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Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by alexory23(m): 4:21pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
adajiboyy:Hmm... talking from experiece pple don use (NOT live) life oo, experience is the best teacher! |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by lastpage: 4:22pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
donTbone: Very good post! In addition to the above, as the father of some teenage boys (You Boys will be Boys at Puberty! ), Let me state that S.ex itself is an "outward expression of internal energy". Old people people have less energy = less S.ex! Younger people are bubbling with energy = More S.ex Chronically Sick people have less energy.... at least till they start getting better = Less S.ex So, there is a correlation between wanting to have S.ex ..... and the amount of "unused energy" a person has. Thus, apart from putting yourself in the proper frame of mind (getting read of porn materials, praying, determination to stop, e.t.c), You need to channel that ENERGY into something useful! ENGAGE IS SPORTS of all Sorts: Jog/Run, play ball, swim, Cycle, lift weights..... do just about anything that will sap that "idle energy" Like somebody said (paradoxically, now) "An idle HAND (mind/energy) is the Devils Workshop"! ..... I did it some decades back in my own teenage years, but now l assist young "men' to overcome it and at least l can count a few on both hands, that have overcome it. Mind you, its not actually a "biblical sin" against God .... but it is one of those acts that is debasing to the personal "self". So, its better avoided, if it can be avoided Lastpage! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by ilyas26(m): 4:24pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
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Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by phemoluv02(m): 4:25pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
nice advice bro, i know It's not easy tho, all he need to do is to made up his mind and avoid anything that can make him to continue the act.. i believe he will overcome the addiction. adajiboyy: |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by chachauche(m): 4:25pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
whenever the urge comes switch ur mind and focus to some other things like reading a novel,a Bible or better still try not to be alone,always be with somebody cause you can't do it in d mist of someone....i hope this help I have many other things to tell u but if you have the time call me on this 09026115783 |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Edigrows: 4:25pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
the best way to stop any addiction is to replace them. Find something more healthy and clean to do than wanking. Get very Busy with ur life |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Familyfirst: 4:26pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
211Observer:I will strongly advise you Get a copy of this book STRONGER THAN DIAMOND BY BISI ADEWALE it help my friend overcome mastubation after more than 10 years of addiction,it will help you. You can get it on Konga.com or call this number,I got it on the book 08056457013. I pray to God to deliver you from something that keep you busy and take you no where. |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Cchuks27(m): 4:26pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
13 Yrs ? Wow ... we must have started jerking about the same time. Lol. When I saw your post I thought it was me that posted it. Well I'm currently working on myself seriously, it's really not been an easy one. But I can tell you I'm not the same person I was a couple of months ago. What did I do ? Being an addict means you're easily triggered by whatever you watch or see. in my case, the slightest erotic thing I watch or see leads me to masturbating. I tried every means to stop but I couldn't help myself. I honestly can't remember what promted me to stop but I think I saw a girl I liked and we started getting close ... you know the rest. Lol. She didnt agree though, LOL. Well, we are still friends though. I thought long and hard about how well to stop menace and I decided to get rid of every thing that triggers my addiction. I deleted all the downloading apps on my iPhone (I also permanently deleted it from the Apps purchase). I stopped watching erotic music videos, I watched stuff with zero erotic contents like CNN, Aljazeera, SS223, and Chanel 110 ... Action I think. Coupled with the new hustle, I started going out more so I wouldn't be idle, I guess you know the saying about an idle mind, right ? Please if you ever feel the urge, don't jerk, visit an olosho at least, that's what I do just not to self-service and surprisingly it's been working for me. I'm not where I want to be because in the last 2 months I have jerked thrice but I sure know I'm definitely not where I used to be 4 months ago or even a year ago. I'd like to be friend and we can both help each other. Inbox me if you're interested. God bless and I wish you the best. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by donTbone(m): 4:28pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
lastpage:Hmmmmmmmmm... nice one. Thanks for the compliment sire! I would actually say its time parents come in in this too. If we have a dad we can walk up to and discuss things with when we wer teenagers, its really gonna go a long way. Funny enough, i started myn few weeks after my 21st bday, and that was d same period i had my first FUN. It was just like an had i known situation. To any teenager reading this that doesnt have that BUBBLING ENERGY yet, i'll advice you dont go near it when you are not ready. There are better things to do with your data than browsing the porn site. May the Lord see us all through! |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by lymelyte(m): 4:29pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
211Observer:download brainbuddy.. It is an app on iOS and android.. It can change your life |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Avoid loneliness. Thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Makks777:Good point. In order to actually stop the act completely, he has to replace the masturbation with something else that is equally satisfying. like being among friends. |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Osisie(m): 4:31pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Twaci gave a good advice, but I'm afraid it won't suffice. When serious konji hold u, u no go remember that one. See, if stopping masturbation is all u need Jesus for, u'll very likely never see an end to it. Jesus wants to do more for u than just help u stop masturbation. I've been doing that stuff since secondary sch, Twaci doesn't have a clue what it is.....she's female. U have to give all of u to Jesus, I mean.....everything. Just surrender. U've gotta be born again. Brother, its the only way out, trust me. If u give ur life to HIM, u'll not only see an end to masturbation, u'll usher in a new begining for ur life. I'll be very very glad to help u. 1 Like |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by KALITO30(m): 4:32pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
1)i hope you are working if not get a job to keep you occupied most time of the day and even when you feel like to self service in your free time you might fall asleep during the process due to tiredness 2)get a girlfriend,stop deceiving yourself that having a gal is a total waste of time(except your not straight) be involved in a committed relationship i believe u are an adult so having a girlfriend gives you some sense of responsibility 3)you must be introverted to some extent as this is one of the major reason why people self service,try to be in the gathering of people often and engage in stuffs that will keep you distracted,don't be indoor most of the time except you truly need a you time. 4)i reiterate to you self service is a perfectly normal thing and even healthy but it comes with an addiction and that seems to be the problem,don't for a second think its spiritual as that might be a new chapter to your problems 5)i luv sex and i think about it most of the time and this is a major concern but i have learned to control the outcome so it doesn't get the best of me,if you happen to think about sex a lot and watch pron on your phone or dvd then you need to get rid of any source of excitement because these they easily make you want to get in the act if this doesn't help then you should go see a shrink because it has become registered in your mind 1 Like |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by indoorlove(m): 4:32pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Ayo081:I endorsed this. Get yourself busy with something meaningful. |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by seankay(m): 4:33pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
OP let me assure you that it is very possible to quit masturbating so don't be discouraged. Masturbation is not a good act and it comes with negative effects: 1.Low self esteem 2.LOW SPERM COUNT 3. Drowsiness 4. loss of concentration 5. Loss of Talents 6. Reduces brain efficiency How to stop 1. Delete all porn on your phone 2. take up new interest 3. Stop isolating yourself 4.Perseverance 5. Stop visiting Porn sites and start searching for nudes(Maheeda and co) 6. Get a gf 7. Start deciphering and enjoying he good effects of graually quitting the act 8. Anytime you feel the urge,gather enough strength to leave where you are and get yourself busy with something or go hangout with friends I wish you good luck 2 Likes |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Ephemmm: 4:34pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
211Observer: Dude! Go and marry. |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by vladmirian: 4:35pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Well, this is one sin that eats you from the inside out, you cant grow spiritually, it affects every area of your live, you feel completely helpless, dirty, insecure just to mention a few. Been through this, it all started when i was in sec school fast forward 16 years i was under this bondage but to God be the glory i have stopped. you can kick it. if you are a christian, take out some time to pray and fast, then after make a vow to God that you will kick this habit and if you go back he should make you the poorest man on earth and if you succeed then you you should be successful, take communion and make an offering to seal it up. when you think of poverty, you will kick the habit |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by danbrowndmf(m): 4:35pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
1- Pray about it alot 2- try avoid been lonely cus lonelyness give birth to masturbation...try occupy urself always.. 3- try not to be sleeping late...sleep early like 8pm to 9pm...cus when ur awake for long when other are asleep..masturbation thought will arrive in your mind.. 4- stop watching porn.. 5- if ur not a saint then mayb ur sex starved... 1 Like |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by youngice(m): 4:38pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Teempakguy:have you ever been an addict to any thing ? from your two comment i inferred that you possess a deep understanding of the ops issue speaking from experience 1 Like |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Teempakguy:Dr abi na psychologist e don do... Ur big big grammar no go fid solve dis problem for now |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Teempakguy:Biologist abi na psychologist e don do... Ur big big grammar no go fid solve dis problem for now |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by lonelydude: 4:40pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Have you considered telling a close person who you want to remain accountable to regarding this issue. An understanding man of God or a friend who sticks closer than a brother will be the best person to be accountable to. There are very kind people who are willing to help you through it until you overcome it. It is not what can be stopped in a day but gradually and even more effective when you are accountable to someone. Check out this site and register for their course online for free. It's a 60-day practical course that helps one get free from sinful bondages. w w w . settingcaptivesfree . com Enjoy your victory within 60 days. Shalom. |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by judedwriter(m): 4:40pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Masturbation is more than a habit- its PERVERSION! It can ruin your sexual life. Its a major reason why many men don't enjoy sexual relations with their wives. Yes, stopping it can be herculean especially in sex-starved environment we live in. I have had struggles with it-but I noticed whenever I prayed a lot in tongued, it subdued. So praying much in tongues helps to subdue your body under your spirit. I counsel you seek this vital spiritual experience. 1 Like |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by fagbemiakintayo(m): 4:40pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Firstly, don't stay indoor alone, and secondly get married.. |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by simdam500(m): 4:41pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
yilly: how abt u confessed to someone close to u. It'll help u to stp.wow, your reply is simple, good and complicated. As hard to do as it is, i ave a feeling it will work. |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by biggz82: 4:44pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Kill urself |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Tosman12(m): 4:45pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Ayo081: Avoid being idle or alone for too long . this might help. |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by jaymichael(m): 4:47pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
LEXYCOM:That guilt, is what satan wants. he will use that as an evidence sort of to accuse u before God. When you feed negative thoughts into your heart, you are transmitting negative force or energy into the spiritual realm, those bad spirits sees the signal and an opening to come in and settle in your heart. They encourage u to commit these lewd acts, and when u realise what u are doing is wrong, they make u intensify the act, making u feel guilty and miserable, deceiving you that God can't forgive you and your case is hopeless. That is a lie. God forgives and is always able to assist us only if we make a conscious effort to be helped and be free of our addictions. Repent and let Jesus into your heart, acknowledge that masturbation like all sins is wrong and it is controlled by unclean spirits which you allowed into your life. Stop making your life and mind a fertility ground for these unclean spirits. know that if u sin, there will be harsh consequences because satan wasn't happy that u let christ into ur heart and will be seeking for every avenues for u to sin and him to enter and deal with u. Fill your heart with and engaging in spirit filled activities like prayers, fasting and songs of praise. Fast and pray for those specific things u want God to correct about ur life. All these may not take away the urge to have sex or masturbate, but it will give u the grace to overcome these temptation. Remember, u may fall in to a few sins at the initial stage, don't accept the devil's lie that it is over for u ( that is what satan wants so that u would not get back to God and he will have the access to deal with u) , get on ur knees immediately in prayers in order to get back in God's grace. God bless you. |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by harristo(m): 4:47pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
sauceEEP: So you think bleeping a girl you are not married to is better than self servicing right? End time thinking. |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by emonkey(m): 4:48pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
211Observer:Cut off your dick |
Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by MrDojo(m): 4:49pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
211Observer: Brother u need Jesus in your life...... Something d@ u r doin even wen u dnt find Joy in it its definitely an attack..... All u need his Jesus...u have used 13yrs to try and stop it bt I promise u broda jst accept Jesus with all your heart.... In less dan a day it will be gone...... Becus notin is too big for our lord Jesus.. I'm a Living testimony broda.... Just accept Jesus and tell him u wnt to stop it frm d depth of yur heart......... Good luck broda |
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