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Juzzybabe:
Her mother is simply making her who she wants her to be,not who the girl desires to be. Its also called child abuse.

Best comment so far!

FrancisTony:
What about this?

Lol. The parents of those kids with that massive braids needs to be checked to be sure they are ok.

5minsmadness:
Lol!
You know I'm not rude. I rarely even use Vulgar language.
It's just that most of the 'useless' ladies you're talking about have no good home training. They hurl insults and expect the men to take it and keep quiet. When they get served in thier own coin they start crying like babies.
Even then it's only on few occasions I strike back.
I'm a mild mannered character DONT'CHA KNOW

I don't know o.what I know is that you're very rude and extremely disrespectful.infact before I saw your picture I thought you we're one ugly broke man frustrated because no woman no one gree look im side sef

5minsmadness:
What am I lying about now?

you said "as IF the women will allow in the child raising process and I said liar because you know between you and I you're lying. Isn't IT African men that like forming child raising and dressing them up is a woman's affair?

SAMBARRY:
you said "as IF the women will allow in the child raising process and I said liar because you know between you and I you're lying. Isn't IT African men that like forming child raising and dressing them up is a woman's affair?

It would interest u to know that Asian, Russian, Indian, Chinese, Arabian, Scottish and yes even a few Texan men feel the same way too!

But on a more serious note. The woman is closest to the child. She'll definitely impart more on the child esp during its toddler years. A father's discipline comes later. That doesn't mean the man can't have a say in what he would like his daughter to wear though.

5minsmadness:
It would interest u to know that Asian, Russian, Indian, Chinese, Arabian Scottish and yes even a few Texan men feel the same way too!

and your point is?

5minsmadness:
This is the experience I've gotten through interactions with couples on this matter.

Mummy has a daughter and then when she's 5+ starts dressing her in the vulgar fashion as op above. The first person to protest will always be the father. And the mother's response will be:

"you want to tell me how to dress my own child again? "

" what's wrong with the dress? Abeg your mind too dirty jo! "

" this is the way children dress now. Abeg let her live her(my) life.

" If u don't like the way I dress her then better come and start dressing her. Also bath her and feed her. You want to put mouth in this matter, pls it doesn't concern you."

And the one I personally encountered here:

"children cannot be sexy. You must be a pervert to think so. "

So the man gets tired and keeps quiet. Later when the girl gets teenage pregnancy they will start looking to the heavens for the reason why.

Why should he back down when she's his kid? My father never did. My sis was a bit on the crazy side with dressing and hairstyles when younger and my Father would talk about it and she would conform. At a point he made her cut the hair sef
These are the things parents should have a united font about. There are sometimes when a man gotta be a man and have the final say especially if you have a stubborn wife.

Improper guided by her guidance.

jashar:
Why should he back down when she's his kid? My father never did. My sis was a bit on the crazy side with dressing and hairstyles when younger and my Father would talk about it and she would conform. At a point he made her cut the hair sef
These are the things parents should have a united font about. There are sometimes when a man gotta be a man and have the final say especially if you have a stubborn wife.

When a man talks and the mother plays the

"You are a pervert card"

"Only a pervert like you would look at your daughter and see anything wrong with this dress",

" This is how children of nowadays dress"

There are kids under 8 that twerk and grind in their mothers presence with the mother hailing.

raumdeuter:
When a man talks and the mother plays the

"You are a pervert card"

"Only a pervert like you would look at your daughter and see anything wrong with this dress",

" This is how children of nowadays dress"

There are kids under 8 that twerk and grind in their mothers presence with the mother hailing.

Then that one is between the man and the wife. Obviously they have issues. Raising children is a joint effort. Somethings should be agreed upon together not left for one person to decide.

5minsmadness:
Agreed. But will they allow us?

Why not?

Does a real man, a good dad need "allowance or permission" in the first place?

That term applies to sp3rm donors, rent-a-dyke men and irresponsible baby daddies, IMO.

ifyalways:
Why not?

Does a real man, a good dad need "allowance or permission" in the first place?

That term applies to sp3rm donors, rent-a-dyke men and irresponsible baby daddies, IMO.

Ah, so a man doesn't need to ask permission again?
I thought men that enforced thier opinions on women were beasts and misogynists.

5minsmadness:
Ah, so a man doesn't need to ask permission again?
I thought men that enforced thier opinions on women were beasts and misogynists.

Truth is some men dey fùck up seriously. I can't imagine my daughter dressing in crazy attire. Not only will she change it, she or her mom will be made to set said dress on fire.