[quote author=211Observer post=40990849]...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before,







#I feel ur pain n I'll tell i,v bn there..but m better nw....d interest in masturbation decreases as soon as u stop seeing it as a problem...c it as somting DT u will outgrow with time..n kip an open n a plane mind...stop seeing urself as messed up or a sinner...and above all,kip talking to God about it...in#PRAYERS...it does changes things...God loves u n he is strong in ur weakness

211Observer:
...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

Please, I beg you;
Pray
Study the word
AND please follow what TWACI said,I'm serious. It is helpful.

youngice:

have you ever been an addict to any thing ?
from your two comment i inferred that you possess a deep understanding of the ops issue
speaking from experience

not at all . . . apart from my addiction to honey, sugar and other sweet things.
Concerning the first comment, i actually read some psychology books when i was younger.

concerning the first one, I have nyctophobia.
which means I do get scared of the dark.
in cases like that, i found that telling yourself nothing is going to happen to you only works when you're NOT in a dark place. when you're actually in a dark room, No matter how smart or matured you think you are . . . it all goes away. so, i've witnessed the power of that first hand.

God will help u. Since you are struggling with a sexual addiction,masturbation, mental or life issue? Please book a free confidential therapist at http://www.jacknjillive.com/therapy.

AheadMarket:
Avoid loneliness. Thank me later.

Teempakguy:
Good point.


In order to actually stop the act completely, he has to replace the masturbation with something else that is equally satisfying.

Take note of these

Please call or whatsaap me on 08069239648. Let's talk about this. There's a way out. It's not something that a page on naira land can contain. There's a plan to getting out of this mess. It's 100% free. You'll thank me for it.

211Observer:
ama student

been a student fr d past 13 years?

are u a student of life?

I would like to send you a piece that would unfailingly work and help. If truly you are willing to discontinue the bad habit, kindly send to me your Whatsapp contact or email. My contact is 08115895047. Best wishes.

Hello, its a good thing that you haven chosen to talk about it. Its a sign that you have honestly desired to stop it. God will help you.

Firstly, develop strong hatred for it. How? Focuss your thoughts on the negative consequences that comes with it;like stagnation, badluck,above all continuos dissappointment of the Lord Jesus. He has been standing for us when ever we sin pleading for mercy on our behalf...

Even if you fall for it after reading this (God forbid), don't condemn urself belief that God is able to deliver u. Since nottin is hidden frm the eyes of God...cry to him for mercy.

One day you will give testimony that Jesus helped you break a great york in your life.

God blessed you. I'm proud of u for speaking out.

DAT tin mks u mentally incapable.... D dopamine in ur brain Wld just b fireing up and down... Get someone u can share it wit u trust... Den Mk conscious effort to stop... Stay away from tins DAT provoke it... Know God.. And Neva stop striving to stop.. God help u bro

Strong will power never to do it is want you need.Good luck.

We in same shoes man. U gotta help Urself and fight ur wars.

211Observer:
...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

''I love righteousness nd i hate iniqualities'' shld be your motto evryday nd keep praying for the holy spirit.

Repent and turn to Jesus even for your soul to be saved from hell fire

jaymichael:
That guilt, is what satan wants. he will use that as an evidence sort of to accuse u before God. When you feed negative thoughts into your heart, you are transmitting negative force or energy into the spiritual realm, those bad spirits sees the signal and an opening to come in and settle in your heart. They encourage u to commit these lewd acts, and when u realise what u are doing is wrong, they make u intensify the act, making u feel guilty and miserable, deceiving you that God can't forgive you and your case is hopeless. That is a lie. God forgives and is always able to assist us only if we make a conscious effort to be helped and be free of our addictions. Repent and let Jesus into your heart, acknowledge that masturbation like all sins is wrong and it is controlled by unclean spirits which you allowed into your life. Stop making your life and mind a fertility ground for these unclean spirits. know that if u sin, there will be harsh consequences because satan wasn't happy that u let christ into ur heart and will be seeking for every avenues for u to sin and him to enter and deal with u. Fill your heart with and engaging in spirit filled activities like prayers, fasting and songs of praise. Fast and pray for those specific things u want God to correct about ur life. All these may not take away the urge to have sex or masturbate, but it will give u the grace to overcome these temptation.
Remember, u may fall in to a few sins at the initial stage, don't accept the devil's lie that it is over for u ( that is what satan wants so that u would not get back to God and he will have the access to deal with u) , get on ur knees immediately in prayers in order to get back in God's grace.
God bless you.

Thanks, just did has u have advised......and I have my peace back

Listen OP.
Take this from me.If you are not already sterile you will be soon.
You will already have varicocle which is inflammation of the veins in the testicles among other terrible diseases.
Go and do a semen analysis and you will see that your sperm parameters will be abnormal.

Finally check this website out
http://m.actionlove.com/

If the certainty of not being able to father children,brain decay and self esteem damage is not enough to stop you nothing will.

You are warned . Trust me I'm not playing

Ask God for His grace to overcome the urge,mean-while do read Galentians2:19-21 your testimoney is on the way

211Observer:
...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

This is nonsense .... if you really wanna stop masturbating , get urself a girlfriend simple and she must be a sex addict.

I don't see any evil in masturbation and urs is 13yrs while mine is 14years. .....


Masturbation help me to concentrate .... whenever konji hold me and I started losing concentration while my brain see nothing than pvssy, fvck,fvck .... I just self-service the sh.it out and my body become settled and my brain get redirect to life beneficial issues at hand than woman.

it also help against infidelity ..... you only concentrate on your woman and self-service the devil motivated konji off that can push you towards other girls.

You can't cheat your body, when your system is konji oriented , it is either you fvck around or self-service the shit out ..... attimes you are cracking a very difficult theorem and your body system is sending entirely different signals , you may be in d middle of difficult maths and your dick dey jack.

Masturbation is better than fornication, and God himself never condemn it neither in the Qur'an nor Bible .

God himself would need to tell me how I am not suppose to fvck till I married , never wanked and keep konji in my system .... Shebi we dey urinate and we dey shit when the need arise ......

we should also self-service when the need arise.

Sin/Masturbation is spiritual!

study God's Word everyday, Pray in tongue if you are a believer and you will experience change!
Mind you, the change will not come overnight but it will surely come if you continue with what I have instructed you to do.

I speak of that which I know and testify of that which I have seen, Do the following and masturbation will seize,

1. Study GOD'S WORD
2. Meditate on GOD'S WORD
3. Speak in tongue if you are a believer ( I mean let your spirit do the praying) it works! I say again, it works!


some years ago, I masturbate 2-4 times daily, today I am free! AND my antidote is what I have said above!

The only person that can gives you direction to a strange city is the person that have travel on that part!

Hmmm. My brother, the Lord will deliver u and makes u a living testimony just as He did for me. By the grace of GOD I am a living testimony today. I was in it for almost twelve years. I got married in 2011 and the Lord delivered me in 2013. Fasting upon fasting, prayers and deliverance of different kind, but nothing happend. My brother, JESUS knows the way out and I pray HE will see you through. In addition to all the godly advices given above.Look at the following as well.
- mastubation is a sin
- Confess your sins (1joh 1:9-10)
-Accept Jesus as your Lord and personal savior
-Ask Jesus to come into your life.
-Avoid porn of any kind because whatever you see and hear have a lot to do with your life
-Be prayerful.
-Go for deliverance with "reall" man of GOD.
-Feel bad or frown at it when it happens.
-Do not forsake the fellowship of the children of GOD.
-Get prayer partners to pray on the issue.
Keep trusting God for His visitation at His appointed time. Read Galatians chapter prayer. It is well with you in JESUS NAME. Looking forward to hearing your testimony soon.

bruv ur a man.. be strong, u can resist the urge if u try, above all pray to God, thesame way u got addictd, u can still overcom de addictn. nd u shuld kno of de health consequences, u culd be at risk of low sperm count nd other fertility complicatns

tosyne2much:
Tosyne2much ke ?

u get big dick

The truth is that masturbation is not just a sin but a sarcrillage, God frowns at it,infact its better you get a girl friend than engaging in such immoral act.read the bible very well,God did not destroy soddom because of conventional sex but due to sarcrillagious act like masturbation,homosexuality, lesbianism.ask Gods will and work on it too because your are the archtect of our own problem and solution too.avoid staying alone especially the mode that gets you into it,avoid porn video,talks pictures.try to be busy all ways it will help overcome it.may God give you the strength and grace to achieve it.

Try this website http://www.quitporngetgirls.com. . they are very good

Nnaemiemax:


I onced lived this terrible and self destructive life, at a time, I felt I was never going to overcome, I kept praying and asking God to help me and it seemed as though I was wasting my time, but one thing about God is that He constantly wishes and wants us well.
The first thing you need to understand is that you are in a fierce war with satanic agents - invisible to the human eye but so real as you and me.

I engaged in a spiritual war against these wicked vipers - this was necessary to reclaim all the natural virtues that God had pre-deposited in your life, engaged in total sanctification through prayer and fasting and asked God "what next" ... and he showed me three major techniques to continuously overcome.

Before anything, confess your sins and submit to the Lord Jesus. Genuinely tell him to come into your life and make you anew. YES it's the first step before any other step to Victory. When you are done with this then you can now roll;

1. Guiding the heart and mind diligently: prov. 4:23 this is the first step to wining, because your mind is the initial battlefield, if you loose this initial battle, then it will be by God's divine grace for you to stand. Immediately the thought comes ino your mind, resist and rebuke it aggressively (you will have to speak it with faith and confidence, James 4:7b.) The moment this happens it will be as if you are poured cold water and you will Feel sudden calmness. I strongly recommend this books "battlefield of the mind" by Joyce Meyer, and "Pigs in the parlor" by Frank Hammond.

2. Be alert and vigilant: You have successfully scaled through step one and you are happy but you are just getting started because demons never give up, they have been on earth before us and have handled even tougher people before now and still messed them up, so what you just did seems to be like a newbie stunt to them. The Bible says 'be sober and vigilant because your adversary the devil as a ROARING LION seeketh whom he will destroy. 1pet:5v8. You need to develop that mindset of the active presence of demonic presence around you, because the most workable trick used by these wicked entities for ages is to give us an impression that they ARE NOT REAL!
Why you this mindset is to keep yourself active because they will be coming a second time, with fiercer energy, and when do resist them again. If you are in a room or in an enclosed place kindly step out of that place, remember it's a war and it's not about just spiritual but also physical. Don't worry, in a couple of months you would have garned sufficient grace to resist the thoughts and maintain position.

3. Cut off negative stimulants and pollutants: There are things you must stop to maintain soundness. pornography, toxic relationships and associations, you may not believe but if you are a fan of trace, hip tv, soundcity or other secular music channel, I tell you this truth that majority of what is being pushed to us is sexually defiling, Highly contaminable and destructive. The magnitude of what you take into your mind is what later hunts or uplifts you.
The word of God must be your constant companion because that is the only way you can get fresh first hand clue from God to rewin.
I am a living testimony of God's divine deliverance and I assure you that soon you will also be a n encouragement to someone to. Be strong, be courageous, God is faithful, His thoughts for you are of peace and not of evil, You will overcome, because Christ overcame, He knows you need help, keep asking him to fix you again, and He would.
Remain blessed!

@Nnaemiemax, God bless you. You've been there truly.
@OP, Let me add this; You must find a friend to report yourself to, each time you fell for the temptation again. He must be older (or such that you can be accountable to) with good moral standard (a pastor perhaps who can also pray with you.)
To break any bad habit, you have to be responsible. Accountability aids responsibility.
it's works better if the chosen 'mentor' is himself is a delivered victim. He will understand better.
It is well.

See only God can help you. . ?Had a similar experience, you can whatsapp me @07067753504 . Lets reason forward

friends,
when serious issues are raised, please handle with care and advise accordingly, you can change life in the process.

thanks and God bless.

Cut it off!

get a chik...sure bet

211Observer:
...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

My brother, if you're living in Lagos or closer, try visiting synagogue church of all nation at ekotun for a deliverance session with Prophet T B Joshua. Deliverance is all you need cos ur issue is a demonic possession. I rest my advice bro.

o ye advisers, if you fornicate or adulterate, youe case is worse than the op's

No my advice is ... You are not doing anything wrong, you only feel it's not normal that's why you feel you need change but let me tell you, you are perfectly normal! You don't need any body to advice you on how to enjoy your body sir... self-service the feck off ...