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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by ademusiwa1e: 11:38pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Buying a car..? 18 yea old buys cars abroad. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 11:44pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
bukatyne: taken. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Tolatutu: 11:53pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Wow Nigeria is backwards sha, so they want you as a woman to be suffering with public transport while you can afford a car? If one of theses days you enter one chance bus nko, God forbid. All these years you didn't have a car you didn't get a Mr. Right showing that it's not about car. Any man who will be intimidated about you having a car will still be intimidated about you owning lands and such. That means for the rest of your life with such a man you will always have to live under the standard that you can actually afford just so he won't feel intimidated. Is that the type of life you want? If you don't buy the car now and you marry then later it will become you can't buy a bigger car than your husband you can't own more lands than your husband and so on . For the rest of your life you won't be able to live to your full potential, this is why many women never get to their full potential in Nigeria 4 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by arnold123: 11:59pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
omotohdarajugbogbolo:buy a car, but don't be pompous be gentle, sweet, loving and kind, believe me it won't hinder u in anyway whatsoever my sister has cars but it didn't chase men away from her, don't listen to those telling u not to but they are just being naive and unhelpful simply cos dey don't have aa car as a man so dey won't want u to buy ! Good luck dear, I wish u well 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Analysiscorner: 12:01am On Dec 27, 2015 |
HIDDENSECRECY:Com' on, she requested for people's opinion 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by InvertedHammer: 12:48am On Dec 27, 2015 |
/ Go ahead and buy a car. But it has to be a simple car. Else.... Best case scenario: You alleviate your suffering Worst case scenario: You attract gold-diggers and chewing gum guys. To create a balance, be ready to alternate between using your car and taking public transportation else you will "enter demurrage "(a.K.a 35 & single). If you ball too hard (in Nigeria, it means owning a car), you may scare potential honest suitors away. It is a reality check. It is the same reason that single ladies with Ph.Ds find it difficult to find suitors in Nigeria. Nigeria is a peculiar place. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 12:48am On Dec 27, 2015 |
omotohdarajugbogbolo:he's right but the reality is guys are unemployed and easier to chat with you in public transport.but hey you can risk it. such is life. but you reduce your chances of meeting a guy. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 12:49am On Dec 27, 2015 |
oglalasioux:so what happen to that posters 44 yr old aunty wey never marry. omotohdarajugbogbolo |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 12:50am On Dec 27, 2015 |
DWJOBScom:most cars are liabilities |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 12:51am On Dec 27, 2015 |
coolhamid:cos it's easier to chase and get number from Walker than from driver. unless you're the flash omotohdarajugbogbolo : |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 12:55am On Dec 27, 2015 |
amunkita:10 to 15% girls with cars versus 5% balled up guys leaves 50 to 33% guys not to talk of competition from non car women who are easier targets for the guys. the odds not in her favor omotohdarajugbogbolo : 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 12:57am On Dec 27, 2015 |
PAnaceA7:have you looked at Nigeria's economy lately, lots of broke guys (good guys but broke) omotohdarajugbogbolo |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 12:59am On Dec 27, 2015 |
naijainfogalery:what if you're collection 10 k omotohdarajugbogbolo : |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:03am On Dec 27, 2015 |
AdeMoss:you talking as if Nigeria is a normal country, as if all broke guys is their fault. omotohdarajugbogbolo |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:07am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Pain:this guy doesn't have scientific stats to back this assertion. omotohdarajugbogbolo but he is right all is a game of chance. but when most guys are telling you wassup and fewer are saying go with the flow. you need to take your own poll from all 11 pages of comments and come to decision. na real spreadsheet work de ya hand. guys, girls then guys and girls together then make your decision 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:08am On Dec 27, 2015 |
princeonx:how many Ferrari Hollywood stars remain married happily. cars are necessary in Yankee not in Nigeria omotohdarajugbogbolo 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:09am On Dec 27, 2015 |
jaypisces:she Gats meet the husband first o. not easy when she's alone in the car. easier to be toasted on the road statistically speaking 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by AlhajiAbdul: 1:09am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Skmoda360:as You are simply a gold digger and a social climber. There are no two ways about it. Your earnings can barely sustain you but you went to look for a girl on a very high social standing I can easily sniff your type from a kilometre. All your earnings go into buying flashy clothes and trying to look rich. You better amend your ways before you die in poverty. Bloody gold-digger. You are even proud to come here and post this rubbish. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:12am On Dec 27, 2015 |
harristo:this is the summary of all my quotes chei and I think say I sabi English omotohdarajugbogbolo |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Tolatutu: 1:18am On Dec 27, 2015 |
mikolo80: There are many single women with no car, it has nothing to do with car. This Op has been single for the past 3 years despite not having a car 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:19am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Tolatutu:you want husband or you want potential (choose this day who ye will serve) check oyinbo divorce rate when them begin de pursue potential omotohdarajugbogbolo |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Tolatutu: 1:20am On Dec 27, 2015 |
mikolo80: Someone who's employed will end up getting intimidated by her anyway either sooner or later if he doesn't quickly get a job |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:20am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Tolatutu:check divorce rate in non backwardcountries 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:21am On Dec 27, 2015 |
arnold123:where does your sister work, does she meet guys regularly, is it the same for op ? one man's meat is another poison |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Tolatutu: 1:21am On Dec 27, 2015 |
mikolo80: That's no indicator, many Nigerians are living in miserable marriages and many are co tenants the only difference is white people don't pretend like us. Here people will tear each other's clothes and fight in the morning then in the afternoon they will wear anko and hit weddings and be deceiving themselves 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Tolatutu: 1:22am On Dec 27, 2015 |
mikolo80: It's important in life to fulfill one's potential , I'm not one of those do or die just to marry anyone, if you are married and unhappy what's the point 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:23am On Dec 27, 2015 |
HIDDENSECRECY:and being worried about husbandlessness is not bothering her physiological, mental or any other al abi? 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:23am On Dec 27, 2015 |
HIDDENSECRECY:and being worried about husbandlessness is not bothering her physiological, mental or any other al abi? omotohdarajugbogbolo |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Fanirandele: 1:28am On Dec 27, 2015 |
its very simple you don't have a car right now yet no man maybe the car will be the one to open the door sef so to speak How can you be able to afford to make your life more comfortable but choose to suffer so you may meet a man that one is 9ja sense which to me is nonsense 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:32am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Tolatutu:and that's the first thing you should have asked. what if her potential is defined by marriage. abi na all of una go become diezani, Beyonce or Genevieve.? most girls have traditional expectations to be queens and not kings 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nurry: 1:33am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Jimdonnet: And to you its because she deals in cars that she's 44 and single? The way some people think sha 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mikolo80: 1:34am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Tolatutu:but they are pointers and she wants to be married. and divorce rates clearly correlate to improved women social status (depends how badly you wanna stay married I guess) |
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