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francizy:
I have a few questions here,

Are you a female?
Have you ever spoken to them?

Yes I am female and no I have never spoken to them.

francizy:
I have a few questions here,

Are you a female?
Have you ever spoken to them?

are you operating on a speak when spoken to scenario?

mamageeiscool:
Because it feels it weird to be ignored when other members of your family are being spoken to.

I HOPE DIS MONIKER IS DIFFERENT THE ORIGINAL TROLL MAMAGEE.........MAMAGEEISCOOL EXPLAIN BEFORE I LAY MY DIVINE COMMENT

mamageeiscool:
Yes I am female and no I have never spoken to them.

OK. Now to other questions;

- don't you think you might/may have snubbed one or more of them before, even when they tried speaking to you? Am a kind of person that no matter how pretty a lady is, if I try talking to her the first time and she snubs me, that's the end. Maybe they are that kinda guys and you won't blame them cuz not everyone can take public embarrassment.

- have you considered maybe you have some other unpleasant attitudes that turn people off? If you do, then it may be one of the reasons people snub you.

- another question (a bit close to the one I quoted below) is, have you ever made any attempt to talk to them, maybe when they are gisting with your siblings? Like you moving over to where they (neighbor and sibling) are and talking to them. I asked this because if you feel like you're a girl and therefore all persons must talk to you first, then I don't think you have any problem bothering about them also snubbing you.

- are you an introvert while your siblings are extroverted?

tpiar:
are you operating on a speak when spoken to scenario?

Lovely question and thanks for that.. Op take note..

francizy:
OK. Now to other questions;

- don't you think you might/may have snubbed one or more of them before, even when they tried speaking to you? Am a kind of person that no matter how pretty a lady is, if I try talking to her the first time and she snubs me, that's the end. Maybe they are that kinda guys and you won't blame them cuz not everyone can take public embarrassment.

- have you considered maybe you have some other unpleasant attitudes that turn people off? If you do, then it may be one of the reasons people snub you.

- another question (a bit close to the one I quoted below) is, have you ever made any attempt to talk to them, maybe when they are gisting with your siblings? Like you moving over to where they (neighbor and sibling) are and talking to them. I asked this because if you feel like you're a girl and therefore all persons must talk to you first, then I don't think you have any problem bothering about them also snubbing you.

- are you an introvert while your siblings are extroverted?




Lovely question and thanks for that.. Op take note..

Like I said, my neighbors are a large family comprised of a son and daughters.

The matriarch speaks to my mother on the phone, the son speaks and texts my brother. I am the only one that doesn't get spoken to.

francizy

^ notice all the "theys" in your scenario.

how is it possible out of so many "theys", none are capable of individual thinking and behaviour?

mamageeiscool:
Like I said, my neighbors are a large family comprised of a son and daughters.

The matriarch speaks to my mother on the phone, the son speaks and texts my brother. I am the only one that doesn't get spoken to.

I see a point here but you evaded my questions still..

francizy:
I see a point here but you evaded my questions still..

No to your questions.

tpiar:
francizy

^ notice all the "theys" in your scenario.

how is it possible out of so many "theys", none are capable of individual thinking and behaviour?

Simply means that and by a probability of 0.9, the fault is OP's. Except of course she makes the assertion that the siblings ganged up against her (just like Mourinho claimed referees ganged up against him).

mamageeiscool:
No to your questions.

Still a bit strange but you gotta make the move and if they eventually snub you, then you keep on keeping to yourself or look for some friends outside your hood..

francizy:
Simply means that and by a probability of 0.9, the fault is OP's. .

that's what they want her to think and also the rationale they are using to justify their actions.


there is no "fault" or "innocence" in simple courtesy, its either you decide to do it or you dont.

you dont weigh "whether to greet or not" as if planetary alignment is waiting on the decision.

its not that big a deal unless you've been fighting before, in which case it might be understandable.

they are simply trying to turn the family members against each other, that's all.

STFUareyouGod:
Damn! Yur evil. I don laugh fall hahahaha

I swear...mzpecs don turn something else

ipledge10:
I swear...mzpecs don turn something else

As in ehn. No be small o. Look how serious she even dey sef you go think say na so the matter be

tpiar:
that's what they want her to think and also the rationale they are using to justify their actions.


there is no "fault" or "innocence" in simple courtesy, its either you decide to do it or you dont.

you dont weigh "whether to greet or not" as if planetary alignment is waiting on the decision.

its not that big a deal unless you've been fighting before, in which case it might be understandable.

in this case, they are simply trying to turn the family members against each other, that's all.

So in your line of thought, it's a gang up. I understand your point but I didn't recall reading where OP said they tried to turn her family against her.

Nonetheless, does OP, greet their parents? Because snubbing elders could be one big reason why children of such people will choose to snub the OP too..

STFUareyouGod:
As in ehn. No be small o. Look how serious she even dey sef you go think say na so the matter be

she don know the op wella...

francizy:
So in your line of thought, it's a gang up. I understand your point but I didn't recall reading where OP said they tried to turn her family against her.

Nonetheless, does OP, greet their parents? Because snubbing elders could be one big reason why children of such people will choose to snub the OP too..

No, I don't greet their parents.

I have never said a word to them.

ipledge10:
she don know the op wella...

she's always first or second to comment on most of her topics

mamageeiscool:
No, I don't greet their parents.

I have never said a word to them.

There you have it!


Goodnight and sweet dreams..

francizy:
There you have it!


Goodnight and sweet dreams..

But to be frank though my brother never greeted their parents neither.

tpiar:
that's what they want her to think and also the rationale they are using to justify their actions.


there is no "fault" or "innocence" in simple courtesy, its either you decide to do it or you dont.

you dont weigh "whether to greet or not" as if planetary alignment is waiting on the decision.

its not that big a deal unless you've been fighting before, in which case it might be understandable.

they are simply trying to turn the family members against each other, that's all.

You have a point.

The mother even told my mother that her daughter can never speak to her the way I speak to my own mother.

And I'm like how do you know all these, do you live with us?

mamageeiscool:
But to be frank though my brother never greeted their parents neither.

You can't speak for your brother here hun...

This is because you don't always move about with him on daily basis and to all places...

In my scenario, I wouldn't talk to you if we were neighbours and you can't even say simply good morning/afternoon/evening to my mum or dad..

francizy:
So in your line of thought, it's a gang up. I understand your point but I didn't recall reading where OP said they tried to turn her family against her.

Nonetheless, does OP, greet their parents? Because snubbing elders could be one big reason why children of such people will choose to snub the OP too..

excuses, excuses.

like i said, there is no need for this amount of soul searching over common courtesy.

to each his own, as jonathan said, personal ambition is not worth getting hyper over.

you greet you no greet, does it add one cubit to anyone's stature?

STFUareyouGod:
she's always first or second to comment on most of her topics

she is a fan

tpiar:
excuses, excuses.

like i said, there is no need for this amount of soul searching over common courtesy.

to each his own, as jonathan said, personal ambition is not worth getting hyper over.

LoL! I hear yah!

ipledge10:
she is a fan

Gbabe But honestly, this op is very annoying to say the least

mamagee 4get what nairalanders think, Ure beautiful

STFUareyouGod:
Gbabe But honestly, this op is very annoying to say the least

mzpecs know her medicine..she giving it to her right

ipledge10:
mzpecs know her medicine..she giving it to her right

make her feel good about herself. Tell her what she wants to hear

STFUareyouGod:
make her feel good about herself. Tell her what she wants to hear

I have noticed that too

ipledge10:
I have noticed that too

ka pe werey ni oko iyawo............

STFUareyouGod:
ka pe werey ni oko iyawo............

Korea let je Arona lo

STFUareyouGod:
ka pe werey ni oko iyawo............

dont be unnecessarily wicked and insultive.