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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Flashh: 10:51pm On Dec 05, 2015
Naturalle:
Not @ all, just thought the word was 'orgasm'. Oxford must've played a fast one on me.
[color=#225484]My keyboard gave me a wrong suggestion for what I meant. Now I have checked it.

Can I take you there? (cloud 9) wink
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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Malakh: 10:53pm On Dec 05, 2015
the attributes you gave for an average woman is a ho which you are
raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Toks2008(m): 10:53pm On Dec 05, 2015
MissNoble:
Tell 'em more!
Yes i agree totally with what she wrote at least that is another angle to it from a LovePeddler perspective.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Naturalle(f): 10:53pm On Dec 05, 2015
Ah Naa! I prefer the sky cloudless...

Flashh:
[color=#225484]My keyboard gave me a wrong suggestion for what I meant. Now I have checked it.

Can I take you there? (cloud 9) wink
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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Toks2008(m): 10:54pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.
In my opinion..this is a slut's perspective.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by skondo09(m): 10:55pm On Dec 05, 2015
Miggs:
an inferior creature that a woman is can never bring any glory 2 a family.all they do is bring shame and disgrace.d left wing western media is propagating lies that a woman can do what a man can do.keep calm though d anomaly will soon be rectified by d new world order headed by isil
See 'BH INCUBATING '
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Flashh: 10:57pm On Dec 05, 2015
Naturalle:
Ah Naa! I prefer the sky cloudless...
[color=#225484]Don't prevaricate, follow me let's go. [/color]
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by litetias(m): 10:58pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.
Truth is guys nowadays don't respect women cos women lost all self respect apparently what with them becoming whorès and bitchès. So guys take them as sèx toys and nothing more. So yeah most guys don't care about the girls just the sex and of course the ego boost they get from bedding a new girl. Men are hunters while women are game





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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by youngguru23(m): 11:00pm On Dec 05, 2015
Only one person is saying d truth on this thread bt dy won't believe it. Cc : Miggs
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Sanchez01: 11:01pm On Dec 05, 2015
Classicman47:
B?tch U need to calm the fvck down!!!
U must think u are some kind of Superstar cuz u typed this crap.
Have u ever heard the word "fornication" and do u know it's a sin?
I bet u haven't.
I'm sure she has. And have you ever heard the word "cussing"huh *Col 3:8 *Ephesians 4:29 *James 3:10 *Matt 15:11 *Matt 12:36 *Pro 8:13 *2Tim 2:16
Now, tell me, who's more righteous and holier between the both of youhuh
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 11:02pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah for writing an intelligent post like this with confidence. See me for 7 rounds.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Toks2008(m): 11:03pm On Dec 05, 2015
Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist
This is why im so scared to date or marry all these disillusioned grammer speaking modern ladies who have no self respect for herself.

Reading the pooh makes me feel like hearing a LovePeddler speak.

No matter how it looks..a woman who thinks she is using a man for sex is the most foolish homo sapien to grace the surface of this earth. Awom omo iranu..they will latter want a crazy flambouyant wedding for their terribly used body.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Truckpusher(m): 11:05pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
Sorry to burst your bubbles , but I think it is totally unacceptable to use mrs Alakija as an example for any typical African woman in comparison to their counterpart allover the world.
Say something else , and convince us with facts and proofs on how she made her money then we will take your submission seriously after all we all knew how Oprah Winfrey made her money and she wasn't very close to an American head of state and a military dictator in a third world country at some point in her life.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by geez18(m): 11:08pm On Dec 05, 2015
obum88:
Op I bet my left balls that you are not part of the 'we' you used.
your balls! come on dude! don't do that.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by kinglekan: 11:09pm On Dec 05, 2015
raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.

How i wish nairaland had a favorite button. Well said, well constructed and the undiluted truth.

It beats my imagination and i honestly can't fathom why the average Nigerian lady plays victim after having consensual sex with her partner. They both equally wanted it, they both enjoyed it and as a matter of fact the man does most of the work.

Suffice it to say that the only reason they cry hilly billy is because the average Nigerian babe has no self worth and hence her most priced possession is her body, automatically making her feeling cheated and used.


Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by gemale(m): 11:10pm On Dec 05, 2015
Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist
Sorry 4 wt I'm abt 2 say next bt... U R D BIGGEST, MOST IGNORANT, CHAUVINIST FOOL EVER BIRTHED. Wt is worse is dt ur common sense & reasoning is in inverse proportion 2 ur monumental foolishness. Hw r we sure dt u r nt a member of Bokoharam? It's dis archaic, sexist thinking dt gives Islam a bad name. So women shld nt b educated abi? She shld only b seen & nt heard because God didn't give d same mouth & tongue he gave a man abi? Whether u lyk it or not, man & women r equal in our world 2day . if u dnt lyk it, u r free 2 drink a full can of baygon insecticide. In fact if nt 4 freedom of speech guaranteed under democracy, dis remark of yours shld have earned you detention in a secret anti terrorist facility. Werey asiko.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Kennedyiheme: 11:10pm On Dec 05, 2015
All this mumu nairaland girls dey shout alakija alakija everywhere. Most of them here have commented on a thread on how they won't date a broke guy, especially that "misspicy". E dey sweet to talk for mouth but e hard to do. Browse sense abeg
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody:
we know this is all about watering the ground for smooth landing the game changer... but sorry chuckle-head the world isn't only about brains it is also about flexing muscles. people like us have seen all that great plan of yours and eventually more 'men' will come to realize also ,so you have to be ready for a counter responds when it is bound to happen. cool

what should we call this your thread? enlightenment or brainwashing? hm madam feminist? grin

cc: raayah

daretodiffer:
cc Miggs

You know you are not worthy of respect and honor. You know you lack confidence. You know you are nothing without a woman's praise. You are know one. You are not even a beta man, you are the lowest of the lowest. If I were you, I would be focused on improving my self esteem confidencev and raisungb my esteem level. No successful and confident woman born of responsible parents would look at you.

Why don't you do US a favor, focus on women have no self worth and who thrives on pleasing others at the detriment of their happiness.


A woman's decision to live and breathe her kitchen or manage her home does not make her less of a human being. If she is doing it for the sake of the family, then she is as much important to the family as her husband who goes to work every day to fend for his family.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 11:12pm On Dec 05, 2015
isalie:
we know this is all about watering the ground for smooth landing the game changer... but sorry chuckle-head the world isn't only about brains it is also about flexing muscles. people like us have seen all that great plan of yours and eventually more 'men' will come to realize also ,so you have to be ready for a counter responds when it is bound to happen. cool

what should we call this your thread? enlightenment or brainwashing? hm madam feminist? grin
Me I know no o
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Malakh: 11:13pm On Dec 05, 2015
jeremioluwaseyi:
See true talk abeg.....can't believe this was postered by a girl/lady, whatever..... I sense a woman of *substance* in the OP.
she is no woman of substance she's a ho, didnt you read her article
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 11:15pm On Dec 05, 2015
i couldn't have said it better
thumbs up guy

Miggs:
an inferior creature that a woman is can never bring any glory 2 a family.all they do is bring shame and disgrace.d left wing western media is propagating lies that a woman can do what a man can do.keep calm though d anomaly will soon be rectified by d new world order headed by isil
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Mintycynty: 11:17pm On Dec 05, 2015
Miggs:
an inferior creature that a woman is can never bring any glory 2 a family.all they do is bring shame and disgrace.d left wing western media is propagating lies that a woman can do what a man can do.keep calm though d anomaly will soon be rectified by d new world order headed by isil
Mr boko haram! A woman is unique not because she can do wat men can rather she can do wat men Can't! Am sure u beat ur mum and sisters at home. U sound so much like terror in ur house cos ur type cnt v a home n 2 ur environ.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by drnoel:
raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

[s]Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.[/s]

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.
I cancelled that Alpha male stuff cos it's bullshit. Anyway thats ur opinion. Allow those that think they have been used and dumped to be continuing being used and dumped
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by geez18(m): 11:19pm On Dec 05, 2015
misspicy:
wicked grin

but seriously it will take a long time for Nigerian men to realise that sex is not their birthright...eg a guy can freely talk about how many sexual partner he has had but a lady is supposed to be mute about hers and if she mistakingly blunt out her body count then she is seen as a LovePeddler.....

this mentality is what makes some ladies feel that they are doing a guy a favour by givinng their body to satiafy his sexual pleasure even if they enjoyed it too
you got it all wrong!we(guys) wrote our folklore ourselves! we never stopped you(ladies) from doing a better propaganda for yourselves.it is never too late to retrace ones step.history is always written in favour of the victor.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by cococandy(f): 11:20pm On Dec 05, 2015
kiss kiss kiss
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by cococandy(f): 11:22pm On Dec 05, 2015
misspicy:
wicked grin

but seriously it will take a long time for Nigerian men to realise that sex is not their birthright...eg a guy can freely talk about how many sexual partner he has had but a lady is supposed to be mute about hers and if she mistakingly blunt out her body count then she is seen as a LovePeddler.....

this mentality is what makes some ladies feel that they are doing a guy a favour by givinng their body to satiafy his sexual pleasure even if they enjoyed it too
@bold, exactly
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nemesis99(m): 11:28pm On Dec 05, 2015
Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist
walahi talai sumobilahi li azhi lahua, u are a very big vagabond. Don't just quote me if you don't want bricks to fall on you and break your spine
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by gemale(m): 11:29pm On Dec 05, 2015
True talk. It pisses me off when women act lyk dey r doing u a favor by sleeping. Dey expect guys 2 beg & beg b4 giving it up. Sometn we'll both enjoy @ d end. Dey make such a big deal abt xes dt @ d end, guys also get sucked in2 heir reasoning. Hence, sleeping wt a woman bcoms directly linked 2 ur desirability as a man. It makes u "d man" among ur frnd especially if she is "hard 2 get"
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by biookuta(m): 11:30pm On Dec 05, 2015
thoollz:
I love your response. Don't mind him, maybe that was what he was taught while growing, or maybe his mum did 'd kitchen work'. He made mention of Saudi arabia, Iran and Afghanistan, Bro why are you in this part of the world? You can as well move down there, if that's your belief. Thrash talk from someone that calls himself a man
forgetting that some women bring in bastard child in d family.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 11:32pm On Dec 05, 2015
with this her femdom idealism, if she start talking something like the tomboy and morphed muscles on female even strapon 5ex stuff i won't be surprised...


FuckTheMod:
Chai!



End time indeed...

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I hope your father would be happy to read this...
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Walesadeyemi(m): 11:32pm On Dec 05, 2015
Miggs:
an inferior creature that a woman is can never bring any glory 2 a family.all they do is bring shame and disgrace.d left wing western media is propagating lies that a woman can do what a man can do.keep calm though d anomaly will soon be rectified by d new world order headed by isil
I'm ashamed that you even exist........you bring a whole new meaning to LOW IQ
I'm a man just like you and I can't believe the magnitude of garbage coming out of your mouth, please don't go fishing in any these rivers or ocean Coz you would kill all the fishes with the toxic waste coming out of your mouth.
Na this kind people dey join bokoharam sef #horriblementality#
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by cococandy(f): 11:33pm On Dec 05, 2015
Walesadeyemi:
I'm ashamed that you even exist........you bring a whole new meaning to LOW IQ
I'm a man just like you and I can't believe the magnitude of garbage coming out of your mouth, please don't go fishing in any these rivers or ocean Coz you would kill all the fishes with the toxic waste coming out of your mouth.
Na this kind people dey join bokoharam sef #horriblementality#
grin grin grin

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