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Bros OP. Shebi you talk say you run things to the highest level...omo no let things begin run you.

Bros, y you wan bury yaself before you die na? You don't even know if she is doing it or not.

Bro just let her go

I really didn't understand a word

op continue jare! even try buy am car..while your doing that try buy me 1 too...as advisor concern... op continue jare! even try buy am car..while your doing that try buy me 1 too...as advisor concern...

birds of a feather....

I wan go sleep jeje u con carry dis kin yeye talk disturb my sleep abi
anyway my advice b say ask google 4 advice and u see enough
Goodnite

She is not ur wife yet so technically u dnt own her

israelbenzion:
There is this girl I have Ben dating steadily for 5onths now. Real serious. As.I type she is even lying beside me.
Problem is, I have had cause to suspect that she is cheating on me severally. Each time I confront her, she denies and.pledges her fidelity to me. Just tonight when she asked me to help turn the data on her mobile phone on, her.Whatsapp and BBMessages came tumbling in. I am not the prying type at all, but in her presence there a message came in and the sender called her "baby". I commented on it but did not push it further. I confronted her later but she didn't really say anything about it.
As a guy man that I am that has run things to the highest level, I know I can't be the only one she is dating. Problem is, I plan to marry her even though I am yet to propose. But I'm scared that this infidelity will extend into marriage if I marry her. I love her but I'm thinking of letting her go.

What do you advise?

No, dont continue with her because its gonna hunt and hurt u forever. but if you think you can bear it, then why not? but for me, never will i ever forgive a lady that cheats on me.

Take the risk if u love her

this kind of post they vex me rubbish

Just because a guy called your girlfriend "baby" you are now crying like a baby??

Dafuq is wrong with the OP?

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Did u read where I said I hv had cause to suspect her severally prior to this incident? I asked her to show me the msg, but she had already deleted it. see, if this were just a fling to me, I wouldn't ever bother. what's my own then? but this is a girl I'm planning to surprise with marriage proposal latest March 2016. so I shd be bothered. and extra vigilant.

israelbenzion:
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Did u read where I said I hv had cause to suspect her severally prior to this incident? I asked her to show me the msg, but she had already deleted it. see, if this were just a fling to me, I wouldn't ever bother. what's my own then? but this is a girl I'm planning to surprise with marriage proposal latest March 2016. so I shd be bothered. and extra vigilant.

dump her already.i know cause am a girl

Catch her here.... at the wrist
not their .... at the elbow before taking any action bruh

take her fone to computer village, dey can recover all her deleted messages. Or u can install a spy software on her fone.

she might not be cheating this could be messages from admirers

you should be angry and get suspicious only when she calls other guys baby not when she is been called baby by her admirer

We guys eh...all wat u 've been doing is suspecting her with no convincing evidence...and i'm sure, u get side chick

Dude for reals?.. How about u read one of texts that places her in a compromising spot before disturbing me in the morning....

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She deleted same. Immediately. I know cos I asked. and that act of deletion further fuels my suspicion. If it was harmless and a one-way text from an admirer, why be in a rush to delete it?

You shouldn't break up yet even though you are suspicious, I would advice you get solid evidence before you take a bold step, think twice before you do anything you might regreat later