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This is a counter thread to wristbangle's post. I will counter her list before mentioning my own list.

It beats my imagination also to see ladies who are so despirate to get married thereby forgetting that marriage is a life time agreement, hence the alarming rate of divorce.

@wristbangle, Almost all the list you mentioned are signs that the guy has not met the right lady yet. Let me tell you how...

1. HE KEEPS SEVERAL GIRL FRIENDS.
Its ridiculous to liken this set of guys with a Rooster/Cøck. Keeping several girlfriends doesn't mean he is keeping several sèxmaté or chasing anything under skirt.
Am not trying to justify flirting but.... THE GUY IS ONLY LOOKING FOR THE RIGHT GIRL TO WIFE PERIOD.

2. BEING TOO DEPENDENT ON PARENTS

I humbly disagree with this. This is only common among students and not grown up men as you rightly stated.
And if a guy has to cook up stories to extort money from his parent, it simply means a LADY is behind it. He must be trying to impress a lady i guess.
So you tell me, if that lady fustrating the guy to do this, is good to be a wife?

Am not trying to justify anything here but....LADIES SHOULD STOP MAKING RELATIONSHIPS THEIR JOB OPPORTUNITY AND GUYS WON'T HAVE ANY REASON TO DO THE AFOREMENTION TRICK.

3. UNCONTROLLED SPENDING

A man in his right senses doesn't spend uncontrollably without a reason. Its either he has more than enough or he is trying to impress a lady.
If a guy doesn't spend, wristbangle will say he is a stingy guy she can't marry him but now he spends and wristbangle says it is an uncontrolled spending.
Am not trying to justify anything here but.... LADIES DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.


4. LAZINESS AND IDLENESS
Mind you, not everybody who appear lazy and idle actually are. They can be entrepreneurs who wants to study the environment and to know what the people wants. You can call it secret survey and market feasibility. They can also be undercover agents/ state C.I.D hence the clusters at jedi jedi seller.
But for those who truely are lazy and idle, hmmm! Am not trying to justify anything here but... NO JOBS, SO BLAME THE ECONOMY.

5. EATING AND SLEEPING AT FRIENDS HOUSE.

@wristbangle, like seriously?.... If you can't marry a guy who has a trusted friend, then be prepared to marry a loner who probably is a criminal, thereby doesn't have friends.
Thank God you didn't say "...at a lady's house". Am not trying to justify anything here but...LADIES MARRY GUYS WHO HAS CLOSE AND TRUSTED FRIENDS, BECOS YOU KNOW HIM MORE THROUGH HIS FRIENDS.

6.POOR PERCEPTION ABOUT LOVE.
And if a guy can't spend on his girlfriend, she says he doesn't love her. Then she goes for an aristo "because of the money". Am not trying to justify anything here but... WHO THEN HAS A POOR PERCEPTION ABOUT LOVE?

7. BEING TOO PROUD TO APOLOGISE

I agree with you on this but not completly. Naturally, Men are superior beings. Am not trying to justify anything here but...LADIES LEARN TO BE SUBMISSIVE TO YOUR GUY, THATS HOW IT HAS BEEN SINCE TIME IMMEMORIAL. DON'T TRY TO CHANGE IT.

8. POOR RELIGIOUS LIFE.
This is you judging guys. Are you God? @wristbangle, abi na you holy pass?
Am not trying to justify anything but... JUDGE NOT SO THAT YOU WILL NOT BE JUDGED.


8 WAYS TO KNOW THAT A LADY IS NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE.

1.SHE KEEPS USELESS GIRL FRIENDS AND ARISTO.

2. SHE IS OVER DEPENDENT ON HER BOYFRIEND.

3. SHE IS TOO MATERIALISTIC.

4. SHE PARTIES AND GO CLUBING FREQUENTLY.

5. SHE GOSSIPS AND CHIT-CHATS WITH USELESS GIRLS FREQUENTLY.

6. SHE DOESN'T BELIEVE IN LOVE.

7. SHE HATES AUTHORITY (she doesn't like been told what to do)

8. SHE JUDGES GUYS BASE ON THEIR RELIOUS BELIEVE.

OP shey you don chop this morning

Better for you to stick to one opinion

Iranu

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Space booked.. Incase e reach fp.

petokey:
It beats my imagination also to see ladies who are so despirate to get married thereby forgetting that marriage is a life time agreement, hence the alarming rate of divorce.

@wristbangle, Almost all the list you mentioned are signs that the guy has not met the right lady yet. Let me tell you how...

1. HE KEEPS SEVERAL GIRL FRIENDS.
Its ridiculous to liken this sets of guys with a Rooster/Cock. Keeping several girlfriends doesn't mean he is keeping several sèxmaté or chasing anything under skirt.
Am not trying to justify flirting but.... THE GUY IS ONLY LOOKING FOR THE RIGHT GIRL TO WIFE PERIOD.

2. BEING TOO DEPENDENT ON PARENTS

I humbly disagree with this. This is only common among students and not grown up men as you rightly stated.
And if a guy has to cook up stories to extort money from his parent, it simply means a LADY is behind it. He must be trying to impress a lady i guess.
So you tell me, if that lady fustrating the guy to do this, is good to be a wife?

Am not trying to justify anything here but....LADIES SHOULD STOP MAKING RELATIONSHIPS THEIR JOB OPPORTUNITY AND GUYS WON'T HAVE ANY REASON TO DO THE AFOREMENTION TRICK.

Still loading....

Expecting to read your full story

Anyway change it to 8 Ways To Know That A Lady Is Not Ready For Marriage

waiting..

SINNZ:
Iranu

Abashaaa!!!!!!

SINNZ:
Iranu

ati iwo nor

obiorathesubtle:
Space booked.. Incase e reach fp.

oga, maka sidon near u na

Thread gonna die in the abyss of romance section bro.....
accept your fate,BTW I like your points

wristbangle:
Expecting to read your full story

Anyway change it to 8 Ways To Know That A Lady Is Not Ready For Marriage

ok

Omotayor123:
OP if you load finish tell me...

BTW, this your post means you believe wristbangle's list is poo and you are creating yours shey

i don load finish ooh

misspicy:
Thread gonna die in the abyss of romance section bro.....

accept your fate,BTW I like your points

Wateefaa! Am only trying to make a point.

wow! nice write up

petokey:
i don load finish ooh

Here!

lirusehn:
Plz where do I get a life for OP?

i don't understand