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Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Naff24(f): 7:36am On Dec 18, 2015

Slimzjoe:
A Lil bit sensible

That means u are senseless kiss

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by franklingud(m): 7:40am On Dec 18, 2015

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
"our"?. Sorry , I dont believe in jesus.

Who cares if you don't? undecided

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Naff24(f): 7:40am On Dec 18, 2015

Estharfabian:
Hope for the broke Niggaz..

If you can't cope with broke niggas, u can't definitely survive with the riches undecided

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Orikinla(m): 7:43am On Dec 18, 2015

OP, good advice. But relax to write in correct grammar. And lest we forget, Sir Wiston Churchill you mentioned was a millionaire and very wealthy British Prime Minister.

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by badonkadonk: 7:44am On Dec 18, 2015

Toks2008:
A man of vision is not necessarily a potentially rich man and a successful man is never the same as a rich man.

Often times when a lady says "I want a man with vision" what goes through her mind is that she wants a man that has good plans to make good money in the future.

Most ladies are fond of having a prototype figure of the type of man they want and in-fact when some ladies watch some accomplished guys on TV they just imagine their man could be who they are watching and some even develop hatred for their men wondering why his story is not like the rich men they read about or watch on TV but the hard fact of life is that every one of us have different scripts of life and we can never ever be the same.

Before you marry a man you must understand what he wants from life and trust me,some men have vision that has no affiliations to riches and you must also understand that no matter how dogged and resilient that guy may be in actualizing his dreams,some visions never come to pass and you must understand these facts and decide if you are still interested in being with him regardless and not frustrate his life if things do not turn out the way he planned.

Some guys have a vision to be good activists,caterers.teachers,missionaries,to serve someone,to be a dancer,sportsman,drummer and so on but the truth is that a man's vision is his vision so whenever ladies use these words "I want a man of vision" they must understand that some men don't even have vision to be rich but to be fulfilled and fulfillment in your career is never the same as riches.

People who changed the history of the world where not wealthy talking about

Jesus Christ
Muhamed.
Isaac newton,
Nelson Mandela,
christopher columbus,
The Buddha
Mikhail Gorbachev
Winston Churchill
Woodrow Wilson
William Shakespeare
Martin Luther King
...

I can only imagine if Jesus happens to have a lady he was planning to marry and he tells the lady that his vision is to die for the world,will she still stand by him and marry him?

So when next a lady says "she wants a man with vision" Please don't think that every visionary man is keen on riches so ask that guy well and decide if you are willing to stand by him or just take a walk and allow a lady who will go all the way with him come into his life.

And for the guys, please don't be scared to open up to that lady on your real vision no matter how stupid or lowly it may be,remember that following your passion and fulfilling your vision is the greatest success and the greatest wealth you can ever acquire but you must also understand that no matter your vision,it is important for you to still perform your primary financial duty as the head of the family.

And for the ladies i will advice that you look inward,be a goal getter and set out early in life to also achieve your goals in life without any form of dependency or expectancy from any man because that man who seem to have great wealth today can crash in a swift and that unassuming man could become a billionaire later so go for the man of your heart,take the risk,be with a man for the right reason and commit the rest to fate.

Hope this makes sense.

Some ladies just need clay in their lives.....

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by marlockj: 7:44am On Dec 18, 2015

HaneefahRN:
what are u saying, mysogynist? I don't know why u guys like generalizing things, no be women dey marry struggling men? Women are doing good for themselves and someone having a mindset to marry a made man is her decision and vision, wc can come to pass or not.
Don't worry u can stop ur daughters from going to sch so they will chase after poor men

Babe you may Nt Lik my post.

My post didn't say all.

Bt it is obvious that wen majority follow one step,it is normal to generalize.

Truth be told this is common among ladies,I Dnt xpect you to agree with me,Bt that's d truth.

Jst Lik I cn say men are always after sex, it knw and majority r after sex.it does Nt mean that all men r. You culd say my boyfrnd is Nt Lik that...obviously u cnt say he is Lik that.

Another man here culd quote me and say men are Nt after sex,Bt we men knw d truth.

If u take a walk to final yr student of any school do a survey abt women n rich men.it will throw you bck to my post.

The post may Nt go dwn well with you Cuz is d truth.truth they say is always bitter.xpecially if u r yet to get ur rich man.

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Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Toks2008(op): 7:44am On Dec 18, 2015

doveda:
Another one again

missspicy,

[s]Pray tell, how many Nigerian guys do not wish to be the richest man in earth?[/s]

Scratch that

How many Nigerian guys are you aware of that has other visions that is unrelated to money or family?

In other words, our men define us

Taught provoking.

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Toks2008(op): 7:47am On Dec 18, 2015

Orikinla:
OP, good advice. But relax to write in correct grammar.

Thanks but i would have preferred you point out the errors so i can know exactly which place the mistake(s) was made.

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Konjour(m): 7:54am On Dec 18, 2015

Toks2008:
People who changed the history of the world where not wealthy talking about

Jesus Christ
Muhamed.
Isaac newton,
Nelson Mandela,
christopher columbus,
The Buddha
Mikhail Gorbachev
Winston Churchill
Woodrow Wilson
William Shakespeare
Martin Luther King
...

Get your facts right por favor. By the standards of living in their times, one of the greatest sailors of all times and one of the most influential and charismatic prime ministers Britain had ever produced were no paupers by the slightest definition of the term. If anything, they lived their lives in relative comfort, affluence and yes...wealth.

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Naff24(f): 7:55am On Dec 18, 2015

I just dey siddon dey look dos girls wey dey always pray for already made man, dem don forget say na a very good hardworking lady dey behind dos men.

Simply go market,
Buy ur ingredients,
Light ur fire,
Put dos ingredients on fire,
Cook till it's done,
Serve ursef
Enjoy your hard work,
Then people go celebrate u.

Mind u....
The market = ur house and environments u learn from
The ingredients = ur endurance, perseverance, prayers, patience, wisdom, etc to make u survive the struggle.
Help that nigga to achieve his positive vision.
Then, the world will celebrates both of you.
And enjoy ur home together!

You gonna be the perfect example of "Behind a successful man there must be a very good woman" like our own Aisha Buhari, Mitchell Obama etc.

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Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Alameer(m): 7:55am On Dec 18, 2015

Toks2008:
A man of vision is not necessarily a potentially rich man and a successful man is never the same as a rich man.
Often times when a lady says "I want a man with vision" what goes through her mind is that she wants a man that has good plans to make good money in the future.
Most ladies are fond of having a prototype figure of the type of man they want and in-fact when some ladies watch some accomplished guys on TV they just imagine their man could be who they are watching and some even develop hatred for their men wondering why his story is not like the rich men they read about or watch on TV but the hard fact of life is that every one of us have different scripts of life and we can never ever be the same.
Before you marry a man you must understand what he wants from life and trust me,some men have vision that has no affiliations to riches and you must also understand that no matter how dogged and resilient that guy may be in actualizing his dreams,some visions never come to pass and you must understand these facts and decide if you are still interested in being with him regardless and not frustrate his life if things do not turn out the way he planned.
Some guys have a vision to be good activists,caterers.teachers,missionaries,to serve someone,to be a dancer,sportsman,drummer and so on but the truth is that a man's vision is his vision so whenever ladies use these words "I want a man of vision" they must understand that some men don't even have vision to be rich but to be fulfilled and fulfillment in your career is never the same as riches.

People who changed the history of the world where not wealthy talking about
Jesus Christ
Muhamed.
Isaac newton,
Nelson Mandela,
christopher columbus,
The Buddha
Mikhail Gorbachev
Winston Churchill
Woodrow Wilson
William Shakespeare
Martin Luther King
...
I can only imagine if Jesus happens to have a lady he was planning to marry and he tells the lady that his vision is to die for the world,will she still stand by him and marry him?

So when next a lady says "she wants a man with vision" Please don't think that every visionary man is keen on riches so ask that guy well and decide if you are willing to stand by him or just take a walk and allow a lady who will go all the way with him come into his life.
And for the guys, please don't be scared to open up to that lady on your real vision no matter how stupid or lowly it may be,remember that following your passion and fulfilling your vision is the greatest success and the greatest wealth you can ever acquire but you must also understand that no matter your vision,it is important for you to still perform your primary financial duty as the head of the family.
And for the ladies i will advice that you look inward,be a goal getter and set out early in life to also achieve your goals in life without any form of dependency or expectancy from any man because that man who seem to have great wealth today can crash in a swift and that unassuming man could become a billionaire later so go for the man of your heart,take the risk,be with a man for the right reason and commit the rest to fate.
Hope this makes sense.

AM a MAN WITH A VISION. If i am alive INSHALLAH

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Toks2008(op): 7:59am On Dec 18, 2015

Konjour:
Get your facts right por favor. By the standards of living in their times, one of the greatest sailors of all times and one of the most influential and charismatic prime ministers Britain had ever produced were no paupers by the slightest definition of the term. If anything, they lived their lives in relative comfort, affluence and yes...wealth.

Can you just look away from that list and look at the message? Apparently i did some research on these names and if 2 or 3 out of 11 names were erroneously added that should not be a crime.

Asides this, it is imperative to understand that in most cases.when a man follows his passion,making money is definitely sacrosanct but the problem is that the level of riches may not be as good as envisaged by some standards.

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Vikky014(f): 8:03am On Dec 18, 2015

Estharfabian:
Hope for the broke Niggaz..

hahahahahaha. #faints#

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Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by sage2(m): 8:04am On Dec 18, 2015

Estharfabian:
Hope for the broke Niggaz..

Even if I am a Billionaire, I will still away from girls/ladies/women like you. They are mostly vain leeches.

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Vikky014(f): 8:06am On Dec 18, 2015

nice write up Toks2008. bt ladies shld also hv their own vision nt always wanting a man wt vision tongue

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Samsonklin(m): 8:10am On Dec 18, 2015

Slimzjoe:
A Lil bit sensible

Sensible, sensibility, sensibilated or sensebilation... sense dey inside... Lol!

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by menxer: 8:11am On Dec 18, 2015

Very few ladies would understand what op is trying to say because to some ladies vision = material wealth/riches, just as sex = love. grin

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Samsonklin(m): 8:12am On Dec 18, 2015

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
"our"?. Sorry , I dont believe in jesus.

Then u must be in d dark...

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by HaneefahRN(f): 8:13am On Dec 18, 2015

marlockj:
Babe you may Nt Lik my post.

My post didn't say all.

Bt it is obvious that wen majority follow one step,it is normal to generalize.

Truth be told this is common among ladies,I Dnt xpect you to agree with me,Bt that's d truth.

Jst Lik I cn say men are always after sex, it knw and majority r after sex.it does Nt mean that all men r. You culd say my boyfrnd is Nt Lik that...obviously u cnt say he is Lik that.

Another man here culd quote me and say men are Nt after sex,Bt we men knw d truth.

If u take a walk to final yr student of any school do a survey abt women n rich men.it will throw you bck to my post.

The post may Nt go dwn well with you Cuz is d truth.truth they say is always bitter.xpecially if u r yet to get ur rich man.

Wareva. It's nt the truth tho, there are lots of ladies who wldn't mind starting from the scratch wt their men, although who no like better thing no one wants to suffer esp when at the end of the day most men ain't appreciative of women who suffered wt them

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Samsonklin(m): 8:18am On Dec 18, 2015

Samsonklin:
Then u must be in d dark... Peace!!!

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by stankezzy: 8:19am On Dec 18, 2015

This is d man with vision

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Samsonklin(m): 8:20am On Dec 18, 2015

Estharfabian:
Hope for the broke Niggaz..

As if say ur papa get money

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Samsonklin(m): 8:23am On Dec 18, 2015

osesology:
Well written. Fulfillment is quite different from being wealthy. May God bless the work of our hand though.

Very correct broda... Even Rick Ross of Mayback Music drew a tatoo recently on his forehead saying "I NEED TRUE WEALTH"... and then I was like, I don gerrit.. True wealth? Phew!

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Nobody: 8:24am On Dec 18, 2015

sage2:
Even if I am a Billionaire, I will still away from girls/ladies/women like you. They are mostly vain leeches.

Trust me bae....I won't ever need A Brokass Nigga's Money....

Before You get there...I'd be there chilling...And with "Heels".. undecided

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Samsonklin(m): 8:25am On Dec 18, 2015

Naff24:
I just dey siddon dey look dos girls wey dey always pray for already made man, dem don forget say na a very good hardworking lady dey behind dos men.

Simply go market,
Buy ur ingredients,
Light ur fire,
Put dos ingredients on fire,
Cook till it's done,
Serve ursef
Enjoy your hard work,
Then people go celebrate u.

Mind u....
The market = ur house and environments u learn from
The ingredients = ur endurance, perseverance, prayers, patience, wisdom, etc to make u survive the struggle.
Help that nigga to achieve his positive vision.
Then, the world will celebrates both of you.
And enjoy ur home together!

You gonna be the perfect example of "Behind a successful man there must be a very good woman" like our own Aisha Buhari, Mitchell Obama etc.

Can I add? Patience Jonathan... Thanks!

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Cutehector(m): 8:25am On Dec 18, 2015

Estharfabian:
Trust me bae....I won't ever need A Brokass Nigga's Money....

Before You get there...I'd be there chilling...And with "Heels"..

u seem to really like heels cheesy

.. Sorry ur, wats ur height again cheesy

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Nobody: 8:26am On Dec 18, 2015

Naff24:
If you can't cope with broke niggas, u can't definitely survive with the riches

A Lioness don't mingle with Cats...Just saying... cheesy

It Ain't "Pride"....It's "Class".. cool

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Nobody: 8:28am On Dec 18, 2015

Cutehector:
u seem to really like heels .. Sorry ur, wats ur height again

Hector, it's me o.... cry

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Cutehector(m): 8:30am On Dec 18, 2015

Estharfabian:
Hector, it's me o....

people worship u alot here in romance... I should be ur nightmare cheesy

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Cocoyamu: 8:30am On Dec 18, 2015

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
"our"?. Sorry , I dont believe in jesus.

Bro, for typing/uttering that..., this is the time you need Jesus most. tomorrow might be too late.
it's simple, from the depth of your heart just confess that He's your Lord and saviour.

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by sage2(m): 8:31am On Dec 18, 2015

Estharfabian:
Trust me bae....I won't ever need A Brokass Nigga's Money....

Before You get there...I'd be there chilling...And with "Heels"..

We all know that only brokeass b!tches scream brokeass niggas.

Re: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by Cutehector(m): 8:31am On Dec 18, 2015

Estharfabian:
A Lioness don't mingle with Cats...Just saying...

It Ain't "Pride"....It's "Class"...

urm, last time i checked, a lioness is a cat..

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