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Hi dearies do you want to know men’s deepest need in love and dating? Just take a wild guess! The answer is as simple as ABC. It’s Sex. I bet you are surprised right? But before you jump to any conclusions, let me say that just because sex happens to be a man’s deepest need, that doesn’t make them perverts. Far from it! After all, it wasn’t their idea. It was how they were created. After all, the human race wouldn’t be here if they didn’t have that deep-seated need to “perpetuate the species,” to “go forth and multiply,” to “subjugate the earth,” and so on. You get the idea! That’s why it’s wrong to think of a guy’s need for sex as dirty, or sick, or evil, etc. If you think that way, then you also think Mother Nature is dirty, or sick, or evil. (And that’s a crazy idea.) So to love a man, you need to respect him first. Right? And to respect a man, you have to understand him first. Right? (Right!) So today, let me share with you a man’s deepest secrets about his deepest need. Actually, to be more specific, they don’t have just one deepest need. They have three:


1. A man’s first deepest need is to feel Sexually Desirable. To be more specific, men need to feel the most sexually desirable person in our world. And this is one of the main challenges of a long-term relationship. Especially when your sex life becomes too routine like, and then the woman loses interest in making love and then the guy starts thinking that he no longer think he’s sexually desirable. Now meeting this need isn’t just child’s play. Don’t just tell your man you want to meet his need, they need to feel it, they need to see it in the way we look at them, the way we talk to them, and the way we respond to them when they are making love to us.


2. A man’s second deepest need is to do Something Forbidden. I don’t mean doing anything against the law. (And if you’re dating a man who’s doing anything criminal, leave him as soon as you can please!) What I mean is doing something outside the norm, swimming against the current, and doing our own thing. Every guy has a “wild side,” and not every woman can like (or even accept) it. But if you truly love him, and as long as his “wild side” doesn’t break the law or step on anyone’s toes, then be prepared to accept it, share it with him, and satisfy it. It’s that simple.


3. A mans third deepest need is Sexual Variety. One of Mother Nature’s “foolproof” survival measures for the human race was to make guys want to have sex with as many women as possible and since men are still in this world after hundreds of thousands of years, I’d say it worked! Of course, Mother Nature is all about balance so she also instilled in men the ability to control these primitive urges. Now this wonderful ability has manifested in society in the form of wearing clothes, living in homes, separate bathrooms, the institution of marriage, and so on. But even in a monogamous, married relationship, men’s need for sexual variety is pretty much alive and they need our help, pretty much to satisfy it. With this need, you should introduce variety in the bedroom. Try new things, get into role-playing, pretend to be strangers, etc. whatever fits your fancy! That way, he’ll feel as though he’s having sex with many different women but you still belong to each other. Either way it’s a Win-win situation. Do you get me?


Now here’s the tough choice we need to make. It’s sad, but some of us ladies have issues with these three “deepest needs” of a man. When our boyfriend or husband try to look sexually desirable to us, we say: “Stop being crazy and
dress normally. “When he wants to make love, we say “No.” When he wants to try something new in the bedroom, we say, “You’re sick.” So he starts looking for something (or someone) to satisfy his deepest needs and the relationship crumbles and fails. And these women blame him for it! I know some of us ladies have this “picture-perfect idea” of what your relationship and sex life “should be.” But remember, you might be going against what’s meant to be and when you go against what’s meant to be, someone’s got to give. (And it won’t be her.) But here’s the good news. It’s possible to meet a guy’s deepest needs and still achieve your “picture-perfect idea” for your relationship. In other words, it’s possible for you and your man to be totally, completely fulfilled by the relationship you share and you’ll never need to look elsewhere for the love and happiness you both need. Now picture this: He’ll be so sure of your love and desire that he’d be absolutely crazy to look for love elsewhere. What’s more is, your relationship will be the most exciting and enjoyable thing to ever happen to your life and he’ll feel the exact same way. And best of all,every romp you share in the bedroom will be better, more exciting, and more satisfying than the last one. Why? Because you know, understand, and respect every single one of his needs and as a result, he also meets every single one of your needs without fail! Voila! Before I go, I have just one more thing to say: Most guys already know that they have these three deepest needs – to feel sexually desirable, to break the norm, and to have sex with many different women. And, yes, most of them wish women already knew these three deepest needs of men because it would make handling relationships and marriages so much easier and more enjoyable. It would prevent painful breakups and messy divorces for millions of couples! Unfortunately, they don’t want to have to teach the women in their lives about these deepest needs because they are afraid they will be judged, or hated, or made fun of, and so on. But if you are a smart woman who wants a long lasting relationship with her man, you’ll learn these revelations I’ve given you, and use it for your own good.
To our happiness. Cheers.

Yawns

Lets look at this holistically... Cuz my needs as a man can be very very different from your needs as a man in relationships

simtosul:
HI dearies do you want to know men’s deepest
need in love and dating? Just take a wild guess!
The answer is as simple as ABC. It’s Sex. I bet
you are surprised right? But before you jump to any
conclusions, let me say that just because sex
happens to be a man’s deepest need, that doesn’t
make them perverts. Far from it! After all, it wasn’t
their idea. It was how they were created. After all,
the human race wouldn’t be here if they didn’t
have that deep-seated need to “perpetuate the
species,” to “go forth and multiply,” to “subjugate
the earth,” and so on. Lol. You get the idea! That’s
why it’s wrong to think of a guy’s need for sex as
dirty, or sick, or evil, etc. If you think that way,
then you also think Mother Nature is dirty, or sick,
or evil. (And that’s a crazy idea.)
So to love a man, you need to respect him first.
Right? And to respect a man, you have to
understand him first. Right? (Right!) So today, let
me share with you a man’s deepest secrets about
his deepest need. Actually, to be more specific,
they don’t have just one deepest need. They have
three:


1. A man’s first deepest need is to feel Sexually
Desirable. Or, to be more specific, men need to
feel the most sexually desirable person in our
world. And this is one of the main challenges of a
long-term relationship. Especially when your sex
life becomes too routine like, and then the woman
loses interest in making love and then the guy
starts thinking that he no longer think he’s
sexually desirable.
Now meeting this need isn’t just child’s play.
Don’t just tell your man you want to meet his
need, they need to feel it, they need to see it in
the way we look at them, the way we talk to
them, and the way we respond to them when
they are making love to us.


2. A man’s second deepest need is to do Something
Forbidden. And no, I don’t mean doing anything
against the law. (And if you’re dating a man
who’s doing anything criminal, leave him as soon
as you can please!) What I mean is doing
something outside the norm, swimming against
the current, and doing our own thing.
Every guy has a “wild side,” and not every woman
can like (or even accept) it. But if you truly love
him, and as long as his “wild side” doesn’t break
the law or step on anyone’s toes, then be
prepared to accept it, share it with him, and
satisfy it. It’s that simple.


3. A mans third deepest need is Sexual Variety. One
of Mother Nature’s “foolproof” survival measures
for the human race was to make guys want to
have sex with as many women as possible and
since men are still in this world after hundreds of
thousands of years, I’d say it worked! Of course,
Mother Nature is all about balance so she also
instilled in men the ability to control these
primitive urges. Now this wonderful ability has
manifested in society in the form of wearing
clothes, living in homes, separate bathrooms, the
institution of marriage, and so on. But even in a
monogamous, married relationship, men’s need
for sexual variety is pretty much alive and they
need our help, pretty much to satisfy it. With this
need, you should introduce variety in the
bedroom. Try new things, get into role-playing,
pretend to be strangers, etc. whatever fits your
fancy! That way, he’ll feel as though he’s having
sex with many different women but you still
belong to each other. Either way it’s a Win-win
situation. Do you get me?


Now here’s the tough choice we need to make.
It’s sad, but some of us ladies have issues with
these three “deepest needs” of a man. When our
boyfriend or husband try to look sexually
desirable to us, we say: “Stop being crazy and
dress normally. “When he wants to make love, we
say “No.” When he wants to try something new in
the bedroom, we say, “You’re sick.” So he starts
looking for something (or someone) to satisfy his
deepest needs and the relationship crumbles and
fails. And these women blame him for it! I know
some of us ladies have this “picture-perfect idea”
of what your relationship and sex life “should be.”
But remember, you might be going against what’s
meant to be and when you go against what’s
meant to be, someone’s got to give. (And it won’t
be her.)
But here’s the good news. It’s possible to meet a
guy’s deepest needs and still achieve your
“picture-perfect idea” for your relationship. In
other words, it’s possible for you and your man to
be totally, completely fulfilled by the relationship
you share and you’ll never need to look elsewhere
for the love and happiness you both need.
Now picture this: He’ll be so sure of your love
and desire that he’d be absolutely crazy to look
for love elsewhere. What’s more is, your
relationship will be the most exciting and
enjoyable thing to ever happen to your life and
he’ll feel the exact same way. And best of all,
every romp you share in the bedroom will be
better, more exciting, and more satisfying than
the last one. Why? Because you know,
understand, and respect every single one of his
needs and as a result, he also meets every single
one of your needs without fail! Voila!
Before I go, I have just one more thing to say:
Most guys already know that they have these
three deepest needs – to feel sexually desirable,
to break the norm, and to have sex with many
different women. And, yes, most of them wish
women already knew these three deepest needs
of men because it would make handling
relationships and marriages so much easier and
more enjoyable. It would prevent painful breakups
and messy divorces for millions of couples!
Unfortunately, they don’t want to have to teach
the women in their lives about these deepest
needs because they are afraid they will be judged,
or hated, or made fun of, and so on. But if you
are a smart woman who wants a long lasting
relationship with her man, you’ll learn these
revelations I’ve given you, and use it for your own
good.
To our happiness. Cheers.

EPIC LIES

fvck ! fvck ! fvck ! is that all that matters?

jashar:
na lie

den wat is it

Cutehector:
den wat is it

You're a man tell me. I think it's respect.

jashar:
You're a man tell me. I think it's respect.

very correct.. I would neva eva put a ring on her finger if she doesnt respect me... No matter how much time we hv spent together courting...

Cutehector:
very correct.. I would neva eva put a ring on her finger if she doesnt respect me... No matter how much time we hv spent together courting...

Yayyyyyy!!!!!! I gerrit. . Even in marriage if the s.ex is mind blowing and the wife doesn't respect the husband... wahala go dey.

jashar:
Yayyyyyy!!!!!! I gerrit. . Even in marriage if the s.ex is mind blowing and the wife doesn't respect the husband... wahala go dey.

as in eh... Big wahala... The wife should just let him be d husband dats alll.. Even if she is d one bringin in income, she should just let him be the husband... Wives make or break the home...