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sickstars:
I'm talkin about my present love i will b positive tank u
Amen for you i pray you find true long lasting love you would make a good wife

Tanks alot dear, nd u too

*HUGS*

shumuel:
@bolded, If i want to be funny i would say, we should ask you ladies, but we all in this together, you know.

Anyways its The million dollar question i keep asking myself, because i just don't understand why ladies scream ''Slavery'' anytime the need to play their role in the home, okay not all though, but even those who glady do them with pleasure still frown sometimes, i guess its because some ladies are also now taking part in the financial responsibilities.

Mehn there are a lot of hardwork to be put into relationships for it to work, i just get sick when i hear, this, that couple are getting divorced, i really don't like and i would really love to do something.

Now you are talking

everyone has a duty to play but the situation of our country eg economically, situation of the world eg technolgy, etc has made it compulsory for both parties to compromise.


eg its a woman's major duty to care for her home but in a case where she is also needed to help i n the financial scene is it not just sensible that her husband assist with the home care? since financial responsibility is actually his own duty

Greekgoddess:
Tanks alot dear, nd u too

*HUGS*

Aww tank u hugs too

misspicy:
my dear we are saying the same thing

take for instance the bolded,I can boldly say most ladies are naturally the loving queen,they don't need grooming,in short the ones that are naturally not the loving queens are trying to be especially in a society like Nigeria where most ladies have been groomed for marriage right from childhood,

we are naturally caring,its the men that needs grooming,because most men are macho in nature,they don't naturally have that soft side,this is the reason why ladies pray for prince charming.

prince charming in this sense means a man that has been able to add caring and loving to his macho nature

All right, but what i tell you the men too are naturally caring, you doubt that ? Okay i'll prove it,
Point 1: He was caring before the marriage.
Point 2: When he cheats, he is caring to the ''other woman''.
Point 3: He is caring to friends and family, both males and females.

The question has always been
What went wrong ?

And this question has always get me thinking, what really use to go wrong?

I discorved even the most wicked and cruel men are nice to someone, but why are they not always nice to their wives, why is it never their own wives but the sidechicks ?

Hmm, we could say because the wives neglet them to either face work or the kids,, and this is where some of my points are coming from.

shumuel:
All right, but what i tell you the men too are naturally caring, you doubt that ? Okay i'll prove it,
Point 1: He was caring before the marriage.
Point 2: When he cheats, he is caring to the ''other woman''.
Point 3: He is caring to friends and family, both males and females.

The question has always been
What went wrong ?

And this question has always get me thinking, what really use to go wrong?

I discorved even the most wicked and cruel men are nice to someone, but why are they not always nice to their wives, why is it never their own wives but the sidechicks ?

Hmm, we could say because the wives neglet them to either face work or the kids,, and this is where some of my points are coming from.

please pass this question to the men

misspicy:
please pass this question to the men

kikik Lol oh well May the Lord save us all, let me lend your laugh kwakwakwakwa

shumuel:
kikik Lol oh well May the Lord save us all, let me lend your laugh kwakwakwakwa

abi.....

kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa

misspicy:
abi.....

kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa

Lol, you must love coconut so much, Hausa name for coconut- kwakwa: it would sound as if you are pronouncing it kikiki

Men are woods and non living things. What this our generation gals want is a man that can take good care of them and not thinking hw the guy is living and if her boyfriend needs her time and luv.
Christmas is fast approaching bt what our gals want is gift that will be given to them by the male counterparts without caring to ask what to get for the guy.
A gal called me this evenin requesting shoe and a slippers bt foolishly forget to ask me wht i want,is it not selfish and stupidness by the gals?

shumuel:
Ladies, Check This Out

Okay i was just thinking and this thought came up, so i decided to ask this interesting question, here it goes

If every male out there is hussling hard, getting educated, searching for a good paying job, with a personal promise to make is woman happy, get her the best of things, take her out to expensive places, make her smile all the time, be able to afford all her request, listen to her, vacations here and there e.t.c

and you ladies are busy wishing for a man who would love you, take care of your every need; financially, emotionally, spirituallly and all that there is, make your life and your everyday feel like Heaven, one who would only listen to you and do everything he can to make you happy.

Now the major question here is.

Who will then take care of the man, when all you wish for is a man that will take care of you and not a man that you can take care of, that you will prepare the best of meals for, do his laundry, make him happy always, liisten to him at all time, give birth to the best of kids for, and help raise them in the most religious way with the best of moral standard, doing everything to always make him smile, and accept him for who and what he is ?

I mean the man is trying hard to please his woman, his woman is trying all to be pleased, so i ask again, Who is going to take care of the man ?

If you ask me, the sidechick will always have to come in,, this is just my view, whats your take ?

The world we live in revolves round women... evrytin is to and for them, to always please them

that kitty btw their legs no be sere sere o...

only a few of them are able to cope with all d attention and excessive affection shown to them by d male folks.. both well-meaning and d 'chop and clean mouth'

flokii:
The world we live in revolves round women... evrytin is to and for them, to always please them

that kitty btw their legs no be sere sere o...

only a few of them are able to cope with all d attention and excessive affection shown to them by d male folks.. both well-meaning and d 'chop and clean mouth'

hmm, And thats why men would always cheat, they themselves need to change things if they want a non-cheating man, sad

Johnsown1:
Men are woods and non living things. What this our generation gals want is a man that can take good care of them and not thinking hw the guy is living and if her boyfriend needs her time and luv.
Christmas is fast approaching bt what our gals want is gift that will be given to them by the male counterparts without caring to ask what to get for the guy.
A gal called me this evenin requesting shoe and a slippers bt foolishly forget to ask me wht i want,is it not selfish and stupidness by the gals?

Word, its sad bro,, they all need to know, they need to show love to be loved and not the other way round,,, i only pray and hope they listen and not just listen but learn and act.

shumuel:
Word, its sad bro,, they all need to know, they need to show love to be loved and not the other way round,,, i only pray and hope they listen and not just listen but learn and act.

i also pray they learn and be good to their spouse

[quote author=sickstars post=41000003][/quote]Hi frnd. "wink"

Johnsown1:
i also pray they learn and be good to their spouse

Amen bro, Amen.

Now thats what we talking, we praying for our wives and future wives, daughters...

Am proud to be a male anyday, anytime, in any lifetime.

Do these ladies even pray for us the males, cos it seems they see us as the enemy. Mehn

shumuel:
Amen bro, Amen.

Now thats what we talking, we praying for our wives and future wives, daughters...

Am proud to be a male anyday, anytime, in any lifetime.

Do these ladies even pray for us the males, cos it seems they see us as the enemy. Mehn

am big time proud to be a male bro.
some ladies may have the hat to pray for men, why 85% of them will take as woods and fools

shumuel:
Lol, you must love coconut so much, Hausa name for coconut- kwakwa: it would sound as if you are pronouncing it kikiki

bro i know its kwakwa naw,but this is my signature laugh like a dick quacking




ya karke

misspicy:
bro i know its kwakwa naw,but this is my signature laugh like a dick quacking




ya karke

toh... But i know you do now, you just didn't get the joke

I wish for a man who can take great care of himself cause I've got me covered. I need no taking care of and I have no time to take care of a man when I'm busy taking care of his lot and me...

Nubian113:
I wish for a man who can take great care of himself cause I've got me covered. I need no taking care of and I have no time to take care of a man when I'm busy taking care of his lot and me...

kikiki Lol, okay thats a good one. Compliments