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Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by deniyor: 11:12am On Dec 20, 2015
Exposure is indeed rare. People can be literate but still uneducated.
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 11:19am On Dec 20, 2015
Greekgoddess:
Anambara don't practice such

But dis is sad


I wish dere is something that could be done
Are u sure? That's the opposite of what I heard
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 11:40am On Dec 20, 2015
Suigeneris93:
Are u sure? That's the opposite of what I heard
Well dats wat my mum told me

Nd my friends dat comes from other eastern States told me dey don't practice such
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 12:12pm On Dec 20, 2015
Greekgoddess:
Well dats wat my mum told me

Nd my friends dat comes from other eastern States told me dey don't practice such
Okay
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 12:17pm On Dec 20, 2015
deniyor:
Exposure is indeed rare. People can be literate but still uneducated.
Yea true but customs r customs,nt so much has changed in some of our traditional societies today
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by olashas(f): 12:42pm On Dec 20, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
I blame the man for marrying her in the first place..


Taaaah! Osu people!
I don't get this though undecided. What's all the buzz about biafra then if igbos discriminate against a certain clan?
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 2:31pm On Dec 20, 2015
olashas:
I don't get this though undecided. What's all the buzz about biafra then if igbos discriminate against a certain clan?
Not all Igbos are agitating for biafra bt the osu isn't a clan. Its a certain set of pple in a community that other people stigmatize because of their heritage. According to what I hear tho, not all parts of Igboland hv the osu tradition
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by obiorathesubtle: 2:53pm On Dec 20, 2015
Greekgoddess:
Dis osu thing has better stop

All those dat r rejecting d osu people, dat stigmatized dem, for once let dem put themselves in dese people shoes, how will dey feel if dey r one of dem

I don't know y it's only imo state dat practice such

Obiorathesubtle wats ur problem, don't tell me u r in support of dis
uuh.. You won't understand.. No need
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by obiorathesubtle: 2:55pm On Dec 20, 2015
olashas:
I don't get this though undecided. What's all the buzz about biafra then if igbos discriminate against a certain clan?
osu is a curse.. So we should embrace curses abi?
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 20, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
uuh.. You won't understand.. No need
Ok
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by deniyor: 6:47pm On Dec 21, 2015
Suigeneris93:
Yea true but customs r customs,nt so much has changed in some of our traditional societies today
Customs are also continually changed to keep up with the times. Would you support a custom such as this? Or killing of twins,abobaku, widows drinking late husbands bath water etc?
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by murphyibiam15(m): 7:02pm On Dec 21, 2015
Suigeneris93:
I don't tink its only Imo state that has the outcast practise. Its all over. Igboland and even in the western world in countries like India, there's a thriving caste system in which intermarriage. btw d Brahmins(highest class) and d untouchables is discouraged. Any such marriage btw both classes is seen as class suicide almost the same thing as an abomination in Igboland
sister do ur research very well and u will find out is only imo state that is still practising this poo
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by murphyibiam15(m): 7:03pm On Dec 21, 2015
Suigeneris93:
"Is there anyone you'd like to call?"

A thousand thoughts race through her mind as she holds on to the dining chair, her knees, suddenly seem unable to bear the weight of her rubbery legs.

"Madam? Is there anyone you'd like to call?" He asks again.

She shakes her head in denial, seeing and yet unseeing the three strangers in her dining room. Her grip on the chair shakes as she wobbles on her feet. One man immediately grabs her from behind.

"Take it easy, madam," they chorus as the man helps her to one of the chairs.

They wear a forlorn mien plastered with furrowed frowning faces like people whose inhalation of the putrid smell of stinking fart, affect. Her expression is vacant as she stares back at them, their images so blurring and blending into one another that she thinks it is a dream; a very bad dream that if she shuts her eyes and opens will go away. She does this but the men are still there, staring back at her with solemn faces.

"I'm so sorry..."

The eldest-looking one among them speaks but she cannot understand through the haze that is settling over her soul. She tries to listen to him but deep down she does not believe all he is saying. She does not want to believe it.

He speaks of details that are like a buzz in her brain, of arrangements to be made. But it is all lost on her.

They leave and she is alone in the house she and Nduka rented when they newly got married. The house they had saved for, painted and decorated together. The house they had planned to welcome their child in, together.

She hears her own keening as she collapses on the floor by her front door. Lying on her side, she gathers herself into a ball in defense and denial.

Nduka cannot be dead. He is young and healthy. He is coming home and they are having his favourite soup, ofe onugbu for dinner. Slowly, the words of the men that had left begins to seep into her brain.

...a mistake, the taxi driver hadn't seen him coming.


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imo state again.....but thought imo is the most enlightened state but why still doing this poo called osu...mtcheew
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 7:10pm On Dec 21, 2015
deniyor:
Customs are also continually changed to keep up with the times. Would you support a custom such as this? Or killing of twins,abobaku, widows drinking late husbands bath water etc?
If I supported it,I wldnt be writing about it. The truth is that there are some reforms in our traditional practices but those reforms haven't completely eradicated such customs as this
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 7:12pm On Dec 21, 2015
murphyibiam15:
sister do ur research very well and u will find out is only imo state that is still practising this poo
Its not only Imo state, there are some parts of Abia that still practise it
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by murphyibiam15(m): 8:54pm On Dec 21, 2015
Suigeneris93:
Its not only Imo state, there are some parts of Abia that still practise it
it is only those part of abia state that have boundary with imo....but generally abia state doesnt involve themselves in that poo
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 9:19pm On Dec 21, 2015
murphyibiam15:
it is only those part of abia state that have boundary with imo....but generally abia state doesnt involve themselves in that poo
Aiit...noted
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by deniyor: 7:08am On Dec 22, 2015
Suigeneris93:
If I supported it,I wldnt be writing about it. The truth is that there are some reforms in our traditional practices but those reforms haven't completely eradicated such customs as this
Agreed.
It takes time and exposure.
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 7:23am On Dec 22, 2015
When a billionaire comes to ask their daughter's hand in marriage, the money would even wipe the part of their brain that goes to ask osu questions.
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 7:30am On Dec 22, 2015
Neeson:
When a billionaire comes to ask their daughter's hand in marriage, the money would even wipe the part of their brain that goes to ask osu questions.
grin grin grin
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by ReignSilva(m): 8:00am On Dec 22, 2015
If I hear, that is before not this present age
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 9:23am On Dec 22, 2015
Suigeneris93:
grin grin grin
Lol, your story is fiction tho??
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 10:23am On Dec 22, 2015
Neeson:
Lol, your story is fiction tho??
Yep
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by yapapa: 10:28am On Dec 22, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
osu is a curse.. So we should embrace curses abi?
common its very unfair
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 12:55pm On Dec 22, 2015
Suigeneris93:
Yep
Good job!
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Nobody: 1:01pm On Dec 22, 2015
Neeson:
Good job!
Thanks
Re: My Dead Husband's Family Refused To Bury Him Because I'm An Osu by Souljaboi1: 9:17pm On Jan 10, 2016
davidflo:
You are good. I'm a fan.
You work at Inlaks ?
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