all has been said

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Speak to a therapist .... its free

iceberylin:
Cut off your Hand...

Masturbation is not usually done with the hand.

Ayo081:
13 years? damn
The best way is to get a job
Idle hand is the devil work shop

Wallahi!

rub pepper on ur hand...dat shud scare u

u invested a lota resources (mb) on porn sites. masturbation is the return on ur investment.

my case is worse dan urx...only masturbation i cn use to satisfy myself

Bro u ain't alone. i been into same shit too for up to six years now... Fours yrs spent doing it freely & now i've been battlin to end it for two years.
I believe i can do it. I believe we can do it.
Let's have the determination & the will...

Twaci:
Whenever u are about to start masturbating, look up and ask yourself, "What is Jesus thinking right now?"

Bro, trust me on this one.

Can you answer me, what's jesus thinking right now?

menesheh:



Can you answer me, what's jesus thinking right now?

Probably that you just asked me a silly question.....but who can tell?

masturbate more with red oil

holyokoto:
You are realizing it as stup.id thing. But is now bad broadcasting yourself. It has no side effect and cannot alter your life style as long you do it in the hidden. Is just an addiction. Some people here are father of masturbation
according to statistic, but will be the first to advice you that is bad.

Hi, i don't usually condemn ppls opinion. I would rather just read and move on. I however couldn't move on when I read your opinion because you are very wrong and i sense you need help yourself.
Maturation is very wrong. A bad habit. A good habit need not be done in secret. It not only devalues you spiritually it demoralizes you too i.e if you have any moral value at all.
it conditions you to ejaculate within 2mins that's 120 secs. You might not understand this until you are married.
It makes you believe you would stop at some later year.. but its all a lie..you would continually be a slave until you are made free by Divine help.
I know all these because I started it when i was 18.. and i couldn't stop until i married at 29.
It was not marriage that stopped it.. I did all i had to do to stop it when all the consequences dawned on me.
You need help.

refiner:


I lov u for dis.....I feel lik kissin u,,,,shuld i?

U see person wey dey try fight masturbation, you want tempt again with kiss from far. Witches.... Na una dey cause all this thing.

211Observer:
...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

my guy! the only cure here is staying away each day... if u stay away 4 2weeks on the bounce, ur winning back ur self... the thing about it is u just av to try and stop it for couple of days on d stretch. praying and fasting can help u achieve this.

Nnaemiemax:


I onced lived this terrible and self destructive life, at a time, I felt I was never going to overcome, I kept praying and asking God to help me and it seemed as though I was wasting my time, but one thing about God is that He constantly wishes and wants us well.
The first thing you need to understand is that you are in a fierce war with satanic agents - invisible to the human eye but so real as you and me.

I engaged in a spiritual war against these wicked vipers - this was necessary to reclaim all the natural virtues that God had pre-deposited in your life, engaged in total sanctification through prayer and fasting and asked God "what next" ... and he showed me three major techniques to continuously overcome.

Before anything, confess your sins and submit to the Lord Jesus. Genuinely tell him to come into your life and make you anew. YES it's the first step before any other step to Victory. When you are done with this then you can now roll;

1. Guiding the heart and mind diligently: prov. 4:23 this is the first step to wining, because your mind is the initial battlefield, if you loose this initial battle, then it will be by God's divine grace for you to stand. Immediately the thought comes ino your mind, resist and rebuke it aggressively (you will have to speak it with faith and confidence, James 4:7b.) The moment this happens it will be as if you are poured cold water and you will Feel sudden calmness. I strongly recommend this books "battlefield of the mind" by Joyce Meyer, and "Pigs in the parlor" by Frank Hammond.

2. Be alert and vigilant: You have successfully scaled through step one and you are happy but you are just getting started because demons never give up, they have been on earth before us and have handled even tougher people before now and still messed them up, so what you just did seems to be like a newbie stunt to them. The Bible says 'be sober and vigilant because your adversary the devil as a ROARING LION seeketh whom he will destroy. 1pet:5v8. You need to develop that mindset of the active presence of demonic presence around you, because the most workable trick used by these wicked entities for ages is to give us an impression that they ARE NOT REAL!
Why you this mindset is to keep yourself active because they will be coming a second time, with fiercer energy, and when do resist them again. If you are in a room or in an enclosed place kindly step out of that place, remember it's a war and it's not about just spiritual but also physical. Don't worry, in a couple of months you would have garned sufficient grace to resist the thoughts and maintain position.

3. Cut off negative stimulants and pollutants: There are things you must stop to maintain soundness. pornography, toxic relationships and associations, you may not believe but if you are a fan of trace, hip tv, soundcity or other secular music channel, I tell you this truth that majority of what is being pushed to us is sexually defiling, Highly contaminable and destructive. The magnitude of what you take into your mind is what later hunts or uplifts you.
The word of God must be your constant companion because that is the only way you can get fresh first hand clue from God to rewin.
I am a living testimony of God's divine deliverance and I assure you that soon you will also be a n encouragement to someone to. Be strong, be courageous, God is faithful, His thoughts for you are of peace and not of evil, You will overcome, because Christ overcame, He knows you need help, keep asking him to fix you again, and He would.
Remain blessed!

Go open church

If masturbation is a sin, wah happens wen uav sex with a gurl? Is he committing the act with a gurl? Is it called fornication too? Bros na u get ur tin n de hand wey u de use na ur own join. My advice to u is get a gurl ASAP...

Just 13 years and you are crying

1; u can't do it on ur own....Ask God to help
2. u can't stop in a day...deres no miracle about it
3. what u do is reduce it.e.g if u do it every day b4, try to break it down to once in a week
4. reduce ur porn
5. get laid (not-biblical tho)
6. make sure u don't put on only ur boxers to bed...wear anoda trousers or something that reduces contact wt ur 'Junior'
7. don't ask if I'm speaking from experience
8. wll the best

I did it when i was 18 for like 3weeks and then stopped.
It wasn't like praying and fasting, i just said know and developed an habit of reading the bible and controlling my thoughts.
*
...guard your heart with all diligence from out of it are the issues of life...
* please is sperm always hot and pepperish? My gf complains after expulsion...nid 2 know

13 yrs here too bro...

But its been almost 8weeks since my last time.

U av to understand that it's beyond your control until u accept these facts:

1. It is a spiritual problem

2. It can be stopped

3. Nairalanders cannot help you on this one

I can't tell you to stop all of a sudden cos that would be great deceit. For me, after the last time I had sex and actually experienced an orgasm with a girl, I just decided to make my pleasure experiences complete o ly with a girl involved.

Also, you av to keep d porn away. and keep ur hands away from your boxer shorts. You likely don't av a job so I'll suggest u find one.

Yes, I also don't av a girlfriend. Never found d need for one, but now I'm searching like crazy. Truth is once u experience orgasm. Its like a drug...u always want more. So if u cannot control d desire, at least pleasure urself appropriately.

This is a I can say for now. Good luck

211Observer:
...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

1. stop watching pornographic videos either on your phone or in other forms
2. Try not to be alone
3. Wear trousers together with your boxers
4. Fast and pray about it.
5. Think about all the negative things you that go along with masturbation- messing up yourself, wasting your time, killing you spiritually, etc.
6. Make a To-do list daily and get engaged.

I wish you all the best.

211Observer:
...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

GO AND MARRY

My dear brother, I understand your pain. Masturbation is a great sin before God no matter how much some people tend to paint it. The advice I can give to you is pray to God about it and determine never to do it again. Ask for his grace to overcome it whenever the urge comes. Always imagine that God was physically right before you whenever you feel the urge. That alone will help you stay away from doing it. Live your live one day at a time for christ. God bless you. Please read I corinthians 10:13.

Bro see a psychologist

simple..get laid. problem solved
you're welcome

Twaci:
Probably that you just asked me a silly question.....but who can tell?

Maybe that solution you gave is kinda silly.

Jesus isn't thinking anything my dear. This isn't a better solution to his presumed addiction. I see masturbation not as silly engagement cus, it's private matter. People should feel free to do their private thing without laboring such act as sin.

It's a natural occurrence as sex hormone continue pumbing its bye products to the body of a man or woman especially within the younger age bracket. In men, even if you don't masturbate, the semen must come out on its own via wet dreams.


My advice is that he should stop feeling guilt, it is just naturally occurring. A boy of 5 can't masturbate. It's called do it yourself method. What the Bible or Koran says about masturbate doesn't matter to a 21st century smart person.

211Observer:
...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

Bro go to any mfm book shop or any good bookshop and get prayer rain and pray the prayers against sexual perversion.. And you would share testimonies.if you don't have money give m ur no and i will scan and send to you.

God's grace is always available to anybody who wants to overcome a sinful habit.First,try and list out the things that trigger you to masturbate.Masturabation is highly addictive that even getting busy may not free you from its clutches.You need Jesus Christ to free you from this demonic habit.Masturabtion does not add anything positive to its victim's life.Always fast and pray.Go for counselling and deliverance at any MFM church.Above all,go before your church alter and make a vow.For example,If I ever masturbate again,let me go mad or die.It helps.Masturbation drains physical and spiritual strength.

Use abanikokoro rub...

IAmTobore:
Masturbation is not usually done with the hand.

WTF are you saying

Every act of filthiness and spiritual uncleaniness has a demon/messenger of Satan behind it. You need deliverance and discipline! For discipline, I think you should stop seeing porns and erotic movies especially Hollywood films; their acts of seduction and sexual perversion looks dirty and real in some movies....avoid them like the plague. These demons of sexual perversion feeds on things like that....and they will continue to torment you with the spirit masturbation until you apply self decipline to your deliverance.

If you are an ideal person, look for something godly to do with your free time and stay away from Hollywood and seductive movies!

menesheh:



Maybe that solution you gave is kinda silly.

Jesus isn't thinking anything my dear. This isn't a better solution to his presumed addiction. I see masturbation not as silly engagement cus, it's private matter. People should feel free to do their private thing without laboring such act as sin.

It's a natural occurrence as sex hormone continue pumbing its bye products to the body of a man or woman especially within the younger age bracket. In men, even if you don't masturbate, the semen must come out on its own via wet dreams.


My advice is that he should stop feeling guilt, it is just naturally occurring. A boy of 5 can't masturbate. It's called do it yourself method. What the Bible or Koran says about masturbate doesn't matter to a 21st century smart person.

Guilt comes as feelings does, U can't just tell him to switch it off like that.

Ok forget the bible factor and the fact he said he's disgusted with himself any time it occurred, what would u say about the low sperm count that'd occur in the nearest future? Would turning off his guilt remedy that?

I agree its a natural occurrence but that shouldn't be an excuse to continue to cause yourself harm.

Aside from its physical/medical effects, it also take toils on one emotional life.

Call a spade a spade.