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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Setaje(f): 7:55pm On Dec 03, 2015
stupidity:
steady fvcking or fvcks#


Na xo one babe package her weapon of "man's" destruction come my house. I lost my sense of self control and started touching her, she nor talk, I smooch her sotay I try pull her clothes, she say no, I try again, she say NO. I continue the smooching, the thing climb her head, she forget herself and I succeeded and gonked her. She enjoy am nor be small.

I invited her another day, she refused, I ask her waten apen, she say I rape her the other time.
"Me rape you"? She say yes, "how"? She say she told me to stop and I still went ahead and did it.
"Shuuu!!, wait o, when I dey do am, you shout for HELP? She say no, "you dey shout RAPE!!? She say no. "Shay you dey shout ahh ahhhh when I dey do am? She say "maybe, I can't remember".

How I con take rape you?

Unfortunately for you and people who liked your comments. There are different types of rape. Cohesion is not good. Perhaps if u stopped touching her she wouldn't have lost herself to you. Next time when a woman says no. Just stop. This are the kind of scenarios that women use against men.

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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by ceecee0703(m): 7:58pm On Dec 03, 2015
moscobabs:
if u r not married.... do not have sex
better masturbate to release the disturbing cum

to masturbate is like raping one's self

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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by hedonistic: 7:58pm On Dec 03, 2015
That's why I don't sympathise with most rape 'victims', and I don't believe most stupid rape stories.

As far as I am concerned, apart from sex with minors, rape is only rape when it is perpetrated by armed robbers, kidnappers, strangers, intruders, and other violent previously unfamiliar persons.

If the venue of the sex is the man's turf (his house, hotel room, or whatever private enclosure the girl willingly comes to meet him), then it is not rape. Simple. Unless the girl can prove beyond reasonable doubt. And proof in this case is not some stupid pity party stories or bruises that she gave herself or traces of sperm in her vagina (from consensual sex). Anything short of visual or audio evidence depicting violent or forceful penetration should not be admissible.

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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by danjaba(m): 8:00pm On Dec 03, 2015
stupidity:
steady fvcking or fvcks#


Na xo one babe package her weapon of "man's" destruction come my house. I lost my sense of self control and started touching her, she nor talk, I smooch her sotay I try pull her clothes, she say no, I try again, she say NO. I continue the smooching, the thing climb her head, she forget herself and I succeeded and gonked her. She enjoy am nor be small.

I invited her another day, she refused, I ask her waten apen, she say I rape her the other time.
"Me rape you"? She say yes, "how"? She say she told me to stop and I still went ahead and did it.
"Shuuu!!, wait o, when I dey do am, you shout for HELP? She say no, "you dey shout RAPE!!? She say no. "Shay you dey shout ahh ahhhh when I dey do am? She say "maybe, I can't remember".

How I con take rape you?



Hahahaha, yeye boi.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by sweetgala(m): 8:01pm On Dec 03, 2015
TheLeader:


That's not true bro. The law is clear on this- A MAN CANNOT RAPE HIS WIFE! Even if he forces himself on her. The best she can do is allege assault.

Thank me later.

Actually in most EU nations and others like such , a man can be accused of raping his wife.

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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by MzPecs(f): 8:08pm On Dec 03, 2015
ceecee0703:


But nne some gurls are spiritual too...
Hehehehe grin

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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Dec 03, 2015
MRBrownJ:


the reason is simple, thats because men wouldnt report such crime.... but it is INDEED a crime punishable under Nigerian law. there is NO GENDER next to the definition of "rape", you just need the right lawyer to take on the case.
From the statutory provisions concerning rape, it is GENDER SPECIFIC
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Dec 03, 2015
Tallesty1:
The issue of rape has become so prevalent in our society that there's hardly a day that passes without a new rape case.

I don't know what's happening and I can't tell what is really wrong with people but I think the time for reasoning is here.

I know there is a law that protects rape victims but is there really a law that protects the falsely accused? Especially in a country like ours where the rich can always have their way?

Ever wondered why women scream rape anytime there's a fight and accuse the man of beating her up at the slightest provocation and starving her anytime they're caught cheating.?

It is because these two things always give them upper hand in most cases.

Now I am not trying to say there are no rapists out there. Many of them are roaming the streets looking for the next lady to jump on but there are some that were accused falsely and they are the ones I want to tell how to protect themselves in the future by following this steps because a significant number of false rape claims can be avoided by exercising caution and staying clear of situations where the likelihood of a false rape claim is enhanced.

1: Don't Date A Minor: I personally cannot date a girl who's less than 20. The reason is, it doesn't matter if you have been dating her for years, it doesn't matter if she's a queen in the jungle, once caught, her parents will be shouting you raped my daughter. The girl will not stand up for you. Her mother will ask her. "He raped you right"? She will not say NO, in other not to be beaten, she will nod head in affirmation and that signs you deal with the police.

2: Tell Your Parents About Your Relationship: If you're too young to let your parents or the girl's parents, or any of her relations to know what's going on between two of you then you're obviously too young to date.

3: Don't Drink To Stupor if you are taking a woman home: So that you will still have sense to stop If she says "No", at any time.
Women no longer play "hard to get." If an adult woman wants your sexual companionship, then she'll make it abundantly clear. If she does not, don't bother. If she says "NO", please buckle up and send her home even if the time is 1am or sleep in another room if her reason is genuine.

4: Don't Sleep With An Intoxicated Lady Unless You Have Been With Her For Long: If the woman is high or intoxicated, don't even try for sex.. Call her a cab or take her home and then leave.

5: Don't date an insecure and unstable woman: If you get any signs that the woman is insecure or unstable, end whatever you have with her as quickly as possible. Do not contact her again.

6: Don't Take a woman home for sex after a bad date without some receipts: Make certain that you are able to account for your time in the wake of a "bad date." Stop at a fast food restaurant, just anything that will support your claim that you were with throughout the evening

7: Leave When You Sense Problem: If you get into any kind of dispute with a woman who you don't know or who you don't know well, end the argument and leave the scene.


And Finally don't cheat on a person that loves you. Anger, frustration and jealousy might just push them to frame you up. I know That Trials require evidence but what happens when the people handling the case like bribes?

Becareful around things that have engines and tires and around people that have breasts, they will definitely give you troubles.
I was talking about false accusation of rape on one thread, no matter how you did this stuff those women will accuse you and the police are not helping matter because them too have there own gain.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by ceecee0703(m): 8:12pm On Dec 03, 2015
ShitNLSays:


#SHIET/NAIRALANDERS/SAYS - ADMITTING TO BEING A RAPIST

YOU TRIED TO PULL OFF HER CLOTHES, SHE SAID NO BUT YOU DIDN'T LISTEN!

YES YOU RAPED HER.

SHE MUST HAVE SEEN NO WAY OUT AND DECIDED TO GO WITH THE FLOW.

IF YOU ARE BEING ROBBED, YOU MAY BE ABLE TO SCREAM AND SHOUT BUT BECAUSE YOU ARE SCARED OF YOUR ATTACKER, YOU WILL GIVE UP YOUR VALUABLES FOR FEAR OF YOUR LIFE.

IT'S JUST LIKE A THIEF ASKING, WHY DIDN'T YOU SCREAM WHEN I WAS ROBBING YOU.

MR. STUPIDITY YOU ARE A RAPIST

Its not same one is robbery the other is rape. if sexual intercourse is not Forceful probably with verbal treats or weapons it aint rape.

A girl enjoys sex and remembers after the sex that she was raped
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by MRBrownJ: 8:13pm On Dec 03, 2015
hedonistic:
That's why I don't sympathise with most rape 'victims', and I don't believe most stupid rape stories.

As far as I am concerned, apart from sex with minors, rape is only rape when it is perpetrated by armed robbers, kidnappers, strangers, intruders, and other violent previously unfamiliar persons.

If the venue of the sex is the man's turf (his house, hotel room, or whatever private enclosure the girl willingly comes to meet him), then it is not rape. Simple. Unless the girl can prove beyond reasonable doubt. And proof in this case is not some stupid pity party stories or bruises that she gave herself or traces of sperm in her vagina (from consensual sex). Anything short of visual or audio evidence depicting violent or forceful penetration should not be admissible.

so what you mean to say is that:
if a gal willingy comes to your house (or any private location), she UNDOUBTEDLY wants to fukc?! thats far fetched, dont you think?! but most importantly, dont you see how such statement is the reason why so many women get raped? here you are telling us all that if/when a women gets to your place then she wants to fukc, whether she says yes or NO, is irrelevant to you because she decided to visit you, and thats a passeport for sex (in your world)?!

no wonder so many women are raped when men think in such an evil manner!!!
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by ceecee0703(m): 8:15pm On Dec 03, 2015
lovethchioma:

Don't mind that Mr Stupidity. He even have the guts to come publicly to display how stupid he is.
Mr Stupidity, what you did is called RAPE. You are very lucky she didnt just take up the case.
I wonder when guys would learn. When a girl says no, just get up and leave. You don't need to force it. That way you leave with your self respect intact and no body would accuse you of anything.
Some guys wont just learn. Continue Raping girls and after which ask why didnt she Scream or stupidily giving the excuse that she enjoyed it. Someday you'll wish you listened

what of when a gurl says no and u let her go and she sees u another day and says u are not man enough nko?

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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:17pm On Dec 03, 2015
Estharfabian:
undecidedundecided Nigerian guys won't still Listen to all this...undecided

Bottoms line's They need to be cAsterated...That's the only way! You don't see girl raping guys...or guys giving false Rape accusation against ladies...lipsrsealed

Why? 'Coz We're Responsible beings...gringrin
If a girl hit a guy's chest,nothing happens.If it's the other way round you ladies will say he assaulted you.You think it's only you that knows how to. complain?

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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by akwunmi(m): 8:17pm On Dec 03, 2015
D ultimate advice 2 girls na 2 stop 2de chop 2mch awoof because awoof wey u chop go LETA tell 4ur ganga......man wey u de chop his hard earn money no b mumu o......remember!!!!
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:21pm On Dec 03, 2015
Just so you know! angry

Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Proffdada: 8:22pm On Dec 03, 2015
Estharfabian:
undecidedundecided Nigerian guys won't still Listen to all this...undecided

Bottoms line's They need to be cAsterated...That's the only way! You don't see girl raping guys...or guys giving false Rape accusation against ladies...lipsrsealed

Why? 'Coz We're Responsible beings...gringrin
who told you girls don't rape-? Try girl high school Na. I was nearly raped- by a towering girl. Guys get raped but don't have courage to say it

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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by ManTiger(m): 8:26pm On Dec 03, 2015
Tallesty1:
The issue of rape has become so prevalent in our society that there's hardly a day that passes without a new rape case.

I don't know what's happening and I can't tell what is really wrong with people but I think the time for reasoning is here.

I know there is a law that protects rape victims but is there really a law that protects the falsely accused? Especially in a country like ours where the rich can always have their way?

Ever wondered why women scream rape anytime there's a fight and accuse the man of beating her up at the slightest provocation and starving her anytime they're caught cheating.?

It is because these two things always give them upper hand in most cases.

Now I am not trying to say there are no rapists out there. Many of them are roaming the streets looking for the next lady to jump on but there are some that were accused falsely and they are the ones I want to tell how to protect themselves in the future by following this steps because a significant number of false rape claims can be avoided by exercising caution and staying clear of situations where the likelihood of a false rape claim is enhanced.

1: Don't Date A Minor: I personally cannot date a girl who's less than 20. The reason is, it doesn't matter if you have been dating her for years, it doesn't matter if she's a queen in the jungle, once caught, her parents will be shouting you raped my daughter. The girl will not stand up for you. Her mother will ask her. "He raped you right"? She will not say NO, in other not to be beaten, she will nod head in affirmation and that signs you deal with the police.

2: Tell Your Parents About Your Relationship: If you're too young to let your parents or the girl's parents, or any of her relations to know what's going on between two of you then you're obviously too young to date.

3: Don't Drink To Stupor if you are taking a woman home: So that you will still have sense to stop If she says "No", at any time.
Women no longer play "hard to get." If an adult woman wants your sexual companionship, then she'll make it abundantly clear. If she does not, don't bother. If she says "NO", please buckle up and send her home even if the time is 1am or sleep in another room if her reason is genuine.

4: Don't Sleep With An Intoxicated Lady Unless You Have Been With Her For Long: If the woman is high or intoxicated, don't even try for sex.. Call her a cab or take her home and then leave.

5: Don't date an insecure and unstable woman: If you get any signs that the woman is insecure or unstable, end whatever you have with her as quickly as possible. Do not contact her again.

6: Don't Take a woman home for sex after a bad date without some receipts: Make certain that you are able to account for your time in the wake of a "bad date." Stop at a fast food restaurant, just anything that will support your claim that you were with throughout the evening

7: Leave When You Sense Problem: If you get into any kind of dispute with a woman who you don't know or who you don't know well, end the argument and leave the scene.


And Finally don't cheat on a person that loves you. Anger, frustration and jealousy might just push them to frame you up. I know That Trials require evidence but what happens when the people handling the case like bribes?

Becareful around things that have engines and tires and around people that have breasts, they will definitely give you troubles.
God bless you for this write up. May you walk and never stumble.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:27pm On Dec 03, 2015
moscobabs:
if u r not married.... do not have sex

better masturbate to release the disturbing cum


Dem tell you say na all masturbation dey make person cum?If i no enter pvssy or release from sleep no magic fit make me cum.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:28pm On Dec 03, 2015
keep a record of your text messages and whatsapp messages.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by ipreach: 8:29pm On Dec 03, 2015
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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by ShitNLSays: 8:30pm On Dec 03, 2015
ceecee0703:


Its not same one is robbery the other is rape. if sexual intercourse is not Forceful probably with verbal treats or weapons it aint rape.

A girl enjoys sex and remembers after the sex that she was raped

#SHIET/NAIRALANDERS/SAYS - GIRLS ENJOY SEX AGAINST THEIR WILL..

LOL!
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Aitee1: 8:34pm On Dec 03, 2015
Estharfabian:
undecidedundecided Nigerian guys won't still Listen to all this...undecided

Bottoms line's They need to be cAsterated...That's the only way! You don't see girl raping guys...or guys giving false Rape accusation against ladies...lipsrsealed

Why? 'Coz We're Responsible beings...gringrin

Who waste time raping someone that can't even do the do
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by MRBrownJ: 8:35pm On Dec 03, 2015
Mozambique:

From the statutory provisions concerning rape, it is GENDER SPECIFIC

just because some women may get a lighter sentence in rape cases in 9ja (at the discretion of a judge), does not mean the law is gender specific.
but i am willing to be educated on the matter, so if you could pls show me the actual law that says that a female rapist should get a lesser sentence than a male rapist, then i would be grateful.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by chimaobinelson(m): 8:37pm On Dec 03, 2015
to me, the best way to avoid dis whole filty defaming drama,is to define any relationship you are into aas a guy or girl,love and have self confidence of yourself to let go if his/her definition for what you have is different from what you feel or want...if he/she says NO leave the relationship if u knw that ur persistence in the relationship will not be sustainable by you,or you can keep to d terms n condition "Quit"..to avoid u broke my heart n i will use this to get back to you.
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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:37pm On Dec 03, 2015
MRBrownJ:


just because some women may get a lighter sentence in rape cases in 9ja (at the discretion of a judge), does not mean the law is gender specific.
but i am willing to be educated on the matter, so if you could pls show me the actual law that says that a female rapist should get a lesser sentence than a male rapist, then i would be grateful.
I'm not using a cool phone. So I'll let it pass.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by livinbygrace: 8:42pm On Dec 03, 2015
moscobabs:
if u r not married.... do not have sex

better masturbate to release the disturbing cum



Stop this if u re not married stuff .Its easier said than done.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:47pm On Dec 03, 2015
Richiy:



You are very correct.
It's just My 2kobo
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:52pm On Dec 03, 2015
MRBrownJ:


the reason is simple, thats because men wouldnt report such crime.... but it is INDEED a crime punishable under Nigerian law. there is NO GENDER next to the definition of "rape", you just need the right lawyer to take on the case.

I'm telling u authoritatively. Rape in Nigeria as of today, by law can only be enforced against males. If u need prove, Pm me let's dissect the Criminal and Penal codes.lol But seriously, ask a lawyer if u av access to one. its unfortunate but true
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by DExplorer1: 8:52pm On Dec 03, 2015
sapiosexual1:
Sex is best enjoyed when it's mutual. If I as much as get a hint that she isn't in the mood at that time, we'd just 'share the grace ' and cuddle up. What's the point in digging at a hole that's got no gold? Guys need to master self discipline.
Guys that rape had rape on their mind. It's different from mutual sex. Different situations could power it and such is beyond self control or discipline.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Autino(m): 8:57pm On Dec 03, 2015
Estharfabian:
undecidedundecided Nigerian guys won't still Listen to all this...undecided

Bottoms line's They need to be cAsterated...That's the only way! You don't see girl raping guys...or guys giving false Rape accusation against ladies...lipsrsealed

Why? 'Coz We're Responsible beings...gringrin
responsible? Even if girls are moving in the street half naked
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:59pm On Dec 03, 2015
grin
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Grundig: 9:02pm On Dec 03, 2015
Guys, laws around the world are designed to protect/support the woman by default.

The onus is on the guy to provide superiror and overwhelming facts to squash the allegation.

Guys, honestly, be careful.

The law does not smile on us guys

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