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Jolllyjoy:


funny.

shumuel:
More like it haven't i always been, or are not Joyce4m

feran15:
you have no right to tell me if i can totally agree or just plainly agree.

Jolllyjoy:
anyday lolll

shumuel:
How have you been ?

shumuel:
Yeah but why can't their mentality be 'The man am capable to meet his demands' rather that the 'Castles on the clouds' wishes they always make and have in their hearts, i think and believe if both the male and female has the mindset of, am going into the relationship to take care of my partner, things would change and the divorce rate will reduce with time, don't you think so too ?

Jolllyjoy:
am ok

like you

thank you

shumuel:
Yeah, to be honest so ladies do these but my major point is, Why is it that the energy, the wish and mindset every lady has is 'A man that will take care of me' and not 'The man i will be able to take care of'?

sickstars:
This is end time
Where good girls are dumped by guys who fall for bad girls who hurt them then by the guys want to go back to the good girls they are taken by another guy who has been hurt before then needs a peaceful life
i agree with you

If i was a guy i would go for a girl that would make my life calm and peaceful and i will teach her all she needs to know about sex
Truth is that when u train a girl sex wise she would do more than you expect
Am a certified bad girl *the part of me i hide very well *but a good girl still

Pheals:
now I understand U but ladies don't have to tell U I will take care of you ...she will do that.... well our culture ,her parents could tell u to take care of her

shumuel:
kikiki bad girl indeed, Lol

se.x is not what a relationship is all about, this is still one of the points am trying to prove and change,, it should be coming together to make the other person happy and not it channeling to one direction, the woman,,, no it shouldn't, what about the man, don't you think he also deserves to be loved but even if when there was love, immediately the kids start arriving you ladies mostly divert all the love and attention to the kids, which is a bigg error, we humans tends to seek for love and affections and when we don't get it, we move on, and thats when the sidechicks come in.

sickstars:
You can never please a man
So many women i know off who try to please their men
They still have side chicks
Just look for who appreciates you (not) 'and can also' tolerate you!

shumuel:
smiles @blue its same to women, you know,, we humans in general, are just never satisfied.

@bolded, i couldn't agree more, but always have it in mind that your duty in that relationship is to make your 'better half' happy, always

sickstars:
My better half is so crazy
But i will try to make him happy always and forever as long as we still together
Tanx u just rekindled my love for him.

shumuel:
@blue, why now are you wishing to break-up and part ways, be positive please, remember what you think, wish and say, is the energy you will emit, infact your inner self is what projects to the physical.

@bolded , Wow am so glad to hear that ''Dancing Shoki'' thats what we saying, it shouldn't always be ''he does not love me, he does care about me, he did think of me'' what about you, what have you done for him. You see, when we all start thinking this way, relationships will get better. Thanks

sickstars:
I dont wish to part ways but men are unpredictable that why i said that
I have always loved him sincerely i hope he does too

shumuel:
Okay Lol, just believe he does and it would be as you have believed, stay positive.

shumuel:
Ladies, Check This Out

Okay i was just thinking and this thought came up, so i decided to ask this interesting question, here it goes

If every male out there is hussling hard, getting educated, searching for a good paying job, with a personal promise to make is woman happy, get her the best of things, take her out to expensive places, make her smile all the time, be able to afford all her request, listen to her, vacations here and there e.t.c

and you ladies are busy wishing for a man who would love you, take care of your every need; financially, emotionally, spirituallly and all that there is, make your life and your everyday feel like Heaven, one who would only listen to you and do everything he can to make you happy.

Now the major question here is.

Who will then take care of the man, when all you wish for is a man that will take care of you and not a man that you can take care of, that you will prepare the best of meals for, do his laundry, make him happy always, liisten to him at all time, give birth to the best of kids for, and help raise them in the most religious way with the best of moral standard, doing everything to always make him smile, and accept him for who and what he is ?

I mean the man is trying hard to please his woman, his woman is trying all to be pleased, so i ask again, Who is going to take care of the man ?

If you ask me, the sidechick will always have to come in,, this is just my view, whats your take ?

shumuel:
Okay i hear you and also accept it, but why can't it ever be ''If you love and respect the man, he will love and take care of you''

lets be honest, am asking you; Have you ever tell youself 'I want a man i can love and take care of' ? Because we both know your wish is 'I want a man that would love and take care of me' isn't it ?

Try and be honest with your answer please

sickstars:
My better half is so crazy
But i will try to make him happy always and forever as long as we still together
Tanx u just rekindled my love for him.

Greekgoddess:
I can see that my big sis is in love

Am happy for you

sickstars:
Yeah i'm in love
i just hope my love
Loves mw back the exact same way

Greekgoddess:
Of course dear he will

Dere is no greater feeling dan being in love nd being love in return

But just do ur little sis one favor

Tell him ur little sis says hi, nd he should cherish u d way u cherish him, or else...

sickstars:
thank u i really hope i'm makin d ryt decisions
I dnt want to b hurt again
The worst feelin is being sincere nd gettin hurt

Greekgoddess:
I understand dear, we all have been dere

But dat does not mean we shouldn't give love one more chance

We have to keep trying until we find dat one special person

Dis time around i pray dat wen love finds me it should be 4ever, nd urs too dear

misspicy:
Don't you know that the female gender are naturally caring and loving? take your mum as an example

the love and care is an inborn thing in most females but for a man,its mostly groomed,practiced,most men are not caring,doubt that? make a survey in your community,you Will notice that the ratio of caring men to women is not balanced.....so it is only natural for every woman to pray for a loving and caring husband that is a man that has been able to groom that part of him through practice....



I for one pray for a loving and caring man because I know that I will naturally love,care and respect my husband

misspicy:
and what Will be the final fate of the side chick?

BTW are you saying the ladies are not planning to do the bolded, then why are they getting married?

shumuel:
hmm..., don't get me wrong am not saying females are not caring and loving, what am just saying is that ladies should stop fantasising on a ''Prince charming'' and start gromming theirselves to be the ''Loving queen'' with the mindset of 'Am going to make is world wonderful' rather than 'That will make my world wonderful'

i hope you get and understands me ?

Am all about, what you give is what you get.

sickstars:
Tanx i would always stay positive You have been helpful

sickstars:
Tanx i would always stay positive You have been helpful

shumuel:
Thats the spirit, happy to, anytime sickstars, anytime