raayah:


Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.

raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.

raayah:


Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.

AfroKnight:
One of the most disgusting things a lady can say is "I gave him sex" or some dumbshit like that. The pleasure of sex goes both ways. Ain't nobody using you.

OP you have a point jare.

Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist

raayah:


Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.

Toks2008:


This is why im so scared to date or marry all these disillusioned grammer speaking modern ladies who have no self respect for herself.

Reading the pooh makes me feel like hearing a LovePeddler speak.

No matter how it looks..a woman who thinks she is using a man for sex is the most foolish homo sapien to grace the surface of this earth. Awom omo iranu..they will latter want a crazy flambouyant wedding for their terribly used body.

gemale:

Sorry 4 wt I'm abt 2 say next bt... U R D BIGGEST, MOST IGNORANT, CHAUVINIST FOOL EVER BIRTHED. Wt is worse is dt ur common sense & reasoning is in inverse proportion 2 ur monumental foolishness. Hw r we sure dt u r nt a member of Bokoharam? It's dis archaic, sexist thinking dt gives Islam a bad name. So women shld nt b educated abi? She shld only b seen & nt heard because God didn't give d same mouth & tongue he gave a man abi? Whether u lyk it or not, man & women r equal in our world 2day . if u dnt lyk it, u r free 2 drink a full can of baygon insecticide. In fact if nt 4 freedom of speech guaranteed under democracy, dis remark of yours shld have earned you detention in a secret anti terrorist facility. Werey asiko.

Miggs:
an inferior creature that a woman is can never bring any glory 2 a family.all they do is bring shame and disgrace.d left wing western media is propagating lies that a woman can do what a man can do.keep calm though d anomaly will soon be rectified by d new world order headed by isil

Naturalle:
Uhm...reaching organism? Like seriously??

hotdi:


Exactly! Some of us men, especially me, found it very hard to do kitchen/family/house chores, but most women can go out, work and make money to fend for the family just as we do. To me o, I regard my mum as more important than ...every other person in the house
Joke with her and I will bite u

oladimejiX:


he must be an alien if the girls he beds reach organism and not orgasm
bwahaha laughing my backside off, flash, mr organism

cyprus000:


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Both you and people who liked your pathetic post. Are idiots.
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raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.

Seculent:
Stop asslicking, check the thread well, he later told her the reason for the wrong word.

isalie:
how? please explain how and why?

raayah:

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is.

This Lady Doesn't Believe That "Men Only Use Women For Sex"

cyprus000:


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I actually didn't want to say much,but for the sake of your civility. I will address his fvcktard.

First: he said a woman can not bring glory to a family. This is a statement only an imbecill will make.

Second:he said, all woman bring to a family is shame and disgrace. I hope a brain dead lummox lyk him knows that he was begothen by a woman. Even his quran acknowledge the effort of woman.

Lastly: he said there will be a new world order headed by ISIS. This is just an idiotic illusion caved from a fragment of his imagination.

Try and induce some sense into him,dats if you abode in the space of sanity.


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Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist

Warris dis wan saying nitori olorun ?

Flashh:


When last did you go for brain checkup?

What's all these rubbish you just type? And how does the guy deserve this hogwash?

Seriously, you need to grow up and stop buttlicking a LovePeddler to insult your fellow man.

Afam4eva:

While I agree with the overall point, your Alakija example doesn't make sense. Folorunsi married her husband while she was still a Fashion designer on Allen Avenue. There's no way she can leave her husband for another. You also don't know if she is doing things with other men in secret.

And your point above is clearly void of common sense too and thats putting it mildly.

So the mere fact that she got married to him like you clearly asserted while she was a fashion designer means she can't divorce him or engage in extramarital affairs?

And also you opined that she (op) also doesn't know if she (Alakija) is doing things with other men secret. Going by that same logic/analogy you also don't know if she has been faithful for the past 37years.

The next time you want to hinge your argument on mere conjecture, think well so you dont end up sounding pretty silly.

Kapeeeeshhh!!!!

isalie:
well said but what i see is you giving the dog a bad name in order to kill it. that guy has a point despite his extremism ways of expressing them.

since you appear to be mature and learned i'd expect you to address issues from both side otherwise it would be assumed you have taken sides with the feminist'. if you know what i mean.

Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist

simdam500:
after seein d above on front page, i was like "which silly mod modify the topic to this" but i guess i hate to say this, the mod did d right thing... How can a lady open a thread to spit this crap and guys are commending her to say more... Its soo gross...

I hate to talk sex online but maybe i'll break my rule for the op. Men use female for sex, infact women are seen as sex machine. Take a look at music videos, look at manniquine (before u see a male, u will see 10 female). Between both sexes, who sees oneselves as an entertainment tool for d other...


Dont get me started with pørñ, who is been dominated Who is to be used(submissive). When 3some is mentioned, what comes to mind first? (MMF)... Why so?

To some point, i think the guys that are hailing u have no idea what you are talking about, but it good. Not all guys on nairaland are dumb that is why the mod that modify ur topic for front page is smart enough to know what is right.

Who is expecting to be rewarded after sex? Who believe after sex, i should give her cash?
Which of the sexes believe after fvcking, u shouldn't be with any other person or he/she get jealous?

Op. If i(or any guy) take u in now, UnCloth u and make out. Do u think after the whole pleasure, i will dress u up? think my sister, u are already used. If i dress u up? It because i want u again tomorrow...



Off Topic: am sorry for any vulga word in my reply... I take it all back... Women are really the salt of the world... Bless

Flashh:
A whòre is talking. Girls like these whose body has been overused don't deserve bride's price at all.

This is what I hate about most Nairaland guys, whenever a girl encourages sex, they will start asslicker her all over, but they won't open their eyes to see the disadvantages of it.

I'm highly disappointed in most of you.

Dude do you have comprehension problems? Am amazed you are struggling really hard to understand the contents of this thread.

Quite pathetic tho.

Evidence of skipping classes @ bold.

cyprus000:


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If you have known me well. You will know that feminism is a thing I don't fancy and don't want around me. On the day my future wife comes home and tell me that she is a feminist. Our marriage is over. Two captian can not rule one ship. Tho I support equality and equity in certain areas.

Like education,job opportunity e.t.c but not at home and other areas.

That been said. The only reasonable point he made, is in his first comment(the sex part) and I don't total agree with him.
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isalie:
hahahahahaha dude, you go like to sit down ontop fence well well...

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Omo na him safe pass
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kinglekan:



Dude do you have comprehension problems? Am amazed you are struggling really hard to understand the contents of this thread.

Quite pathetic tho.

Evidence of skipping classes @ bold.