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Went out with an uncle of mine on Saturday and while discussing he said something that really marveled me, which I would like to share.

Uncle: there is something i would like to tell, when your ready to settle down, get your lady pregnant and be sure is a month or two before you start making any wedding arrangement. The reason is because some of our ladies have done series of abortion and some were not successful, which must have damage the womb and they won’t tell you about it and both of you will be waiting for God time not knowing she can’t give birth medically speaking. Mind you, not all ladies fall under this category but to be on a safe side just do the needful. Am only telling you this because you’re my favorite nephew.

His reason for telling me this according to him is because of the fact that his wife whom he got married for over 8years couldn’t bear him a child. He loves her so much and kicked against getting a second wife when his people brought it up. Being a man that he is, he still plays away but plays safe not until he got drunk on a certain day and didn’t use condom on his mistress. Weeks later, the lady came to him and told him she is pregnant and would want to abort it since his married but he kicked against it…to cut the long story short, the wife got mad after hearing the news saying she won’t stay with the lady under the same roof and moved out feeling betrayed. Now he has two sons with the other lady now staying with him. His not saying she did any abortion in the past but if only he knew better, he would have done the needful by getting her pregnant before making plans for marriage because his not happy with the way things unfolded but there is nothing he can do about it.

so my question to the house is this.
guys will you do the needful and get the girl your ready to settle down with pregnant?

Ladies will you agree with your man if he propose you get pregnant after plans for the wedding rites have been made?

no i wouldnt.

schumastic:
Went out with an uncle of mine on Saturday and while discussing he said something that really marveled me, which I would like to share.

Uncle: there is something i would like to tell, when your ready to settle down, get your lady pregnant and be sure is a month or two before you start making any wedding arrangement. The reason is because some of our ladies have done series of abortion and some were not successful, which must have damage the womb and they won’t tell you about it and both of you will be waiting for God time not knowing she can’t give birth medically speaking. Mind you, not all ladies fall under this category but to be on a safe side just do the needful. Am only telling you this because you’re my favorite nephew.

His reason for telling me this according to him is because of the fact that his wife whom he got married for over 8years couldn’t bear him a child. He loves her so much and kicked against getting a second wife when his people brought it up. Being a man that he is, he still plays away but plays safe not until he got drunk on a certain day and didn’t use condom on his mistress. Weeks later, the lady came to him and told him she is pregnant and would want to abort it since his married but he kicked against it…to cut the long story short, the wife got mad after hearing the news saying she won’t stay with the lady under the same roof and moved out feeling betrayed. Now he has two sons with the other lady now staying with him. His not saying she did any abortion in the past but if only he knew better, he would have done the needful by getting her pregnant before making plans for marriage because his not happy with the way things unfolded but there is nothing he can do about it.

so my question to the house is this.
guys will you do the needful and get the girl your ready to settle down with pregnant?

Ladies will you agree with your man if he propose you get pregnant after plans for the wedding rites have been made?

ok

No sex before marriage, therefore no pregnancy before marriage.

End time uncle!

No. Emphatically No.
This is why couples willing to get married are advised to go for all medical check ups before tying the knot.

Your uncle has a point but getting her pregnant before the wedding is not a guaranty she will deliver the baby after the wedding. I'd say make sure you know your partner very well by making your own investigation and if you are satisfied and decide to take it further, go ahead and trust God that things go well.

mrbyron:
Your uncle has a point but getting her pregnant before the wedding is not a guaranty she will deliver the baby after the wedding. I'd say make sure you know your partner very well by making your own investigation and if you are satisfied and decide to take it further, go ahead and trust God that things go well.

I AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT...THE FERTILITY TEST IS STILL THE BEST THOUGH FROM BOTH PARTIES NOT JUST THE FEMALE, CUS SOME MEN HAVE LOW SPERM COUNTS AND WON'T TELL THEIR SPOUSE AND IF THE LADY SUGGEST THEY GO FOR ONE, THEY SEE IT AS INSULT AND MIGHT THREATEN TO CALL OF THE WEDDING PLANS.MY ADVICE TO LADIES IS TO CHECK THEIR MAN FERTILITY BEFORE GOING IN.

Hmmm