₦airaland Forum

190: uhmm if shes Nigerian 22/23 outmost cos she ought to be at her husband's house by then

Nigerian old cargo'ed girls be like see what this one is saying

This boy is the complete opposite of smart.
He wld just be typing his keyboard lyk as if it's coconut water that full his head. Msssccchhheeewwww











Ogugua, abeg, no ban me....i be lyk say i no too gbadun tonite, u sef, u know say i no dey yab pple lyk dis, na condition! Tenk!

Wat if d lady in question is an orphan? Should she continue staying wit her aunty or uncles in her mid/late twenties instead of living alone? Pls i need an answer

lertee: It pays to remain under you parent's roof until you are married.
1. It helps you save more money,you don't have to bother over houserent,food and other bills.
2. It helps you check the rate of men that come looking for you and thereby you maintain high decency. ( Under this: when a girl lives alone,many men find it as avenue to check her up without fear,she in turn can welcome as many men as she wants because there is no one to caution her,any man can stay in her house till late night or even sleep over all through the weekend all in the name of “we are friends”. I know some people would say if the girl disciplines herself,she can check the number of guys that visit her,how many can she resist? I can categorically say that if 10 guys disturb a girl,she would yield to atleast 2 if she is not restricted.
3. Coming down to culture,no matter how much we feel we are already exposed to the western ways of doing things,the african culture can never be ignored.
In this part of the world, a lady who lives alone is not percieved to be responsible even if she is actually. The worst is that the girl would choose to ignore what people say but then when you ignore them,who do you know would be a friend or relative to the man you hope to marry,what if he hears all the bad things they say about you and believes them since you won't be there to defend yourself? That means the girl would lose that potential suitor and wait for another one. What if the chain continues this way? For how long would she wait?
Note: I am not ruling it out that a young woman cannot live on her own.
It only pays to live under your parents until you are married.

Very good! I for one think most ladies move out of their parents house to enjoy the liberty of having their boyfriends come sleep over and all what not their crazy fantasies feed them! I know a lot of single ladies camping guys in their apartments simply for sexual benefits, yet they pray in churches for mr right, when one badt gigolo is there tearing the thing apart with so much impunity lol..

Why can't single ladies stay on their own, why do they have to wait till they get married ,before they can get freedom

Deejacy2:
Why can't single ladies stay on their own, why do they have to wait till they get married ,before they can get freedom

lol...All depends.. you can stay on ur own if you want to and if ur parent agree .

Most times the parents are just protecting them, I think