKnight: 10:51pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Estharfabian:I'm a baby daddy. Oya follow me go.  |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Queenbae I thought u're a PCM preparing for nysc orientation camp come November 25th?  |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by donholy28(m): 11:01pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:Busted!!! |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by obiorathesubtle: 11:04pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
I'm in a quagmire here You started dating someone just after 2weeks of meeting the person? That says alot. Just sit down with the guy and have a long talk with him, I don't think we can help you with this one. But, make I talk small, He brought you badluck, you were sacked because of him, bad omen! And something tells me you don't know this guy too well, don't be reckless o, before you'll post another thread on NL saying 'men with children are wicked', please if you're really interested in the guy, you should get to know the situation of things with his family(just enough would do). Don't go in blind beko kwa! And please, if you want to date the guy because you need someone to take care of you, I'll call the feminists on you! But you exhausted your income on him. So, you deserve a lot in return too. To answer your question, don't leave him because he's already a father, if my mum made that decision, I for no dy alive today. I know say time no dy and you have to get married, you can either go ahead, leave him behind, break up with him, marry another already made guy. Or you put up with him for a while, they say no condition is permanent sha, I would advise the latter. But time no dy sha. |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by obiorathesubtle: 11:05pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
justified19:Lol, guy, no vex, but I don't think you read everything |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 11:12pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
AfroKnight:Lmfao... iffa hear! |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by AfroKnight: 11:17pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Estharfabian: You don't believe me? Oh, I'm heartbroken. If not because I don chop night food, I for no chop again dis night. Baby how can you doubt me? After all we've been through together? |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 11:24pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle:I read everything, she is an orphan, she lost ha.job, d guy has 2kids, d guy cant takia of ha needs again....she is going to camp md needs many thinz... my point is, d op doesnt wanna quit cos d guy has two kids, she wanna quit cos d guy is broke. if d guy had 3kids nd is very rich, d thief wouldn't consider quitting.. she is a thief, a big one. |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by obiorathesubtle: 11:28pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
justified19:did you see the part where she said she exhausted her income on him? |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:38pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
You are asking if you are to continue a relationship with so much baggage, smh. I don't understand when a lady says age is not on her side |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by richie9093(m): 12:11am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Next time use paragraphs so it will be easier to read |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by mrdu(m): 12:16am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Hello bea ,how old ar u now ?! |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Queenbae(f): 12:17am On Nov 24, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:yeah |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Queenbae(f): 12:20am On Nov 24, 2015 |
mrdu:what do you need my age for? Anyway am 27 |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Queenbae(f): 12:29am On Nov 24, 2015 |
justified19:you have your own opinion but the truth is that so many things happened lately but i can't write everything here. You can say whatever you like but i won't have you insult me okay! |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 5:49am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Queenbae:I am not insulting u, my opinion is based on the things I read not d ones u couldn't type... u already made up ur mind on wat to do, u only need pple to justify u.. |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 5:54am On Nov 24, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle:yea..I still bliv she did all dat thinking d guy would bounce bak nd takia of her...now, d guy still struggling to meet up to expectations, she wanna drop him.. it's not a bad idea, we all go into a relationship to make us beta, we quit wen it stops making us beta. but it doesnt change ma opinion...bae wants money, dude is still broke, bae wants to go for a richer guy. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by Queenbae(f): 6:33am On Nov 24, 2015 |
donholy28:mtsheew! |
| Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? by pretydiva(f): 6:42am On Nov 24, 2015 |
When d chips r down,u wanna quit bah..buh when it was all rosy u didn't think of calling it quit..smh 4 sm gals shall..money isn't everything in a relationship n besides no condition is permanent |
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