₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,325,306 members, 8,421,248 topics. Date: Saturday, 06 June 2026 at 06:04 AM

Toggle theme

He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked - Romance (3) - Nairaland

Nairaland ForumNairaland GeneralRomanceHe's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked (58114 Views)

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 ... 12 Reply (Go Down)

Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by iykedare(m): 10:20pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.
You feel like you are using your boyfriend. No you are not.He is the one using you. His dick gets bigger with more s3x while your punny get wider with more sex.
He is depriving your future husband of fresh punn.y.

In Nigeria,even bus conductors can get some girls. Lets not forget that most Nigerian girls are so cheap.

Lol
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by obstead200(m): 10:20pm On Dec 05, 2015
misspicy:
wicked grin

but seriously it will take a long time for Nigerian men to realise that sex is not their birthright...eg a guy can freely talk about how many sexual partner he has had but a lady is supposed to be mute about hers and if she mistakingly blunt out her body count then she is seen as a LovePeddler.....

this mentality is what makes some ladies feel that they are doing a guy a favour by givinng their body to satiafy his sexual pleasure even if they enjoyed it too
u need to spread this gospel far and wide and make sure the girls no longer see sex as a favour to men.
On our part as men, we would start a campaign to end the stigma which men attach to women who boast of their sexual achievement.

Wow!!!! the sex world indeed will have a bright future. I see many broke ass guys getting laid without spending a dime.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by gretblue: 10:20pm On Dec 05, 2015
Irrelevant

Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by firstking01(m): 10:23pm On Dec 05, 2015
hmmm....coming frm a gal on NLshocked...and a pretty one for that matterwink...op expect ma pm asap.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by alexov(m): 10:26pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.
Chalondk come and see o
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by obstead200(m): 10:27pm On Dec 05, 2015
justified19:
ladies enjoy sex more....men only derive pleasure during d few seconds of ejaculation.. d rest na just hard work to make d lady enjoy it...

guys fvck for "pride"

gels fvck for pleasure.

dat is why a guy can brag abt ow many girls he's fvcked but girls hardly do. naso d thing b
serious sense dey for this it write up oooo.

Guys fuc.k most times only to give themselves a greater sense of self worth and some additional pride (when they think of the number of holes they have drilled).
U hardly find a guy who goes after a new girl just cos he enjoys sex.

The enjoyment most guys attain in sex is just that moment of triumphant entry into the veejay for the first time..........that feeling of having conquered again
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Danfuster(m): 10:27pm On Dec 05, 2015
agarawu23:
We both enjoy ourselves when we fvck undecided

What's the crap all about? A jo n gbadun ara wa ni
in K1 the ultimate voice grin grin
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by francizy(m): 10:29pm On Dec 05, 2015
oluamid:
Epic!



Unfortunately, I can only like your post once. Seun, Lalastic...warefa Please move this comment to the FRONT PAGE!
Lalastic... Warefa! grin grin grin

Cc lalasticlala.. grin
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by thamarvelz(m): 10:29pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
u just nailed it.. Need I say more??
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by marshallmoni(m): 10:30pm On Dec 05, 2015
End time sex
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by wtfCode: 10:31pm On Dec 05, 2015
nice one.
Ladies always surprise me with that statement.
Why would u feel used after i'll be sweating, pounding and hammering that hole while u'll be moaning like monalisa.
Men are the one that should feel used cuz we expel alotta energy.
...and again, this lady i straffed 2days ago, rubbed my sperm all over her body...i think i should feel used.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Sanchez01: 10:32pm On Dec 05, 2015
Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist
This your ideology is crude! Haba!! That a young lady clearly expresses her views on sex does not mean education on the female folks are a disaster waiting to happen. And to think she gave a rejoinder that subtly kills your belief is most disturbing. Her response not only shows she is educated but also enlightened. Yorubas would describe her as "Eni ti o ka iwe, ti o tun ka ogbon ori".

The world knows that men in countries such as Saudi Arabia, Iran and Afghanistan, with all their wealth, are nothing but inferior and insecure. Hence, the reason for relegating their women to the background.

I hope you change this 15th century mentality and see that males and females are the same, gender wise. We're Africans but the world is not where it used to be. The earlier you start telling yourself this, the better it would be for you to come to terms with the fact that what makes us is not what was passed down to us but what we understand, believe and have adopted as true and sincere.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by SeverusSnape(m): 10:32pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
Nice post. But Alakija is not the richest woman in Africa. Isabel Dos Santos of Angola is.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Kalvan1000: 10:32pm On Dec 05, 2015
Miggs:
an inferior creature that a woman is can never bring any glory 2 a family.all they do is bring shame and disgrace.d left wing western media is propagating lies that a woman can do what a man can do.keep calm though d anomaly will soon be rectified by d new world order headed by isil
This is the most sense I've seen on this site in weeks. The politically correct zombies may eat you up, but don't forget they're losers and they will always be losers.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by lukas280(m): 10:33pm On Dec 05, 2015
modernised and respectful insults that will bring him bck to his number six brain. or he should ask sanusi lamido sanusi were he can buy brain....he is a real beta man ...this can age u wan dey keep woman for kitchen.... i belive dat guy na aboki for remb those war like muslim country
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by thamarvelz(m): 10:35pm On Dec 05, 2015
Miggs:
an inferior creature that a woman is can never bring any glory 2 a family.all they do is bring shame and disgrace.d left wing western media is propagating lies that a woman can do what a man can do.keep calm though d anomaly will soon be rectified by d new world order headed by isil
OMG! Are u a muslim fundamentalist??
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Holuwahthoseen(m): 10:37pm On Dec 05, 2015
RIDICULOUS RIDICULOUS RIDICULOUS
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by AfroKnight: 10:37pm On Dec 05, 2015
One of the most disgusting things a lady can say is "I gave him sex" or some dumbshit like that. The pleasure of sex goes both ways. Ain't nobody using you.

OP you have a point jare.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 10:38pm On Dec 05, 2015
Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist
Then pack up and move to the middle east. Lazy fool. Nothing makes you better than a woman so stfu dumbass. Your mind is still lost in the 16th century. I hope it soon finds its way back to the 21st century
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Classicman47(m): 10:39pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
B?tch U need to calm the fvck down!!!

U must think u are some kind of Superstar cuz u typed this crap.

Have u ever heard the word "fornication" and do u know it's a sin?

I bet u haven't.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by nnamdizen(m): 10:40pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
I am dead grin
I just love you, cos you put the bullet right through the mofos heart... BETA manman grin
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Naturalle(f): 10:41pm On Dec 05, 2015
Uhm...reaching organism? Like seriously?? lipsrsealed

Flashh:
[color=#225484]Using them for sex as how? Are they not enjoying it the most and reaching organism?

Girls, really? undecided
[/color]
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 10:43pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
BETA-whatever is being kind. Did you see his second post, the pedophile is waiting for a new world order by ISIL, just so you know who you're haggling with.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Flashh: 10:44pm On Dec 05, 2015
Naturalle:
Uhm...reaching organism? Like seriously?? lipsrsealed
[color=#225484]Can you deny it? [/color]
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by lezz(m):
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
Mr Alakija ain't no Alfa male. For Mrs Alakija to have the wealth she does, it means she ain't _fucking coming home every night, or cooking his meals. It takes time, discipline and effort to grow wealth.

An Alfa male does not have divided loyalty, he is controlling and demands the full attention of his wife.

Mr. Alakija puts up with Mrs Alakija , end of story.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by nnamdizen(m): 10:46pm On Dec 05, 2015
justified19:
ladies enjoy sex more....men only derive pleasure during d few seconds of ejaculation.. d rest na just hard work to make d lady enjoy it...

guys fvck for "pride"

gels fvck for pleasure.

dat is why a guy can brag abt ow many girls he's fvcked but girls hardly do. naso d thing b
...now that is a fuckkin Bleep expe yall
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Naturalle(f): 10:47pm On Dec 05, 2015
Not @ all, just thought the word was 'orgasm'. Oxford must've played a fast one on me.


Flashh:
[color=#225484]Can you deny it? [/color]
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by nnamdizen(m): 10:47pm On Dec 05, 2015
justified19:
ladies enjoy sex more....men only derive pleasure during d few seconds of ejaculation.. d rest na just hard work to make d lady enjoy it...

guys fvck for "pride"

gels fvck for pleasure.

dat is why a guy can brag abt ow many girls he's fvcked but girls hardly do. naso d thing b
...now that is a fuckkin Bleep expert yall
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 10:48pm On Dec 05, 2015
MissNoble:
Tell 'em more!
Do you really love sex?
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Sanchez01: 10:48pm On Dec 05, 2015
thamarvelz:
OMG! Are u a muslim fundamentalist??
Unfortunately, I think he is. And to think that he cited countries dominated by Islam makes it obvious. Religion has a way of messing one's life.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by jeremioluwaseyi: 10:50pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.
See true talk abeg.....can't believe this was postered by a girl/lady, whatever..... I sense a woman of *substance* in the OP.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 ... 12 Reply

How To Tell If A Guy Is Playing You: 12 Clues He’s Just Using YouIs Your Man Using You? (ladies Come In)7 Signs She Is Only Using You For Sex234

Delta Man Set To Wed Two Pregnant Women Same Day (Photos)Proposal Goes Wrong As Side Chick Appears And Ruins Beautiful Marriage ProposalMan Drops Surprise Engagement Ring On His Girlfriend's Bed, See What She Did