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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by korel9: 2:30pm On Dec 13, 2015
Hh
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Slimbideb: 2:32pm On Dec 13, 2015
Press auto Pregnancy Accepted My Sister
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by osazeeblue01: 2:33pm On Dec 13, 2015
Your husand is happy and you are sad.
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by passionate88: 2:37pm On Dec 13, 2015
EHYA grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Holuwakemmy16(f): 2:37pm On Dec 13, 2015
This 3units,I can't start to read it

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by needrealuvabj81: 2:38pm On Dec 13, 2015
means free house for you guys grin grin grin grin grin woman be happy joor
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by cruzita(f): 2:39pm On Dec 13, 2015
it can be very painful.but if u cannot stay in such situation u beta leave to avoid depression.DAT landlady that spoilt ur sweet marriage will see her own depression very soon

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Nobody: 2:39pm On Dec 13, 2015
What a sorry situation! Dear, OP, first things first, how well have u been addressing ur childlessness? U seem to be a very busy person. Perhaps, u should resume medical check ups. Again, how certain are u all that the baby that woman's carrying actually belongs to ur husband? Pls, a DNA should be carried out... Now or when the baby arrives.

If really u want to save ur marriage, I won't advise u to move out. It would give that conniving landlady of urs the opportunity to take over ur home. A man having a child outside the home isn't a new thing. The world doesn't come to an end. I advise u stick with ur husband and be supportive, the child is his and as such is connected to u. U should also try to make more time to be at home. U go out in the morning and come back in the evenings daily; that's not good enough. Adjust ur schedule if u can.. And pls, save ur marriage.

I advise u follow the piece of advice given by sapiosexual1, too.

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by tunwumi: 2:41pm On Dec 13, 2015
Seriously the man is as good as gone. If you have had ur own child I will think u have a chance but without a child u are as good as a furniture to this man.

Brytawon:
My name is Myra and I'm a very angry and bitter woman. And it's all thanks to the 'witch' called Hetty, my landlady.
**********************************************************
Before the 'Jezebel', came into our lives, my husband CJ and I were doing just fine. We had been married for about eight years and though we did not have children, CJ was not too worried.

"When the time comes, we will have children. God's time is the best," he often said anytime I grew anxious over our childless state. You know how our African society is. Once a couple gets married, people especially family members, friends, colleagues and other so called 'well-wishers' expect the woman to start popping out babies as quickly as possible. My husband's parents and other family members live far away from us and hardly visit so pressure from their end was not much.

All the same, I never relented in my quest to have my own child. I fasted and prayed and cried to God to remember me. But the years went by and there was still no issue.

Then about two years ago, we had to move to another apartment from where we were staying in Lagos due to problems with the landlord. He had increased the rent by over fifty percent without warning and threatened to eject any tenant who did not comply. My husband, who felt the new rent was too high for the flat decided we should move.

So that's how we ended up in our new place. The house, made up of four flats is owned by Hetty who had inherited it from her parents. She lived in one of the flats downstairs with her two children, both teenagers. Hetty, who is in her late 30s, was said to be divorced or separated from her husband. When we moved in newly, the woman was so nice and helpful to us, always asking if we had any problems. She would invite us to her home and even cook for us. With time,
we became very close. I thought in my naivety that she was just being nice.

How did I know that she had designs on my husband! Anyway, I found out later that my husband was dating our landlady. It had been going on for months before I knew about it. You see, because of my job I'm hardly at home. My office is in Victoria Island so I leave home early and return home late as well. My husband is a business man so his schedule is more flexible than mine. There are days he does not go out at all, but stays at home and works on his computer and makes contacts on phone.

Since the story came out about their affair, friends and other concerned well-wishers have told me that I should have been more careful, that I should not have allowed a woman like her, single and still quite young and pretty to get close to my husband. But what were they expecting me to do, tie a grown up like him up? He's mature enough to know right from wrong and that dating that woman is something he should not have done.

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I found out about the affair from a neighbour who had been seeing them going out together and acting like lovers whenever I was at work. I confronted CJ and though he denied it initially, he finally owned up and confessed. He pleaded with me to forgive and forget that it was the 'work of the devil.'
"What devil?" I countered furiously.
"Instead of accepting responsibility for cheating on me with our landlady, you are blaming the devil!" I was very angry with him and I felt hurt too. What the woman has that I lacked, I wondered, weeping bitter tears. Ok, she was very pretty but I was not bad looking and was even younger than her.

CJ promised to stop seeing the woman, also begging me not to go and fight her as we could be kicked out of the apartment. I loved my husband very much and he meant the world to me so I forgave him. Things went on as normal though I was more vigilant this time around. As for my landlady, she travelled with her children abroad for the summer holidays and I did not see her for some time. The children came back and resumed school but she stayed behind for a few more months.

When she returned later, it was clear to even a blind man that she was pregnant. I did not think much of it and just ignored her as I had been doing since I found out she was sleeping with my husband. That was until CJ broke the terrible news to me, that he was responsible for her pregnancy! How could this have happened, was the first thought that entered my mind. I was, as expected devastated by the new development. Here was I, married to him for nearly eight years and yet to produce a child. Yet a clandestine affair with our landlady had resulted in a
pregnancy.

I became ill when I heard the news and had to take some time off from work. When my mother who lived near us heard what happened, she came to spend time with me. It was my mother and younger sister who came with her that went to my landlady's house and fought with her. Much as I hated the woman, I was not in support of physical combat and told my mother to leave her alone. The damage had been done and fighting her would not solve anything, I reasoned.

**********************************************************
It was my husband that I was more worried about. He had become so happy since Hetty announced she was pregnant for him.
"Finally, I will be a father," he had stated with obvious pride the day he broke the news to me. When I recovered, I called him one day that due to the situation of things, I no longer felt comfortable living in the same compound with the landlady, that we had to move. To my shock, CJ was vehemently opposed to my suggestion, insisting there was no need to relocate.

"Hetty will soon put to bed and as the father of the baby, I need to be around to look after them," he said. I was not ready to give in and I gave him an ultimatum: it's either we left or he should forget about me and our marriage. I told him I was not ready to share my man with any woman, least of all that conniving landlady of ours.

"I can't stay here anymore. Seeing that woman every day with her big, protruding tummy drives me crazy. I need to get away for my own sanity and peace of mind," I said.

That was when he told me that I could do whatever I wanted, that he was not ready to go anywhere.
"I'm going nowhere. We just moved here so why would we be moving so soon? Learn to adjust to the situation or ..." he rejoined.

Since I'm not ready to adjust, I have begun making alternative plans. My younger sister, who has her own apartment in town, has suggested I move in with her until CJ comes to his senses. I don't know what will happen to my marriage when I leave. I still love my husband and I know he cares about me too, but that woman seems to have cast a spell or used 'love charm' on him or something. I need to get away before I lose my mind with worry and stress. I don't know if I have taken the right decision or not. But I need some space right now before I lose my mind or even die prematurely from all the trouble my husband and his mistress have caused me...

THE END!

Names have been changed to protect the identity
of the narrator and other individuals in the story.


source: www.truelifestoriesng..com.ng/2015/12/im-childless-but-my-landlady-is.html?m=1
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by ishiamu(m): 2:41pm On Dec 13, 2015
PussyMechanic:
Chai. See gobe
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by mysteriousman(m): 2:41pm On Dec 13, 2015
Simply quit the marriage, once she gives birth your husband will be spending more time with her and the child and this will further increase their bond and that puts a hold on him and even if she decides your husband should go with the child there is no way you will muster the patience to take care of the child like it's yours

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Tolatutu: 2:42pm On Dec 13, 2015
JrizzyJosh:
Lol! After all the abortion you committed then. ..now you are here. .don't blame the nigga. ..He needs a baby! Stay away from premature sex all this girls nor go hear

How do you know that she committed abortion angry are there no women who married as virgins and yet had problems with fertility even in the Bible times when the women were not having abortions there where still many women with fertility issues so stop equating fertility problems with abortion. Some pros at abortion are even the ones that will have babies easily m such is life

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by free2ryhme: 2:43pm On Dec 13, 2015
This is superstory!!!
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by tonydotman: 2:44pm On Dec 13, 2015
Humm I can imagine what is passing through. Leaving or staying I think she's right only if she can cope with it
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by ogunsbanjul(m): 2:45pm On Dec 13, 2015
I will advise you to leave the house immediately to avoid been murdered or commit suicide. Finally, try and go for deliverance in MFM Lagos / Ibadan express without having grudging mind against anybody rather go before your creator. If not mind I will link you to someone who will help you in prayers too on phone only without spending money or seeing. Salvation is free. May God see you through in Jesus name. All will be well

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by kunle75(m): 2:47pm On Dec 13, 2015
Brytawon:
My name is Myra and I'm a very angry and bitter woman. And it's all thanks to the 'witch' called Hetty, my landlady.
**********************************************************
Before the 'Jezebel', came into our lives, my husband CJ and I were doing just fine. We had been married for about eight years and though we did not have children, CJ was not too worried.

"When the time comes, we will have children. God's time is the best," he often said anytime I grew anxious over our childless state. You know how our African society is. Once a couple gets married, people especially family members, friends, colleagues and other so called 'well-wishers' expect the woman to start popping out babies as quickly as possible. My husband's parents and other family members live far away from us and hardly visit so pressure from their end was not much.

All the same, I never relented in my quest to have my own child. I fasted and prayed and cried to God to remember me. But the years went by and there was still no issue.

Then about two years ago, we had to move to another apartment from where we were staying in Lagos due to problems with the landlord. He had increased the rent by over fifty percent without warning and threatened to eject any tenant who did not comply. My husband, who felt the new rent was too high for the flat decided we should move.

So that's how we ended up in our new place. The house, made up of four flats is owned by Hetty who had inherited it from her parents. She lived in one of the flats downstairs with her two children, both teenagers. Hetty, who is in her late 30s, was said to be divorced or separated from her husband. When we moved in newly, the woman was so nice and helpful to us, always asking if we had any problems. She would invite us to her home and even cook for us. With time,
we became very close. I thought in my naivety that she was just being nice.

How did I know that she had designs on my husband! Anyway, I found out later that my husband was dating our landlady. It had been going on for months before I knew about it. You see, because of my job I'm hardly at home. My office is in Victoria Island so I leave home early and return home late as well. My husband is a business man so his schedule is more flexible than mine. There are days he does not go out at all, but stays at home and works on his computer and makes contacts on phone.

Since the story came out about their affair, friends and other concerned well-wishers have told me that I should have been more careful, that I should not have allowed a woman like her, single and still quite young and pretty to get close to my husband. But what were they expecting me to do, tie a grown up like him up? He's mature enough to know right from wrong and that dating that woman is something he should not have done.

**********************************************************
I found out about the affair from a neighbour who had been seeing them going out together and acting like lovers whenever I was at work. I confronted CJ and though he denied it initially, he finally owned up and confessed. He pleaded with me to forgive and forget that it was the 'work of the devil.'
"What devil?" I countered furiously.
"Instead of accepting responsibility for cheating on me with our landlady, you are blaming the devil!" I was very angry with him and I felt hurt too. What the woman has that I lacked, I wondered, weeping bitter tears. Ok, she was very pretty but I was not bad looking and was even younger than her.

CJ promised to stop seeing the woman, also begging me not to go and fight her as we could be kicked out of the apartment. I loved my husband very much and he meant the world to me so I forgave him. Things went on as normal though I was more vigilant this time around. As for my landlady, she travelled with her children abroad for the summer holidays and I did not see her for some time. The children came back and resumed school but she stayed behind for a few more months.

When she returned later, it was clear to even a blind man that she was pregnant. I did not think much of it and just ignored her as I had been doing since I found out she was sleeping with my husband. That was until CJ broke the terrible news to me, that he was responsible for her pregnancy! How could this have happened, was the first thought that entered my mind. I was, as expected devastated by the new development. Here was I, married to him for nearly eight years and yet to produce a child. Yet a clandestine affair with our landlady had resulted in a
pregnancy.

I became ill when I heard the news and had to take some time off from work. When my mother who lived near us heard what happened, she came to spend time with me. It was my mother and younger sister who came with her that went to my landlady's house and fought with her. Much as I hated the woman, I was not in support of physical combat and told my mother to leave her alone. The damage had been done and fighting her would not solve anything, I reasoned.

**********************************************************
It was my husband that I was more worried about. He had become so happy since Hetty announced she was pregnant for him.
"Finally, I will be a father," he had stated with obvious pride the day he broke the news to me. When I recovered, I called him one day that due to the situation of things, I no longer felt comfortable living in the same compound with the landlady, that we had to move. To my shock, CJ was vehemently opposed to my suggestion, insisting there was no need to relocate.

"Hetty will soon put to bed and as the father of the baby, I need to be around to look after them," he said. I was not ready to give in and I gave him an ultimatum: it's either we left or he should forget about me and our marriage. I told him I was not ready to share my man with any woman, least of all that conniving landlady of ours.

"I can't stay here anymore. Seeing that woman every day with her big, protruding tummy drives me crazy. I need to get away for my own sanity and peace of mind," I said.

That was when he told me that I could do whatever I wanted, that he was not ready to go anywhere.
"I'm going nowhere. We just moved here so why would we be moving so soon? Learn to adjust to the situation or ..." he rejoined.

Since I'm not ready to adjust, I have begun making alternative plans. My younger sister, who has her own apartment in town, has suggested I move in with her until CJ comes to his senses. I don't know what will happen to my marriage when I leave. I still love my husband and I know he cares about me too, but that woman seems to have cast a spell or used 'love charm' on him or something. I need to get away before I lose my mind with worry and stress. I don't know if I have taken the right decision or not. But I need some space right now before I lose my mind or even die prematurely from all the trouble my husband and his mistress have caused me...

THE END!

Names have been changed to protect the identity
of the narrator and other individuals in the story.


source: www.truelifestoriesng..com.ng/2015/12/im-childless-but-my-landlady-is.html?m=1


I guess your hubby didnt wnt to move because of the cost of getting another apartment.........especially in lagos and strees also.But i will advise that if you can afford another house for your own sake please do.
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by ReachHard: 2:47pm On Dec 13, 2015
Sorry lady, you deserve an Award for the Jonzer of the YEAR
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by profmallory(m): 2:47pm On Dec 13, 2015
After good 8 years of investing in your marriage, your landlady comes and takes everything away. These are the types of stories that turn people to prayer warriors, when you decide enough is enough. See, in my own view if you let your husband go and for some other reason marry some one else, what if the same thing repeats it self. You spend time and resources in the marriage but nothing to show for it, then some tooth pick legged girls come and steal away the whole show. In my own opinion, it is not too late. You need to join a serious church and take back what is yours, except the man was never yours and maybe you also stole him from someone - in that case swallow your pride and move on. But if you didnt, dont allow the devil to rob you. Get up and fight with prayers and positive confessions. The devil is a liar..

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Tolatutu: 2:48pm On Dec 13, 2015
bettercreature:
Ladies are selfish! You suppose to divorce or ask your husband to marry another wife if you can not concieve for 5yrs or more, my opinion might not make sense to you tho but we all know God does not created any woman who can not concieve,their ability not to concieve is due to what they have done when they were young,i don't think i can hustle all my life, make it, then stay with a woman who can not concieve for more than 5years

What did Sarah in the Bible do that made her to have fertility issues Stop saying what you don't know angry

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Tolatutu: 2:50pm On Dec 13, 2015
The man is wicked o, it's bad enough that he has betrayed you now he wants you to live in tang same house? That is the type of thing that can lead to emotional breakdown. If he was the one with the fertility problem and his wife has an affair the comments here would have been about how women are not loyal and blah blah

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by damselchinny: 2:51pm On Dec 13, 2015
[left][/left]As for me liv ur husband's house for now.Be going to work keep urself busy and be praying to God.then carry a heavy seed to God in tears he should return ur husband to u and give u children.remember him he promises and he(God) must surely answer you is a promise I beliv him(God) so much.As for me liv ur husband's house for now.Be going to work keep urself busy and be praying to God.then carry a heavy seed to God in tears that he should return ur husband to u and give u children.remember him his promises and he(God) must surely answer you is a promise I beliv him(God) so much.As for me liv ur husband's house for now.Be going to work keep urself busy and be praying to God.then carry a heavy seed to God in tears that he should return ur husband to u and give u children.remember him he promises and he(God) must surely answer you is a promise I beliv him(God) so much.

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by bettercreature(m): 2:51pm On Dec 13, 2015
Tolatutu:


What did Sarah in the Bible do that made her to have fertility issues Stop saying what you don't know angry
Don't talk about bible here,we all know what ladies of this days are doing,tho there is unexplained infertility but its 1-1000,and they always have very huge hope! another reason women should divorce if they can't concieve is some sperms are not compartible
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Eluwilussit(m): 2:53pm On Dec 13, 2015
Divorce the arsehole! He's not worth the trouble. Move on and find another guy. Thank God you have a job and still young, without any child from the marriage many guys will go for u. Cut him and his crap out.

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by nnamdibig(m): 2:53pm On Dec 13, 2015
Chommieblaq:

Siddon where? Do you know the kind of emotional trauma she will be passing through, the husband should have agreed with her and move, moving won't stop him from taking responsibilities of his child, buh so long he refuse to move n they keep staying in that same compound with that hetty, blve the problem has just started.




Feel ya pain sis, buh ur work ma no dey help matter, imagine a married woman going to work very early n probably coming back so late. D deed is done and can't be corrected by fighting, advise ur ppl not to fight with the woman.
Look for someone he listens to, involve his parent, tell em that u ain't stopping him from taking his responsibility, the child is his no problem, u just wanna save your home and staying in that same compound will only destroy it the more. And finally make out tym for your home, give ur home n husband attention.

Wish u the best and pray things work out fyn.

This is what I hate about marriage in our culture. Most people will be telling her to endure, pray & stay calm, may be until that landlady gives her rat poison. The best option for her is to divorce the man. I bet you she can remarry since she is young(from what I understood from the story).if she is medically ok, not having a child for 8 years may just be a sign that she is not the right person for the man and vice versa. Nothing will make that man look at her again if that landlady gives him a boy. She should divorce and move on with her life. Even the bible said that infidelity should be the only reason for divorce.

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by kaybills(m): 2:54pm On Dec 13, 2015
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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Nobody: 2:54pm On Dec 13, 2015
Hmmm. M... Na u do urself ooI.. Did u seek the

Brytawon:
My name is Myra and I'm a very angry and bitter woman. And it's all thanks to the 'witch' called Hetty, my landlady.
**********************************************************
Before the 'Jezebel', came into our lives, my husband CJ and I were doing just fine. We had been married for about eight years and though we did not have children, CJ was not too worried.

"When the time comes, we will have children. God's time is the best," he often said anytime I grew anxious over our childless state. You know how our African society is. Once a couple gets married, people especially family members, friends, colleagues and other so called 'well-wishers' expect the woman to start popping out babies as quickly as possible. My husband's parents and other family members live far away from us and hardly visit so pressure from their end was not much.

All the same, I never relented in my quest to have my own child. I fasted and prayed and cried to God to remember me. But the years went by and there was still no issue.

Then about two years ago, we had to move to another apartment from where we were staying in Lagos due to problems with the landlord. He had increased the rent by over fifty percent without warning and threatened to eject any tenant who did not comply. My husband, who felt the new rent was too high for the flat decided we should move.

So that's how we ended up in our new place. The house, made up of four flats is owned by Hetty who had inherited it from her parents. She lived in one of the flats downstairs with her two children, both teenagers. Hetty, who is in her late 30s, was said to be divorced or separated from her husband. When we moved in newly, the woman was so nice and helpful to us, always asking if we had any problems. She would invite us to her home and even cook for us. With time,
we became very close. I thought in my naivety that she was just being nice.

How did I know that she had designs on my husband! Anyway, I found out later that my husband was dating our landlady. It had been going on for months before I knew about it. You see, because of my job I'm hardly at home. My office is in Victoria Island so I leave home early and return home late as well. My husband is a business man so his schedule is more flexible than mine. There are days he does not go out at all, but stays at home and works on his computer and makes contacts on phone.

Since the story came out about their affair, friends and other concerned well-wishers have told me that I should have been more careful, that I should not have allowed a woman like her, single and still quite young and pretty to get close to my husband. But what were they expecting me to do, tie a grown up like him up? He's mature enough to know right from wrong and that dating that woman is something he should not have done.

**********************************************************
I found out about the affair from a neighbour who had been seeing them going out together and acting like lovers whenever I was at work. I confronted CJ and though he denied it initially, he finally owned up and confessed. He pleaded with me to forgive and forget that it was the 'work of the devil.'
"What devil?" I countered furiously.
"Instead of accepting responsibility for cheating on me with our landlady, you are blaming the devil!" I was very angry with him and I felt hurt too. What the woman has that I lacked, I wondered, weeping bitter tears. Ok, she was very pretty but I was not bad looking and was even younger than her.

CJ promised to stop seeing the woman, also begging me not to go and fight her as we could be kicked out of the apartment. I loved my husband very much and he meant the world to me so I forgave him. Things went on as normal though I was more vigilant this time around. As for my landlady, she travelled with her children abroad for the summer holidays and I did not see her for some time. The children came back and resumed school but she stayed behind for a few more months.

When she returned later, it was clear to even a blind man that she was pregnant. I did not think much of it and just ignored her as I had been doing since I found out she was sleeping with my husband. That was until CJ broke the terrible news to me, that he was responsible for her pregnancy! How could this have happened, was the first thought that entered my mind. I was, as expected devastated by the new development. Here was I, married to him for nearly eight years and yet to produce a child. Yet a clandestine affair with our landlady had resulted in a
pregnancy.

I became ill when I heard the news and had to take some time off from work. When my mother who lived near us heard what happened, she came to spend time with me. It was my mother and younger sister who came with her that went to my landlady's house and fought with her. Much as I hated the woman, I was not in support of physical combat and told my mother to leave her alone. The damage had been done and fighting her would not solve anything, I reasoned.

**********************************************************
It was my husband that I was more worried about. He had become so happy since Hetty announced she was pregnant for him.
"Finally, I will be a father," he had stated with obvious pride the day he broke the news to me. When I recovered, I called him one day that due to the situation of things, I no longer felt comfortable living in the same compound with the landlady, that we had to move. To my shock, CJ was vehemently opposed to my suggestion, insisting there was no need to relocate.

"Hetty will soon put to bed and as the father of the baby, I need to be around to look after them," he said. I was not ready to give in and I gave him an ultimatum: it's either we left or he should forget about me and our marriage. I told him I was not ready to share my man with any woman, least of all that conniving landlady of ours.

"I can't stay here anymore. Seeing that woman every day with her big, protruding tummy drives me crazy. I need to get away for my own sanity and peace of mind," I said.

That was when he told me that I could do whatever I wanted, that he was not ready to go anywhere.
"I'm going nowhere. We just moved here so why would we be moving so soon? Learn to adjust to the situation or ..." he rejoined.

Since I'm not ready to adjust, I have begun making alternative plans. My younger sister, who has her own apartment in town, has suggested I move in with her until CJ comes to his senses. I don't know what will happen to my marriage when I leave. I still love my husband and I know he cares about me too, but that woman seems to have cast a spell or used 'love charm' on him or something. I need to get away before I lose my mind with worry and stress. I don't know if I have taken the right decision or not. But I need some space right now before I lose my mind or even die prematurely from all the trouble my husband and his mistress have caused me...

THE END!

Names have been changed to protect the identity
of the narrator and other individuals in the story.


source: www.truelifestoriesng..com.ng/2015/12/im-childless-but-my-landlady-is.html?m=1







hmm. wen u no dt u were childless, did u seek the God of Shiloh 2015? the answer is No... Did u see the God of Pst Enoch Adeboye.... the answer is no..... Na u do ursef, Imagine years of barrenness and u didn't see the God of my fathers in the Lord.... na u labour, nA ur landlady eat the fruit of ur labour... Who shall eat the fruit of the fools if not the wise ones..... Glory to glory

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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Nobody: 2:54pm On Dec 13, 2015
Take my candid opinion: Move out first to clear ur head and not welcome suicidal thoughts, then secondly,Run to God in prayers - I would suggest SCOAN since u live in Lagos. Shit happens, goodluck!
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by profmallory(m): 2:55pm On Dec 13, 2015
I doubt if the man's family wont support him, after 8 years of childlessness o, infact the wife would now be the prime suspect. Remember the woman that snacked him is not only rich but also available. If care is not taken, even the wife's family would reject her, especially if there is a story to their marriage. The usual warning is "Didn't we warn you be fore you married him" I pity her, but seriously she is on her own. Only God can be on her side in this sort of situation.




Chommieblaq:

Siddon where? Do you know the kind of emotional trauma she will be passing through, the husband should have agreed with her and move, moving won't stop him from taking responsibilities of his child, buh so long he refuse to move n they keep staying in that same compound with that hetty, blve the problem has just started.




Feel ya pain sis, buh ur work ma no dey help matter, imagine a married woman going to work very early n probably coming back so late. D deed is done and can't be corrected by fighting, advise ur ppl not to fight with the woman.
Look for someone he listens to, involve his parent, tell em that u ain't stopping him from taking his responsibility, the child is his no problem, u just wanna save your home and staying in that same compound will only destroy it the more. And finally make out tym for your home, give ur home n husband attention.

Wish u the best and pray things work out fyn.
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by nneka2020(f): 2:56pm On Dec 13, 2015
I pite ur condition,it so painful bt u ave to be strong in prayer God will surely see u through,bt my advice is dat don't live ur home for another woman,once u take any step ur hubby will forget u totally be strong
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by eph12(m): 2:56pm On Dec 13, 2015
bettercreature:
Ladies are selfish! You suppose to divorce or ask your husband to marry another wife if you can not concieve for 5yrs or more, my opinion might not make sense to you tho but we all know God does not created any woman who can not concieve,their ability not to concieve is due to what they have done when they were young,i don't think i can hustle all my life, make it, then stay with a woman who can not concieve for more than 5years
And what about if the fault is from the man?
Those born lame deaf or blind what was their offence? Did they offend God in their former life?

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