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Why Do Men Cheat? by Sexytemi(op): 7:33am On Dec 07, 2015
This question has been bugging me for the past one week, i just can't understand the reasons behind a guy cheating on his girlfriend or a married man cheating on his wife.....
I remember how i used to beat my hand on my cheat telling anyone who cares to listen that my ex wouldn't and can't cheat on me.....ohhhhhhh.....poor me ohh, coz he did without remorse, well, that is really not the case that made me create this topic, but its the case of a friend i know, ohhhh, this guy is such a perfect gentleman, quiet, and so loyal to his girlfriend(lol, that was what i thought o) until i caught him with another girl not half as beautiful as his girlfriend, even the girl i caught him cheating on his girlfriend with acts and behave like a boy(tomboy), then am like what is wrong with guys in general?, why can't they keep their middle man for just one girl?, and why do they tend to cheat in any relationship they are in?,......so to all the guys(on nairaland and beyond), why do guys cheat?.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by obinnashady(m): 7:38am On Dec 07, 2015
because women cheat
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Sexytemi(op): 7:40am On Dec 07, 2015
obinnashady:
because women cheat
lol.....How?
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by umehmj(m): 7:42am On Dec 07, 2015
why do women cheat? or they don't? my dear there is no laid down reason why anybody cheats, not just men. there are so many reasons than one will spend a lifetime listing them. the list is endless. so you are trying to understand what is beyond human capacity. it is mind boggling and has been passed down from generation to generation and it will continue to be so, so long the world tarries
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by ucheHapers(m): 7:44am On Dec 07, 2015
Not a fair answer but well when you eat you still get hungry and you got to eat again
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by obinnashady(m): 7:46am On Dec 07, 2015
Sexytemi:
lol.....How?
can u swear u are dating only one guy?
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Sexytemi(op): 7:49am On Dec 07, 2015
umehmj:
why do women cheat? or they don't? my dear there is no laid down reason why anybody cheats, not just men. there are so many reasons than one will spend a lifetime listing them. the list is endless. so you are trying to understand what is beyond human capacity. it is mind boggling and has been passed down from generation to generation and it will continue to be so, so long the world tarries
But if we were to look around us the rate at which men cheat supersedes that at which women cheat.....when a woman loves a guy, its just him n him alone, but when a guy loves a lady he still believes he has to cheat.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Sexytemi(op): 7:50am On Dec 07, 2015
obinnashady:
can u swear u are dating only one guy?
yap, i can swear on that.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by jmaxjohn(m): 7:50am On Dec 07, 2015
Lack of trust
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by RexKexMilann: 7:50am On Dec 07, 2015
Men Cheat Because they Are Human undecided.









It Shouldn't be So though ..... But Then ..... It is what it is grin.
















Richiy Wifey, How was your night? undecided. Hope You are Finehuh
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by obinnashady(m): 7:52am On Dec 07, 2015
Sexytemi:
yap, i can swear on that.
babe calm down first,are u married or single?
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Sexytemi(op): 7:53am On Dec 07, 2015
obinnashady:
babe calm down first,are u married or single?
lol.....dating.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Nobody: 7:55am On Dec 07, 2015
Because they CHOOSE to.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by hahn(m): 7:59am On Dec 07, 2015
dearpreye:
Because they CHOOSE to.
Exactly. I always tell my wife this.

Men and women cheat but women are smarter at covering theirs up
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Mutuwa(m): 7:59am On Dec 07, 2015
Sexytemi:
This question has been bugging me for the past one week, i just can't understand the reasons behind a guy cheating on his girlfriend or a married man cheating on his wife.....
I remember how i used to beat my hand on my cheat telling anyone who cares to listen that my ex wouldn't and can't cheat on me.....ohhhhhhh.....poor me ohh, coz he did without remorse, well, that is really not the case that made me create this topic, but its the case of a friend i know, ohhhh, this guy is such a perfect gentleman, quiet, and so loyal to his girlfriend(lol, that was what i thought o) until i caught him with another girl not half as beautiful as his girlfriend, even the girl i caught him cheating on his girlfriend with acts and behave like a boy(tomboy), then am like what is wrong with guys in general?, why can't they keep their middle man for just one girl?, and why do they tend to cheat in any relationship they are in?,......so to all the guys(on nairaland and beyond), why do guys cheat?.
Abundance =choice = freedom.
Every gender has cheating potentials,just don't emancipate your's.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Dongorgon5(m): 7:59am On Dec 07, 2015
At one point in life, The son of man must choose another pusssy to fvk.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by obiorathesubtle: 8:01am On Dec 07, 2015
[size=15pt]when you make silly rules like 'no sex till marriage' how do you expect a man with desires, a soul, and breath inside him not to cheat?


Are you the most selfish of living things?


It isn't called cheating, it's called survival. When a man isn't getting what he wants from a relationship, he looks for it outside.. It's as natural as Water.
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Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Nobody: 8:02am On Dec 07, 2015
hahn:
Exactly. I always tell my wife this.

Men and women cheat but women are smarter at covering theirs up
I'm responsible for MY decision. It doesn't matter how my woman behaves, looks, etc. To cheat is MY choice. I don't believe in excuses.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by umehmj(m): 8:02am On Dec 07, 2015
Sexytemi:
But if we were to look around us the rate at which men cheat supersedes that at which woman cheat.....when a woman loves a guy, its just him n him alone, but when a guy loves a lady he still believes he has to cheat.
i want you to see the bigger picture but you are narrowing it down to the guys. cheating is here to stay. don't try to understand it; learn to live with it.

again, don't say men cheat more than women if you don't have the data to prove it. both men and women cheat but men's case is more complicated. i will explain why. women are emotional while men are logical. a man can sleep with a woman with no attachment but women need to bond before they mate. what this means is a guy that cheats is likely going to be caught because his the woman he cheats with will likely not keep it on the low. but the women - a woman can sleep with a guy that is not her man and when the guy sees her with her man, he won't raise a dust cos he doesn't care so long he gets his share of the booty. so its more difficult to burst the women than it is to catch the guys
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by misspicy(f): 8:08am On Dec 07, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
[size=15pt]when you make silly rules like 'no sex till marriage' how do you expect a man with desires, a soul, and breath inside him not to cheat?


Are you the most selfish of living things?


It isn't called cheating, it's called survival.< When a man isn't getting what he wants from a relationship, he looks for it outside.. It's as natural as Water.
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[size=15pt]even if she gives him pvssy for breakfast lunch and dinner he will still cheat

i guess men are confused set of beings
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Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by officialteemi(m): 8:19am On Dec 07, 2015
BECAUSE KONJI NA BASTARD
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by jmaxjohn(m): 8:20am On Dec 07, 2015
misspicy:
[size=15pt]even if she gives him pvssy for breakfast lunch and dinner he will still cheat

i guess men are confused set of beings
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If that's true, same applies to gals. But it's a load of crap. I had a gal who i was giving all, she cheated with 6 other guys within the same frame of time; i scared a confession out of her but i was faithful to her. #dTinHavPassSha
But I'm currently with a gal who truly luvs me nd i deeply trust her, she equally trusts me too.
It's all choice, a mindset.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by umehmj(m): 8:25am On Dec 07, 2015
some people saying all sorts about men but let's get this straight. it takes a woman for a man to cheat. if women are faithful like some claim, then men can't cheat. its a 50-50. how many people concurhuh
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by obiorathesubtle: 8:28am On Dec 07, 2015
misspicy:
[size=15pt]even if she gives him pvssy for breakfast lunch and dinner he will still cheat

i guess men are confused set of beings
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[size=15pt]Lol.. SEe, the thing isn't giving the guy sex 10 times a day, it's how well she gives the guy, even if it's just once a day.. It isn't supposed to be just an act of two people coming together, one digging the other, the other moaning like a cold and Injured dog, its supposed to be an adventure, to be unpredictable n ish, supposed to feel sinful atleast!


I wAtched a movie a long time ago, the woman was a goddess with the sex, I almost prayed for that kind of experience..

Then there's the food, didn't cheat on my ex because she spoiled my tongue.. Lavished the poor thing with sweetness and grace.. I no fit describe sef

No man will cheat with all that.

Men aren't confused, we no dy get wetin we want.

And why you steal my font? angry
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Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by jmoore(m): 8:31am On Dec 07, 2015
Same reason why women like you cheat.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by pbs4real(m): 8:32am On Dec 07, 2015
Sexytemi:
yap, i can swear on that.
hmm! I smell lies everywre undecided
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by misspicy(f): 8:51am On Dec 07, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
[size=15pt]Lol.. SEe, the thing isn't giving the guy sex 10 times a day, it's how well she gives the guy, even if it's just once a day.. It isn't supposed to be just an act of two people coming together, one digging the other, the other moaning like a cold and Injured dog, its supposed to be an adventure, to be unpredictable n ish, supposed to feel sinful atleast!


I wAtched a movie a long time ago, the woman was a goddess with the sex, I almost prayed for that kind of experience..

Then there's the food, didn't cheat on my ex because she spoiled my tongue.. Lavished the poor thing with sweetness and grace.. I no fit describe sef

No man will cheat with all that.

Men aren't confused, we no dy get wetin we want.

And why you steal my font? angry
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[size=19pt]oga Ade even if she gives him monkey in the moon shadow,cook all the delicacies in heaven and on earth....some men will still cheat,am not speaking for speaking sake,I have seen alot of pratical examples around me

i want you to see my replies boldly tongue
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Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by obiorathesubtle: 9:00am On Dec 07, 2015
misspicy:
[size=19pt]oga Ade even if she gives him monkey in the moon shadow,cook all the delicacies in heaven and on earth....some men will still cheat,am not speaking for speaking sake,I have seen alot of pratical examples around me

i want you to see my replies boldly tongue
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[size=15pt]eEhhhh.. Not all the eggs a hen sits on are good eggs. So, maybe I'll let you win this one.. I'm trying out something new, people call it 'being nice'



Oluwaspicy, Stop copying my font! I'll report you to Lalastic o!
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Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by obinnashady(m): 9:02am On Dec 07, 2015
Sexytemi:
lol.....dating.
dating...ok....if you'd tell us the truth,u've cheated a couple of times.u are no saint so..I wouldn't be suprise
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by misspicy(f): 9:09am On Dec 07, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
[size=15pt]eEhhhh.. Not all the eggs a hen sits on are good eggs. So, maybe I'll let you win this one.. I'm trying out something new, people call it 'being nice'



Oluwaspicy, Stop copying my font! I'll report you to Lalastic o!
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Its the truth sir,some people can never be satisfied same goes for women


so i had this boyfriend when i was in school,we good couples and very popular we even look alike,I av done everything and even more for this my guy,do u believe that when he cheated he cheated with one of my roomates he has always been complaining about her body odour,because he is allergic to bad smell,inshort he always avoid her then.....imagine my shock when i discovered

when he will explain himself he said he doesn't know d reason why he did it......shey you see that he is a confused one


am.not using your font again sir....sorry tonguetongue
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Sexytemi(op): 9:09am On Dec 07, 2015
obinnashady:
dating...ok....if you'd tell us the truth,u've cheated a couple of times.u are no saint so..I wouldn't be suprise
Why is it so hard to believe that they are some ladies who don't fancy dating other guys when they are in a serious relationships?, true i have toasters, but i don't fancy double dating, my guy knows about all my toasters, and have never cheated on him.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by firstking01(m): 9:10am On Dec 07, 2015
Sexytemi:
This question has been bugging me for the past one week, i just can't understand the reasons behind a guy cheating on his girlfriend or a married man cheating on his wife.....
I remember how i used to beat my hand on my cheat telling anyone who cares to listen that my ex wouldn't and can't cheat on me.....ohhhhhhh.....poor me ohh, coz he did without remorse, well, that is really not the case that made me create this topic, but its the case of a friend i know, ohhhh, this guy is such a perfect gentleman, quiet, and so loyal to his girlfriend(lol, that was what i thought o) until i caught him with another girl not half as beautiful as his girlfriend, even the girl i caught him cheating on his girlfriend with acts and behave like a boy(tomboy), then am like what is wrong with guys in general?, why can't they keep their middle man for just one girl?, and why do they tend to cheat in any relationship they are in?,......so to all the guys(on nairaland and beyond), why do guys cheat?.
save urself d stress abegi...it has bin like dat since tym of noah...we dnt have any justifiable reason y we cheat,..
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