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Re: Is This Love Or Punishment. Please Advice by austine4real(m): 10:42pm On Dec 06, 2015
My sista tis well o

u can inform his siblings/parents& friends abt his bad sides.

Inform ur parents too.


It seems u'r 4rm d east
Re: Is This Love Or Punishment. Please Advice by danbrowndmf(m): 10:44pm On Dec 06, 2015
misspicy:
kikikiki grin contrary to what you think I have lived with different couples who have been.living peacefully for years,I understand the ups and downs of marriage too...

but my point is,the woman is like a slave in the marriage with enuf evidences kwa,take for example the post on this thread,husband marry anoda wife,and does not care about his main wife again yet he is trailing her up and down,no freedom nothing,and she has no right to complain after all he is her Lord and husband,he bought her with her bride price besides she has 5 kids already,how can she cope alone with 5 children or which mother in her right sense will abandon 5 children?....the woman is stuck already

seriously i dnt feel like typing about marriage tonight

and yes marriage is overrated once again and its only society and family pressures that are forcing most people to marry
well u'v choosen ur path with 'Marriage is Overrated' no need to give u more example to convince u..Good for you!
Re: Is This Love Or Punishment. Please Advice by Nkasiobi87(op): 8:51am On Dec 07, 2015
austine4real:
My sista tis well o


u can inform his siblings/parents& friends abt his bad sides.


Inform ur parents too.



It seems u'r 4rm d east
yea am from the east. he is the bread winner of his father's family. I have inform his siblings and since they all depend on him they dare not talk to him or else the benefits they get from him will cease. all they advice me is to stay that since am the one they paid pride prize on that am the one they know as his wife.that even If my hubby want to marry that girl that I should allow him do so.my people want me to divorce him but with my 5kids am finding it difficult.
Re: Is This Love Or Punishment. Please Advice by austine4real(m): 10:33am On Dec 07, 2015
Nkasiobi87:
yea am from the east. he is the bread winner of his father's family. I have inform his siblings and since they all depend on him they dare not talk to him or else the benefits they get from him will cease. all they advice me is to stay that since am the one they paid pride prize on that am the one they know as his wife.that even If my hubby want to marry that girl that I should allow him do so.my people want me to divorce him but with my 5kids am finding it difficult.
i dnt knw wot else to say just stay strong 4 ur kids.
Re: Is This Love Or Punishment. Please Advice by mummydirect(f): 10:56pm On Dec 11, 2015
Nkasiobi87:
yea I do have education, am an accountan.his reason for the security is that he don't want me to speak with any other man.divorce I have put that in my options. I really need to be happy.
Huh, my sister, this is why I oftenly pray to God not to give my husband riches that will make him miss the track in our marriage. Am sure your hubby is super rich, abeg even if you did not divorce him, you can leave his God forsaken polluted house to somewhere else you can relax and breathe free air. Am sure your hubby isn't that educated. My sister, please go somewhere else and cool off for now please, but don't divorce him, let him start the divorce process himself.
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