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Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by vizkiz: 7:48am On Dec 20, 2015
naughtynaughty:
whateva it is ure talkin abt, save it for ur sista(s). Lol,No b fight nah
I no dey fight for Sunday morning. But I get snipper angry
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 7:59am On Dec 20, 2015
CaroLyner:
he doesnt have to spend a dime.
i really support u on this
Guys would say every girl is a gold digger but even when the girl never asked they buy and when the girls collect they name them gold diggers

I feel a gold digger shd be d demanding gf nt d one dat was on her own before u started buying her stuffs

About d hang out for dates i prefer park to eatry nd av been on so many dates nd i never demanded a dime! Not even to water niggas are mostly assholes!!!!!!

My pride all d way if i can av my way i wud marry mysef trust me

i really gat ur back on this!
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 8:05am On Dec 20, 2015
100okedara:
For almost all Naija babe you will definitely spend on your first date
Sir totaly wrong

Buy spending

Is it dat she demanded for it?
Or
You bought it for her willingly?
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 8:05am On Dec 20, 2015
Love Machine:
Have you foot your own bill in an eatery before?No be men dey carry una go chop there?
Not every girl taken to eatry eats there
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 8:07am On Dec 20, 2015
Nubian113:
I have my own place so I usually say "come to my house" to fine young men grin
Ehn oya bosset grin
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 8:09am On Dec 20, 2015
menix:
Why re u lot hiding under the Name "Date"....

Sure u know you will be a liar if u say you ve not honored a visit request..

Any reasonable girl that knows what she want will certainly pop up the question of why it's only at the eatery u both meet...
Yes I have being asked that..

The truth is that the local galz I can't bring home, I keep entertaining them outside..

My close pal will tell any gal if u can't visit me swerve, cous he starts from home to entertain his guest before taking you out..

Wait till u visit a well pimped home with assorted, you will never go to an eatery again..
undecided not all girls are moved by material things even if the home is made with pure diamonds only

Im nt moved its very extremely hard to please me huh
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 8:22am On Dec 20, 2015
Chule:
on a more serious note..... ladies it's high time u guys grow up and a changed mentality, this is globalized century were things are a lot easier other than then.
The world has moved on lady, no time for hide and seek, meet under the banana tree at the village square anymore.

The truth is guys feel a lot more comfortable and confident when they entertain you in their house. esp if that his house is 'toshed' up.In fact..he lets the house do the wooing.

it will be ur decision to kn if ar to giv or not.
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 8:24am On Dec 20, 2015
Chule:
on a more serious note..... ladies it's high time u guys grow up and a changed mentality, this is globalized century were things are a lot easier other than then.
The world has moved on lady, no time for hide and seek, meet under the banana tree at the village square anymore.

The truth is guys feel a lot more comfortable and confident when they entertain you in their house. esp if that his house is 'toshed' up.In fact..he lets the house do the wooing.

it will be ur decision to kn if ar to giv or not.
.

why not the ladies house it safer there, you really cant blame any lady if she refuses to come to your house the bad guys have spoilt the good guys with their reputation........if she gets raper you know the society we live in she'll be blamed
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 8:45am On Dec 20, 2015
sickstars:
Ehn oya bosset grin
wink
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by menix(m): 8:52am On Dec 20, 2015
sickstars:
undecided not all girls are moved by material things even if the home is made with pure diamonds only

Im nt moved its very extremely hard to please me
huh
U sound like a sadist, hope am wronghuh

I will advise u date nd marry urself cous no man can even please you on bed..
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by ivyy(f): 8:53am On Dec 20, 2015
Love Machine:
Is eatery a meeting point?Na waiter go bounce you out if you no buy meatpie and coke.
And she can get those things with her money n buy yours too since you are clearly that brokeundecided
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Chule(op): 8:53am On Dec 20, 2015
esosa993:
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why not the ladies house it safer there, you really cant blame any lady if she refuses to come to your house the bad guys have spoilt the good guys with their reputation........if she gets raper you know the society we live in she'll be blamed
oh myn!! u hv not hard of some badt bitches raping innocent young guys I mean gang rape..... bilivUme they exist.
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 9:03am On Dec 20, 2015
menix:
U sound like a sadist, hope am wronghuh

I will advise u date nd marry urself cous no man can even please you on bed..
grin thats the fun of it

Pleasing me is like kissing d devil tongue tongue tongue tongue

Just b ursef arond me dnt please me it
Disgust me tongue
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 9:04am On Dec 20, 2015
CaroLyner:
he doesnt have to spend a dime.
Which of the eateries? The one in Maiduguri or Los Angeles?
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 9:07am On Dec 20, 2015
Chule:
oh myn!! u hv not hard of some badt bitches raping innocent young guys I mean gang rape..... bilivUme they exist.
u are just saying all this probably you don't have s sis......when you have daughters then u will know its not quite save visiting guys, expect the one you are sure of.....




I remember like 2 months ago to be precise I went for a night class, inside school ohhh for a group reading towards exam, now I decided to sleep small oo, and then one idiot guy that. has been wooing me was touching my legs and was about to touch my chest when I woke I threatened him I was so furious, now get this when I woke up I was scared thinking the it was only me and the idiot was alone in the classroom to try that shit........now that type of guy groping a gal while sleeping what would he do to a gal if she visits him
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 9:15am On Dec 20, 2015
CaroLyner:
eatery is a comfortable place where you can sit and talk.then if you want you can decide to buy something when leaving.(optional)do i really need to be lecturing you kids about this? please change the set of local girls you move with.
Yes, on a first date, it must not be an eatry. It could be going to the cinema, park or an event. No girl is local, National or international same for the boys.
After few days of seeing at a particular joint, calling (both parties), it proper to go see the guy in his house (not a friends house), if his responsibile, can take care of himself and bills before you finally decided to make that place your second home.

In other climes, girls invite the guy for a dinner, but because of our society girls can't do that, but sincerely, its a way to check if the girls are well mannered, homely and domesticated.
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 9:17am On Dec 20, 2015
esosa993:
u are just saying all this probably you don't have s sis......when you have daughters then u will know its not quite save visiting guys, expect the one you are sure of.....




I remember like 2 months ago to be precise I went for a night class, inside school ohhh for a group reading towards exam, now I decided to sleep small oo, and then one idiot guy that. has been wooing me was touching my legs and was about to touch my chest when I woke I threatened him I was so furious, now get this when I woke up I was scared thinking the it was only me and the idiot was alone in the classroom to try that shit........now that type of guy groping a gal while sleeping what would he do to a gal if she visits him
That's an assault. Did you report to the school authority?
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 9:35am On Dec 20, 2015
ivyy:
And she can get those things with her money n buy yours too since you are clearly that brokeundecided
How do you know i am broke?I just don't want to fall into the category as a maga.Gerrit?
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Chule(op): 9:36am On Dec 20, 2015
esosa993:
u are just saying all this probably you don't have s sis......when you have daughters then u will know its not quite save visiting guys, expect the one you are sure of.....




I remember like 2 months ago to be precise I went for a night class, inside school ohhh for a group reading towards exam, now I decided to sleep small oo, and then one idiot guy that. has been wooing me was touching my legs and was about to touch my chest when I woke I threatened him I was so furious, now get this when I woke up I was scared thinking the it was only me and the idiot was alone in the classroom to try that shit........now that type of guy groping a gal while sleeping what would he do to a gal if she visits him
u hv a point really, I love ur line of argument.

in 2012 I ones visited a bea who's been crushing on me my intention was to go afterwards but in her own words around 8:30 our gate will be locked and our gateman won't open up for u. I knew its just a trick to make me stay over not mindin I will go to work d following day.

there are gooooood guys wit pleasant emotions that wont hurt a fly, they make Ur comfortability a priority first impression matters a lot.

babe we exist make friends wit a good guy and ur life will never remain d same. u will practically park in.

thank me latter.
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 9:43am On Dec 20, 2015
Joy1706:
So na 150 naira meatpie and 150 naira coke be ur problem? Chai! Poverty is real sha
Is that too much for you to pay?Why are you ladies so stingy on everything?When a guy want to kiss you on a date, you will say"it's too early for that"If he ask you to come see him at home,the same excuse.But you want him to start spending on you on a dating period.
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 10:05am On Dec 20, 2015
Veeveechibs:
That's an assault. Did you report to the school authority?
Lol I know its an assault, I threatened him he felt sorry was scared I didn't want to ruin the idiots life I told few people in my department tho, but the guy is a 2:1 guy, almost in 1st class sef, I don't want to ruin the fools life
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 10:07am On Dec 20, 2015
Chule:
u hv a point really, I love ur line of argument.

in 2012 I ones visited a bea who's been crushing on me my intention was to go afterwards but in her own words around 8:30 our gate will be locked and our gateman won't open up for u. I knew its just a trick to make me stay over not mindin I will go to work d following day.

there are gooooood guys wit pleasant emotions that wont hurt a fly, they make Ur comfortability a priority first impression matters a lot.

babe we exist make friends wit a good guy and ur life will never remain d same. u will practically park in.

thank me latter.
u are very right, am glad you understand what am saying, if you visit a good guy there's no big deal at all, the bad ones don spoil name for the good ones
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Aystarz: 11:37am On Dec 20, 2015
Spanner4:
I don't buy d idea of come to my house@d first date. Just look for a place to hang out with her,take tym to knw her and then d rest will be...
You see the irony is if u restrict dating to these eateries and parks, soon it will be the ladies themselves hassling u to bring them to your house.. When u object, they're left thinking you're hiding something from them. Funny gender the female.
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Frankdamaxx(m): 11:37am On Dec 20, 2015
CaroLyner:
why meet at his house on a first date? undecided what are eaterys and other hangout spots there for?
Eateries are for eating, abi are you people planning to date or eat? Girls and food sha.
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Elosky20: 1:07pm On Dec 20, 2015
interesting thread
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Chule(op): 1:09pm On Dec 20, 2015
Elosky20:
interesting thread
THREAD OPENED
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Joy1706(f): 1:29pm On Dec 20, 2015
Love Machine:
Is that too much for you to pay?Why are you ladies so stingy on everything?When a guy want to kiss you on a date, you will say"it's too early for that"If he ask you to come see him at home,the same excuse.But you want him to start spending on you on a dating period.
Oga abeg don't insult me? I've taken guys out on dates before and paid. And the guy even ordered full plate of rice, chicken and drink sef. What's all that? And ur here whining about common 300 naira. Mstchewww.
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 20, 2015
Joy1706:
Oga abeg don't insult me? I've taken guys out on dates before and paid. And the guy even ordered full plate of rice, chicken and drink sef. What's all that? And ur here whining about common 300 naira. Mstchewww.
If i hearam say you pay for a guy's meal ehn!
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by preetyb(f): 1:42pm On Dec 20, 2015
PushMusic:
Only hungry girls ask for a date at the eatery.

What about the movies or even ice cream. How come eateries suddenly became meeting points.
Is ice cream a name of place?
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by preetyb(f): 1:53pm On Dec 20, 2015
Well most times ladies prefer a neutral ground for meeting their first date bcus they want to be sure they know who is inviting them over in person and to atleast have an inter personal relationship with them that will boost their confident enough to trust and visit them at their place.
Not that the guy can't still do ugly things to the lady after meeting him in an open place but the truth is we always feel meeting them in an open place may help us perceive who they are and what they are likely to do when we are in an enclose place.
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by CaroLyner(f): 2:13pm On Dec 20, 2015
Veeveechibs:
Which of the eateries? The one in Maiduguri or Los Angeles?
huh
Re: Girls And Their Misunderstanding 'come To My House' By Guys by Joy1706(f): 2:20pm On Dec 20, 2015
Love Machine:
If i hearam say you pay for a guy's meal ehn!
I'm sorry, do you know me? If not just shut the Fucck up
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