Wouldn't be surprised if you guys are labelled misogynist if you guys move to adopt the 3rd option. (from a ghost follower of this thread)

Totally ignoring female input is a bit overboard IMO. If not for anything, one gets to appreciate the female view on some topics. Warped opinions/misconceptions can always be pointed out.

If it descends to trolling then one can ignore.

Given the available options, option 3.

Option three sounds reasonable.

HIDDENSECRECY:
Wouldn't be surprised if you guys are labelled misogynist if you guys move to adopt the 3rd option. (from a ghost follower of this thread)

So you no know say we be misogynist before?
We have also been called bitter, frustrated and heartbroken... anywhere you see frustrated NL males in dis section, na we be dat oh

Option 3 would do.Some single ladies want to learn.

njokusboy:


So you no know say we be misogynist before?
We have also been called bitter, frustrated and heartbroken... anywhere you see frustrated NL males in dis section, na we be dat oh

Timbuktou:


Nah, you don't know my type. I'm the best man you could ever date. Fact. . I'm the kind of man women pray for at their Redemption camp pilgrimages. But I also won't shortchange myself with the scraps that litter the streets of Nigeria. Your feelings might be hurt but I'm just being honest.

I'm a gentleman to ladies not bitchès amd sluts.

congrats.

funlord:


I can see why you chaps enjoy trolling her! She actually thinks my "judaism remark"actually refers to "jewish people from isreal"! Talk about lost in translation..... Lol!

You know, I've always wondered why the women on this board seem to "fight" with you guys a lot, I clearly get it now.

My bad.

Option3

freecocoa:
congrats.

OPTION 3ta!

Timbuktou:

Can I ask you a question?

freecocoa:
Can I ask you a question?

Shoot.

freecocoa:
You know, I've always wondered why the women on this board seem to "fight" with you guys a lot, I clearly get it now.

My bad.

Stop being blase! Because we are honest here? I've always wondered why some of you women don't appreciate honesty? I gave you the 'real deal' about an issue that you were debating about with some of my brethren yesterday!
My points were actually in support of yours as regards the debate, but all you could muster as a reply was "smh"! So whose fault was that?

By the way since when did civil conversations between consenting adults become known as "fights"?

TV01:
Morning Y'all...


A40, it's clear from your response to my question, that we have diametrically oposed views on this - singular aspect at least - and no bones, to each his own. But may I ask, what aspects would you believe worthy of consideration when choosing a spouse and why?


TV

Compatibility: Physical, mental

Body is not firewood and to an extent I believe any man would have minimum sexual and physical aspirations from a lifetime partner
Mental compatibility, this one is even more important and essential for longevity in any marriage. Marriage is not my priority atm but the day I find a woman I share this with is the day I know I have found a keeper. This is what will hold you together when the initial Telemundo love has faded

Diplomacy, Courtesy, Tact

You see some dapper looking men with a 4 or a 5 and you think its jazz, s€x or money not knowing the woman just has an awesome personality. I despise aggressive, unnecessarily confrontational women, the ones that never admit when they are wrong and never take to correction

Nurturer, Builder, Supporter

Some women you meet all your hopes, dreams, ambitions die with them. So long as its in contrast with their desires they make sure it is D.O.A. How does your woman act when you tell her your dreams and goals, does she add or bring anything to the table? How is she around your friends and family? Does all your previous interests, life die and go down the drain the moment she becomes your Mrs

There's more just a sneak peek of what I would consider above a Body count

coogar:


stop looking for my trouble. the belly is super-fit. i put in 2-3 hours everyday to have it in a trimmed condition. if it's trimmer than it is, I would be anorexic.

Hi coogar,
I have been trying to get a hold of you, some things I'd like to discuss with you outside here.
I could write to your email address or something.

Mine is @ yahoo.com or bbm - 5903604

Cheers.

Ps: Mostly business.

Timbuktou:


I was right when I said:

1. You were arguing with yourself. Maybe it's because you....
2. .....you have severe comprehension issues.
3. You're incapable of critical thought.


I dare you to present any posts in this thread that support your comments in bold.

Why would I be looking for support of my statements on a thread where more than 90% of the posters disagree with me? Does it make sense to you?
I was perfectly aware of the fact that most of you won't like my contributions when I joined the discussion so tell me how you made sense when you told me to look for support on a thread where almost everyone disagrees with me?

bellong:


What a sweeping statement...

Fatherless kids whose mothers killed their fathers right?

Or fatherless kids whose mothers denied their fathers access to them with the help of the court to get back at the men for not marrying them?

Or fatherless kids whose source of income of the mothers is alimony?

Stop throwing around the word hypocrisy at every opportunity, it is losing its meaning.

Point out hypocrisy in my comments.

Did I say that such things don't happen? Where did you read it?

crackhaus:

So now you agree that it does happen and that it's completely natural.

When you were posting links to defend the alternative, you seemed like you were trying to prove to us scientifically that elasticity is not dependent on birth or extended sexual activity.

S.ex does not stretch it out. This is crap.

TV01:

Again, show one instance of my judging or shaming any woman - that post was patently tongue in cheek. Shaming is what women do, and what you've repeatedly tried on this thread. In fact it was what I called you out for in the first instance .

One instance please


TV

Mindfulness:


Why would I be looking for support of my statements on a thread where more than 90% of the posters disagree with me? Does it make sense to you?
I was perfectly aware of the fact that most of you won't like my contributions when I joined the discussion so tell me how you made sense when you told me to look for support on a thread where almost everyone disagrees with me?

Another blatant display of comprehension deficiency. Let me explain that comment of mine you just quoted:

You accuse me of hypocrisy and I ask you to produce evidence (support) of your claims. Alas, you've gone off on a tangent to Kathmandu. Give it up, Mindfulness. Your brain isn't capable of the sort of discussions we want in this thread. Of course, you may reply but this is my last response to you in this thread. Ciao.

Timbuktou:



Another blatant display of comprehension deficiency. Let me explain that comment of mine you just quoted:

You accuse me of hypocrisy and I ask you to produce evidence (support) of your claims. Alas, you've gone off on a tangent to Kathmandu. Give it up, Mindfulness. Your brain isn't capable of the sort of discussions we want in this thread. Of course, you may reply but this is my last response to you in this thread. Ciao.

Very true.

Timbuktou:



Another blatant display of comprehension deficiency. Let me explain that comment of mine you just quoted:

You accuse me of hypocrisy and I ask you to produce evidence (support) of your claims. Alas, you've gone off on a tangent to Kathmandu. Give it up, Mindfulness. Your brain isn't capable of the sort of discussions we want in this thread. Of course, you may reply but this is my last response to you in this thread. Ciao.

For future reference!

why are people so upset about the fact that women also have multiple partners freely and still marry or date eligible males.

Is that news?

Timbuktou:


Shoot.

in all honesty, in what category will you put the ladies you are friends with in real life?

funlord:


Stop being blase! Because we are honest here? I've always wondered why some of you women don't appreciate honesty? I gave you the 'real deal' about an issue that you were debating about with some of my brethren yesterday!
My points were actually in support of yours as regards the debate, but all you could muster as a reply was "smh"! So whose fault was that?

By the way since when did civil conversations between consenting adults become known as "fights"?

So the fact that I only shook my head at that post, justified what you posted afterwards? How does shaking my head mean I didn't know you were trying to 'clarify' things?

Civil conversations indeed, I guess you are new on the board or maybe people calling their parents names because they disagree is civil to you.

freecocoa:
in all honesty, in what category will you put the ladies you are friends with in real life?

He prolly doesn't have any

freecocoa:
So the fact that I only shook my head at that post, justified what you posted afterwards? How does shaking my head mean I didn't know you were trying to 'clarify' things?

Civil conversations indeed, I guess you are new on the board or maybe people calling their parents names because they disagree is civil to you.

Generalisation? Anyway direct that complaint to those who "may have called you or others names"! I've never been insulted or insulted anyone HERE! Shalom!

freecocoa:
in all honesty, in what category will you put the ladies you are friends with in real life?

Lol. In their appropriate categories na. I don't make the rules, sweety.

Timbuktou:


Lol. In their appropriate categories na. I don't make the rules, sweety.

I know you put them where they belong and you know I'm asking where that is, mostly, so forget diplomacy and answer directly.

freecocoa:
I know you put them where they belong and you know I'm asking where that is, mostly, so forget diplomacy and answer directly.

My point is they cut across all categories. I know the ones to recommend for a real relationship and the ones good enough for just the weekend.

funlord:


Generalisation? Anyway direct that complaint to those who "may have called you or others names"! I've never been insulted or insulted anyone HERE! Shalom!

I'm not complaining, I am stating an observation, know the difference.

Btw, you insulted me yesterday but of course, you didn't know that.