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Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Mzflexydeeva(op): 2:37pm On Nov 27, 2015

Olasco93:
Nice thread OP.
The the truth is that 'most' girls have the virtues to do these things naturally, but SELF-PRIDE would'nt let them. While some feel they would look cheap and desperate in too.

But matured girls do all these things the OP mentioned. That's why i respect some girls because they are Mature in speech, behaviour, character and attitude.
Kudos to the matured ladies...

you sure can say that again

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Mzflexydeeva(op): 2:38pm On Nov 27, 2015

DeeTus:
Cool. You seem to have a different mindset about relationship.

Women could be so angry and disappointed especially if you turn them down or say lets just be friends.

Right now, the women are doing the chasing and is really interesting.

so how many have chased u today

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by firstking01(m): 3:49pm On Nov 27, 2015

Raalsalghul:
True talk bro! True talk!

sure na, we knw dem....neva can dey magarize moi agn, i swear.

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Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Nobody: 3:49pm On Nov 27, 2015

Mzflexydeeva:
so how many have chased u today

Just one

And you?

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Raalsalghul: 3:56pm On Nov 27, 2015

firstking01:
sure na, we knw dem....neva can dey magarize moi agn, i swear.

Abi! It annoys me when you have good intentions towards a girl and her plan is to turn you to her money bag.

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by firstking01(m): 4:50pm On Nov 27, 2015

Raalsalghul:
Abi! It annoys me when you have good intentions towards a girl and her plan is to turn you to her money bag.

bt most of d tyms, its qudt u qive 'em' sm benefits of doubt u knw, sm can be doin dat intentionally to test u. Presently diaris one on ma radar. @first, she was like, gimmie dis, gimmie dat, i want dis, and so on, bt i just played along wit her to see her reactions after i meet up her demands, truth nw is, she's gradually reciprocating d love seeing my genuiness. All m tryna say is...dnt just push dem away...give dem sm benefits of doubts and see their reciprocations, bt be cautious abt it and dnt lerrit last too long, cos sm gals have passed tru sm terrible experiences in d past, and its quite unfortunate sm have refused to let go. Dey roam abt seekin for any gullible guy to vent d revenge on....truth is, we are wiser nw bro...join our clique.

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Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Mzflexydeeva(op): 5:17pm On Nov 27, 2015

DeeTus:
Just one

And you?

too many to number wink

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Nobody: 5:39pm On Nov 27, 2015

Mzflexydeeva:
too many to number

That's cool! grin

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Nobody: 5:44pm On Nov 27, 2015

Mzflexydeeva:
so true!

Also some suffer from the seed their parents have planted in them. Imagine a woman who tells the daughter a man must take care of her every need.... parents still have a great role

Not only parents sef, FRIENDS especially, imagine in my school here in futa if u have just one bf your friends will be so angry and bitter about it, here in my school u either choose one bf or friends...... Because gals here in my school are not smiling at all,most have been overcome by bitterness towards guys, so when they realise u have just one bf like this, they'll be bitter towards u

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by ebyoma(f): 6:01pm On Nov 27, 2015

I so much Love this

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Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by themejiwalker(m): 1:59am On Dec 01, 2015

esosa993:
Not only parents sef, FRIENDS especially, imagine in my school here in futa if u have just one bf your friends will be so angry and bitter about it, here in my school u either choose one bf or friends...... Because gals here in my school are not smiling at all,most have been overcome by bitterness towards guys, so when they realise u have just one bf like this, they'll be bitter towards u

I honestly suggest you start having new friends or pick just one good one out of the lot and stay away from the haters

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Nobody: 12:31pm On Dec 01, 2015

themejiwalker:
I honestly suggest you start having new friends or pick just one good one out of the lot and stay away from the haters

Yea u are right, thanks

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Nobody: 1:50pm On Dec 01, 2015

Ah, finally a reasonable thread.
Was starting to get worried NL had been overrun by premature dullαrds. Thank God for you OP, you've renewed my faith grin

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Mzflexydeeva(op): 1:56pm On Dec 01, 2015

JimiCoker:
Ah, finally a reasonable thread.
Was starting to get worried NL had been overrun by premature dullαrds. Thank God for you OP, you've renewed my faith

now u got me laughing. Thanks

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Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by schumastic(m): 2:02pm On Dec 01, 2015

Mzflexydeeva:
A good man is hard to find whether you agree or not. The definition of a good man varies for each individual but a general definition of a good man encompasses facts like
- nice
- understanding
-money spender
-lover
-detailed planer
-a friend
The list continues.
Ladies, it is good we acknowledge the fact that a guy is good not because he wants to please us but because he is naturally good.
It would be very unwise for a lady to feel she is "too much" simply because a guy is good to her and cares for her.

Now let's address the main issue.
Why do ladies always feel they are the ones who always need taking out?

Why do ladies always think its their right when a guy pays for their hair and stuffs like that?

At what point will ladies realise that guys too want to be pampered?

What stops you as a lady from paying after your date?

I don't think a guy would reject you surprising him with some pairs of shoe.

You don't have to wait till its his birthday to get him a gift or surprise him.
As much as ladies love to be called sweet names the men too like it.
Let him wake up to an epistle of your love for him. Make him as happy as you want to be.

You can't always be the one receiving the compliment every time. Tell him how lucky you are to have him. Let him know how much you love him. Help him feed his ego so you are the only one his inner baby understand.

The things you know make him happy do them happily.
Don't always wait till he says lets go out before you go out. Sometimes be the one to say darling I'm taking you for a treat.

A man's heart will melt not to the hotness of your temper but to the steam of your pampering.

ur BF s a lucky if u keep to all this things u mentioned and ladies pls take note or better still make a diff today and get ur bf a gift n tell him how lucky u r to v him

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Ephemmm: 2:59pm On Dec 01, 2015

Mzflexydeeva:
A good man is hard to find whether you agree or not. The definition of a good man varies for each individual but a general definition of a good man encompasses facts like
- nice
- understanding
-money spender
-lover
-detailed planer
-a friend
The list continues.
Ladies, it is good we acknowledge the fact that a guy is good not because he wants to please us but because he is naturally good.
It would be very unwise for a lady to feel she is "too much" simply because a guy is good to her and cares for her.

Now let's address the main issue.
Why do ladies always feel they are the ones who always need taking out?

Why do ladies always think its their right when a guy pays for their hair and stuffs like that?

At what point will ladies realise that guys too want to be pampered?

What stops you as a lady from paying after your date?

I don't think a guy would reject you surprising him with some pairs of shoe.

You don't have to wait till its his birthday to get him a gift or surprise him.
As much as ladies love to be called sweet names the men too like it.
Let him wake up to an epistle of your love for him. Make him as happy as you want to be.

You can't always be the one receiving the compliment every time. Tell him how lucky you are to have him. Let him know how much you love him. Help him feed his ego so you are the only one his inner baby understand.

The things you know make him happy do them happily.
Don't always wait till he says lets go out before you go out. Sometimes be the one to say darling I'm taking you for a treat.

A man's heart will melt not to the hotness of your temper but to the steam of your pampering.

I beg, nairalander, dash me this lady even if she is handicapped: intelligence of a lady is the major key to unlock my padlocked heart.

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Nobody: 3:31pm On Dec 01, 2015

If only u find a man who will appreciate it

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Mzflexydeeva(op): 5:45pm On Dec 01, 2015

Ephemmm:
I beg, nairalander, dash me this lady even if she is handicapped: intelligence of a lady is the major key to unlock my padlocked heart.

lol

Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Mzflexydeeva(op): 5:45pm On Dec 01, 2015

Snowangel4:
If only u find a man who will appreciate it

they are still out there

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Re: Keeping A Good Man Is Easy If Its Not Always About You by Nature8(m): 7:08pm On Dec 01, 2015

Mzflexydeeva:
A good man is hard to find whether you agree or not. The definition of a good man varies for each individual but a general definition of a good man encompasses facts like
- nice
- understanding
-money spender
-lover
-detailed planer
-a friend
The list continues.
Ladies, it is good we acknowledge the fact that a guy is good not because he wants to please us but because he is naturally good.
It would be very unwise for a lady to feel she is "too much" simply because a guy is good to her and cares for her.

Now let's address the main issue.
Why do ladies always feel they are the ones who always need taking out?

Why do ladies always think its their right when a guy pays for their hair and stuffs like that?

At what point will ladies realise that guys too want to be pampered?

What stops you as a lady from paying after your date?

I don't think a guy would reject you surprising him with some pairs of shoe.

You don't have to wait till its his birthday to get him a gift or surprise him.
As much as ladies love to be called sweet names the men too like it.
Let him wake up to an epistle of your love for him. Make him as happy as you want to be.

You can't always be the one receiving the compliment every time. Tell him how lucky you are to have him. Let him know how much you love him. Help him feed his ego so you are the only one his inner baby understand.

The things you know make him happy do them happily.
Don't always wait till he says lets go out before you go out. Sometimes be the one to say darling I'm taking you for a treat.

A man's heart will melt not to the hotness of your temper but to the steam of your pampering.

A man that is pampered can go extra miles and can do anything for you..
Nice one, Op.. I guess your guy must be very lucky to have a girl like you.. What a lucky guy he is to have you.. Infact, you deserve to be treated like an angel and crown a queen.. I wish every other girsl will read and understand this the way you do.. Good men are rare to find.. Appreciate the one you have and treat him the way you wished to be treated..

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