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Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by sunnedee2: 6:54am On Dec 04, 2015
ceecee0703:
what of when a gurl says no and u let her go and she sees u another day and says u are not man enough nko?
You know, something similar happened to me once.
I received no encouragement from her and slept off.
The next day, she told me point blank : "oo ti e le" which literally translates: "you are not man enough" i. e. she expected me to apply a little pressure before she yields.

Since then I always tell women : "Don't want sex? Then don't end up on the bed with me. Shikena."
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Afam4eva(m):
Setaje:
Unfortunately for you and people who liked your comments. There are different types of rape. Cohesion is not good. Perhaps if u stopped touching her she wouldn't have lost herself to you. Next time when a woman says no. Just stop. This are the kind of scenarios that women use against men.
Cohesion can also mean wooing a woman for the sole purpose of sleeping with her. Which means most guys should be in jail by now.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 7:49am On Dec 04, 2015
Proffdada:
who told you girls don't rape-? Try girl high school Na. I was nearly raped- by a towering girl. Guys get raped but don't have courage to say it
Courage to say wHat?undecidedlipsrsealed

LoL! let's call a spade a spade...which Guy rape have U seen Made the news?undecided Girls could control their libidoz..we know howtah get what we want inna less animalistic, And immature way...wink.

**A round of applause for the girls jaweh!**gringrin
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 7:52am On Dec 04, 2015
Autino:
responsible? Even if girls are moving in the street half naked
duuuur!undecided

Guys move unclad too...undecided ever heard of male strippers? No?

That's what I thought....lipsrsealed
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 7:54am On Dec 04, 2015
Codyt:
You're honestly sick. Responsible beings indeed? Continue your *gibberish *gibberish undecided angry angry angry angry
Another pained guy spotted!cry

Whatever happened to "freedom of speech?"...lipsrsealed
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Fkhalifa(m): 7:59am On Dec 04, 2015
Estharfabian:
Courage to say wHat?undecidedlipsrsealed

LoL! let's call a spade a spade...which Guy rape have U seen Made the news?undecided Girls could control their libidoz..we know howtah get what we want inna less animalistic, And immature way...wink.

**A round of applause for the girls jaweh!**gringrin
ladies have lower libido generally compared to guys except only a few, so nothing commendable about it, just thank the Creator who made that way

according to Dr. Charles Runels, the male sex drive is 10 times that in women..If women had the level of sex drive men have, they would be sleeping with every man they see on the streets.

Instead of women trying to learn a lil about this and saving their relationships/marriages, they would be running about calling all men animals.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Fkhalifa(m): 8:04am On Dec 04, 2015
sapiosexual1:
Hahaha ur head is there, u're the boss. Research has also proven that we (guys and girls) get the same degree of gratification from self servicing and fuc.king. Knowing this fact,I see no reason why guys should throw common sense into the Atlantic when we're on heat.
bro i wan ask question, who is likely to be less on heat and desire to gonk a woman between a chronic masturbator and woman gonkers? who is likely to feel the heat more? does it matter if you have tasted the ponmo before or not? sad
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:08am On Dec 04, 2015
Fkhalifa:
ladies have lower libido generally compared to guys except only a few, so nothing commendable about it, just thank the Creator who made that way

according to Dr. Charles Runels, the male sex drive is 10 times that in women..If women had the level of sex drive men have, they would be sleeping with every man they see on the streets.

Instead of women trying to learn a lil about this and saving their relationships/marriages, they would be running about calling all men animals.
SO, because of Y'all sick, Raging, Unwanted Libido issues...Rape should be justified? are You even listening to Yourself?lipsrsealed

Yea! We could be sleeping with every Guy in streets...No one is against that! Buh Having to force someone To that is just utterly Barbaric, Barbarous, bestial, brutal, cannibalistic, Cruel, devilish, Diabolical, fell, ferocious,fiendish, fierce, grim, hateful And heartless

[size=18pt]Nothing justifies rape!! Not even when The girl sitting next to You is Nakèd!![/size]
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Fkhalifa(m): 8:32am On Dec 04, 2015
Estharfabian:
SO, because of Y'all sick, Raging, Unwanted Libido issues...Rape should be justified? are You even listening to Yourself?lipsrsealed

Yea! We could be sleeping with every Guy in streets...No one is against that! Buh Having to force someone To that is just utterly Barbaric, Barbarous, bestial, brutal, cannibalistic, Cruel, devilish, Diabolical, fell, ferocious,fiendish, fierce, grim, hateful And heartless

[size=18pt]Nothing justifies rape!! Not even when The girl sitting next to You is Nakèd!![/size]
LOL this lady has press P, the message got you in a sensitive place, so sorry darling take a kiss
Now to the matter, i do not support or justidy rape, i was only trying to counter that your statement of commending ladies for the self control you are favored with by the creator, women do rape to but not as much as guys.

so if you like expose your door and purse in an area where you know armed robbery is prevalent, since you ill spew big grammars to defend youself of zero justification cheesy
my own is ladies protect yourself and gaurd your territory against rapist. cool
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Laid2001: 8:35am On Dec 04, 2015
Rape can never be justified. But not all sex is rape nor statutory rape!

However,if ladies decide to walk Naked publicly,she will also be guilty of indecent exposure which is against the law.

Also, if all ladies decide to be walking naked, even the judges will partake in sex publicly by cohesion!

So, please and please don't walk naked on the street in the name of freedom and expect not be raped by insane people who will be let free by the court for their insanity caused by you (Kongi induced insanity)!!!



Estharfabian:
SO, because of Y'all sick, Raging, Unwanted Libido issues...Rape should be justified? are You even listening to Yourself?lipsrsealed

Yea! We could be sleeping with every Guy in streets...No one is against that! Buh Having to force someone To that is just utterly Barbaric, Barbarous, bestial, brutal, cannibalistic, Cruel, devilish, Diabolical, fell, ferocious,fiendish, fierce, grim, hateful And heartless

[size=18pt]Nothing justifies rape!! Not even when The girl sitting next to You is Nakèd!![/size]
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 8:48am On Dec 04, 2015
Jolllyjoy:
Nice point tho if only men will listen.

Btw tallesty how do one deal with a rape accusation from one's own wife?
Legally a man cannot rape his wife. He can only be charged for battery associated with the 'rape'..
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by hemmaoshos(m): 8:49am On Dec 04, 2015
Another tips...if you know the girl is back for revenge always put your phone on call recorder, if you talk on phone with her.. If she or you arrange for any Gonking, always put your phone on voice recorder...Because she might want to rape you in her house and if you refuse, you are the rapist.....Most of them are liars because you don't want their cheating ass..
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Jascon4: 9:13am On Dec 04, 2015
sweetchizzy:
let those that have ear hear. by the way am new on this forum. so welcome me pals.
You are so welcome
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by CoolUsername: 10:35am On Dec 04, 2015
stupidity:
steady fvcking or fvcks#


Na xo one babe package her weapon of "man's" destruction come my house. I lost my sense of self control and started touching her, she nor talk, I smooch her sotay I try pull her clothes, she say no, I try again, she say NO. I continue the smooching, the thing climb her head, she forget herself and I succeeded and gonked her. She enjoy am nor be small.

I invited her another day, she refused, I ask her waten apen, she say I rape her the other time.
"Me rape you"? She say yes, "how"? She say she told me to stop and I still went ahead and did it.
"Shuuu!!, wait o, when I dey do am, you shout for HELP? She say no, "you dey shout RAPE!!? She say no. "Shay you dey shout ahh ahhhh when I dey do am? She say "maybe, I can't remember".

How I con take rape you?
I can't believe people are liking this. This country completely sucks for women.

This man raped a lady and is bragging about it on a public forum and has almost 200 likes? WTF! Now he's blaming her for dressing nice and calling it 'gonking'.

I'll tell you how you raped her:
1. You admitted that you lost your self-control.
2. She said NO and you didn't stop.

Ruminate on that and if you have any shred of decency, you'll come to your senses.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by geraldhumphrey(m): 10:37am On Dec 04, 2015
Cox Guys ar matured enuf to bear d loss or pain
Estharfabian:
undecidedundecided Nigerian guys won't still Listen to all this...undecided

Bottoms line's They need to be cAstrated...That's the only way! You don't see girls raping guys...or guys giving false Rape accusation against ladies...lipsrsealed

Why? 'Coz We're Responsible beings...gringrin

PS---------if I hurt your Masculine feelings, Sorry, I ain't sorry..cool
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by CoolUsername: 10:43am On Dec 04, 2015
Tallesty1:
1: Don't Date A Minor: I personally cannot date a girl who's less than 20. The reason is, it doesn't matter if you have been dating her for years, it doesn't matter if she's a queen in the jungle, once caught, her parents will be shouting you raped my daughter. The girl will not stand up for you. Her mother will ask her. "He raped you right"? She will not say NO, in other not to be beaten, she will nod head in affirmation and that signs you deal with the police.
If an adult should have se.x with a minor, whether it's consensual or not, it is termed statutory rape. Seriously guys, keep your package out of reach of children. Anybody less than 18 should be left alone for his/her age group. Or better still, just wait.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Codyt(m): 11:34am On Dec 04, 2015
Estharfabian:
Another pained guy spotted!cry

Whatever happened to "freedom of speech?"...lipsrsealed
Am not Pained. U sef think am. sad
E no good na
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by smogup: 1:21pm On Dec 04, 2015
Every man has the instrument of rape in him
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Jascon4: 1:39pm On Dec 04, 2015
Autino:
to me the best way of dealing with the issue of rep isfor our young girls to stop indisent dressing, they should learn from men how to dress.becouse the way our gils are dressing nowadays is very tempting.
Indecent dressing in no way excuses or justifies rape
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 1:50pm On Dec 04, 2015
MzPecs:
And how would you know that?

What about those guys that do and when caught, they confess they never knew how it all happened?
WTF? those guys are obviously lying!!!!!
The fact is, there is no way you can forcefully have sex with a lady without being in full control, All those guys caught who say this are obviously counting on the stupidity of such assumptions made by fickle minded people to escape the law
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Nobody: 2:02pm On Dec 04, 2015
Fkhalifa:
bro i wan ask question, who is likely to be less on heat and desire to gonk a woman between a chronic masturbator and woman gonkers? who is likely to feel the heat more? does it matter if you have tasted the ponmo before or not? sad
It doesn't really matter if you have tasted it or not. A chronic masturbator and a regular fvcker could get as much heat as the other. it's about the mind and exposure to opportunities and sex stimulating stuffs
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by MzPecs(f): 2:07pm On Dec 04, 2015
lestat:
WTF? those guys are obviously lying!!!!!
The fact is, there is no way you can forcefully have sex with a lady without being in full control, All those guys caught who say this are obviously counting on the stupidity of such assumptions made by fickle minded people to escape the law
Kinda true tho!
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by Proffdada: 7:53pm On Dec 04, 2015
Estharfabian:
Courage to say wHat?undecidedlipsrsealed

LoL! let's call a spade a spade...which Guy rape have U seen Made the news?undecided Girls could control their libidoz..we know howtah get what we want inna less animalistic, And immature way...wink.

**A round of applause for the girls jaweh!**gringrin
You are so hypocritical with girls
Girls DO rape and I was almost a victim cry
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by HrHEzeIgwe: 8:50am On Dec 06, 2015
I concur.
Re: Guys: How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Accusations. by GetRekt: 7:48pm On Dec 18, 2015
Tallesty1:
The issue of rape has become so prevalent in our society that there's hardly a day that passes without a new rape case.

I don't know what's happening and I can't tell what is really wrong with people but I think the time for reasoning is here.

I know there is a law that protects rape victims but is there really a law that protects the falsely accused? Especially in a country like ours where the rich can always have their way?

Ever wondered why women scream rape anytime there's a fight and accuse the man of beating her up at the slightest provocation and starving her anytime they're caught cheating.?

It is because these two things always give them upper hand in most cases.

Now I am not trying to say there are no rapists out there. Many of them are roaming the streets looking for the next lady to jump on but there are some that were accused falsely and they are the ones I want to tell how to protect themselves in the future by following this steps because a significant number of false rape claims can be avoided by exercising caution and staying clear of situations where the likelihood of a false rape claim is enhanced.

1: Don't Date A Minor: I personally cannot date a girl who's less than 20. The reason is, it doesn't matter if you have been dating her for years, it doesn't matter if she's a queen in the jungle, once caught, her parents will be shouting you raped my daughter. The girl will not stand up for you. Her mother will ask her. "He raped you right"? She will not say NO, in other not to be beaten, she will nod head in affirmation and that signs you deal with the police.

2: Tell Your Parents About Your Relationship: If you're too young to let your parents or the girl's parents, or any of her relations to know what's going on between two of you then you're obviously too young to date.

3: Don't Drink To Stupor if you are taking a woman home: So that you will still have sense to stop If she says "No", at any time.
Women no longer play "hard to get." If an adult woman wants your sexual companionship, then she'll make it abundantly clear. If she does not, don't bother. If she says "NO", please buckle up and send her home even if the time is 1am or sleep in another room if her reason is genuine.

4: Don't Sleep With An Intoxicated Lady Unless You Have Been With Her For Long: If the woman is high or intoxicated, don't even try for sex.. Call her a cab or take her home and then leave.

5: Don't date an insecure and unstable woman: If you get any signs that the woman is insecure or unstable, end whatever you have with her as quickly as possible. Do not contact her again.

6: Don't Take a woman home for sex after a bad date without some receipts: Make certain that you are able to account for your time in the wake of a "bad date." Stop at a fast food restaurant, just anything that will support your claim that you were with throughout the evening

7: Leave When You Sense Problem: If you get into any kind of dispute with a woman who you don't know or who you don't know well, end the argument and leave the scene.


And Finally don't cheat on a person that loves you. Anger, frustration and jealousy might just push them to frame you up. I know That Trials require evidence but what happens when the people handling the case like bribes?

Becareful around things that have engines and tires and around people that have breasts, they will definitely give you troubles.
Some of this was misogynistic, but mostly good points. Thanks.

By the way, no. 1, 3 and 4 are actually classified as rape. Good post, just wanted to clarify that misinformation. (:

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