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Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 11:52am On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
was this one saying self undecided undecided...so a guy should keep begging you till thy kingdom come or what?
ladies like you are the type i like to date cus if i do you wrong and apologize and your still make a drama out of it, will just let you be till you have calm down and if you don't want to calm down will still let you be..wont let any lady kill my self esteem when am sure they are no saint as well..
Wicked guy see his potatoe head
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 11:55am On Dec 10, 2015
firstking01:
btw, wats ur gendersad?
Female, wetin happen?
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 12:19pm On Dec 10, 2015
halfrica:
Wicked guy see his potatoe head
i prefer the potato head to yam head grin grin but seriously why babe go they vex like say her name na vexpar..mean while if Hot water like make e boil for 1 yr e no go take 1 yr too cold back if possible that same day grin grin so le her calm down cus soon she will b missing the D oops sorry just saying though cus i know she won't want curb web to grow there grin grin
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 12:24pm On Dec 10, 2015
misspicy:
kikikiki lmao @ wait well...i like that you are so sure of yourself but sorry to burst your bubble,af you heard of friendzone,side nigga etc before,guy if am really in the mood to get engaged again,its so easy as swallowing eba.......besides its not pride some of us got them flocking around you know tongue....no reason to wait at all.
same no ni.. sare wole sare jade..reason y i said u il rush n meet d guy n end up crying that ahh schuma s better than this guy oo if u know wa i mean grin wink...but wait o, do you think v am dating any girl i il think am d only guy tarrr, le me bend if i hear am d only guy...i know every lady v a friend zone guy and a back up guy just incase thats y i il v a rebound girl n a said chick as well..remember what s good for the goose s also good for the ? complete it
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by misspicy(f): 12:31pm On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
same no ni.. sare wole sare jade..reason y i said u il rush n meet d guy n end up crying that ahh schuma s better than this guy oo if u know wa i mean grin wink...but wait o, do you think v am dating any girl i il think am d only guy tarrr, le me bend if i hear am d only guy...i know every lady v a friend zone guy and a back up guy just incase thats y i il v a rebound girl n a said chick as well..remember what s good for the goose s also good for the ? complete it
you are really not getting this are you?

okay if i was in a relationship with you,ad i have other male friends, if we eventualy breakup and i think i should date again,i will surely pick one of my male friends that has been asking me out which i must have been conversant with and know his weaknesses and strong points right....i for one will go for someone better than you,in the aspect i want my man to be better which you lack.....

it could be looks,money,education etc tongue


for example my ex boyfriend was one very clean handsome guy,if am to date again,my next should be more handsome or more intelectually okay or more comfotable than him...
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 12:38pm On Dec 10, 2015
misspicy:
you are really not getting this are you?

okay if i was in a relationship with you,ad i have other male friends, if we eventualy breakup and i think i should date again,i will surely pick one of my male friends that has been asking me out which i must have been conversant with and know his weaknesses and strong points right....i for one will go for someone better than you,in the aspect i want my man to be better which you lack.....

it could be looks,money,education etc tongue


for example my ex boyfriend was one very clean handsome guy,if am to date again,my next should be more handsome or more intelectually okay or more comfotable than him...
my love i get you o....but i will still say it, if you find another just know is another schema u found plus if is not panadol it can never be panadol grin grin..what makes you think he will be single? or u think s every thing a guy tells u that's true.....le me giv u a tip s a guys code,, i know some guys il b mad for letting this out....we guys generally except the ones wey never jasi,, we tell ladies what they need to hear not what they need to know reason s cus, u ladies r emotional and words get to you faster than anything.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by misspicy(f): 12:42pm On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
my love i get you o....but i will still say it, if you find another just know is another schema u found plus if is not panadol it can never be panadol grin grin..what makes you think he will be single? or u think s every thing a guy tells u that's true.....le me giv u a tip s a guys code,, i know some guys il b mad for letting this out....we guys generally except the ones wey never jasi,, we tell ladies what they need to hear not what they need to know reason s cus, u ladies r emotional and words get to you faster than anything.
wait and you think spicy does not know this?shocked

okay i wouldnt want to burst my bubble or show off like i know all

but when it comes to things like this,af moved with guys so much i can tell a lie from the truth,though we act like a fool to catch a fool sometimes
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by pelij18(op): 1:00pm On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
there is a thread i wrote on some of the things i learnt from my last relationship and one of them is this.

"NO woman wants to date a man that NO OTHER woman wants, finds attractive or places some sort of value on"..so since you have pleaded with her and if u continue, you il seem like a pest in her life, you il make her feel your life s not better of without her and most of all you il push her to the arms of another...i know is hard cus have been there b4 but just act normal, greet her when you see her and move on..stop the calling and texting you il only make her head swell..she will end up calling and accusing u of seeing some els...thats when you let her know you wanted to give her the space she needed, works for me though
It damn hard but i'll try this out.
Thanks
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 1:00pm On Dec 10, 2015
misspicy:
wait and you think spicy does not know this?shocked

okay i wouldnt want to burst my bubble or show off like i know all

but when it comes to things like this,af moved with guys so much i can tell a lie from the truth,though we act like a fool to catch a fool sometimes
i they fear u sha but naaa u can't move this mountain grin
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 1:03pm On Dec 10, 2015
pelij18:
It damn hard but i'll try this out.
Thanks
i told you have been on this stage b4 like u r ryt now and when my friend told me, i was like s hard but i il...at the end i tired it n it worked, jus make sure you start looking smart and attractive to the opposite sex and try being around vicinity u know she would be once in a while not all the time so it don;t look like your stalking her...she il start taking notice n will call you to check on u cus u v stopped calling
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by pelij18(op): 1:11pm On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
i prefer the potato head to yam head grin grin but seriously why babe go they vex like say her name na vexpar..mean while if Hot water like make e boil for 1 yr e no go take 1 yr too cold back if possible that same day grin grin so le her calm down cus soon she will b missing the D oops sorry just saying though cus i know she won't want curb web to grow there grin grin
Point of correction bro i've never had sex with her before and will never, not until we get into wedlock. I just love her. Try to understand.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 1:17pm On Dec 10, 2015
pelij18:
Point of correction bro i've never had sex with her before and will never, not until we get into wedlock. I just love her. Try to understand.
ah mogbe yekpa....i swear u v killed and finished me angry angryno wander
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 1:50pm On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
i prefer the potato head to yam head grin grin but seriously why babe go they vex like say her name na vexpar..mean while if Hot water like make e boil for 1 yr e no go take 1 yr too cold back if possible that same day grin grin so le her calm down cus soon she will b missing the D oops sorry just saying though cus i know she won't want curb web to grow there grin grin
cheesycheesycheesycheesy

U are werey 1000%
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 2:44pm On Dec 10, 2015
halfrica:
cheesycheesycheesycheesy

U are werey 1000%
werey s good for the health once in a while
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by firstking01(m): 5:39pm On Dec 10, 2015
EverLily:
Female, wetin happen?
tongue
EverLily:
Female, wetin happen?
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by firstking01(m): 5:40pm On Dec 10, 2015
EverLily:
Female, wetin happen?
hmmmm tongue
EverLily:
Female, wetin happen?
hmmmm
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by SmartMugu: 5:47am On Dec 22, 2015
pelij18:
I understand you, but i've spent better on her. Not only for that, but i just love her. I've tried moving on for the past month but got stuck again.
You must still be young. You'll realize reality with time.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by firstking01(m): 6:28am On Dec 22, 2015
undecided
pelij18:
Thanks very much for your idea, i'll begin practicing this from this moment. Thanks once again and God bless.
so, one comon and random gal is ur source of joy and happiness huh:/ undecided...dude u suck, and pls, dnt dnt beg a gal to stay, esp if she gave u a stern warning neva to call her agn...let her go jor.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 6:42am On Dec 22, 2015
pelij18:
I have pleaded, pranked her to be crying, and even cried real in her presence and yet she doesn't want to forgive me. The last time we spoke on phone she asked me never to call her line again, and that she cares less about me and hates me like ebola.

I know most folks do come in and throw lies here but wish you guys would realize how real i am asking for your advice on how to gain the heart of the only lady i love and really want to love for eternity.

Just a little mistake is costing me my entire joy and happiness per day, God why. I need you guys help please.

Thanks.
Hahaha. Bad boy. You're now asking her to forgive you after doing wrong, huh? cheesy Just give a her space. Whenever a woman is angry, the best thing to do is to give her some space. Stop calling her now and give her some time and you gonna be fine. Or if you want her to respond very quickly, just write a powerful text message to her and she'll call you right away.
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