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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by raayah(op): 4:59am On Dec 06, 2015
Malakh:
yes they are, if you are not married and you aren't a virgin or married and you indulge in sex, you's a hoe/dog
Ok. Didn't know that sex could change your biological and physical features and turn you into a dog..

We keep learning everyday
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by raayah(op): 4:59am On Dec 06, 2015
ccollins:
why a woman should be loved, she should be treated lower in status.. it is this rubbish perception of modernism and exposure that brings lots of problems and complications from women folks,women being relegated to kitchen was part of reasons our fore fathers lived longer.. these days all in name of reformist agendas of 21st century ,you see rubbish like unmerited feminism, equality which is unrealistic and stupid comparisms of beta and alpha males to satistfy there jealous ego on men and justify there wanton stupidity and complicated characters by having a mirage and deluded thinking of having equal status to men, all this are nonsense from female folks, even though I do not like islam due to it's faith. it seems that the women section of being submissive is quite a forward one
Huh?
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by ccollins(m): 5:03am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Huh?
Z
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Kazrem(m): 5:11am On Dec 06, 2015
agarawu23:
We both enjoy ourselves when we fvck undecided

What's the crap all about? A jo n gbadun ara wa ni
Exactly what I had in mind.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Josephamstrong1(m): 6:00am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
Digital lies.
Isabel Dos Santos stl richest u kw. and please stop hasty generalisation abt ppl wen u don't any shii abt 'em. U don't kw abt her sexual relationship wt doz biznx tycoon men. I kw u'll say, she's a Christian.
Read ya bible coz it's Sunday. Do u kw y woman was created last? do u kw how many years Adam was on earth b4 Eve was created? Wasn't after her creation our suffering started?

Wat makes an Alpha male is nt opposite sex relationships. Plz redefine ya mindset on dat. In as much I like ya thread and ds response doesn't mean "u equate women wt men" U stl second created and rated ryt frm Eden.
#peace
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by blakky97(m): 6:14am On Dec 06, 2015
Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist
abeg watin dis mumu dey talk. saudi arabia? iran? have you been to these places? they have female soldiers in their infantry corp. dont say what you dont know again. you are a village goat thats why your wife is locked in the kitchen. not that you are a Muslim. no! its village goat we call your type. abd please dont reply me cos I can track you down if I want.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Josephamstrong1(m): 6:14am On Dec 06, 2015
ccollins:
why a woman should be loved, she should be treated lower in status.. it is this rubbish perception of modernism and exposure that brings lots of problems and complications from women folks,women being relegated to kitchen was part of reasons our fore fathers lived longer.. these days all in name of reformist agendas of 21st century ,you see rubbish like unmerited feminism, equality which is unrealistic and stupid comparisms of beta and alpha males to satistfy there jealous ego on men and justify there wanton stupidity and complicated characters by having a mirage and deluded thinking of having equal status to men, all this are nonsense from female folks, even though I do not like islam due to it's faith. it seems that the women section of being submissive is quite a forward one
Digital talk... thumbs up
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by pikapizy(m): 6:31am On Dec 06, 2015
Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist
I pity ur grandmother ...but I pity ur wife more !
People like u give birth ::::::daughters
No wonder no one knows ur grandfather. And with this mindset no one will know you..behind every great man is a woman encouraging and planing with him. In fact the best way not to give up is when a woman is trying so hard to see u succeed. You feel the need not to disappoint her and lose ur value

Are you a muslim ?The same Islam extremist that said women shouldn't be seen or heard are now the ones using women to commit neferous crimes ...female suicide bombers ...the shooting in US recently was carried out by islamic couples and masterminded by the woman Malik. Last week I got to know Halima Dangote daughter is the CEO of a foundation ..she's not in the kitchen!

If you're a Christian; then you should be dumb because Jesus was friend to women like Mary Magdalene, Martha and Mary her sister ...


If you're an atheist ; then you're plain stupid not to recognize the role of women in history! USA just approved women in military combat and wars like men!
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by silkytouch(m): 6:33am On Dec 06, 2015
An absolute K.O...Miggs, you got knocked the F**K out! See reasonable reasoning served fresh to an unreasonable dude who thinks Nigeria is an Islamic state where the women are not to be heard. Miggs, I pity your life and the woman wey go marry you, in fact I wish your girlfriend or whatever is on Nairaland so she would see this your pathetic comment and dump your sorry ass.
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by xklucvG: 6:36am On Dec 06, 2015
daretodiffer:
cc Miggs

You know you are not worthy of respect and honor. You know you lack confidence. You know you are nothing without a woman's praise. You are know one. You are not even a beta man, you are the lowest of the lowest. If I were you, I would be focused on improving my self esteem confidencev and raisungb my esteem level. No successful and confident woman born of responsible parents would look at you.

Why don't you do US a favor, focus on women have no self worth and who thrives on pleasing others at the detriment of their happiness.


A woman's decision to live and breathe her kitchen or manage her home does not make her less of a human being. If she is doing it for the sake of the family, then she is as much important to the family as her husband who goes to work every day to fend for his family.
If you dislike civilization you can go back to stone age. Women has equal rights as men they are no piece of gadget that you own and use. Religion has destroyed your black mind.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by coolzeal(m): 6:44am On Dec 06, 2015
Women give sex in order to receive love; men give love in order to receive sex. Men crave sex; women crave commitment. The easier it is for us to get sex without commitment, the harder they will give commitment. I don't believe in use and dump except when it comes to gold-digging.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Malakh: 6:46am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Ok. Didn't know that sex could change your biological and physical features and turn you into a dog..

We keep learning everyday
lol,quit playing dumb, you know its figurative not literal
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Cutehector(m): 6:51am On Dec 06, 2015
misspicy:
well that is ur opinion and you aree entitled to it and that is more reason why you will never have successful people in your family because that woman that should bring out ur family glory is been seen but not heard tongue
cmon..u dnt go on insulting one's family.... Now apologize to him
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 6:57am On Dec 06, 2015
xklucvG:
If you dislike civilization you can go back to stone age. Women has equal rights as men they are no piece of gadget that you own and use. Religion has destroyed your black mind.
What has my post got to with this BS you typed? I am trying so hard to see the correlation here but I still can't find it.


Well, I have noticed you. That is what you want, right?
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by LydayBobo(m): 6:58am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
Mogbe! eleyi gidigan...Lady Spartacus
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by misspicy(f): 7:04am On Dec 06, 2015
Cutehector:
cmon..u dnt go on insulting one's family.... Now apologize to him
seriously won't you feel bad if someone says.that to your sis?......okay o,am sowi mr Miggs





but did someone hack your account when you wrote this?

Cutehector: yeah my bad.. Ok frm nw on henceforth i cease to quote u..
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody:
ccollins:
why a woman should be loved, she should be treated lower in status.. it is this rubbish perception of modernism and exposure that brings lots of problems and complications from women folks,women being relegated to kitchen was part of reasons our fore fathers lived longer.. these days all in name of reformist agendas of 21st century ,you see rubbish like unmerited feminism, equality which is unrealistic and stupid comparisms of beta and alpha males to satistfy there jealous ego on men and justify there wanton stupidity and complicated characters by having a mirage and deluded thinking of having equal status to men, all this are nonsense from female folks, even though I do not like islam due to it's faith. it seems that the women section of being submissive is quite a forward one
What does longetivity have to do with women submissiveness? Why are you so reta.rded

If you want a property, go and find it. Your mum might have appreciated being ‘submissive' but don't try to convince us about how much you like your women being slaves.


There are so many things you don't know about women in Islam so get please lost and stop trying to appreciate that aspect. If you call me a feminist, you have to thank my religion for thatcheesy
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Theomajor(m): 7:06am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
Wow, i know this is probably stale raayah, but mahn do i love that awesome response. That Mr. Sounded like an uneducated african from the stone age or something. I am surprised he got likes for that post.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by ccollins(m): 7:31am On Dec 06, 2015
Josephamstrong1:
Digital talk... thumbs up
yea still pragmatic in many areas
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by thamarvelz(m): 7:33am On Dec 06, 2015
Sanchez01:
Unfortunately, I think he is. And to think that he cited countries dominated by Islam makes it obvious. Religion has a way of messing one's life.
He shld be watched by the authorities, seriously.. WTF!
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by nellyelitz(m): 7:37am On Dec 06, 2015
hotdi:
shocked What a bash!
na the basket mouth want am
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by yorex2011: 7:41am On Dec 06, 2015
So much confirmation bias everywhere...
Even have guys insulting each other for nothing..
Could only find a few great comments here...
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by StreamerBlogger: 7:43am On Dec 06, 2015
And not 1 insulting word.... M in love with ur English teacher. Omo u murdered d guys carrer he won't do it again
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Xapio: 7:43am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
nawa ooo shocked shocked shocked
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Valintos147(f): 7:46am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.
Believe? Well that's her own personal opinion and she is entitled to it, But sometimes if you don't get close to pple you won't know who they are. #My own Opinion#
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by yorex2011:
Another stupid thing I've noticed on nairaland, why so much disrespect and insult.. People hiding behind monikers insulting people you do not know prolly to find you dad's fone and see that the moniker is his...
Everyone has every right to give his own opinion.. I personally appreciate an argument against me when presented in a non-insultive manner..

The truth is calling someone names doesn't actually change the person's mind or opinion on the subject...
Its not cool at all.. We can enjoy ourselves on this forum without insulting others or watch others insult each other...
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 7:56am On Dec 06, 2015
obstead200:
serious sense dey for this it write up oooo.

Guys fuc.k most times only to give themselves a greater sense of self worth and some additional pride (when they think of the number of holes they have drilled).
U hardly find a guy who goes after a new girl just cos he enjoys sex.

The enjoyment most guys attain in sex is just that moment of triumphant entry into the veejay for the first time..........that feeling of having conquered again
dat is d fact
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 7:56am On Dec 06, 2015
nnamdizen:
...now that is a fuckkin Bleep expert yall
grin
nnamdizen:
...now that is a fuckkin Bleep expert yall
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by moreme:
Something dey work you well well.

Please take note that your believe about women position is a foolish believe.

Please denounce your citizenship in Nigeria and go Saudi Arabia because Nigeria will no longer accept animalistic set people like you who see's your fellow human beings not to be relevant. Allow ladies air their views on any thread. Quote as a man of integrity when it's necessary.
Stop deceiving yourself to be anything because you are a boko haram activist that Nigeria do not need.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 8:07am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.
If I know like this post. No be my mama born me. Girl youR thinking faculty is great.
A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by dBard: 8:08am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
*#*#*F A T A L I T Y*#*#*#*
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by claremont(m): 8:11am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.
This is a serious uppercut! grin
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